Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 42/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies with me.

 

DIslike:
X People that like's to Dominate others
X No Fun
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for: 

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim/Skinny/Average Flex/Versatile/Btm

Fem Boy/Sissy/Crossdresser & Ladyboy for LTR

42yrs old and Below 

Edited May 18, 2021 by Flexiguy

[kdran]

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Edited February 5, 2022 by kdran

[ryumonsg]

I hope to look for friends that enlarge my circle of friends. Hopefully I can look for the one that comes into my life. These past few weeks, my longing to settle down again in a monogamous relationship has been getting more craving than usual.  Looking for someone who take initiative to chat about anything and conversation sensible.  

 

I am 38 173 68 Chinese, Interest:  TV series, Jog, swim, food, cook, travel (looking for new places and experience) and nature parks. I am also financial stable seeking a stable life with someone for a long time and still finding after numerous failure but no regrets. With WFH more time TV-ing and the BL shows really sums up well in terms of identity, pursuing monogamous and growing all together. I know in real world there are many factors and parameters staying together but the heart of never give up should stay if not hurting the other party.  

 

I am not the kind who rushes into a relationship. I had rather enjoy the getting-to-know, growing comfy in each other, figuring things out together, and when the time is suitable, only then we will discuss about being with each other as a monogamous couple. I prefer a guy like that as well. 

 

If we can be friends, you may send me message. Prefer non chub and between 26-50 and Chinese. Cheers! 

 

What turn me on:

 

Communication

Sense of togetherness

Willingness to grow

Good heart

[Boiboi2001]

I'm 20 this year , chn , 177 75 

 

Foodie and enjoys eating Japanese food hehe 

 

Easy going 😁

Caring and understanding,  seeking for LTR. For serious people only , do hit me up  dms are open 

[Blaster123]

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Edited May 20, 2021 by Blaster123

[tanwla]

On 5/2/2021 at 10:22 AM, onlylonely said:

Looking for a bf × partner × soul mate, and grow old together.

 

About the bachelor:
Age: 34

Race: Local Chinese

Stats, 1.71m, 67kg

Appearance: Slightly above average 

Hobbies: Gym, youtube, shop, sleep, work

Body type: Average with a tummy 😕

Role: More top but willing to btm for my partner 

Desired partner: 
Age: 28 to 37
Appearance: pleasant to each other 

Character: No attitude, good vibes, straight acting

Preference: Chinese

Body type: Lean. Most importantly healthy 

Role: Flex, Flex Btm or Btm

 

prefer someone who is emotionally independent as i dont need to meet daily but once or twice a week type staying over on weekends. Text daily and responsive when free/available. 

 

Pm me your Telegram username if keen

Hi im 31 yr old. 170cm 50kg chn. Slim lean and straight acting can add me on telegram @algint if keen

[Hibari_0911]

 

Trying my luck here.

 

36 top 163 75

likes anime and action movies

plays bowling and badminton

stays Sengkang

 

looking for someone to get to know and hopefully a LTR.

[kidster]

Mission: 

Hope to find my boy and grow old together.

 

Vision:

Buy a house and stay together. Play catching around the house naked and blindfolded 

 

Me:
Age: Late 20s

Race: Local Chinese

Stats: 177cm, 65kg

Appearance: Slightly above average I think.

Hobbies: Swim, gym, run, sleep, work

Body type: Lean and toned. Not the hunky type. 

Role: Pure top but willing to btm for my boy whenever he wants.

My other half: 
Age: 28 and below
Appearance: Cute to me can already. My friends always say my exs are ugly but I think they are cute.

Character: No attitude, must be straight acting

Preference: Chinese from Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Indonesia. 

Body type: Lean will be great, baby fats is fine too but not adult fats. LOL

Role: Non pure top

Location: Residing in Singapore. I'm not into long distance relationship.

 

Above is my personal preferences. Don't judge.

 

Pm me your Telegram username. If you're so reluctant in exchanging pic, please don't message me. #LifeIsShort Don't waste your time and mine. Thanks.

