singalion Posted December 1, 2022 Report Share Posted December 1, 2022 (edited) 42 minutes ago, goldenveins said: He actually did say that he's prepared to have that happen for my sake (the context of that discussion is that he was assuming I'd be the unfaithful one who got infected first, and then passed it to him). As romantic as that sounds it is naturally not an ideal scenario 🤣 But apart from that, I think his impression of PreP was also unduly influenced by one guy's blog post we stumbled upon wherein he documented his ordeal after discovering he was (ostensibly) violently allergic to Truvada. There was a certain black comedy to the way the blogger wrote it which was hilarious but it might have also added to the negative impression on my hubby. Me telling him the chances of the same happening to us are probably one in a gazillion didn't really help 😅 Nevertheless I'm grateful for you bringing up PreP again 🙏 - now that I know that is how he thinks maybe i ought to think ahead as to maybe how to be more tactful in getting the point across to him that it's not about the trust we have but unanticipated issues and things like dormant status. It's been about 6 or so years since we had that convo and maybe he's mellowed out a bit, since ☺️ Honestly, after having been in various relationships and if you actually read the "blog" here at BW, you should have realised that monogamous relationships may exist only between the fiction of the two partners. Adultery is nothing specialised in the gay relationship but also exists in the straight world. You should take lessons from here and there. Trust is one thing, but the reality is different. Unfortunately, I have met too many guys being in "monogamous" relationships but who strayed around. Most of them who I thought were partnered, actually admitted when "confronted" after the fun... With all the sex opportunities around... what to say. Your post to me sounds more like you are closing your eye to reality. In my humble advice: Think of yourself and your own health first instead of regretting later (and the length of any relationship is irrelevant, in fact the longer the relationship the more probably the flings...) Edited December 1, 2022 by singalion goldenveins and ktq 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenveins Posted December 1, 2022 Report Share Posted December 1, 2022 33 minutes ago, singalion said: Honestly, after having been in various relationships and if you actually read the "blog" here at BW, you should have realised that monogamous relationships may exist only between the fiction of the two partners. Adultery is nothing specialised in the gay relationship but also exists in the straight world. You should take lessons from here and there. Trust is one thing, but the reality is different. Unfortunately, I have met too many guys being in "monogamous" relationships but who strayed around. Most of them who I thought were partnered, actually admitted when "confronted" after the fun... With all the sex opportunities around... what to say. Your post to me sounds more like you are closing your eye to reality. In my humble advice: Think of yourself and your own health first instead of regretting later (and the length of any relationship is irrelevant, in fact the longer the relationship the more probably the flings...) You do have a good point, actually - I think one of the users attached a link to an online order site for various prep meds and I did have a bit of a browse through - the prices aren't break-the-bank levels either, so at least on that front taking it up is not that out-of-reach 😄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And then Posted December 1, 2022 Report Share Posted December 1, 2022 2 hours ago, goldenveins said: You do have a good point, actually - I think one of the users attached a link to an online order site for various prep meds and I did have a bit of a browse through - the prices aren't break-the-bank levels either, so at least on that front taking it up is not that out-of-reach 😄 If one is having frequent sex, especially with multiple partners, then the decision to have prep is easy. However if only having sex with regular partner maybe once a month, plus maybe one or two casual encounters in a year, then it can be a bit more difficult to justify daily prep. Possible can take " on demand prep", but then cannot be spontaneous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenveins Posted December 1, 2022 Report Share Posted December 1, 2022 Just now, And then said: If one is having frequent sex, especially with multiple partners, then the decision to have prep is easy. However if only having sex with regular partner maybe once a month, plus maybe one or two casual encounters in a year, then it can be a bit more difficult to justify daily prep. Possible can take " on demand prep", but then cannot be spontaneous. Yah that's the thing hahhaa cos while some days are more likely than others (ie. Weekend) it can still happen any time - and such "off-schedule" play does happen quite frequently enough that if I am gonna do this I might as well do it all the way to everyday 😅 obgdcriv and And then 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryuki Posted January 24, 2023 Report Share Posted January 24, 2023 On 1/8/2006 at 2:42 PM, snowball said: Just wish to know (Dun bother about sex disease ),how many here really like Raw fun compare to anal with condom?How many people here suck 69 with condom?For me i won't even meet someone that oral fun with rubber,if so i rather JO myself.How many married guys here do go sauna?How many people here like 3some or orgy compare 1 to 1 fun? Before I do raw I make sure I follow the 2-1-1 PreP medication.. and if I sense something wrong I won't go ahead... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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auscent Posted June 11, 2023 Report Share Posted June 11, 2023 No influence. The thrill of bareback, mental worry plus financial cost of prep - in exchange of a moments passion with some one who is not min, simply dont add up for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2023 Report Share Posted June 11, 2023 On 5/4/2023 at 10:56 PM, Zyscgk said: Anyone else gets tummy ache from cum? Me. 😅 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2023 Report Share Posted June 11, 2023 On 6/8/2023 at 7:25 AM, obgdcriv said: Just curious for those of you who watch twitter gay porn, does the prevalence of bareback sex have an influence on your decision whether to go raw? Go raw risk simply too high, not worth the try. Even your own bf also cannot be trusted to go raw with him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2023 Report Share Posted June 11, 2023 2 hours ago, Guest guest said: Even your own bf also cannot be trusted to go raw with him. I somewhat agree with this. Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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