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Do whatever you like/want to do with him. Don't ask for his opinion or consent. You want to get your dick sucked, bent him on his knees and open your pants. Or whatever you fantasied of doing but you wouldn't do because you might think your partner might not like it or it would be weird for him. Just imagine he is an object that you are using to satisfy yourself in every way. Don't care about him getting off or liking it. He might not like it, but the feeling of being dominated and used in a real way, and not as role-play, will be overwhelming for him. And keep pushing things further and further, but not too fast, until he actually says it's too much. You will be surprised how far he can go before saying anything. And even then you can keep pushing. He will be overwhelmed. You might feel embarrassed at first, until you break the ice, but hey, what's the worst? Him thinking you are a weirdo. And so what? He either sucks it up or he can leave. No big deal, but not likely to happen. I've met many guys around 18-23 that I made submissive. They thought I was weird when I brought up handcuffs or when I wanted to blindfold them with duct tape for the first time. But I insisted and they were OK with it as they were OK with being spanked, sitting in a corner on their knees naked, cleaning my apartment, getting fucked any time I wanted to. They like to be submissive. They don't like guys who try to role-play being dominants. That's a turn off for them. Just ask yourself what do you want from a guy. Would you like to watch a movie while your guy sucks your dick kneeled on the floor? Or maybe you want him to dance naked for you before he blows you off? Or maybe you want to slap him because he complains he can't deepthroat you?

im a submissive and all u said are true. ilove to be used

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Do whatever you like/want to do with him. Don't ask for his opinion or consent. You want to get your dick sucked, bent him on his knees and open your pants. Or whatever you fantasied of doing but you wouldn't do because you might think your partner might not like it or it would be weird for him. Just imagine he is an object that you are using to satisfy yourself in every way. Don't care about him getting off or liking it. He might not like it, but the feeling of being dominated and used in a real way, and not as role-play, will be overwhelming for him. And keep pushing things further and further, but not too fast, until he actually says it's too much. You will be surprised how far he can go before saying anything. And even then you can keep pushing. He will be overwhelmed. You might feel embarrassed at first, until you break the ice, but hey, what's the worst? Him thinking you are a weirdo. And so what? He either sucks it up or he can leave. No big deal, but not likely to happen. I've met many guys around 18-23 that I made submissive. They thought I was weird when I brought up handcuffs or when I wanted to blindfold them with duct tape for the first time. But I insisted and they were OK with it as they were OK with being spanked, sitting in a corner on their knees naked, cleaning my apartment, getting fucked any time I wanted to. They like to be submissive. They don't like guys who try to role-play being dominants. That's a turn off for them. Just ask yourself what do you want from a guy. Would you like to watch a movie while your guy sucks your dick kneeled on the floor? Or maybe you want him to dance naked for you before he blows you off? Or maybe you want to slap him because he complains he can't deepthroat you?

This description is absolutely erotic! As a bottom, I totally agree that this type of treatment is a real turn on.

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From my experience its really difficult to find good and dominant tops. I am pure btm but I go to the gym often and so am pretty big sized and muscular. I also look very manly and serious so most people assume I am straight, much less btm. It really turns me on to get fuck by smaller size, uglier men (hopefully with big cocks). But most tops see me so big size they are intimidated and ask silly questions like "can i fuck you now". A really good top will just press my head onto his cock and i wil automatically open my mouth and starting sucking. 

 

i also love to see myself in the mirror being fuck by small size man. when i get so turned on by this i moan out like a slutty girl especially when being fuck doggie style. One time while being used like a slut in doggie position the tops just pull out his cock and left me there with my ass sticking up to open the door. I was so turned on that i nearly cum there and then. Then he came back and just shoved his cock into my hole, I loved it! The thought of a big size muscular man being reduced into a whimpering slut btm makes me so high and submissive. But so difficult to find those good tops to conquer me by just using their hard cock!

 

why do you like ugly men?

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its even more of a submission to a "uglier" man and even more kinky!

 you are weird dude..

handsome guy submitting to an ugly man..

by the way you put in your profile you are gymfit and handsome

should be able to get lots of gollums what..

no need to submit they should be the one grabbing you all over..

i see you advertising here all the time..

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 you are weird dude..

handsome guy submitting to an ugly man..

by the way you put in your profile you are gymfit and handsome

should be able to get lots of gollums what..

no need to submit they should be the one grabbing you all over..

i see you advertising here all the time..

For my case,I'll not really submit to ugly men but only those slightly below average.

That's because they really appreciate their good luck and maximise using these rare occasions.

I ever tried giving myself to really ugly men and they looked at me with suspicions and skepticism as though I have some motives or wanted to cheat them or even have STDs/AIDS.

There was once when this cmi was naked and waited and waited for hours yet anybody who peeped into the room immediately withdraw with disgust on their faces. So I went in and stood there. He simply sat there and looked at me with sad eyes.

So I dropped off my towel to express my interest and he suddenly even cowered in a corner as though I was going to harm him! Anyways as the door was left open, one uncle (who was stalking me and did touch me once but I didn't respond) who observed all these from a discrete distance, he being old fox understood my type.

He boldly walked in and closed the door. There was this awkward silence as I and the CMI wondered what to do. I went to the door and wanted to get out. With one harsh push, he pinned me to the side wall. The CMI was also at the door and he scampered back to his corner. I tried to free myself but that uncle was surprising strong.

He used his legs to spread my legs and jam a finger up my ass. I yelped in pain and my body went limb. My body knew I had met a master and liked his assertiveness. He can sense my softening body and snorted a laugh... fish in net and dinner time for his cock.

