Bareback / Raw Sex Discussion + Fucking Without A Condom / Bareback = Trust ?(compiled)

[Guest westie]

On 11/22/2021 at 8:30 AM, Guest bottom_boi said:

being dominated and wanting the top to seed us, as if we have a womb and can get pregnant, it's a natural feeling for bottoms, i'm glad reading this, i can so relate

 

especially when the top talk dirty and whisper he wants to make me pregnant

i'll moan like a slut and let him breed me raw for sure

 

but only with trusted and regular partners ok guys ! hehe get tested before, more shiok

[Guest Just_visiting]

hot la this topic 😜

[SociNerd]

On 11/13/2021 at 5:00 AM, HotIce said:

Once u go raw, it’s difficult to turn back. Especially with prep, u just feel a lot safer. 
 

i know prep doesn’t prevent other diseases apart from HIV, but the kind of assurance provided is why u see so many people turning to raw sex nowadays. 

Facts. Suddenly wanting the top to just nut inside and see and feel the cum flowing out of your own hole is hot as fk and slowly becomes a need. But even under prep, other diseases do still exist, and the concerns listed by other people here are in fact very real. With every sex, even protected (assuming your blowjobs are raw), comes an element of risk. It's whether you are open to that idea.

 

For me, I'd only raw with others who are also on prep, or if I'm acquainted with them (met before/fwbs). For me, this is my comfort zone after considering circumstances. Explore your own boundaries, and take it from there. That's my only advice to those who like BB. Be responsible for your OWN health at the very least

[Guest Guest]

On prep and getting increasingly addicted to the feeling of being such a cum-loving slut. Love when the top unloads inside my mouth or ass, giving me his essence.

[Guest Guest]

On 11/30/2021 at 12:58 PM, Guest Guest said:

On prep and getting increasingly addicted to the feeling of being such a cum-loving slut. Love when the top unloads inside my mouth or ass, giving me his essence.

 

Hello Nffo

[Sticky&Sweet]

Just know that PreP prevents HIV but there is still a host of STDs out there such a syphillis gonorrhoea etc.

[mate69]

On 11/30/2021 at 2:09 PM, Sticky&Sweet said:

Just know that PreP prevents HIV but there is still a host of STDs out there such a syphillis gonorrhoea etc.

 

Yes

[evianguy]

Nothing wrong with being addicted to raw sex as long as you know your partner(s) STD status.

[Guest Guest]

On 11/30/2021 at 2:09 PM, Sticky&Sweet said:

Just know that PreP prevents HIV but there is still a host of STDs out there such a syphillis gonorrhoea etc.

 

Love your nick

[Ahseng_]

Anyone know how much does prep cost? And where do you go to take the shot?

 

 

Thanks

[Guest Tiny Roberts]

On 11/30/2021 at 5:46 PM, Ahseng_ said:

Anyone know how much does prep cost? And where do you go to take the shot?

 

 

Thanks

 

Google the info. 

 

Prep is a course of anti retro virals that you buy a bottle containing 30 days dose.  You take the required no of pills everyday . 

 

You take it for life if you can afford it, you take a course like 2 round ones and two hexagons ones , four pillls every day , without missing a dose, 

 

Just so that you can be 95% plus protected from being infected and dont  sero convert from EXPOSURE TO HIV from protected and non protected sex with casual encounters of partners you dont know, dont trust , dont bother to know their HIV status .

 

Its a course of medicine like lifelong or as long as you want to be protected. Everyday.

 

You stop the medication the protection goes away. Its not like vaccine, where 1 shot 2 shot you get 4 to 5 years protection untul next booster shot.

 

 

Doctor will draw blood tontest your liver health and fuction, kidney healrh and fuction. 

 

And have to know HIV status too. 

 

So be mentally prepared to be asked question by doctor like , why do you need to take prep, what is your risk factors. 

 

If you got thin skin , try lying convincingly to doctor. If u are poor liar, be prepared to be embarrassed.