[Yyq90]

2 hours ago, kidster said:

Mission: 

Hope to find my boy and grow old together.

 

Vision:

Buy a house and stay together. Play catching around the house naked and blindfolded 

 

Me:
Age: Late 20s

Race: Local Chinese

Stats: 177cm, 65kg

Appearance: Slightly above average I think.

Hobbies: Swim, gym, run, sleep, work

Body type: Lean and toned. Not the hunky type. 

Role: Pure top but willing to btm for my boy whenever he wants.

My other half: 
Age: 28 and below
Appearance: Cute to me can already. My friends always say my exs are ugly but I think they are cute.

Character: No attitude, must be straight acting

Preference: Chinese from Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Indonesia. 

Body type: Lean will be great, baby fats is fine too but not adult fats. LOL

Role: Non pure top

Location: Residing in Singapore. I'm not into long distance relationship.

 

Above is my personal preferences. Don't judge.

 

Pm me your Telegram username. If you're so reluctant in exchanging pic, please don't message me. #LifeIsShort Don't waste your time and mine. Thanks.

Your inbox is full. 

[tanwla]

Hello, 31 yr old, 170cm tall and 50kg heavy. Local chn here. Looking for ltr. DP is me. Do add me on telegram @algint or message me if you keen.  

[Rumint]

 In search of something long-term, I figured it'll do no harm to post here. I'm turning 30 this year and most things in my life I'm contented and thankful for; albeit terrible experiences when it comes to dating.

 

I don't have any specifics when it comes to dating, but know that I'm pure bottom. 😅
I think sexy is a man who's driven in life with ambition or passion.

Brownie points if you're into plants, travelling or pursues a creative hobby. ✌️

 

To be loved for who we are is often complicated, but to find the right person is to be understood and loved for everything we do.

Edited May 23, 2021 by Rumint

[Hibari_0911]

Trying my luck here.

 

36 top 163 75

likes anime and action movies

plays bowling and badminton

stays Sengkang

 

looking for someone to get to know and hopefully a LTR.

[yoyQ]

181 89kg , 41chi. seek top buddy

[tick89]

Trying my luck here.
31 174 102 chinese, looking for chaser ard my age.

[zzzzzzzz]

Just trying my luck,

 

34 this year 179 67, love yoga, gym, swim. Travel 2-3 times a year pre covid. Financially stable. Guy next door? Decent looking.

[Eclectic33]

Just gonna try as well 

 

26/174/58 Chinese

Just a boy next door who mostly enjoys chilling and nua-ing.

Once in a while like to do something new, explore new places, etc

Enjoys the once in a while good food 

Would love to take care of others as well as be taken care off. 

Lean fit and tries to be fitter 

boyish & masculine

 

Looking for someone

Preferable age range 24 ~ 30

cheerful and sweet guy

exercises so we can exercise tgt

nice and hopefully leanfit as well

x feminine (just a preference)

 

just pm me Mr.Right  Thanks!

Edited May 28, 2021 by Eclectic33

[ivan91navi]

On 5/16/2021 at 8:16 AM, Enforcer said:

33/175/65 local chn looking for LTR or friends 🙂

What do you enforce? 😄

[yuquidam]

1 hour ago, MNH said:

Trying my luck for the idk how many times. 26 malay. Nice guy. Inbox me. Any race also can la hahahahaha

 

tele: @whatsappbetterla

 

wah damn im 26 just realised that like old olddddd 😭

Bro, you're still very fresh and young. And seem a very nice guy.

Except here MOST are not into LTR? Why not just look for friends to chill first? Who knows from there you'll get a group of nice friends plus a bf?

[yuquidam]

4 hours ago, MNH said:

I somewhat agree la, cant be 1 hours straight away in a relationship. But once i kinda befriends with one and friendzonr someone its hard to like them hahahahahahaha

Why so liddat ar? LOL 

[echoss63]

Trying my luck here too. 

 

I am Chinese. 58 years old. Looking for friends who like to gym and swim. Hopefully can get to know friends who are in theirs 59s or late 49s. Cheers.

