Handling A Submissive Bottom

[epicus]

Nice Story~ Shared more ya

[subarucap]

Safe word can be 'cunt' but it may sound like carrgh.

 

If this doesn't work, the  alternative is a signal like a peace sign.

 

If these attempts fail, the fail-safe fallback is to squeeze the balls very hard.

We both know that will only make me plow harder.

And I wanna have ppl watch me as I make you submit to my cock.

[Alson]

based on true story?

[Guest Mike]

I am a submissive bottom. I didn't start out as one and my partner and I are still exploring our sexual roles. I speak only for myself, but I've always been passive in demeanor and personality.  On the other hand, my partner is much more of a dominant personality. In the bedroom, He is my "Sir" and I am "boy" and He often calls me his bottom boy, cock slut or cock whore. He lowers His voice and speaks in a commanding way like was mentioned before. He enjoys when I beg to please him. He enjoys hearing me moan and say how I like what I'm doing to Him.He rarely reciprocates anything I do for Him. We've been working on me being chaste, so I can only cum or j/o when He gives persmission.

 

I know my role and am pleased and satisfied by making Him moan, get pleasure, and cum. I do what He tells me to do. I thank Him for letting me please Him. I find myself saying things like,"Own and use my ass," "Make me your bitch," "Am I an obedient submissive bottom boy?" and "Am I pleasing you Sir?" I've surprised myself a couple times by saying,"Rape me."  I don't have to get pleasure by ejaculating-it's enough that He is satisfied and that's all I need.

 

We do have "safety words" and have agreements on limits and what we're both willing to do during sex. We always talk about our roles and make sure we're both comfortable with them.

[Guest Mike]

As a sub bottom, I also don't touch myself until He tells me to do so. He puts me in whatever position He wants and pounds me into oblivion. I like being held down and my arms held behind my back while submitting to Him. Meanwhile, He'll grab my hair too and say,"You like being my bottom boy, don't you?" If I don't answer he'll say,"Answer me boy." During and after sex, I don't move until he gives permission.

 

I love my sexual role and know my place. I don't expect reciprocation from Him and am satisfied enough making and hearing Him moan and cum.

 

Mike

[Guest Subrian]

I agree with Chris, as an experienced sub you want to feel controlle, your personal comfort is not a matter for your partner and you need to get into sub-space where you only concern is for him.

[maturebtm]

I like a strong dominant top but one who does not humiliate nor demean - just take charge of the screwing positions and how long he wants to use my hole to play with my body parts (nipples, hole, etc) till I can't tahan and go crazy...all the while he is in control and enjoying teasing my senses to ecstasy, knwoing he is in charge!  

Edited November 4, 2013 by maturebtm

[sportsboysg]

I had two puppies before

one wanted me to treat him like shit and fuck his mouth and slap his face. when he sucks me his cock will throb.

i realize alot of bottoms love me to smear my cock all over their face

[allyremen]

I had two puppies before

one wanted me to treat him like shit and fuck his mouth and slap his face. when he sucks me his cock will throb.

i realize alot of bottoms love me to smear my cock all over their face

 

 If the guys have the 5 o'clock shadow, i love to "smear" my cock on their chins and cheeks! I love the tingles and it can get me very hard! :-P

[Guest isadore]

from my very first gay experience i have been a submissive bottom. He knew what i was and exploited it and to this day i am very thankful for his teaching me that being a sub is not about debasing oneself but rather getting what you want and need.

i like when a man takes control of the situation and uses me the way he wants to by controlling the positions and tempo. i tend to do more "dirty" things when told to do them than when allowed to just have great gay sex. i love the take control kind of man and he doesn't have to be a MANLY MAN just confident in his ability. i am also a size queen but that is a different story.

[Guest Guest]

My man makes me suck his cock and spanks me if he thinks I deserve it. But he is not into fucking which is what I would really like now. As he is top and I am submissive I do not feel I can ask him but I would like him to arrange for someone of his choice to fuck me with him watching and being in charge

[Guest Guest]

Like most gays, I didn't even start out as a btm more than 10years ago.

I liked to cuddle, 69 and get sucked and sometimes fuck a guy but fucking was not my fav because it's messy.

Like most gays I get to know people at the saunas. One of them liked me a lot but I didn't like him because he was cocky just because he drives an expensive car. For more than a year we just make small chats but though he hinted I ignored him. I was just another of his prey. He was only ordinary looking but he wanted to top people for boasting.

Till one night out of friendliness since he said he liked to cuddle, we had sex but only did 69. I found that he had good oral skills and he licked even my butt hole. It felt electric good.

