Help! I Cum Too Fast! + Premature Ejaculation & Treatments Discussion (Compiled)

[Guest KY]

Guys with premature ejaculation be like:

"Owww!! Stop squeezing my nipples! I'm getting so aroused! And it's giving me a freaking hard on!"

"Yeah, I can see that you're getting hard down there, haha."

After about ten seconds, the young wrestler ejaculates uncontrollably...

"Woah, bro! How come your trunks are still dry? I just made you cum, didn't I?"

"Yeah, you did. I can't control my cum when people touch my erogenous zones. Which is why I always wear a condom before any wrestling match, so I don't ruin my trunks. Smart, eh?

"Then let me cure your leaky cock by permanently shutting down your cum factory with my boot! Hahaha!"

"NO!! Please!!! Don't do this to my cock!! It hurts!!! I want to have kids with my wife next time!! Get your foot off my cock!!"

"I hope you know a good adoption agency, bro. Hahaha!"

[Guest Quickie]

On 12/25/2015 at 0:09 AM, Guest guest said:

So he has the double issues of premature ejaculation and small dick.  Can he still be a good top, as per his claim?

 

i never got to find out.

 

a few weeks after that first incident, we found ourselves making out again, this time in his bedroom. we were halfway through watching a movie when he started kissing me. he was more aggressive than last time and pulled off my shirt first. we fondled each other's nipples. knowing that he had a problem of cumming too quickly, i tried to play gently, but he wanted me to do more and go harder - he would moan "more, more, baby" followed by more dirty talk about his "big" cock. i started rubbing up against his body and felt his hard on pressed up against mine. we soon off our pants - he didn't seem to care that mine was bigger than his (i'm about 5 inches) and continued his dirty talk.

 

too horny at this point, i yanked down his briefs and finally saw his naked package in its full glory. his hairy balls dangled low, while his 4 inch dick was hard as a rock, with the foreskin tight on his head. i was all too ready for him to enter me. "fuck baby you want my cock? yeah? want my lanjiao inside you right?" he pulled a condom from his wallet, tore it open and fished out the condom. i grabbed his cock in my hand and rolled the condom over his red sensitive head. he moaned as i put it on him, "fuck, i'm so horny." the condom was loose over his thin cock, but he was still totally satisfied with himself. "you like that? want it?" we continued kissing, and he grabbed a bottle of lube from his bedside drawer, placing it on the mattress. i grabbed the bottle, squeezed a little out onto my hand and finally got to rub his condom-covered cock a little. it pulsed hard in my hand as i moved up and down. he shuddered while pretending to smirk, grabbed my body and held me tight against him, forcing me to let go of his shaft.

 

i simply couldn't resist anymore - i needed him to fuck me. he pushed me below him into a missionary position. he placed his cock at my ass, squeezing a little lube onto my hole. his breath was heavy and hard as he pushed against my ass, ready to enter. just as his head pushed into me he stopped, moaning - "fuck, you're too tight--" with a grunt, he pulled out, grabbing on to his cock. i sat up and watched as he moaned "fuck, fuck, fuck!" and the condom filled with cum as he shook violently in orgasm. his cock twitched up and down as he ejaculated.

 

he was spent, and his cock started softening inside the condom, which slipped off onto the bed. he slumped onto me, drained, and fell asleep there and then.

[Guest]

Yummy hot stories

[Guest]

I've only had PE once while with other guy, never before and never after, it was an isolated incident. Masturbating while watching porn tends to trigger PE a lot faster, but I use it as a way to practice controlling my ejaculation with kegel exercise, and it fruited. As a result of watching too much porn though, now I have SADD (sexual attention deficit disorder).

 

Anyway, I met this white guy last week during my weekend getaway in Penang. He was also a traveller, from US but working in China. We chat on Growlr the night before and agreed to meet up tomorrow for a coffee before anything else as he wasn't into "random reckless hook up" as he put it (well, so do I most of the time). After meeting each other, having a good chat and walking around, he invited me to "hang out" at his room. Obviously I accepted as it was damn hot outside and that was what I had in my mind to begin with anyway. He was also totally my type; tall hairy bearded man, and he's an otter, I've only been with bears before. He was my first white guy too, with dark grey hairs and aqua eyes, I've never been so much into other guy physically.