[Exynos]

you can find my stats in my profile. I can host and I have my own life. Looking for the one to further enrich my life and hopefully I can bring something wonderful to the table for you too.

 

I'm looking for someone who is physically:

 

-preferably younger than me (29)

-bottom

-clean, fresh look (not sure what this means tbh but it's a vibe i guess)

-be who you are, as you are at all times except the bedroom where the boy will take on the role of a wife and be happy to be bred while blissful in love

-I have anything but a hot body so I'm not gonna judge bodies but normally a slimmer person is easier to do different positions with and being shorter than me makes me feel better

-It's 2021 so can't be bothered what race or religion or what gender you are but sometimes a difference in culture may bring about more fundamental differences than one can simply attribute to being 'racist'. Guess we will find out along the way.

 

Mentally/personality-wise:

 

-Not here to judge and critique how you should be so...

-Have basic morals and manners

-You may be younger but you're not useless so I shouldn't be seeing lofty ambitions or a desire to bum around and achieve nothing

-Strong and independent because we are not going to be together every day 24/7 and I can be literally absorbed in work and not notice/reply to anything else until night time

-Be really okay with simple happiness. I know it's tempting and exciting when your life is full of drama and quarrels but got enough of that at work so something simple and something that everybody else has should be a great blissing

 

Next steps:

 

Feel free to drop me a PM. I check the forum compulsively in case anybody wants to connect with me.

[tyerin]

 

35 chn, 185 72. Local Chinese, fit, educated, decent, down to earth. Stable career, looking for a mate to complete the equation.

Line: tyerin85

Preferences

1) >1.75m (well, i'm tall)

2) Non-chub

3) Between 25-40 (i'm also ok if you look between those ages, lol)

4) Not a pure btm (just a preference)

5) decent (so ppl who are seeking "open" are a big no-no for me, i don't believe conflating "random fun" and "LTR" in the same category

Cheers!! 

[grocksdlostboy]

Hello! 
 

Happy Sunday! Going to try here because my Buddy Hunt post is overused. You can read it in my profile for more details. 
 

Andrew, 27, 170, 72, Chn mix Ind. Pure bottom. I’m still looking for a right balance. I’m not looking for a relationship but a friendship for now. 
 

I’m weird because I don’t get super attracted to pure gay guys as I do with - st8 curious, bi or married guys. But the great irony is these category of guys often just want a fuck and dump strategy. Ain’t a home wrecker but I would love to be friends with guys like these and the sex is just an add on benefit. 
 

I honestly like guys who are dominant but affectionate, appreciate pussy as much as they appreciate an asshole, big brain & big dick energy is super wanted . I honestly like banter, wit, sexy chat and intellectual conversations. I personally feel sex with a stranger is much less hot compared to sex with a friend or someone you actually know.  Good sex is explosive, fun, awkward but real and yums. 
 

Very open to chatting with anyone. Super open to making more guys bi lol and well the whole deal of friendships and sex. I’m discreet but willing to be know if you let me know you. Don’t want fake guys and guys who disappear after getting to know each other. Pls I can’t deal with ghosting so just note that. 
 

You can reach me WeChat & Line - grocksd or Instagram - los_tboy101 

Just message me and we can chat. 
 

Looking forward to some good chats. Pls don’t shy away from messaging me! 
 

Cheers, Andrew

[tanwla]

On 5/23/2021 at 1:21 PM, tanwla said:

Hello, 31 yr old, 170cm tall and 50kg heavy. Local chn here. Looking for ltr. DP is me. Do add me on telegram @algint or message me if you keen.  

Bump

[zenas]

Age 38 

Stats 163.  70

Chinese

Looking for someone who is able to communicate, caring, clingy sometimes. (Understanding that each of us need a space for breather)

 

Loves: To play Mahjong

            Ice Skating

            Do housework

            Thai BL Movie

 

 

 

[jx2freak]

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Edited October 26, 2021 by jx2freak
Existential crisis

[ShadowBlade]

Age: 29

Race: Chinese

Height 171 cm

Weight: 57 kg

Role: not into anal, but into edging, cuddling, oral and light bdsm

Interests: gaming (genshin, honkai), anime, singing, katanas

Sports: gymnastics, calisthenics, martial arts

 

Preferences:

Someone as similar to me as possible, i'd date my own clone.