The next week he caressed my butt when he met me and I let him lead me to a room. He was gentle and nice when he licked my butt and soon he got a finger inside me. It felt good but I told him no way he can fuck me. Anyway he fingered me so well that I took the doggy position automatically for him to pull my cock while rimming me. I cummed like crazy. He requested and fucked between my thighs and came. I was scared to feel his cum drip onto my butt hole that I quickly raised my legs to wipe it clean.

The next 3 weeks I was afraid to go to the sauna because I knew he'll be waiting for me to make the final move. Very obvious right?

By the 4th week I was thinking that I was not so much thinking of his sex then I went again. I heard from my friend that he was looking for me. I quickly went with another guy to release. After that I went to shower and met him there. He caressed my butt and I didn't push him away because I don't want him to say that I am heartless after sex can forget a friend.

Out of politeness I told him I makaned already so maybe next time.

The next week, as I was walking to the sauna someone honked at me. I looked, it was him in his big car. So co-incidental he was about to go inside. He said why not we go hotel with our money and he pay the rest. I see his big car I get soft hearted, maybe he be my bf how nicely.

He drove to Geylang hotel. I knew what he wanted and this time I was excited. In the room he said he will be very gentle with me. Actually I was 10 years older than him and bigger sized than him. I don't know if I still a virgin because 2 men ever tried to poke me before but I stopped them because too painful. I still don't know whether they actually got penetrated through that's why I felt so painful.

I remember it was about this time of last year when I finally had proper anal sex with him. I told him what happened the last 2 times and I don't want to have anal sex. He said they were lousy tops but he was expert sure to make me happy. I warned him that when I feel painful I will kick people.

It was shy and exciting he slowly undressed me in front of the mirrors. Then he caressed and slowly led me to bed. He told me to relax as we 69. I was high but I thought I saw him take out an orange pill and suddenly it disappeared. I thought he is taking something like viagra.

Then we rested and watched japanese porn from his ipad.

Slowly I felt hot and itchy in my butt....cannot understand what it is but when he touched my nipples I get electric shock in my butt hole instead. I felt giddy and also funny. When he kissed me and asked me want to fuck I can only nod my head.

When he lifted my legs I felt like floating on his shoulders. I looked down and helplessly watched him penetrated me. I was expecting pain and will kick him but I felt no pain. When he started pumping I was like hearing another person moaning in confusion I don't know where was my brain. I looked into the mirrors like seeing 2 strange men fucking in porn and far away.

I was sweating and my whole body so smooth like a baby's. After a long time then I felt like I can feel my brain come back. Now I felt so good and wanting him to fuck me harder. I moaned and said fuck me, fuck me harder....

I was shameless and he enjoyed himself. When he came and I came a little later, I was so tired we slept till midnight. The we showered and he drove me home.

After that he never called though I gave him my number. 2 weeks later I saw him at sauna and he ignored me. I was so angry I left. The next week I didn't want to go but I cannot help myself feeling so itchy. Then I went and again he ignored me.

This time I went with someone and let him fuck me. It was good feeling. When I came out of the room, he was outside pretending not to see me. The I saw him and that guy exchange looks I realised I was tricked.

When I went to shower he was there waiting for me. When he touched my butt I had to ask him why? After we dried up he led me to a room. He didn't even take off my towel. We laid down and talked. He said he wanted me to understand it was purely sex and no love. That was why he got his friend to seduce me. I must get used to only having sex. If not he will get more men to fuck me until I was comfortable with sex only then we can have fun.

I was so angry that I stomped out of the room.

He was right, after that I became easy with men for awhile. When he approached me again, I withdrew and avoided him. Actually I liked him to fuck me except for my pride.

A few months later, again I met him but went with another guy. We were doing 69 when that guy again took out an orange pill in front of me and then I thought he swallowed it.

He came but I didn't. When we left the room he was outside. Again they exchanged looks and whispered to each other. By now I felt funny and didn't resist when he took me to the room. My heart beat so fast and I was giddy. When he raised my legs and butt hole I was already wet when I was not wet just now. I didn't know it was possible for a man to be wet but my finger felt so wet when I touched my butt. I was also very horny.

When he penetrated it was like I was waiting forever for it to happen. After being fucked by more than 10 men I was ready to be enjoying being his bitch. He showed me no mercy and demonstrated that he was better than all of them. I was delirious beyond control and seriously wanted and wanted like I was mad. The sounds we made was loud and violent.

When we finished, I didn't know how or when we went into deep sleep again till midnight. When I woke up he was already slowly humping me. I obediently let him. After sex and showers he drove me home.