 

[Guest Wtf]

On 11/30/2021 at 3:05 PM, evianguy said:

Nothing wrong with being addicted to raw sex as long as you know your partner(s) STD status.

how do you know this? 

[Guest Wilson]

On 11/22/2021 at 9:06 AM, Guest westie said:

 

especially when the top talk dirty and whisper he wants to make me pregnant

i'll moan like a slut and let him breed me raw for sure

 

me too

[Guest Bubblecakez]

Make sure both statuses are negative and you’re good, done it with a couple of guys i met on grindr. Even if both are negative it comes down to whether you’re comfortable or not. 

[Guest Guest]

On 12/3/2021 at 1:21 PM, Bubblecakez said:

Make sure both statuses are negative and you’re good, done it with a couple of guys i met on grindr. Even if both are negative it comes down to whether you’re comfortable or not. 

 

How do you make sure the Grinder peeps are negative?

[Guest Bubblecakez]

On 12/3/2021 at 1:53 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

How do you make sure the Grinder peeps are negative?

Communication, pictures of test result etc. there are ways to check, a bit of a hassle but better payoff i’d say

[Guest HiaoCheeBye]

On 11/22/2021 at 9:06 AM, Guest westie said:

 

especially when the top talk dirty and whisper he wants to make me pregnant

i'll moan like a slut and let him breed me raw for sure

 

but only with trusted and regular partners ok guys ! hehe get tested before, more shiok

Cheebye I read this I very steam liao

[And then]

On 11/30/2021 at 9:06 PM, Guest Tiny Roberts said:

 

Google the info. 

 

Prep is a course of anti retro virals that you buy a bottle containing 30 days dose.  You take the required no of pills everyday . 

 

You take it for life if you can afford it, you take a course like 2 round ones and two hexagons ones , four pillls every day , without missing a dose, 

 

Just so that you can be 95% plus protected from being infected and dont  sero convert from EXPOSURE TO HIV from protected and non protected sex with casual encounters of partners you dont know, dont trust , dont bother to know their HIV status .

 

Its a course of medicine like lifelong or as long as you want to be protected. Everyday.

 

You stop the medication the protection goes away. Its not like vaccine, where 1 shot 2 shot you get 4 to 5 years protection untul next booster shot.

 

 

 

 

I believe there is quite a bit of incorrect information here.

In terms of preventing HIV, there are two ways of taking prep-- daily prep, vs prep on demand.

 

Daily prep, essentially, you take one tablet every day, not four pills a day as written above.

This is best for people who have regular, frequent, or "unpredictable" sex.

 

Prep on demand, take 2 tablets minimum 2 hours prior to sex. Then take one tablet every 24hours.

Following this time line, you can stop the tablets once you have taken 2 tablets after your sexual exposure.

 

[Guest 犯贱冰冰]

On 12/3/2021 at 2:05 PM, Guest HiaoCheeBye said:

Cheebye I read this I very steam liao

 

LOL

[Guest ddtest]

On 12/3/2021 at 1:58 PM, Bubblecakez said:

Communication, pictures of test result etc. there are ways to check, a bit of a hassle but better payoff i’d say

There's this guy who has those HIV quick test kits within 20min.

He wanted to take me raw after the test.

The box was individually sealed and tamper-proofed

 

 

we just watched porn and cuddle while waiting.

Oh boy, once the tests confirmed negative, we were already roaring to go.

He took me 3 times till morning.

Each time I wanted to clean up just in case.

But he didn't want me to but we compromised.

He can finger me and watch me drip then wipe that off.

That got him and me horny again and again.

 

Met him again a month later and tested to double confirm negative.

Then he took me again. Never felt so owned by a man before.

We saved a whole week for that and we were already leaking like rutting wild animals while waiting.

 

Anybody tried that?

 

[Guest Dr. KIM.]

On 12/4/2021 at 8:28 AM, Guest ddtest said:

There's this guy who has those HIV quick test kits within 20min.