 

PM here or on instagram (shadowconscience)

[Phasemaster]

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Edited July 7, 2022 by Phasemaster

[Derren]

About Me

 

Age: Late 40s

Stats: 1.74 m, 72 kg

Race: Chinese

Hobbies include: Gym, sport, hiking, classical music, Ktv.

Role: Btm

 

Hope to find someone sincere to share life with. Open to picking up new interests. 

Chat me up!

 

 

[tanwla]

8 hours ago, Phasemaster said:

 

Me: 
Age: 30

Race: Chinese

Stats: 171cm, 65kg

Appearance: Boyish (not I say one)

Hobbies: game, gym, run, sleep, work, plant

Body type: Lean and toned. 

Role: Vers Btm

My partner tobe: 
Age: 28-40
Appearance: nvm

Character: straight acting

Preference: Chinese from SGMY 

Body type: not too fat please

Role: Vers Top

Hi I don’t know if I qualify, but just wanted to say hi and wish you good luck. Cheers!

[tanwla]

14 hours ago, ShadowBlade said:

Age: 29

Race: Chinese

Height 171 cm

Weight: 57 kg

Role: not into anal, but into edging, cuddling, oral and light bdsm

Interests: gaming (genshin, honkai), anime, singing, katanas

Sports: gymnastics, calisthenics, martial arts

 

Preferences:

Someone as similar to me as possible, i'd date my own clone.

 

PM here or on instagram (shadowconscience)

Hi not sure if I’m your type, but just wanted to say hi and good luck. Cheers!

[Yishun75x]

Anyone interested in joining a Men4Men Singles Social telegram group can PM me. It is a SFW group.

[Dinostry]

Me: 
Age: 28

Race: Malay

Stats: 173cm, 80kg

Appearance: Ruggered

Hobbies: Gym, Racquet Sport, Travelling, Cooking

Body type: Bear-ish? 

Role: Vers Top

My partner tobe: 
Age: 20-40
Appearance: nvm

Character: straight acting

Preference: Chinese from SGMY 

Body type: Smaller than me

Role: No Preference

[Sweetbum]

Opened to meeting up in person

 

32c/160/65

btm

looking for someone who is motivated with his life, career & profession. Enjoys time together, not overly closeted and will want to commit to a monogamous relationship.

 

[swim87]

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Edited June 19, 2021 by swim87

[LostSheep]

30, 177, 62. Local Chinese. Decent and nerdy guy. Stable career in banking industry. Gym once/twice a week along with running (substitute with home workouts now) =(

 

What I look for in a partner:

- Fit, mature and dependable

- 30 year old and above

- prefer someone who is bigger built than me (don't have to taller =p)

 

Hope to find someone who enjoys spending quality time at home. From milestones like travelling to new places to little things like groceries shopping, cooking or taking a stroll nearby our home.

 

Please drop me a PM if you are interested. Thanks =D

[sxxx33]

On 5/18/2021 at 2:30 PM, kdran said:

hey! just thought i'll give this a try haha. looking for something long term and stable  

 

26/174/65 chinese

flex b

slim lean (i tryyyy to clock in as much work out as i can to maintain at least a slim physique heh)

stable financially, actually life in general haha

boyish looking and boyish acting, def not the masculine alpha male type

likes staying in (i am a homebody!) but enjoys going out on walks, brunch, doing relaxing/calming things in general

 

hopefully would like to settle down with someone who is:

mid-30s and below

someone masculine (taller would be a added bonus tbh hahaha sorry if this sounds superficial) 

stable career and finances

someone easy going and chill

 

pm me to chat!

 

Can’t pm u. 

[skybabylister]

Hi guys

My intro: 

32/170/86

local average chinese 

 

I may not be a perfect in real life but hoping i sincere and kind to all the friends.