He released his hold and tore a condom pack that was at his towel waistline. He put in on while I obediently waited for him. He was about to bang into me when someone threw a pack of lube and that hit me. I turned to look and saw the CMI with some packs in his hand and he threw one more. He looked at that uncle as if to say,"don't hurt my friend".

Uncle took the packs and obediently I bend lower to perk up my ass for him to wet me. Then he mercilessly banged away. In spite my strong body taking all that banging, he use his hands to press my head down towards the doggy position.

He mounted me and banged away again. But not satisfied, he pressed my head even lower till against the floor in kneeling position. He stepped one foot onto my butt and pried my butt cheeks wide open. I knew exactly what he wanted to see so I opened and closed my hole like goldfish gasping for air. From my downside wide view, I saw CMI leaning forwards in mollified curiosity and aiming his hardon in my direction as he stroked on it. His eyes rolled up in disgust.

When my eyes met his disapproving eyes, he shot a big load suddenly.

Then the uncle draped his whole body over me and used his weight to flattened me to the floor. But his ample belly was on my back and obstructing his penetration.

He flipped me over only to see me already starting to squirt and moan in unexpected orgasm from his rough handling and not from his penetration. Still he placed my legs over his shoulders and pumped me quick and cum shortly.

He left and I was left in exhaustion when CMI also opened the door and left.

Sounds too fantastic to be true right? It is because people will not believe even when I tell them that made it seem so naughty and exciting. If my experience was I like, he like, we had sex, over...too boring for me.

 

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For my case,I'll not really submit to ugly men but only those slightly below average.

 

That's because they really appreciate their good luck and maximise using these rare occasions.

 

I ever tried giving myself to really ugly men and they looked at me with suspicions and skepticism as though I have some motives or wanted to cheat them or even have STDs/AIDS.

 

There was once when this cmi was naked and waited and waited for hours yet anybody who peeped into the room immediately withdraw with disgust on their faces. So I went in and stood there. He simply sat there and looked at me with sad eyes.

So I dropped off my towel to express my interest and he suddenly even cowered in a corner as though I was going to harm him! Anyways as the door was left open, one uncle (who was stalking me and did touch me once but I didn't respond) who observed all these from a discrete distance, he being old fox understood my type.

 

He boldly walked in and closed the door. There was this awkward silence as I and the CMI wondered what to do. I went to the door and wanted to get out. With one harsh push, he pinned me to the side wall. The CMI was also at the door and he scampered back to his corner. I tried to free myself but that uncle was surprising strong.

 

He used his legs to spread my legs and jam a finger up my ass. I yelped in pain and my body went limb. My body knew I had met a master and liked his assertiveness. He can sense my softening body and snorted a laugh... fish in net and dinner time for his cock.

 

He released his hold and tore a condom pack that was at his towel waistline. He put in on while I obediently waited for him. He was about to bang into me when someone threw a pack of lube and that hit me. I turned to look and saw the CMI with some packs in his hand and he threw one more. He looked at that uncle as if to say,"don't hurt my friend".

 

Uncle took the packs and obediently I bend lower to perk up my ass for him to wet me. Then he mercilessly banged away. In spite my strong body taking all that banging, he use his hands to press my head down towards the doggy position.

 

He mounted me and banged away again. But not satisfied, he pressed my head even lower till against the floor in kneeling position. He stepped one foot onto my butt and pried my butt cheeks wide open. I knew exactly what he wanted to see so I opened and closed my hole like goldfish gasping for air. From my downside wide view, I saw CMI leaning forwards in mollified curiosity and aiming his hardon in my direction as he stroked on it. His eyes rolled up in disgust.

 

When my eyes met his disapproving eyes, he shot a big load suddenly.

Then the uncle draped his whole body over me and used his weight to flattened me to the floor. But his ample belly was on my back and obstructing his penetration.

 

He flipped me over only to see me already starting to squirt and moan in unexpected orgasm from his rough handling and not from his penetration. Still he placed my legs over his shoulders and pumped me quick and cum shortly.

 

He left and I was left in exhaustion when CMI also opened the door and left.

 

Sounds too fantastic to be true right? It is because people will not believe even when I tell them that made it seem so naughty and exciting. If my experience was I like, he like, we had sex, over...too boring for me.

 

 

what is &amp:nbsp:

so uncle fuck you while cmi watch?

so you are young muscular and handsome?

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what is &amp:nbsp:

so uncle fuck you while cmi watch?

so you are young muscular and handsome?

See I'm not the only one. This mirrors my experiences too....haa.

handsome quite subjective right? OK...how about this, submission to an older, less good looking and not as muscular top.

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This is really true!

of course la haha... handsome guy approach cmi...

 

See I'm not the only one. This mirrors my experiences too....haa.

handsome quite subjective right? OK...how about this, submission to an older, less good looking and not as muscular top.

 

how do you look like?

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Humans are very differnt. Our mind are not just driven by logic.

How do you explain to a straight person why a guy wants to get fucked in his ass by another man.

Same, it is hard for a non submissive man to understand why a muscular guy wants to be used by an ugly man.

Keep our mind open.

Let me say this sunmissive thing also happens in heterosexual. There are big man who submit to their Mistress who are ugly, small etc

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Humans are very differnt. Our mind are not just driven by logic.

How do you explain to a straight person why a guy wants to get fucked in his ass by another man.

Same, it is hard for a non submissive man to understand why a muscular guy wants to be used by an ugly man.

Keep our mind open.

Let me say this sunmissive thing also happens in heterosexual. There are big man who submit to their Mistress who are ugly, small etc

 

ugly and small mistress? are those men handsome?

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I believe that I fall in the category of submissive bottom.  It is rare that a true Dominant top needs to be told that fact.  Such a man seems to  sense my deference to him and institute his dominion over me.  Of course, that is only if it interests him to do so-frustrating to me, but in keeping with the true Dom_sub interplay.