He wanted to take me raw after the test.

The box was individually sealed and tamper-proofed

 

 

we just watched porn and cuddle while waiting.

Oh boy, once the tests confirmed negative, we were already roaring to go.

He took me 3 times till morning.

Each time I wanted to clean up just in case.

But he didn't want me to but we compromised.

He can finger me and watch me drip then wipe that off.

That got him and me horny again and again.

 

Met him again a month later and tested to double confirm negative.

Then he took me again. Never felt so owned by a man before.

We saved a whole week for that and we were already leaking like rutting wild animals while waiting.

 

Anybody tried that?

 

 

 

You obviously haven't learnt or heard about the window period before sero conversion. 

 

This is one  point you need to factor in your calculations. 

 

Plus your sex partner .

[Guest Wtf]

On 12/4/2021 at 8:28 AM, Guest ddtest said:

There's this guy who has those HIV quick test kits within 20min.

He wanted to take me raw after the test.

The box was individually sealed and tamper-proofed

 

 

we just watched porn and cuddle while waiting.

Oh boy, once the tests confirmed negative, we were already roaring to go.

He took me 3 times till morning.

Each time I wanted to clean up just in case.

But he didn't want me to but we compromised.

He can finger me and watch me drip then wipe that off.

That got him and me horny again and again.

 

Met him again a month later and tested to double confirm negative.

Then he took me again. Never felt so owned by a man before.

We saved a whole week for that and we were already leaking like rutting wild animals while waiting.

 

Anybody tried that?

 

there is no limit to stupidity 

[Guest Wtf]

‘He says he’s negative’

’He told me he’s on prep’

’He said he only has sex with me’

’He showed me a test result’

‘’We did a test at his place’

I trust him’

etc

 

🤦‍♂️

 

guys, you are responsible for your own health. If you really want to get fucked raw, get on prep but also get checked regularly for sother STDs and remember that these can also have complications. 

[Guest fun-boi]

what does the tops feel actually on doing raw ? what's the joy in it for tops ?

many bottoms in previous comments like it cause they feel dominated, being owned, getting the top's babies

 

does the top feel the same (i mean the same but from the other side of thinking)

 

would love to hear more tops comment on why they like raw ☺️

[Neh Neh]

On 12/11/2021 at 11:18 AM, Guest fun-boi said:

what does the tops feel actually on doing raw ? what's the joy in it for tops ?

many bottoms in previous comments like it cause they feel dominated, being owned, getting the top's babies

 

does the top feel the same (i mean the same but from the other side of thinking)

 

would love to hear more tops comment on why they like raw ☺️

Feel shiok, tight ass and want to impragnent, mark and conquer him with my cum, offspring. Shot deep deep into him and leave my mark deep inside his body 😜

[Guest fun-boi]

On 12/11/2021 at 1:29 PM, Neh Neh said:

Feel shiok, tight ass and want to impragnent, mark and conquer him with my cum, offspring. Shot deep deep into him and leave my mark deep inside his body 😜

 

wah, hot, so it's mutual lah the feeling is the same between top and bottoms, just the opposite 😜

[Guest Shiok]

On 12/11/2021 at 4:26 PM, Guest fun-boi said:

 

wah, hot, so it's mutual lah the feeling is the same between top and bottoms, just the opposite 😜

exactly. Except for top, much lower risk of catching anything. Shit on your dick and HIV and STDs are so shiok 

[Guest Wilson]

On 12/11/2021 at 2:29 PM, Neh Neh said:

Feel shiok, tight ass and want to impragnent, mark and conquer him with my cum, offspring. Shot deep deep into him and leave my mark deep inside his body 😜

 

Got hard reading this

[mate69]

It just feels better, somehow the tightness is enhanced...

and the feeling upon release is more intense

But it's not for everyone, please.

Not advocating for or against anything.

DYODD please

[Guest Guest]

On 12/12/2021 at 4:01 PM, mate69 said:

It just feels better, somehow the tightness is enhanced...

and the feeling upon release is more intense

But it's not for everyone, please.