After that we agreed to be fb. But I liked him more than he liked me so I tried not to bottom for other men and waited for him. He always told me to relax and go with other men. I prefer to have less sex because I was not comfortable being so easy.

But when with him, I was so excited that I was very submissive that I don't know why I don't mind he treated me like a piece of cheap fuck meat. I still cannot control myself when having sex with him. He was bad to me during sex and I liked it.

[Guest guest]

As a sub male this is what I prefer;  Remember that the word sub really means submit.  To submit is a willing surrender, and in the case of sub males we are surrendering our manhood...our male pride...to another man.  Remember also that I already desire to surrender it to you, you don't have to beat me in order to get it.  Personally I do not like harsh abuse as it seems very shallow and ingnorant.  It makes me realize the top is either nor very experienced or he is more into bruatality/sadism.  Submission is not the same as BDSM, although the two can be combined.  For me it is more of an emotional or mental high. And frankly it is the sense of shame I feel by letting you humilate me.  Someone said above, don't try to fake being an experienced Dom - we will know and it won't be that great for either one.  Of course each human is very unique, so it takes a bit of exploration and learning together how to mesh the Dom top's needs with the sub bottom's needs. But a good thing to have in the back of your mind is this - he wants me to humiliate him and make him feel like a queer for what he is doing.

[Guest Guest]

I like to watch myself in the mirror being taken by another man. Sometimes I couldn't believe that a full grown masculine man like me can allow another man to dominate me and mate me like a woman.

Most of my tops can understand my fetish. I like it when he withdraws suddenly and I can see my gaping cb hole dilating and twitching from his fucking. Me totally naked and so vulnerable. If in missionary, I watch my legs waving in the air. If doggy I watch my backside wet from the lube.

It is a very fascinating to have another man's sexual organ inside my body and giving me so much pleasures. I simply had to see it doing it. When in missionary I like to see it up close plunging in and out of my mancunt. When in doggy, I like to see him mounting me like animal mating and butt fuck me loudly till my whole body rock back and forth under his fucking.

I ever posted my experiences using the terms cb hole and mancunt to describe my hole and some here felt offended and told me to respect myself. The fact is that being fucked by another man is my free choice. Who cares about self respect when getting screwed is already the female role. I willingly sacrifice my manhood for the derived kinky pleasures.

The strange thing is that the more people scolded me about being cheap, the more kinky it felt. Wait till you seen me being fucked in public and being watched and getting those tsk tsk nasty remarks from some. It get me more excited. I don't even object when someone even put his hand into my cb while the top was still fucking me. It felt like being double penetrated.

[FirsTimer]

Geesh dont make use of your bottoms please..

[morphymonster]

With all sub btm, WHERE ARE YOU DOM TOP?

[transmissionsm]

Instead of asking us how to handle a submissive bottom, you should ask him (your bottom) how he like to be handled. I believe he will be able to tell you how he likes to be handled.

Honestly speaking, if you are not the dominating type, then just be yourself. Don't try to be something you are not because eventually, you might not enjoy the process.

Anyway, if he is my submissive btm, I will :-

- Order him to do what I feel would be the things that will make me high, e.g. suck my dick, lick my balls, etc.

- my voice will be more commanding than my usual self, like do this, take that, etc.

- take charge and not seek permission if I want spank his ass or bite/nibble on his butt cheek, etc. just do it.

- Confidence in bed is the key; which means you need to know your own abilities in bed.

 

This. Just had my first real sex yesterday and my top did all the 4 of that stated above...it is weird when I am with my male colleague i'm all straight and normal but meet for sex with a top and I really don't know how to react and super shy. He looked at my intently while humping me but I tilt my head to the side lol.

[Guest Scott]

I'm a bottom responding anymously cuz I've never posted b4.  i'm married, a dad, and an executive.  But as a teen, I was led to submissiveness fairly quickly after some "show me yours" in the woods with a friend, mutual jo with others as they learned that i was willing, exhibiting to a small group in my bedroom while parents were at work, to sucking and being fucked. 

 

I don't look for act the part of a cocksucking rimmer, but when I pushed melt.  My 6.5 inch uncut meat quickly gets as hard as one of those four hour boners, and I'm up for anything.  No limits.  The way to handle me is to be direct and to aggressive deal with my initial reluctance.  Once I see your cock and  your make me take mine out and jerk it off a little, you own a not bad piece of sub meat.   And yes, right now I am stroking my cock and watching it leak precum.  -- Scott

[Guest frankie]

Very hot Scott.  I would make you jackoff as a show for my buddies and me, and then crawl from cock to cock, ass to ass, begging us to let you show us your talented tongue.