 

When he is working his magic on me, a true Dominant male's sense of entitlement and firm strength of purpose can bend my will to his without hesitation.  Never does he say, "do you want to" to me, but rather, "do this" and says it in a calm strong voice.  The Dominant can not even entertain the possibility that I might not eagerly go along with his direction or even that there could be any hesitation. He is confident  that his edict will be fulfilled and acts accordingly.  And, of course, so do I (grin)

 

There is a certain sense of relief for me in such directness from the Dominant man.  There is no need for me to guess what he wants, he will definitely tell me or show me what is expected.  My role is merely to focus on him and comply with his directives.  A little praise is nice from time to time, but with a real Dominant top it is not to be expected that such praise will be lavish or frequent.  After all, from his point of view (and in a Dom_sub relationship that is the only one that matters) my obsequious compliance is his divine right.

 

Still the sparsity of positive feedback makes it seem all the more meaningful when it occurs.  Properly used, of course, this is one more method of control method the Dom can use when he wants to do so.

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I am a submissive bottom.  I keep myself fully shaved and I love being fucked really hard by loads of men in a row.  I love it when after a food fuck they start laughing and pointing at how wide open my tight bottom has become - laughing at my wide open hole.  I beg to have my balls squeezed and pulled and once a dom took my hard cock and bent it straight back through my legs and held it there.  It was painful but I loved it and the feeling of being abused.  I like it when I am watched and sometimes if I am allowed to cum I have to sit on a large dildo while I get pissed on, my balls strecthed and my nipples tortured.  When I bend over afterwards I love knowing they can seem my swollen balls and dick and most importantly my open wide swollen boy pussy.

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See I'm not the only one. This mirrors my experiences too....haa.

handsome quite subjective right? OK...how about this, submission to an older, less good looking and not as muscular top.

Same here, haha. I like"prawns", guys with below average look but fit muscular body. A pretty boy face don't go well with muscular bod.

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I'm a strange case of closeted submissive bottom. I have gay friends and they know me as mostly a top when visiting local saunas.

But when I'm overseas when nobody knows me, I'm a complete slut. In Bangkok cinemas I enjoyed being stripped naked and gang banged in public( safe of course with condoms prepared). Sometimes I'll even do it in the open courtyard in broad daylight with my palms on the wall and my legs spread wide.

In Seoul or Tokyo saunas, I'll sleep overnight in the brightest room totally naked and enjoy the constant attention of many men examining my body during and after being screwed again and again. Korean and Japanese men are very open about sex and don't despise those who are slutty unlike Singapore here.

In summer, I'll visit the gay parks in shorts and let men strip me naked in broad daylight. But this is usually in remote corners hidden by the bushes and shrubs. Some of them will lay down mats on the ground like spider webs. If you enter the web then you're offering to be eaten. I'll quietly lay on my stomach and he'll slowly remove my clothings one by one while others wait. I carry only condoms and lube in my shorts with the rest in the train station's locker. He'll mount me from behind and we exhibited our mating like wild animals in the bushes do spontaneously. One thing is that he's very territorial. If someone wants me after he had his fulfillment, we have to move to the next man's ground mat. Then the next ground mat. They don't allow orgy on their limited spaced ground mat. At most they'll allow others to peer right into my anus while he's exploiting me. They don't seem to mind when I get screwed from one mat to the next and they patiently wait their turn. Each one will carefully clean up my anus before proceeding to exploit it. At the end of it all, my anus was still clean but I was shiny and wet from the sweat of the heat and the fuckings received.

But I like kinky Japanese men best when they take me to the nearest love hotel because there are so much sex aids there. Because I'm so slutty they don't mind taking me out after I've already being fucked by a few men because they want more than just sex from me.

These love hotel rooms have almost wall to wall mirrors. I enjoyed watching myself being screwed in the mirrors. They even have a hand mirror to use to see around obstructed angles. They'll place it below my butt so that we can watch our cock and anus close-up mating like animals. They also have porn on large screen LCD and we act out the porn scenes. Mostly they are the light s&m of the 變態 series with fundoshi.

One time the room even has school boy uniform and school girl uniform in grown man size. It was not our fetish as we giggled when he made me wear that and he spanked me with school book. The shorts even had a hole there for easy penetration. How the hell did they know the full grown man will be the one to be penetrated? But after he had used and abused me, the soaking wet love juices we left around the hole left nothing to imagination. Unfortunately there was only a straight school girl porn to watch and we couldn't watch her pussy without feeling disgusted so we switched to gay businessmen in suits.

Some of them have body fetish when they will lick and examine every inch of my body. Then they'll enjoy watching themselves fucking me and watch the intercourse point close up then withdraw to see my gaping hole before plunging in again. The best view is usually with one leg up and the other down so that the one side of the butt cheeks do not obstruct the mirror. I have to profess that my anus is quite dark and the anus lips turned out. Still they are very interested in a masculine man who's more slutty than a whore. Being well fucked only means that I'm popular and worth fucking.

It's almost like sex was secondary to this voyeuristic, narcissist and exhibitionist show. He would have loved to do this at the sauna with men watching but the dim lighting impaired his close up views.