Not advocating for or against anything.

DYODD please

 

The feeling upon release of your load inside?

[Guest sub_boi_bottom]

On 12/11/2021 at 1:29 PM, Neh Neh said:

Feel shiok, tight ass and want to impragnent, mark and conquer him with my cum, offspring. Shot deep deep into him and leave my mark deep inside his body 😜

 

brb morning sickness kicking in

[Guest regular_randomboi]

i'm a bottom and i actually never knew i needed it

reading this post make sense a lot of what i felt, and i feel less alone, i love this forum

 

i was never into raw sex until i met a regular exclusive partner, he's a top and we get ourselves checked before we actually do it raw.

 

i was casual and didn't have any expectation at all

 

but when i actually penetrated me raw, it was so different, i could feel his hot meat sliding inside me, and it was so erotic to think about it

 

and then in his lust he whispered to my ear "i wanna give u my baby, will u carry my baby ?"

"wanna get pregnant ?"

in a weird way i felt so embarassed by those words, but also turned on at the same time and i moaned like a slut and started cumming

 

the smirk on his face when he saw me cum, and then the sight of him grunting and sweating on top of me while releasing his babies in me, was so hot i didn't realise i need that experience in my life.

 

so yeah, it was quite a mindblowing one

 

[Guest serangoon_n0w]

On 12/19/2021 at 8:07 AM, Guest regular_randomboi said:

i'm a bottom and i actually never knew i needed it

reading this post make sense a lot of what i felt, and i feel less alone, i love this forum

 

i was never into raw sex until i met a regular exclusive partner, he's a top and we get ourselves checked before we actually do it raw.

 

i was casual and didn't have any expectation at all

 

but when i actually penetrated me raw, it was so different, i could feel his hot meat sliding inside me, and it was so erotic to think about it

 

and then in his lust he whispered to my ear "i wanna give u my baby, will u carry my baby ?"

"wanna get pregnant ?"

in a weird way i felt so embarassed by those words, but also turned on at the same time and i moaned like a slut and started cumming

 

the smirk on his face when he saw me cum, and then the sight of him grunting and sweating on top of me while releasing his babies in me, was so hot i didn't realise i need that experience in my life.

 

so yeah, it was quite a mindblowing one

 

 

I can imagine your top must felt so proud having you so turned on and cum after he said that

then he bred u some more

he win liao

[Guest Try and see]

On 12/19/2021 at 9:07 AM, Guest regular_randomboi said:

i'm a bottom and i actually never knew i needed it

reading this post make sense a lot of what i felt, and i feel less alone, i love this forum

 

i was never into raw sex until i met a regular exclusive partner, he's a top and we get ourselves checked before we actually do it raw.

 

i was casual and didn't have any expectation at all

 

but when i actually penetrated me raw, it was so different, i could feel his hot meat sliding inside me, and it was so erotic to think about it

 

and then in his lust he whispered to my ear "i wanna give u my baby, will u carry my baby ?"

"wanna get pregnant ?"

in a weird way i felt so embarassed by those words, but also turned on at the same time and i moaned like a slut and started cumming

 

the smirk on his face when he saw me cum, and then the sight of him grunting and sweating on top of me while releasing his babies in me, was so hot i didn't realise i need that experience in my life.

 

so yeah, it was quite a mindblowing one

 

Wow, so hot!

[mate69]

Yes

[evianguy]

On 11/30/2021 at 6:17 PM, Guest Wtf said:

how do you know this? 

Then the issue you could be grappling with is less to do infection and more of an issue of trust; namely whether to trust the information presented to you. 
 

[Guest Guest]

On 12/3/2021 at 2:05 PM, Guest HiaoCheeBye said:

Cheebye I read this I very steam liao

 

LOL

[leantonedboy]

Raw is definitely a different feeling and it is addictive especially because it is skin to skin. 

Pls stay safe and get checked before doing it raw. 