[Guest Theprince]

This thread is getting super hot.

[Guest scott]

Scott here again.  Damn.  That reply is so fucking hot.  I'd love that and even more. -- Scott .. your bitch

[Guest orange pill]

guest, you said "I saw him take out an orange pill"  what is this orange pill?

[doghot]

From my experience its really difficult to find good and dominant tops. I am pure btm but I go to the gym often and so am pretty big sized and muscular. I also look very manly and serious so most people assume I am straight, much less btm. It really turns me on to get fuck by smaller size, uglier men (hopefully with big cocks). But most tops see me so big size they are intimidated and ask silly questions like "can i fuck you now". A really good top will just press my head onto his cock and i wil automatically open my mouth and starting sucking. 

 

i also love to see myself in the mirror being fuck by small size man. when i get so turned on by this i moan out like a slutty girl especially when being fuck doggie style. One time while being used like a slut in doggie position the tops just pull out his cock and left me there with my ass sticking up to open the door. I was so turned on that i nearly cum there and then. Then he came back and just shoved his cock into my hole, I loved it! The thought of a big size muscular man being reduced into a whimpering slut btm makes me so high and submissive. But so difficult to find those good tops to conquer me by just using their hard cock!

[G_M]

Dog hot, you haven't met me as yet

Please don't hard sell yourself in here.

 

Anymore ads from you, you will get suspension.

[Guest Theprince]

Oops sorry!

[G_M]

hi submissive guy seeking a bf, pls message me

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Do that again and you will face further suspension or ban from the forum.

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[guestvisitor]

I like a strong dominant top but one who does not humiliate nor demean - just take charge of the screwing positions and how long he wants to use my hole to play with my body parts (nipples, hole, etc) till I can't tahan and go crazy...all the while he is in control and enjoying teasing my senses to ecstasy, knwoing he is in charge!  

same here

From my experience its really difficult to find good and dominant tops. I am pure btm but I go to the gym often and so am pretty big sized and muscular. I also look very manly and serious so most people assume I am straight, much less btm. It really turns me on to get fuck by smaller size, uglier men (hopefully with big cocks). But most tops see me so big size they are intimidated and ask silly questions like "can i fuck you now". A really good top will just press my head onto his cock and i wil automatically open my mouth and starting sucking. 

 

i also love to see myself in the mirror being fuck by small size man. when i get so turned on by this i moan out like a slutty girl especially when being fuck doggie style. One time while being used like a slut in doggie position the tops just pull out his cock and left me there with my ass sticking up to open the door. I was so turned on that i nearly cum there and then. Then he came back and just shoved his cock into my hole, I loved it! The thought of a big size muscular man being reduced into a whimpering slut btm makes me so high and submissive. But so difficult to find those good tops to conquer me by just using their hard cock!

love it too

[guestvisitor]

I like to watch myself in the mirror being taken by another man. Sometimes I couldn't believe that a full grown masculine man like me can allow another man to dominate me and mate me like a woman.

Most of my tops can understand my fetish. I like it when he withdraws suddenly and I can see my gaping cb hole dilating and twitching from his fucking. Me totally naked and so vulnerable. If in missionary, I watch my legs waving in the air. If doggy I watch my backside wet from the lube.

It is a very fascinating to have another man's sexual organ inside my body and giving me so much pleasures. I simply had to see it doing it. When in missionary I like to see it up close plunging in and out of my mancunt. When in doggy, I like to see him mounting me like animal mating and butt fuck me loudly till my whole body rock back and forth under his fucking.

I ever posted my experiences using the terms cb hole and mancunt to describe my hole and some here felt offended and told me to respect myself. The fact is that being fucked by another man is my free choice. Who cares about self respect when getting screwed is already the female role. I willingly sacrifice my manhood for the derived kinky pleasures.

The strange thing is that the more people scolded me about being cheap, the more kinky it felt. Wait till you seen me being fucked in public and being watched and getting those tsk tsk nasty remarks from some. It get me more excited. I don't even object when someone even put his hand into my cb while the top was still fucking me. It felt like being double penetrated.

guess most btms likes what u describes.

[doghot]

Any submissive slut btms had experience being fucked by their tops in front of other tops? To me its all part of the submission that the top wants to fuck me infront of other people and exhibit me like a piece of meat to be used. everyone knows that its so shameful for a big muscular man to be on his hands and knees, moaning non stop like a bitch while his top ram into his hole from the back in a nonchalant manner. I seemed to be enjoying being fucked so much doggie style like a bitch in heat but the top is just cool and slamming into me in a bochup manner. Those good tops know that i am getting high from being fucked so sometimes they purposely pull out their cock halfway, making me felt so empty. But I dont come up because i want to stay on my hands and knees so that it is convenient for the top to just shove his cock back in and make me feel good. so no choice just crawl around and present my ass to the top, begging him to come back inside. its so slutty and cheap to be fucked like this, but then it feels so good i can't help it.

