sgbernard Posted August 29, 2009 Report Share Posted August 29, 2009 i am helping a friend to ask, anyway, how to ease the pain after anal sex, is there any thing that he could do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Handful-of-Joy Posted August 29, 2009 Report Share Posted August 29, 2009 pxxn stars' secret, apply ice pack after you have been to a volcano top. Quote Laughter from the heart is a good medicine.Client: Ehhhhh! That trigger point really hurts! ..... I see that your master has taught you well, the force is indeed strong with you.Massage Therapist: Yeah, if only I would use my powers for good instead of the dark side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roymovrich Posted September 1, 2009 Report Share Posted September 1, 2009 Try Preparation-H.You can get this at the pharmacy -no need for a prescription.Its actually for piles (haemorrhoids), but it works! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cadlad Posted September 1, 2009 Report Share Posted September 1, 2009 pxxn stars' secret, apply ice pack after you have been to a volcano top.really? i think there will be pain of a different kind, like frostbite! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slimfit Posted September 4, 2009 Report Share Posted September 4, 2009 If it hurts, are you doing it correctly??? If you are doing it correctly, there should be little to no pain. But I have to admit, sometimes the "magic" doesn't happen and it hurts. Try a different position and/or more lubrication. Also, find a spot your bottom gets turned on - licking of nipples or neck, stroking the dick, etc. For the bottom, I suggest pushing out (like taking a shit) while at the same time, the top slowly/gently pushes in. This takes practice - you need to sense at what stage your btm is at before you are able to insert the whole thing in. Then, let the btm get accustomed to the shaft inside him before you begin thrusting.Like anything, you need to practice to be good... hehehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GachiMuchi Posted September 6, 2009 Popular Post Report Share Posted September 6, 2009 i am helping a friend to ask, anyway, how to ease the pain after anal sex, is there any thing that he could do?I don't think there are any magic formula to ease the pain after anal sex. Basically there are 2 area of pain. 1. Pain around ass entrance2. Pain inside the ass1. If your friend's ass around the entrance is painful, it would have been the result of tearing of the skin. Just ask him to apply antiseptic cream to prevent infection and allow the skin area to heal before he have any further anal sex.2. If the pain occurs from the inside. It could be the result of bruising of the internal walls or organs. The bruising will subside after a few days. If the pain is unbearable, just take some pain killers. Do consult a doctor if the pain persist. ketcase, tannedguy, XiaoMessy and 4 others 7 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
econium Posted September 20, 2009 Report Share Posted September 20, 2009 GachiMuchi's reply is logical and spot-on.I think we would need more info though before we could give a really specific answer.1. Is it pain immediately after sex or does it come on later?2. How long has the pain persisted after the sex?3. Does it happen every time after being screwed, or is this a single isolated occurence?4. Has there been any bleeding, if so only while shitting or even at other times?5. Is there any discharge or pus coming from the anus?If it is pain only while being screwed this suggests a) he may be tense and not relaxed enough and this also tightens his anal sphincter.b) is he using enough lube? c) the obvious one...his partner's dick is disproportionally big for his asshole. d) he needs more experience.If it is pain that comes on after the sex, and gets worse over the next day or two and it has never happened before then it's possible the skin or mucous membrane at the edge of the anus has been torn. Bleeding at the time of being screwed would support this. If so, no more sex for a couple of weeks, careful washing of the asshole several times a day, and consult a doctor if the pain persists for more than a few days. tannedguy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subarucap Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 wowhow big was his top's tool until so pain...sometimes when fxxking a btm guy its very hard not to get carried aways especially after they keep moaning and begging for, "...more more more harder harder harder ah yes yes like that... aaaaahhhh" bpfunbtm 1 Quote my profile >> subarucap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LimeGreen Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 This is so making anal sex scary but definately useful info. Practise O.o lol guess it works for everything.Many thks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PictureHouse Posted February 28, 2010 Report Share Posted February 28, 2010 (edited) deleted Edited April 13, 2010 by PictureHouse sky 1 Quote . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest iz_ariays Posted March 8, 2010 Report Share Posted March 8, 2010 a nice fingering foreplay session by my top prior would usually prevent pain DURING sex. And a good lube.however, for pain AFTER sex, i seldom get that because it usually feels good during the session and thus i don't feel pain after. unless it feels weird during initial entry, then it'd probably be painful after. which brings me back to my first point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angello Posted May 10, 2010 Report Share Posted May 10, 2010 (edited) Wow! а lot of useful things for me! Thanks a lot!-------------------------The best gay cam to cam friends for you! Edited May 14, 2010 by angello Quote Life is life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlimBi Posted May 10, 2010 Report Share Posted May 10, 2010 I usually get my ass prepared with fingering and wearing a butt plug for a few hours before an expected entry. There was once before meeting my then bf I wore a butt plug for a whole day since his dick is pretty large.A slight pai is always expected..but thepost screwing is more of somekind of sensation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted February 16, 2012 Report Share Posted February 16, 2012 Try Preparation-H.You can get this at the pharmacy -no need for a prescription.Its actually for piles (haemorrhoids), but it works!I gotta agree, for slight pain, you can get creams that work for hemorrhoids at the pharmacies. But if pain persists or worsen, do see a doctor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted February 16, 2012 Report Share Posted February 16, 2012 recently got myself a butt plug... wanna ask those who use butt plug for long period eg 1 hr to prepare... does it reduce the pleasure sensation when the actual penetration? since u already used to having things inside? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnsontan Posted December 3, 2013 Report Share Posted December 3, 2013 I had the sex of my life the other day with someone I really like. I would very much like to do it with him again but after that time. My ass really hurts. We found a bit of blood on bed sheet and he was so sweet to try to hide it from me and not let me worry. How odd I get my ass to heal faster so that I can get humped by him again ... Many thanks in advance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted December 3, 2013 Report Share Posted December 3, 2013 He was too rough or he did not apply enough lube. Just wait for 2 weeks to let the wound heal completely. Everyone recover at a different pace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted December 5, 2013 Report Share Posted December 5, 2013 Agreed. If the top is gentle, it shld be a pleasure to the bottom. safesex 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