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Do whatever you like/want to do with him. Don't ask for his opinion or consent. You want to get your dick sucked, bent him on his knees and open your pants. Or whatever you fantasied of doing but you wouldn't do because you might think your partner might not like it or it would be weird for him. Just imagine he is an object that you are using to satisfy yourself in every way. Don't care about him getting off or liking it. He might not like it, but the feeling of being dominated and used in a real way, and not as role-play, will be overwhelming for him. And keep pushing things further and further, but not too fast, until he actually says it's too much. You will be surprised how far he can go before saying anything. And even then you can keep pushing. He will be overwhelmed. You might feel embarrassed at first, until you break the ice, but hey, what's the worst? Him thinking you are a weirdo. And so what? He either sucks it up or he can leave. No big deal, but not likely to happen. I've met many guys around 18-23 that I made submissive. They thought I was weird when I brought up handcuffs or when I wanted to blindfold them with duct tape for the first time. But I insisted and they were OK with it as they were OK with being spanked, sitting in a corner on their knees naked, cleaning my apartment, getting fucked any time I wanted to. They like to be submissive. They don't like guys who try to role-play being dominants. That's a turn off for them. Just ask yourself what do you want from a guy. Would you like to watch a movie while your guy sucks your dick kneeled on the floor? Or maybe you want him to dance naked for you before he blows you off? Or maybe you want to slap him because he complains he can't deepthroat you?

 

u understand sub btm well ^_^

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This is just so rediculous. The word "handling" sound like a chores.  If a bottom is submissive, where comes the chores?  When you said handling a submissive bottom,  it just doesn't make sense.  As a matter of fact, I find handling a submissive TOP a chores. Can you imagine a bottom just laid out and waiting for the passive TOP to act and not getting anywhere near my the hole,

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The DOM Top has to be experience to gauge and know when and how far to push.Because btm may say he is submissive but when the barrage of manhandling starts,the btm cannot take it.Will not be enjoyable.

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On Friday, March 21, 2014 at 2:41 AM, doghot said:

Any submissive slut btms had experience being fucked by their tops in front of other tops? To me its all part of the submission that the top wants to fuck me infront of other people and exhibit me like a piece of meat to be used. everyone knows that its so shameful for a big muscular man to be on his hands and knees, moaning non stop like a bitch while his top ram into his hole from the back in a nonchalant manner. I seemed to be enjoying being fucked so much doggie style like a bitch in heat but the top is just cool and slamming into me in a bochup manner. Those good tops know that i am getting high from being fucked so sometimes they purposely pull out their cock halfway, making me felt so empty. But I dont come up because i want to stay on my hands and knees so that it is convenient for the top to just shove his cock back in and make me feel good. so no choice just crawl around and present my ass to the top, begging him to come back inside. its so slutty and cheap to be fucked like this, but then it feels so good i can't help it.

Hottt!!!#

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I just want to be used up cum.in.my ass forced to do as i say.by.master ill gag his cock ride it let him do only as.he pleases it turns me on to be a little sissy bitch i don't care if im not man enough i.just want cock 

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On 19 March 2013 at 7:41 AM, Guest Chris said:

Do whatever you like/want to do with him. Don't ask for his opinion or consent. You want to get your dick sucked, bent him on his knees and open your pants. Or whatever you fantasied of doing but you wouldn't do because you might think your partner might not like it or it would be weird for him. Just imagine he is an object that you are using to satisfy yourself in every way. Don't care about him getting off or liking it. He might not like it, but the feeling of being dominated and used in a real way, and not as role-play, will be overwhelming for him. And keep pushing things further and further, but not too fast, until he actually says it's too much. You will be surprised how far he can go before saying anything. And even then you can keep pushing. He will be overwhelmed. You might feel embarrassed at first, until you break the ice, but hey, what's the worst? Him thinking you are a weirdo. And so what? He either sucks it up or he can leave. No big deal, but not likely to happen. I've met many guys around 18-23 that I made submissive. They thought I was weird when I brought up handcuffs or when I wanted to blindfold them with duct tape for the first time. But I insisted and they were OK with it as they were OK with being spanked, sitting in a corner on their knees naked, cleaning my apartment, getting fucked any time I wanted to. They like to be submissive. They don't like guys who try to role-play being dominants. That's a turn off for them. Just ask yourself what do you want from a guy. Would you like to watch a movie while your guy sucks your dick kneeled on the floor? Or maybe you want him to dance naked for you before he blows you off? Or maybe you want to slap him because he complains he can't deepthroat you?

I'm a bottom . Totally agree with this. 

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On Monday, August 10, 2015 at 11:19 PM, Guest ExperienceCounts said:

The DOM Top has to be experience to gauge and know when and how far to push.Because btm may say he is submissive but when the barrage of manhandling starts,the btm cannot take it.Will not be enjoyable.

 

Quite true. Had an encounter  where this guy says he wants  to be bondage and forced oral.

 

An hour  or so into the thing...he just gave up. Said it wasn't  as interesting  as he imagined.  Clearly he wasn't truly submissive.  Waste my time.  

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I came on this thread to see if it was any use for a friend who wants to research the dominant role with me as his submissive.

 

I'm an experienced sub and having read through the postings on here I can honestly say I'd be bored shitless with 99% of the people posting here who claim to be dominant. 

 

Seriously, go back to school and learn the difference between a rough/normal top and a dominant. Believe me, there's a world of difference and most of you are nothing more than normal tops!

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I had a sub/dom relationship with an ang moh in melborne many years back. The rules were that we could only bareback with each other and no extreme pain, only erotic humilation.

 

He had parties where i would be led around on a leash. I remember greeting guests (all in the legal scene, who knew lawyers were so kinky!) wearing nothing but a serving tray at my crotch level with my cock resting on it. In the tray would be lots of condoms and lube (though i was already pre lubed). My job was to walk around and anyone who wanted to do anything could do so, but no raw. I remember ine elderly gent used his finger and pushed it up my hole while maintaining his conversation with another guest. It was quite exciting, but my ex had a tendency to invite women as well, which is quite a turn off for me. I guess the humilation part was allowing women (especially butches) to examine my cock and butthole. 

 

Another time i was ordered to suck off his guests while they were playing poker. All cum collected on the silver tray where i was to lick it off in front of everyone. 