[Guest masc btm]

Any submissive slut btms had experience being fucked by their tops in front of other tops? To me its all part of the submission that the top wants to fuck me infront of other people and exhibit me like a piece of meat to be used. everyone knows that its so shameful for a big muscular man to be on his hands and knees, moaning non stop like a bitch while his top ram into his hole from the back in a nonchalant manner. I seemed to be enjoying being fucked so much doggie style like a bitch in heat but the top is just cool and slamming into me in a bochup manner. Those good tops know that i am getting high from being fucked so sometimes they purposely pull out their cock halfway, making me felt so empty. But I dont come up because i want to stay on my hands and knees so that it is convenient for the top to just shove his cock back in and make me feel good. so no choice just crawl around and present my ass to the top, begging him to come back inside. its so slutty and cheap to be fucked like this, but then it feels so good i can't help it.

Not exactly directly show in front of others because that would spoil my masculine image. Usually it is to tease and make some jokes about it. Even if his friends don't believe it, we purposely make it like the jokes are not true and let them guess. They even joked that he was the btm and I am the top.

After that drinking kopi session with his friends and we go to hotel, he would be so stirred up to show who is the boss in bed, he would treat me like worst than a piece of meat.

Only one time one of his friend J who tried to tackle me so he secretly followed me to the hotel. I was 偷吃 taojia with another man and he told his friend. Then my friend was so angry at us 狗男女 because J tried to tackle me and I go to hotel with another man make him lose face. So he told J that and I am the btm and to make him 死心 give up，he brought me to sauna and asked J to listen to him tame 馴服 me from outside. Of course he wouldn't let J watch directly 便宜了她。

Only after I was devastated like leaves in a hurricane 狂風掃落葉，he opened the door to let him see me sprawled on the ground like being run over by a truck 殘花敗柳。 I saw the disappointment in J's eyes as he caressed me. I didn't know he was so new to being gay till then. So I told him, don't be disappointed, this is my choice 心甘情願的 and I do it because I enjoyed it, nobody forced me to.

[Guest Guest]

Very hot Scott.  I would make you jackoff as a show for my buddies and me, and then crawl from cock to cock, ass to ass, begging us to let you show us your talented tongue.

Thanks, Frankie Sir.  That's sooooo very hot.  I would do anything you wish.  Would I wear a collar and leash?  Pink bow on my balls/hard on? -- Steve

[Oops]

Not exactly directly show in front of others because that would spoil my masculine image. Usually it is to tease and make some jokes about it. Even if his friends don't believe it, we purposely make it like the jokes are not true and let them guess. They even joked that he was the btm and I am the top.

After that drinking kopi session with his friends and we go to hotel, he would be so stirred up to show who is the boss in bed, he would treat me like worst than a piece of meat.

Only one time one of his friend J who tried to tackle me so he secretly followed me to the hotel. I was 偷吃 taojia with another man and he told his friend. Then my friend was so angry at us 狗男女 because J tried to tackle me and I go to hotel with another man make him lose face. So he told J that and I am the btm and to make him 死心 give up，he brought me to sauna and asked J to listen to him tame 馴服 me from outside. Of course he wouldn't let J watch directly 便宜了她。

Only after I was devastated like leaves in a hurricane 狂風掃落葉，he opened the door to let him see me sprawled on the ground like being run over by a truck 殘花敗柳。 I saw the disappointment in J's eyes as he caressed me. I didn't know he was so new to being gay till then. So I told him, don't be disappointed, this is my choice 心甘情願的 and I do it because I enjoyed it, nobody forced me to.

Nice encounter~

when i saw the part "was devastated like leaves in a hurricane 狂風掃落葉，...sprawled on the ground like being run over by a truck 殘花敗柳", i was laughing so hard i had to close the door otherwise my family think i crazy...lol

[Guest CumSlut]

I'm an experienced bisexual submissive slavedog. I like girls. The only time, I would do anything with a guy is if he's a dominant. I only draw the line at anal. I love to be used and humiliated. I used to have a master, whom I served every week at his place. Everytime he needs he he would call me to come over. Upon arrving at his door step, he would ask me to wear my dog collar, strip naked and get on my knees before he opened his door.. he's staying at a condo so there's only one neighbour in front of his. The thrill of being seen naked by his neighbours is enough to make my cock super hard and dripping precum. When he opens the door, I am not suppose to speak anything until the session ends. Sometimes, he would ask his friends ver to use me as well. He would make me use lots of poppers. When I'm on poppers, I don't care what he wants to do to me, I just submit fully. I served him and his friends without question. There was once, I was on my knees, high on pops, sucking both of them while they are standing up kissing each other, they peed in my mouth while I was sucking them. It was a major turn on to me. Each session alwaysends with cum on my face. Only then will my master allow me to wank in front of the mirror, lookingthe mess he/they made of my face. Unfortunately he went back to US. I never had another master as great as him.