member_757 Posted December 5, 2013 Report Share Posted December 5, 2013 (edited) It didnt hurt for me after the deed. I suppose the too must be gentle and make sure the sex is not too rough. Edited December 5, 2013 by member_757 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted December 22, 2013 Report Share Posted December 22, 2013 It didnt hurt for me after the deed. I suppose the too must be gentle and make sure the sex is not too rough.Your bf is skilful member_757 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted January 6, 2014 Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 Lol if not enough lube isn't it even more painful for the top? Dick more sensitive den ass leh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyG Posted January 7, 2014 Report Share Posted January 7, 2014 My recommendation would be to have a lot of kissing and play (sucking, masturbating, rimming, etc) so that you are really really excited and can't wait to have your partner up your ass.If you are really excited, your anus will dilate.Then, use plenty of lube and you should be ok Of course wait for full recovery before your next session and do use condomHave fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hornnyboi Posted January 7, 2014 Report Share Posted January 7, 2014 I always make sure my btm feels fully relaxed until when i insert,all he could feel was plesure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
passby Posted January 7, 2014 Report Share Posted January 7, 2014 Lol if not enough lube isn't it even more painful for the top? Dick more sensitive den ass lehWah say.... Sexpert speaking from sexperience... Must pay attention !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted January 18, 2014 Report Share Posted January 18, 2014 I tried fucking my bf almost everyday for 6 days, and he did not complain his ass is pain or sore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted January 18, 2014 Report Share Posted January 18, 2014 I tried fucking my bf almost everyday for 6 days, and he did not complain his ass is pain or sore wah.. you should ask him lei.   Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted January 18, 2014 Report Share Posted January 18, 2014 wah.. you should ask him lei. he didn't complain too. And he fucked me after I fucked him. It wasn't pain at all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zzzzzzzz Posted January 19, 2014 Report Share Posted January 19, 2014 Lots of good quality lube and foreplay help, and some fingering. If you are inexperience, or the top has super big dick, try to sit on it and adjust according. Take a warm shower may help to relax. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted January 19, 2014 Report Share Posted January 19, 2014 he didn't complain too. And he fucked me after I fucked him. It wasn't pain at all! lololol. you must have used alot of lubes.   Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
studdyboy Posted January 20, 2014 Report Share Posted January 20, 2014 lololol. you must have used alot of lubes. Or they have small dicks that's why Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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MatureHonestSexHealthInfo Posted January 27, 2016 Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 On 8/29/2009 at 9:15 PM, sgbernard said: i am helping a friend to ask, anyway, how to ease the pain after anal sex, is there any thing that he could do? There is sadly little research about sexual health and treatments regarding those areas of the body. Still, the common ways to treat inflamed and damaged tissue are believed to work the same for all the things around the pelvis. Icing the area will probably reduce the pain, but one must be very careful about using ice on the butt, anus, genitals, and crotch area. If you use ice that's too cold, or put ice packs directly on the skin, then there's a real chance that the skin will get irritated or cause muscle tension. Both of these possible side-effects are Much worse when it happens to your pelvic area. It could lead to getting a rash or ring-worm, which is very hard to treat when it's in your crotch or butt area. Tension and skin irritation in the pelvic floor can cause great pain and many medical problems, like lack of sexual performance, troubling going to the bathroom, and feeling great pain when sitting. Ice won't heal any real problem that may be caused from anal sex. I believe, so it's better to try alternative ways to treat the pain. -Don't sit down very much or at all after an injury/pain *buy a doughnut people and use it for a while if you have to -Take it easy for a few days, and be careful to not run or walk too fast, as that could cause more pain and maybe lead to some slight bleeding *often harmless if it's a small amount and stop after a short time) -Try to keep your legs and lower body elevated when sitting or lying down to reduced inflammation and take pressure off that area -Stay hydrated and don't eat anything that may give you diarrhea, which will further inflame the rectum and make it take Slightly longer to heal. And don't strain when having bowel movements. -Refrain from sexual activity for a while. Even just normal sex or masturbation uses many of the same muscles connected to the butt and anus (the whole pelvic floor muscles), and exerting those muscles could re-damage the injury Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
julyjung Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 In case your anal is itching, you should try to use some kind of materials, such as: garlic ( It eliminates the worms in the intestines and with its anti-bacterial, anti-septic and anti-fungal functions; it can prevent almost every infection that can cause anal itching ) or yogurt ( Probiotic yogurt is the only yogurt with live active bacteria is the only yogurt which can be used to prevent and control the anal itching. Moreover, remember to use only the unsweetened one for the treatment to be effective ) or oatmeal ( It is well-known for its anti-inflammatory and anti-irritation with soothing effect which is perfect to make a home remedy for anal itching.) The steps to apply these materials above are mentioned in this web: https://authorityremedies.com/home-remedies-for-anal-itching/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mick2014 Posted January 26, 2017 Report Share Posted January 26, 2017 For t past 2 mths my anus itch terribly, think probably was fuck too hard the last time. I bought anti itch cream but it only stop t itch temporary. I touch my anal area it feels abit rough. Seen t doc but given anti itch cream too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted January 27, 2017 Report Share Posted January 27, 2017 Go for few more anal sex, the itch will stop.u gotta b a bitch to stop the itch. bpfunbtm 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mick2014 Posted January 31, 2017 Report Share Posted January 31, 2017 Serious?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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