 

Last good memory i have of him was being ordered to wear a butt plug the whole day (no guests this time). Only allowed to stop after 12 hours. Anyone who tried it out can tell you its damn hard. After about 2 hours you loosen up and it slips out. You have to maintain concentration and clench all the way. Needless to say i failed and was punished haha.

 

Anyway those days are long gone. I guess it only works with younger guys as the sub. 

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I am a sub and find the only doms that work for me need no iinstructions from me. If I had to instruct him, it would remove the totally submissive need to do as ordered from the relationship.

Its not the only the act of being fucked or sucking that makes a sub/dom role fulfiling. You have to be willing to do things that you may not want, if not then are you trully submitting to your dom? I clean for him whilst naked, he has even had guests around to watch. He has even had me clean up after having had sex with someone else.At other times he has pimped me out. Sometimes bdsm plays a role. 

Its a myriad world of offering myself up to please him, whatever my feelings and only a natural dom is ever going to satisfy that role. 

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I feel to shy or pride to admit I am submissive and may look too manly to attract the rough manly top guys. Your stories guys excited me so! Thanks for sharing!

My wildest experience happened in Paris. Being Followed by a gangsta style man, for more than 3 hours, from shop to shop, bakery then lunch on the stairs of an old church. He was standing 10 meters away. No aggressively but with warm dark candy eyes. Such a determination! I couldn't resist and his patience broke my ice. After a few words he hold my hand to bring me to his place gently. Up in the room, he keep silent listening to my embarrassed words, talking about nothing but the point... He get my silence by opening his pant, showing off a fucking large and thick dick! He pull my head down, forced to take it and keep it until it get hard... Then I turned into an other world. Getting grapped from every where, pull down and force to let him do whatever he wanted. I never get my ass licked that way. I was screaming and yelling by the force of the sensations he provided. It was so big and deep I was pushed into my limits, just offered and totally under his control. Since that day I could not hide my deep feelings. I love to be submissive! But so hard to find such a profile again...

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I had a really weird sub experience a few weeks back where the top was a married guy along his wife (both malay eurasianish). They were looking for a way to spice up their marriage and apparently the wife thought it would be hot to see the husband fuck a guy. Not into women but erotic humilation, well i enjoy that quite a lot. 

 

Anyway, turns out they were quite experienced in this. They were... out of shape... but it was ok. Wife ordered me to masturbate on the husbands cock at the start, which confised me a bit. Took a while to cum, but i came all over his soft cock. Then i was ordered to give him a blowjob, and that was just so humilating, tasting my own cum. The wife started fucking me with her fingers while i was sucking her husband. His cock grew in my mouth, not too big, maybe 4 or 5 inches. He finished off by fucking his wife, he came in her and i was ordered to lick it clean. 

 

I felt strange. Humilated, yet strangely aroused. Dont think i would do a repeat though, vaginas just dont do it for me.

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24 minutes ago, btmslut said:

I had a really weird sub experience a few weeks back where the top was a married guy along his wife (both malay eurasianish). They were looking for a way to spice up their marriage and apparently the wife thought it would be hot to see the husband fuck a guy. Not into women but erotic humilation, well i enjoy that quite a lot. 

 

Anyway, turns out they were quite experienced in this. They were... out of shape... but it was ok. Wife ordered me to masturbate on the husbands cock at the start, which confised me a bit. Took a while to cum, but i came all over his soft cock. Then i was ordered to give him a blowjob, and that was just so humilating, tasting my own cum. The wife started fucking me with her fingers while i was sucking her husband. His cock grew in my mouth, not too big, maybe 4 or 5 inches. He finished off by fucking his wife, he came in her and i was ordered to lick it clean. 

 

I felt strange. Humilated, yet strangely aroused. Dont think i would do a repeat though, vaginas just dont do it for me.

bluerunner,
while it sounded abit humiliating actually nothing much...
Cos it s just tasting own cum and to lick it clean off her vagina later.....

but the fact is not much of men fucking men

I like the fact that btm slut didn't mind tht they were out of shape

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And the humilation was what i wanted. I love erotic humilation. You think its not humilating being bukkaked and not allowed to wash up, and having to take a taxi home? Ive done that. 

 

Some people consider bottoming humilating. 

 

The fact that they were out of shape... well most encounters are with out of shape people. Only in porn do all guys have 6 packs. Doesnt bother me, only downside is they cant thrust for long, 2 mins and theyre out of breath.

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29 minutes ago, btmslut said:

And the humilation was what i wanted. I love erotic humilation. You think its not humilating being bukkaked and not allowed to wash up, and having to take a taxi home? Ive done that. 

 

Some people consider bottoming humilating. 

 

The fact that they were out of shape... well most encounters are with out of shape people. Only in porn do all guys have 6 packs. Doesnt bother me, only downside is they cant thrust for long, 2 mins and theyre out of breath.

 

Don't be ashamed of enjoying what you like. Some people don't get that the very act of humiliation is erotic. It's pure submissiveness. Oozing sexuality. To serve and be used. There's always someone who needs to give and someone to receive right?

 

I'd gladly be in any of the positions you have subjected yourself too.

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Like many here, I have a love hate feeling for submission.

Last time there's a fb who's fit and good looking but he said he only like me for sex. He was quite abusive during sex but it's still normal. One day he said he's bored with me and stopped calling me.

Then one day I met him in the sauna. He pretended not to know me. Someone quickly got him into room. I was so jealous. I listened to him fucking inside. The bottom cannot last more than 5 minutes and the door opened. I know he told me before that he'll finish the bottoms quickly so that he can fuck more men later.