There's was also this once, I hired a dominant tranny for a session. She was a pre op lady boy with a big dick. I was made to serve her cock for 2 hrs . I was mouthfucked, spit at, and made to swallow her pee right from the tap. She then bilndfolded me and left. She came back a few minutes later, sat on my face, forced to rim her hole and I realised something was coming out of her hole. I was a bit worried it's shit but I told her my limits before that and gave her my full trust. She continued to squeeze the object out and realised it's a piece of kit kat. She had inserted it in her as before she sat on my face. She then Tsaid "Anything i feed u with, u eat understand?" In a firm voice. That was the hottest thing, anyone ever did to me. She later came in my mouth and force me to swallow. Then she asked me to wank myselfin the toilet.

These are some of my experiences as a submissive slave.

[Guest Taming of the CB]

It looks like there are many man waiting to be tamed into submissive bottom.

[keepcalm]

Had a great session last night. Blind folded and cuffed my boi on the bed, made him wore long socks and combat boots. Tongue fucked him till he cum all over his body and made him eat all of it. Invited another top to use him and I was holding his pelvic controlling the speed and thrust while he fucks my boi. Later we both took turns to fuck and the top willingly took my load.

[Guest boyinthongs]

I want to train myself to be a submissive bottom but I don't have any toys. Will fingering myself daily help or will it make me too loose?

[Guest bottom]

Met the top once - he cuffed my left wrist to left ankle, right wrist to right ankle, then put a N95 mask on my face and pour poppers onto it. I was too weak to resist because of the poppers and can only submit myself for his use.

[Guest PushPop]

Interesting thread.

 

While most of you started already as a gay.  I started as a dominant heterosexual. Had my fair share of women. Finally married and when we were consummating the marriage, she told me that she couldnt feel my penis in her vagina and that was in the doggy position.  I felt so emasculated.  I started to find myself loving more of her lingerie and started to go down on her more than she did for me. Then one day, I walked innocently into a reflexology centre requesting for full body massage. The man assigned to me looked straight and being in such a location I thot nothing hanky panky when we were only separated by a curtain.  But after 45 mins of massage he started to caress my genitalia and massaging my back pussy till I suddenly felt more like a gal being molested on the massage bed. The funniest thing was that I liked it. It turn me on so much and it was so different from the vanilla sex I have w my wife.

Now, I'm a crossdressing btm slut who would serve a top like a king. I find myself doing the most disgusting thing with men that even my wife wouldnt do for me. I would greet them by kneeling in front of them in my wife's bra n gstring and kiss their foot. lick them clean after toilet, get spanked, abuse verbally and even humiliated sometimes in front of the opposite sex. What is worse is that if turns me on like crazy and I become even more btm.

 

 

[TheVisitors]

During my wild days when I was single, most of the bottoms I fucked told me I was pretty rough, domineering and wild.

 

I usually perspired a lot when I fucked, and each session was about 45mins to an hour.

 

One of the most unforgettable fuck lasted 4 hours with a few minutes of interval rest in between, cumming twice

 

My mindset when handling a submissive bottom, was having unusual visualization as I fucked

 

It's either like a domineering tiger who played with a helpless little lamb, before a sudden kill, sinking it's fangs into the prey's throat, or a spider slowly sucking the juice of a juicy meal

 

There are certain postures and simple methods which you can lock your bottom from resisting your intensive thrusting. You will learn through experience or through simple martial art posture

 

One thing for sure, I really love to squeeze their face tightly against the wall by grabbing at the back of their neck, while banging the daylights out of their brains ( doggy style)

 

Or lift their butt up high, push their heads against the wall or bed, while fucking the missionary style

 

The more they moan or scream, the more I excited i get and I like to silent them by gabbing their mouth with my hand tightly until they can't breath

 

Somehow, they love it

 

But as a top, you too have to give the bottom a good foreplay by licking them all over or rimming their ass till they quiver with delight, because most bottoms complaint to me that most of the tops are a bit more selfish, who doesn't service them well, but expect the bottoms to service them like a slave

 

Sex such be a mutual exchange of pleasure, where both parties should benefit . It should not be a one sided affair

[transmissionsm]

During my wild days when I was single, most of the bottoms I fucked told me I was pretty rough, domineering and wild.