For me I only raw with my exclusive sex partner. 

 

[Guest Wtf]

On 12/22/2021 at 9:06 AM, leantonedboy said:

Raw is definitely a different feeling and it is addictive especially because it is skin to skin. 

Pls stay safe and get checked before doing it raw. 

For me I only raw with my exclusive sex partner. 

 

he is exclusive to you or you are exclusive to him or both? 

[Guest Try and see]

On 12/22/2021 at 9:06 AM, leantonedboy said:

Raw is definitely a different feeling and it is addictive especially because it is skin to skin. 

Pls stay safe and get checked before doing it raw. 

For me I only raw with my exclusive sex partner. 

 

Nice!

[Saggiboy]

On 12/22/2021 at 9:06 AM, leantonedboy said:

Raw is definitely a different feeling and it is addictive especially because it is skin to skin. 

Pls stay safe and get checked before doing it raw. 

For me I only raw with my exclusive sex partner. 

 

Yes it is. 

And there's no way u can be 100% sure any one is ever exclusive to any one. 

[Guest guest]

On 12/22/2021 at 9:06 AM, leantonedboy said:

Raw is definitely a different feeling and it is addictive especially because it is skin to skin. 

Pls stay safe and get checked before doing it raw. 

For me I only raw with my exclusive sex partner. 

 

How you know your partner would treat you as exclusive too? You mean get checked before raw sex, so before sex must do some test like what we do pre-event testing for our covid now?

[Guest random_passingby]

its so interesting to read this thread

even though we're gays, we still have the natural instinct as Top (masculine) and Bottom (feminine)

 

the masculine wants to breed, mark the bottom, impregnate the bottom

while the feminine wants to be bred, wants to get impregnated, wants to get knocked up

 

humans are interesting, and it's kinda turn on to read some of the comments too, lol

 

[mate69]

On 12/28/2021 at 6:19 AM, Guest random_passingby said:

its so interesting to read this thread

even though we're gays, we still have the natural instinct as Top (masculine) and Bottom (feminine)

 

the masculine wants to breed, mark the bottom, impregnate the bottom

while the feminine wants to be bred, wants to get impregnated, wants to get knocked up

 

humans are interesting, and it's kinda turn on to read some of the comments too, lol

 

 

That's very natural...it's kinda expected, no?

[qsefthu78]

Are there bottoms whose anuses are allergic to condoms?

 

I had an interesting encounter. Met a nice btm for a session, and he cautioned me that his anus is allergic to condoms and may reject anytime, so I would need to make the session quick. He further explained that he on prep and since I'm not, he would make an exception. The session was great (with the condom on), albeit a bit short as with what he wanted. I didn't think too much about it then until he contacted me again for another session. All went well until he asked me if I would go raw (I'm not on prep). Needless to say, I said no, and that's the end of the conversation. 

 

I understand that there may be reactions to rubber condoms for some, but it dawned on me that I'm using polyurethane condoms (for the previous session too). 

 

So is the 'allergy' for real, or is it a bait to convince tops to go raw on him?

[Guest No condom hole]

On 1/25/2022 at 5:32 PM, qsefthu78 said:

Are there bottoms whose anuses are allergic to condoms?

 

I had an interesting encounter. Met a nice btm for a session, and he cautioned me that his anus is allergic to condoms and may reject anytime, so I would need to make the session quick. He further explained that he on prep and since I'm not, he would make an exception. The session was great (with the condom on), albeit a bit short as with what he wanted. I didn't think too much about it then until he contacted me again for another session. All went well until he asked me if I would go raw (I'm not on prep). Needless to say, I said no, and that's the end of the conversation. 

 

I understand that there may be reactions to rubber condoms for some, but it dawned on me that I'm using polyurethane condoms (for the previous session too). 

 

So is the 'allergy' for real, or is it a bait to convince tops to go raw on him?