 

He saw me standing there and ignored me. I know he wants me to beg him for sex. I refused because of my pride. I let someone molested me for him to see. Then we met at the dark room, even from the shadows we can recognize each other. I touched his cock and put his hand to my ass. He fingered me a bit then laughed and rejected me.

 

When I saw him at the tv room, someone was sucking him. He closed his eyes and rejected that sucker who wanted him to go to the room. His cock was right near my face if only I'll bend down to suck it. I was tempted but there were people watching.

 

It's not that I'm shy but I know he wanted to humiliated me in public. I don't mind it actually but somehow when he showed me that he despise me look, I gave up.

 

But after that when I got home, I began to regret. One moment I thought it's hot, next moment I thought it's not hot because he despise me. Maybe because I value his opinion of me.

 

In fact I actually did submissive sex with a taxi driver in Bangkok and he even pimped me out to 3 of his friends. They'll play cards in the hall while queuing up one by one while I'm in the room serving them one by one like a Bangkok brothel complete with red lamp, a pail of water with wash cloth for the customer to wipe my ass clean, a big box of condoms, a big bottle of lube.

 

Even in a brothel, men like to tease a bit before sex. The taxi driver gave me 2 big very thin silk translucent scarfs to cover my top and bottom so that I look sexy and mysterious otherwise my muscular, manly body was too scary at first. The customer will touch and sensuously slowly unwrap the scarfs before fucking me.  It was weird to see their puzzled expressions to realise that I'm a manly guy. One of them disliked my manly face and used the scarfs to cover my face before fucking me.

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On 1/3/2010 at 11:19 PM, Guest PT said:

Over the Christmas holiday, I met up with this guy I was chatting with online. He told me he was a bottom and submissive. He was comfortable and requested that I go over to his house to have some fun.

I do not consider myself an Aggressive or Dominant guy. I fxxk and Make Love missionary and doggy style. Somemore it was at His house. I dressed in a normal Polo/Jeans and was at his door. He looked better in person than his MSN pics. Some eye bags. On the whole man and gym.

I did some of the tricks I see in pxxn like butt slap, Hokkien bad-word scolding and some rough fxxk.

Like some ideas from experienced BWers on how you guys deal with a submissive bottom Man.

 

On 1/4/2010 at 9:03 AM, Stoner79 said:

The trick is to be

1) pro-actively place him in various position. and observe which are the positions that bores him. do not let him have the chance to even think that he need to tell u to change position.

2) talk / moan in a more manly manner than he is.

3) strengthen your grip. eg, missionary position...strengthen your grip when you are holding his ankle / knee. they prefered to be man-handled.

4) don't hold back. let your imagination run wild.

in short, having dominating sex... is not fully about brute force and slapping of butt. its more of knowing what you can do, and carrying it out confidently.

But then there are many type of submissive btms out there. know which type your man belongs to and act accordingly.

some likes to feel as if they are being raped

some likes you telling them what to do

some likes to be treated like dirt

some into sm....

Hi everyone, I'm very curious about being with another guy. I would also be very submissive! Would love to hea r any advise you would have. Thanks.

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Actually suprisingly, one of the most humiliating things ive done was get fucked on the top floor of shogun. In the tent. There was such a huge crowd.and i was sucking so many cocks but only fucked by 2 tops. I lost count of the number of cocks i had. The humilating part was when i begged them to cum on my face/chest. When i was done, though i knew there was a shower on the top floor, i left my towel there, went down all the way to the first with cum all over me, and asked for a towel on the first floor recep. One of the few times i was rock hard.

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On 09/29/2016 at 4:08 PM, Guest Btmm said:

Like many here, I have a love hate feeling for submission.

Last time there's a fb who's fit and good looking but he said he only like me for sex. He was quite abusive during sex but it's still normal. One day he said he's bored with me and stopped calling me.

Then one day I met him in the sauna. He pretended not to know me. Someone quickly got him into room. I was so jealous. I listened to him fucking inside. The bottom cannot last more than 5 minutes and the door opened. I know he told me before that he'll finish the bottoms quickly so that he can fuck more men later.

 

He saw me standing there and ignored me. I know he wants me to beg him for sex. I refused because of my pride. I let someone molested me for him to see. Then we met at the dark room, even from the shadows we can recognize each other. I touched his cock and put his hand to my ass. He fingered me a bit then laughed and rejected me.

 

When I saw him at the tv room, someone was sucking him. He closed his eyes and rejected that sucker who wanted him to go to the room. His cock was right near my face if only I'll bend down to suck it. I was tempted but there were people watching.

 

It's not that I'm shy but I know he wanted to humiliated me in public. I don't mind it actually but somehow when he showed me that he despise me look, I gave up.

 

But after that when I got home, I began to regret. One moment I thought it's hot, next moment I thought it's not hot because he despise me. Maybe because I value his opinion of me.

 

In fact I actually did submissive sex with a taxi driver in Bangkok and he even pimped me out to 3 of his friends. They'll play cards in the hall while queuing up one by one while I'm in the room serving them one by one like a Bangkok brothel complete with red lamp, a pail of water with wash cloth for the customer to wipe my ass clean, a big box of condoms, a big bottle of lube.

 

Even in a brothel, men like to tease a bit before sex. The taxi driver gave me 2 big very thin silk translucent scarfs to cover my top and bottom so that I look sexy and mysterious otherwise my muscular, manly body was too scary at first. The customer will touch and sensuously slowly unwrap the scarfs before fucking me.  It was weird to see their puzzled expressions to realise that I'm a manly guy. One of them disliked my manly face and used the scarfs to cover my face before fucking me.

Actually I prefer to be submissive to strangers and must be unplanned. I love to be submissive but hate to be despised if with someone who know me.