 

Do you still do this? Just the top i'm looking for...especially the covering my mouth. Best to combine with chocking when missionary.

[doghot]

Haha he already mentioned "in his wild days when he was single". There are very few tops who are as good as he described. To be able to fuck well you need a rare combination of the following high sex drive, physically strong, good size cock, and most importantly dominant attitude and confidence that you are damn good at ramming the btm's hole (or pussy if straight). If you are lucky enough to find one, better keep it to yourself, because there will be loads of btms out there who want to get properly fucked by one of these tops. But its a matter of time before he get sick of you because he already fucked so many holes before, why is yours so special?  You think you have a good body? During actual sex the most important is the cock, not your muscles.  Even if you think your hole is specially tight, his cock is so big, all holes feel tight to him. The truth is that your hole is nothing special - its just a hole.But a top who can fuck really well....that's rare.

[Exynos]

submissive bottoms are a huge turn on.. there's something I love about a bottom who is coy & looks me in the eye like he wants it badly but doesn't dare to say it out

 

but the best way to handle one is to be domineering so he feels safe and know you know what you're doing. and of course to be respectful to him 

[Guest Sub Bottom Cocksucker]

Most of the posting seems to come from the point of view of the Dominating Top.

Would like to hear it from the submissive-bottom. What are you guys hoping for when you you say you are a submissive bottom ? In your fantasy, what were you hoping the Man would do to you ?

I know this is about four years late, so you probably figured out how to handle a submissive bottom. But just in case..I am very submissive.  I'm laying here naked right now on grinder, a4a and craigslist looking for a guy to submit to.  Let me first say, I'm very masc acting except when a guy's dick is in my ass.   Regarding topping in general, keep in mind you're sticking the thing that makes you a guy....into his ass or mouth.  That is so demasculating right off hand you have the dominant roll...whether your bottom is submissive or not.  You're dick in his ass...simply just makes you more dominant. 

 

Pleasing a top is what turns me on, so basically it could be anything you enjoy...just so I know it's what you want.  Also, feel free to correct me, if I'm not doing it the way you like it.  

 

Before I go to far...this is not for everyone...takes a certain top and certain bottom for the dom/sub role.  It can be kind of awkward if both guys are both not into it. 

 

Here are my preferences/things I like to do to submit to you:

 

1) Top doesn't shower. It's just a privilege to be able to even see you without clothes...no need to do anymore. 

2) If I ask you if you've ever fucked a girl, you say yes whether true or not.  

3) If you're verse, you don't admit that...you're a top.

4) Make sure you gotta pee when you get there or when your bottom arrives.  Plenty of guys have peed on me, but very few have actually offered to...I have to ask.  It would be so hot to have a guy walk in and be like "I gotta piss bitch.  Get in the bathtub."  Oh...and tops really seem to love water sports after they try...of course...not as much as I enjoy your pee. 

5) This is probably more me then most sub bottoms, but my goal is to make you feel amazing for a long time, not just to get you off so, so make a night of it if you can.

6) I love sucking your toes, feet, legs, kissing your neck over and over again.  Licking your balls and your dick. Sucking it for a bit then going back over your body.  Oh...plenty of poppers the whole time for me...I suck better.  Love having you do them to, but don't overdo..don't want you going soft. Well we're on the subject of sucking, don't let your subs suck your cock like they are about to miss their flight.  Your dick deserves all variations of speed. 

7) I feel badly about this one.  Try not to touch my cock...I know you're gay so you obviously like dick.  But having my dick felt feels good and I'm not there for you to make me feel good.  

8) Also, I may not be hard the entire time.  Just because I'm not hard does not mean that I'm not immensely enjoying pleasuring you though. 

9) Some guys spit in my mouth, which I find demeaning, but I would rather have you spit on my face...seems even more degrading. 

10) If you are verbal, go for it...bitch, cunt, slut, whore, girl, etc...  Huge turn to be called those names while I'm sucking your cock.

11) Obviously,  having a couple guys there is very hot.  I love just having somebody there to watch...fun if they join too but love having somebody watching me submit to you.  

12) This probably pretty much just me...but I would love to have a girl or girls watch.  I haven't yet, but that seems very hot to me. Better yet, stick it in the girl a few times and then stick your dick in me to remind me who the true pussy is. 