Yes heard the same from a user here who presents his hole-4-use

[NeitherHereNorThere]

I'm actually happy that bottoms I met in tenmen asked for condom before saying yes to anal sex. Knows how to protect themselves!

[singalion]

On 1/25/2022 at 5:32 PM, qsefthu78 said:

Are there bottoms whose anuses are allergic to condoms?

 

I had an interesting encounter. Met a nice btm for a session, and he cautioned me that his anus is allergic to condoms and may reject anytime, so I would need to make the session quick. He further explained that he on prep and since I'm not, he would make an exception. The session was great (with the condom on), albeit a bit short as with what he wanted. I didn't think too much about it then until he contacted me again for another session. All went well until he asked me if I would go raw (I'm not on prep). Needless to say, I said no, and that's the end of the conversation. 

 

I understand that there may be reactions to rubber condoms for some, but it dawned on me that I'm using polyurethane condoms (for the previous session too). 

 

So is the 'allergy' for real, or is it a bait to convince tops to go raw on him?

probably more the latter.

 

There is a latex allergy. But probably it was taken as a pretext to go raw.

Why give a such reason? Should tell from the start he prefers raw instead of making up things.

 

If I know I have a latex allergy, I would have a stock of non latex condoms. Nowadays with all the online orders you can do, you can get the non latex condoms.

 

 

Although it’s possible to be allergic to any type of condom, latex is the most common culprit. Between 1 and 6 percent of people are allergic (or sensitive to) latex, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

 

Polyurethane condoms are available at drugstores and the online shops.

Edited January 25, 2022 by singalion

[Hole4use]

On 1/25/2022 at 5:32 PM, qsefthu78 said:

Are there bottoms whose anuses are allergic to condoms?

 

I had an interesting encounter. Met a nice btm for a session, and he cautioned me that his anus is allergic to condoms and may reject anytime, so I would need to make the session quick. He further explained that he on prep and since I'm not, he would make an exception. The session was great (with the condom on), albeit a bit short as with what he wanted. I didn't think too much about it then until he contacted me again for another session. All went well until he asked me if I would go raw (I'm not on prep). Needless to say, I said no, and that's the end of the conversation. 

 

I understand that there may be reactions to rubber condoms for some, but it dawned on me that I'm using polyurethane condoms (for the previous session too). 

 

So is the 'allergy' for real, or is it a bait to convince tops to go raw on him?

 

Me... My Butthole is medically tested and certified by local hospital and doctors that it is allergic to condom. Its not about latex, nor its about non latex condom. Thus if my butthole do get into contact with condom, my butthole will develop very severe rashes and itch within 24 Hrs from the 1st contact with condom. The severity of the rashes and itch shall take about 3 weeks to heal with medication. Thus during the process of the rashes and itch, when I need to poop. The severity of the rashes will even cause pus at the most severe stage. Causing great pain and suffering to me. I am not joking. 

.. U may Google and check if there is such a thing about condom allergy if u do not believe that there are real cases of such kind of allergy. I am also one of the rare cases around the world. Well... Thus I do not hv a choice from the start if I can do it safe or raw, the options are never open to me at all. I am not trying to cheat nor bluff tops into having raw with me. 

 

Alot of tops would sure say that I am trying to find an excuse to do raw or I dun practise safe, but wat I am sharing is just my own personal experience of having a condom allergy butthole. Thus if to raw or safe options are never an option to me at all. However, whoever see or read this hopefully will not get turned off by me. Cos its really never been easy for me. Especially  tons of rejections of not being able to accept this part of my butthole medical problems of mine. Till to the extend that I just feel that my butthole is just a useless hole sometimes and this is really depressing. Hope this personal sharing of mine will make ppl understand the suffering of wat I am going thru with endless rejections from ppl. Not I am trying to cook up stories, but it's real! 

Edited January 25, 2022 by Hole4use

[Hole4use]

On 1/25/2022 at 5:44 PM, Guest No condom hole said:

Yes heard the same from a user here who presents his hole-4-use

Yes, it's me.