 

This happened when I was going to Babylon and got stuck in traffic by one of those demonstrations. The taxi driver was cursing and swearing, he suggested I go shopping centre nearby instead. I laughed and said no, maybe traffic can get better. He told me it's getting worse now got police blocking the roads also.

 

Then he realised why I wanted to go to Babylon. He started teasing me about gay sex. The whole place so many men, we gays really enjoyed sex with hundreds of men. He asked me how many men I have sex with one night? I boasted that sometimes more than 5, sometimes 0. He asked me if I'm king or queen? I told him I'm queen. He looked surprised and turned around to look at me as I was sitting in the back seats.

 

He said he got a friend doing massage and good sex. I told him I'm don't like to pay for massage, go Babylon got free sex. He said tonight no more business he would be better to go home and sleep. I asked him where he stayed just for conversation. He said you want to come to my home? Suddenly the small talks became flirting because of his limited English.

 

I said yes if he want me to. He said directly yes he want to fuck me. He's plump and not my type. I asked he not gay why he want? He said because I'm queen and he is king is good to fuck me. Then his phone ranged and he said it's his friends calling telling him the traffic jam will not end and they have drinking and play cards instead.

 

With the chance, he turn into a small lane to escape the jam and u-turn, I protested and asked him where he's going. He ignored me and drove across the river to a riverside village that I don't know where. When he reached there and we got out of the taxi, I knew why when he slapped my butts. The hut had only one light bulb and a small bedroom.

He pushed me into the hut and I was both excited and terrified. He enjoyed using force to strip my clothes and pushing me to the floor. I surrendered and before he "raped" me, I took out condoms and lube from my small manbag to give to him. He knew what to do and lubed me up, use condom before mounting me from behind. He got a nice hard cock that pierced through me like a knife and I screamed in pain. He didn't stop but grunted like an animal to carry on fucking me.

 

As expected in Bangkok, he's very experienced in sex and made me do a few positions. Right on the side table was photo of him, his wife and 3 children. By then I was in the mood and started to enjoy his experiences. I don't quite understand what's he talking dirty about when fucking me just some words queen and fuck.

 

The hut door was slightly open and I saw someone looking in. They were talking but the man outside seemed to refused to come in. They seemed to be quarreling about him fucking a man so openly without shame. They then stopped talking so that he concentrated on getting his sex over. It was quick and he collapsed over me.

 

I quickly pushed him away and put on my clothes to leave. Then when the door open, the man outside was a muscular handsome fair Thai, so my type. I was surprised and shyly waited. While they talked, 2 more men came with beers and food. They talked like fish market and then he stripped me and pimped me out to them. I don't know what they were laughing and talking about.

 

He led me to the bedroom and gave me my clothes and man bag. He put a red scarf on the lamp and gave me the other 2 scarfs to cover my top and bottom. Then he pointed to the bed and let me lay down. I obediently obeyed.

 

The first to come in was a slim uncle. They all can speak some English. He put on the condom on my side and sensually removed the scarfs before putting my legs on his shoulders and penetrated me. No question that they are all experienced fuckers. I made them all cum quickly but held my cum for that handsome uncle. He was the last one and was even pushed into the room by them.

 

He used one scarf to cover my face before removing the one below. He used the wash cloth to wipe me clean before touching me. I'm not surprised that he's finding me repulsive. I'm not disappointed either since these things happen. I watched as he stripped and put on the condom. He was shy that I was staring at him. When he tried to turn me over, I slipped my butts over the beside offering my hole for easy access. He used the cloth to wipe me again before pushing in. I don't do my usual push back that's too slutty may scare him.

 

When he penetrated, I can feel his butts on mine. He press his hands on my back and started to fuck me. I tightened my ass to grip him and he liked it very much. Once his cock is stimulated, he cannot help but wanted to fuck harder. I pushed up from the bed to let him hug me from behind. His sexual instincts was to play with my tits as he fucked me.

 

When we changed position to missionary, I tied the scarf back on my face, leaving my eyes only. As the scarf also covered my tits, he pushed it up to play with my tits. I can't help but threw back my head in ecstasy when he fucked me harder and harder. Our eyes met and he looked away.

 

We changed a few positions and when I felt that he was getting close, I quickly switched to missionary and hanged my legs on his muscular shoulders. I squeezed his hard pecs as he squeezed mine. With a loud grunt, I began to self ejaculate. I could not help but squeezed his cock with my clenching ass and made him cum with me with a louder grunt that got those outside all laughing and wolf whistling.

 

After serving 4 men, I was exhausted and collapsed in the bed. He went out and brought me food and beer. After I rested, the taxi driver drive me to the nearest mrt station.

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20 hours ago, btmslut said:

Actually suprisingly, one of the most humiliating things ive done was get fucked on the top floor of shogun. In the tent. There was such a huge crowd.and i was sucking so many cocks but only fucked by 2 tops. I lost count of the number of cocks i had. The humilating part was when i begged them to cum on my face/chest. When i was done, though i knew there was a shower on the top floor, i left my towel there, went down all the way to the first with cum all over me, and asked for a towel on the first floor recep. One of the few times i was rock hard.

So how the recep react?he saw yr cum covered face n body.shiokkkl boy

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I went through several encounters over the years before finding my current partner with whom I'm now exclusive. I always carefully and articulately explained that I was a complete, 100% total submissive bottom and that I neither needed nor desired reciprocation. As the bottom it was all about pleasing the top and his desire to use me to that end. Every time I'd get with someone they'd agree and claim to be a total top, but invariably they either didn't understand what to do with a total submissive bottom, or they were versatile and didn't understand what that meant (or they just didn't care). "What do you mean you don't want any reciprocation?" they'd often ask. "What do you mean you don't want to cum? I  don't get it," I'd heard several times. No, they didn't get it; not my role as the complete submissive bottom nor theirs as the dominant top whose sexual pleasure and fulfillment was all that mattered to me.