13) Obviously anal as well...haha.  I like it on my stomach, doggy and being bent over.  Those tend to be the positions where you can get in the farthest and also go the fastest.  Subs should be able to take it any three of those positions and if they can't, find a sub who can. 

14) When you're ready to cum...you don't ask me where I want it.  You cum wherever the fuck you want to.  

15) I prefer not to exchange names unless it is gonna be repeat. Also, don't be friendly...be dominant and aggressive. And I quite frequently find it being repeats cuz a truly selfish, dominant top is hard to find. 

16) MOST IMPORTANTLY...these are things that I like guys to do to me...it makes me feel submissive and like I'm worshiping you. But if you have things that turn you on other than what I mentioned, do it...I would much rather have you use my body the way you want to.  You are fucking me! You're in charge!  

 

One thing that is a mild turn off is nipple play.  I know some guys have sensitive nipples and I will enthusiastically do it if they want, but most tops should be above getting their nipples plaid with like they are women. 

 

If you don't have time for all this and just need a quickie, I think anon is the best way to go then.  It is very submissive for me to be waiting there for your cock...me ass up, face down...have you walk in, fuck me and leave. 

 

Lastly, subs get turned on by being submissive, so don't feel like you are doing anything wrong or mistreating us.  Pleasuring guys is amazing. 

[mate69]

Very nice. Just the kind of btms i like to play with.

Edited June 29, 2014 by mate69

[dsd]

12) This probably pretty much just me...but I would love to have a girl or girls watch.  I haven't yet, but that seems very hot to me. Better yet, stick it in the girl a few times and then stick your dick in me to remind me who the true pussy is. 

Wow! This is so turn on for me.

I fantasize about 3some with old married couple.

The husband (chubby silver hair Lao Ah Pek) ploughs his thick cock into the wife's loose and wet cheeby and just before he cums he pulls out his cock and shoot into my mouth and I swallow every drop. Then I go underneath the wife and lick her cheeby clean. After that I lift up the husband legs and spread them wide before plunging my cock into his asshole and screw until he scream like a girl.

[doghot]

 

i got so turned on from reading your list....i'm a submissive btm too and i love to get all those things you described done to me.... but i dunno if you agree, its so seldom to find a good top who can do all those things. So many tops here are so "nice" and boring, and the only time i got a top who wanted to do these things, his cock was so small i couldnt get into the mood.

you mentioned that you like to be watched...how about two of us btms being fucked by a group of tops....that would be soo kinky and exciting!

[doghot]

Let me first say, I'm very masc acting except when a guy's dick is in my ass.   Regarding topping in general, keep in mind you're sticking the thing that makes you a guy....into his ass or mouth.  That is so demasculating right off hand you have the dominant roll...whether your bottom is submissive or not.  You're dick in his ass...simply just makes you more dominant. 

 

Agree totally. Some guys talk about being a "power btm", but frankly i disagree. When you are on your hands and knees and your ass is up in the air being offered to the top, and he is pounding away piak piak piak at your hole, you are not there to talk terms with him. You can just only stay down on your hands and knees and wait until he had his fill of pounding your pussy. And if he spank your backside that means you better moan out loud as slutty as you can and make him happy and feed his ego that he is a good top, otherwise he is not going to fill your hole with his hard cock and your backside will be so itchy that maybe you gotta pay a ladyboy to fuck you, because when you are so itchy, any cock is better than no cock.

[Guest Theprince]

As a practising dom, I have had my share of sub guys. I always meet upfront and discuss limits and once I know them, then I don't bother asking what the sub wants/feels as long as I am within those limits. I have a few regular slaves back home who I have fucked several times, and now since I know them well, sex is amazing for both of us.

I love being dominant, my gripe is that not a lot of people know how to be a good sub. Especially outside Europe and US.

[acidtongue]

One thing that is a mild turn off is nipple play. I know some guys have sensitive nipples and I will enthusiastically do it if they want, but most tops should be above getting their nipples plaid with like they are women.

I'm a dominant top, but love getting my nipples licked. Usually comes as part of the muscle worshipping foreplay when I get the btm to appreciate my bod before the full action starts. I'll react with deep grunts and dirty talk. This helps to build up the tension between a dominant top n sub btm and get them into a submissive mood, so eventually when I start penetrating them, they'll be submitting uncontrollably to my cock n hands all over my sweaty bod.

[undies87]

Yea there are dominant tops who simply enjoy gettin their nipples sucked/licked, bite their shoulders and all musky sweaty pits licked..loads of foreplay then comes the hard and deep nailing! Ha!! But i hardly see dominant tops these days.. sigh..

Edited July 6, 2014 by undies87