 

Preference:

1. Chinese preferred

2. <40 years old

3. top / flex

 

Looking for a long term relationship or gym buddy.

 

Wad i like:

- Sing

- movies

- jogging and swimming plus gym 

- Window shopping

- Watch yotube videos

- sleeping and cuddling

 

*Friends are welcome as well....

 

Thanks! Add my telegram skybaby

[Sky18]

21 175 65 chn

hi everybody just trying my luck here. I am looking for friends/ ltr.

What I like- swimming, shopping,cuddling 

average looking

Preference 

26<
chinese preferred 
 

[Rumint]

let's do this a little differently...

[zzzzzzzz]

33 local Chinese 179 66kg, swim, gym, yoga, travel, cooking, boyish look, financially independent.

 

Looking for someone between 30-38, decent looking, for companionship and more.

[DT1992]

29 170 75 chn

Hello guys, I am trying my luck here. I am looking for friends/ ltr.

What I like- shopping, cuddling, kissing

Average looking

Preference - Btm/Flex, 27<
Chinese preferred 

Text me if keen

[will7z]

Feel lucky to meet someone special here.

 

I am 34/173/63 flex bottom, ordinary north Asian look, working professional.

Hobbies are reading, movie, music, and exercises.

Enjoy both travelling and simply relaxing at home.

 

Looking for someone to share the life journey and can grow together with identified vision.

 

Ideally you are 30-40 yo, around 180 ht and 67-79 wt.

Single and available. Mentally mature and not dependent on your parents.

All races are welcome.

 

Gay only, no bi, no trouple or more, no open relationship.

 

No smoking. Social drinking only. No computer/mobile games addicted.

Moderate Netflix is fine.

 

Thanks for reading here. PM me if click!

 

PS: please don’t ask me if I am local or not because I don’t know how to answer.

Edited June 8, 2021 by will7z

[tanwla]

On 6/2/2021 at 7:58 PM, swim87 said:

Me: 

INFJ
Age: 33 going 34

Race: Local Chinese (am a Non-drinker and non-smoker)

Stats: 170cm, 65kg

Hobbies: Gym, avid swimmer, tennis, reading,

Body type: Lean fit

Personally am not into casual fun

 

Prefer knowing people closer to my age group and also into fitness activities and health conscious. Friends will always be a nicer start than simply plunging into a relationship. 

Hi keen to get to know you. Would you like to chat? Hehe

[bananaboat]

Hi im 35 chn local. Nothing fantastic in looks or bod. 

Hoping to find a partner that loves me and i love him and be there for each other.

 

It is hard to describe who i like as there are many factors that make a person attractive. 

 

Hoping to find someone that is willing to communicate, discuss and make things work and try to understand each other and accept each other's flaws and grow together. Pls be in SG or have intention to be here in SG for the rest of your life.

 

My current interests are: animals (they give unconditional love and attention to me), netflix, games, movies, photography, shopping and movies.

 

Pm me and we can chat further or also meet up and see how it goes. Never know what will happen - if not a match, can connect and be good friends too.

[kkennyy]

34 local Chinese 170 69kg boyish look, financially independent,love cycling, gym, running, hiking and singing.

 

Looking for companionship and more if click.

[Dreamz80]

Hello all. Just trying my luck here. 

40 chn top. 167/60. Currently staying alone. Likes to jog, swim, watching TV, ktv and cooking. PM me if u keen to know me better. Chinese preferred. 

[Relationship]

Hi there,

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 34 

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[tanwla]

Hi hi! I’m 31 yrs old. 170cm 50kg. Still in the search for a long term relationship. If anyone keen can hit me up on telegram @algint or message me here. Cheers!

[GWTW]

Hello all,

 

looking for friends (around 30 to 40-ish) and see how it goes.

 

38 chin local 168 60.

 

average looking and trying to gain just abit more mass (target at around 63kg)

 

I like to do abit of gym, swim and jog. Loves a good horror show (like the conjuring and etc), travelling and hiking (just that no one to jio.)

 

also into console gaming (particularly JRPGs).

 

DM me if interested.

Edited June 13, 2021 by GWTW