When I first met my current partner online we spent a lot of time exchanging emails in which we described in great detail what we were each looking for. When I explained that I desired a confident, assertive top who wanted a total bottom to use for his pleasure, he explained that this is what he desired as well. When I told him that I craved erotic verbal humiliation and degradation but without the physical and often disgusting abuse that accompanied BDSM, he then began to described me perfectly as if he knew me. He told me that deep inside I really wanted to be a submissive sissy bitch and as a dominant top he would give me what I craved, and that any pleasure that I derived would have to come from serving his needs.

When we got together for the first time, we stripped off our clothes and he said immediately ,

"Get on your knees, cocksucker,"  as he put his hands on my shoulders and forced me to my knees.

I sucked his cock, taking it full length down my throat as he pulled down on my head.

"Put your hands behind your back, cocksucker. Use your pussy mouth, your tongue, and your lips only," he growled.

He verbally abused and degraded me as I sucked his cock, calling me names like, cocksucker, whore, slut, and faggot. When he was about to cum he grabbed my head, held it and said,

"Look into my eyes when I cum in your mouth, bitch." And then when his cock finished pulsing and spewing in my mouth he said,

"Open your mouth so I can see my cum." I opened my mouth and swirled his cum around with my tongue as I savored the flavor.

"Now Swallow it you sissy-bitch...swallow it all cum slut." I obediently swallowed as the last rivulets of his cum load oozed from his spent cock.

We had all that morning to explore and indulge our desires, so after I had swallowed the last drop of his cum he collapsed in a nearby chair.

"Get over here and wrap your pussy lips around my cock, sissy," he commanded gruffly. "Keep it in your mouth until it gets soft". 

I knelt there between his legs with his cock in my mouth as he fell into a deep sleep. A warm glow suddenly came over me: how exquisitely humiliating this is...

He awoke an hour later and looked down at me on my knees with his now flaccid cock still in my mouth. A lewd smile appeared on his lips as he said,

"Now suck it hard again, bitch." His cock was already growing in my mouth before I even started sucking. Within  a couple of minutes his cock was rock hard again.

"Get on your elbows and knees on the floor, slut," he ordered sternly.

He positioned himself behind me and with his hands on my inner thighs he spread my legs apart. He grabbed my ass cheeks in both hands and spread them roughly. The next sensation I felt was his warm, wet tongue as he rimmed me and darted his tongue in and out of my puckered asshole. For a good twenty minutes he did this before inserting a lubricated finger into my hole and sliding it in and out of me. One finger became two, and soon three as he continued reaming my hole. As he slid his fingers in and out he spread them apart, stretching my rosebud wide. Without missing a stroke he slipped his arm under my torso until his hand gripped my shoulder. He pulled me off my elbows and back towards him and said wickedly in my ear,

"I'm gonna sodomize you and take your manhood from you, bitch. I'm gonna breed you and inseminate your cunt with my sperm. I'm gonna feminize you and turn you into the faggot you so desperately desire to be. You're gonna be my little sissy bitch faggot."

The words had barely passed his lips when I felt the swollen rubbery head of his cock pressing against my cunt and without pause it entered me.I sucked in a breathe at the suddenness of the intrusion and then groaned as he forced his cock balls deep into my sissy cunt. He slid his cock in and out of me full length in a slow, steady rhythm. It was a wonderfully stuffed feeling to have his cock in my cunt, filling the void like it belonged there...and indeed it did. As he increased the tempo he began to verbally abuse and belittle me again.

"Your little cock and balls are no longer of any use to you as a real man uses them. They're just useless ornaments dangling between your legs now; withered reminders of your manhood that's been taken from you. Your a sissy bitch faggot now good only for sucking men's cock and swallowing their cum and being mounted, sodomized, inseminated and bred like a woman."

My head was spinning as his erotic and demeaning verbal abuse and the euphoric sensations in my cunt conspired to send waves of excruciating pleasure through my mind and my loins. I had never felt anything like it before.

For what seemed like a blissful eternity he fucked me until his breath finally quickened and he drove his cock deeper and more forcefully into my cunt. With a loud groan he exclaimed,

"I'm cumming! I'm cumming inside you sissy bitch faggot!" And with that his body tensed up and he unloaded his cum inside me.

I had never let a man cum inside me before so until that moment I had never known the meaning of "jizzjoy". I swore I could feel his cum filling my loins as his cock twitched, pulsed and spewed. It was the ultimate expression of submission and servitude imaginable to be inseminated with his seed; to be made his at the most intimate level possible.

He collapsed on top of me gasping for breath, his heart racing. I lay there beneath him, pinned to the floor and impaled by his hard cock. After several minutes he withdrew from me and sat on the floor, his back against the nearby couch. I raised my ass up off the floor and waited. As he watched his cum began oozing from my cunt and soon flowed in a creampied flood. 

"You're now my sissy bitch faggot. Get used to it cunt!" he exhaled breathlessly.

I just laid there wallowing in fulfillment, my greatest fantasy realized; a smile of contentment on my face.

 

This was just the first time and my recounting of that day is somewhat abbreviated for the sake of time and space. There was even more to the story than what you see above. This is the ultimate expression of what being a total submissive bottom is to me.

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Sometimes I can suddenly be hit by this adrenaline high that vanilla sex cannot satisfy me. I felt like a bitch in heat and really hoped that someone can smell my sexual pheromones. 

That's when those decent nice tops who asked nicely immediately get rejected by me. I don't feel stimulated. The moment they ask, my horniness cooled. 

Don't ask, just seize if you're thick skinned and dominant. 

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