 

So we got back to his room, get ourselves clean, then lied on the bed next to each other. He came closer to me and started to rub my big stomach. I started to grope his body and felt his hairy chest and beard. We then kissed each other for quite a while before he and I unbuttoned his shirt (oh the feeling of unbuttoning it one by one). I lied my head on that hairy chest and just touched him all over. Then he started to play with my nipples and took my shirt off. We kissed some more before he went down on me, taking my pants off, and giving me a head. I returned the favour to him after that, he was so good at it too. I started to unbuckle his belt and unzip his pants, pulling them down, and I could see his huge bulge already. I took off his underwear and delighted with the sight of an at least 7" dick. The last time I had that big was with an Arab guy and I've been missing it since. I gave him the best head I could, licking every inch of it, and tried to deep throat it (still can't swallow a cock that big). We kissed each other again while he tried to reach for my asshole and finger it. At this point, I was so ripe to get fucked, and so was he, so I told him I wanted him inside of me. Condom,lube,and everything, he fingered me a bit then tried to fuck me and it was still hurting, so I asked him to finger me a bit more with 2 fingers. So he did, then he tried to fuck me again, and it got in this time. Damn I was filled, he gave me few pounding and came over to kiss me (we were in missionary btw). He asked me, "is it the biggest you've ever had?", and it is such a turn on when guys ask it like that and I'll always stroke their ego regardless of size, so I said yes. Then he said, "I might not last long cause you're so tight". At which point, like 2-3 thrusts later, he suddenly stopped. I tried to pull him in, but, yeah, apparently he already ejaculated. He pulled his dick and I could feel the condom slipping away from me, and saw his cum in it. Unfortunately, having SADD, the whole process felt like it was disrupted and my arousal kinda went away, mostly. He tried to jerk me off after that, even helped playing with my nipples and fingering me, but despite I was hard, I wasn't able to cum. Also another symptom of SADD; delayed ejaculation. When delayed ejaculation meets premature ejaculation, it sucks. He was tired from jerking me off, so he stopped and we just cuddled afterwards. I know orgasm isn't the most important thing (some might disagree), but I didn't feel like I was fucked enough, it was too short, so I wasn't really satisfied, a bit disappointed too I might add, but oh well, not every encounter can be mind blowing. At least I've had my first white guy and he was still very much attractive to me, and also my evening was pleasant with him. Yeah, I've got to lay off porn to cure that SADD, which is very hard for a single guy with free time all around. 

[lovehandle]

but as a btm, u can never feel the pain of a Top having PE

 

Glad that  u r a btm afterall

3 hours ago, Guest said:

I've only had PE once while with other guy, never before and never after, it was an isolated incident. Masturbating while watching porn tends to trigger PE a lot faster, but I use it as a way to practice controlling my ejaculation with kegel exercise, and it fruited. As a result of watching too much porn though, now I have SADD (sexual attention deficit disorder).

Also another symptom of SADD; delayed ejaculation. When delayed ejaculation meets premature ejaculation, it sucks. He was tired from jerking me off, so he stopped and we just cuddled afterwards. I know orgasm isn't the most important thing (some might disagree), but I didn't feel like I was fucked enough, it was too short, so I wasn't really satisfied, a bit disappointed too I might add, but oh well, not every encounter can be mind blowing. At least I've had my first white guy and he was still very much attractive to me, and also my evening was pleasant with him. Yeah, I've got to lay off porn to cure that SADD, which is very hard for a single guy with free time all around. 

 

[Guest]

Been having this problem only recently - can anyone help? I met this guy in Grindr and went to do it at his place. But I accidentally came during foreplay while he was just stroking me. Couldn't get it hard again and had to end the session after ten minutes. 

[Guest]

6 hours ago, Guest said:

Been having this problem only recently - can anyone help? I met this guy in Grindr and went to do it at his place. But I accidentally came during foreplay while he was just stroking me. Couldn't get it hard again and had to end the session after ten minutes. 

How old are you? PE during foreplay is like way too early ..... 

May be he sucked you too much? 

Try the squeeze method.... Or squeeze the balls down when you feel like cuming.... If you get to fucking ass stage, try 5 shallow pokes followed by a deep poke and try grinding the cock deep inside his ass and circle yr cock inside while grinding the base of cock agst his pelvic....

fuck... I am getting a real hard-on just thinking abt the last deep grinding I did !

[btmslut]

When i was 19 i had a bj buddy. He'd drive down and pick me up to his parent's place. He was probably late 30s, balding, big tummy. The first time i put my lips on his cock, 30 seconds later  i felt the taste of cum in my mouth. Then he gave me a sheepish embarrassed look.

 

Subsequent times, i learnt the trick, when he is about to cum, let go, grab his hands. His cock will spurt. But its what they called a "ruined orgasm", he will remain hard and can cum again, this time a bit later. I've ever done this for someone in shogun and the guy came 5 times. Yes, 5. The last time, the proper way with stimulation to climax, to finish him off.

 

He fell asleep immediately after!! Hahaha

[Guest]

16 hours ago, Guest said:

How old are you? PE during foreplay is like way too early ..... 

May be he sucked you too much? 

Try the squeeze method.... Or squeeze the balls down when you feel like cuming.... If you get to fucking ass stage, try 5 shallow pokes followed by a deep poke and try grinding the cock deep inside his ass and circle yr cock inside while grinding the base of cock agst his pelvic....

fuck... I am getting a real hard-on just thinking abt the last deep grinding I did !

I'm 23. He didn't suck me. Just about 30 seconds of jerking. 

[btmslut]

On the flip side, i was sucking off this guy half hour ago. I actually came while sucking him with no touching of my cock. He was laying back on his bed and i was on my knees (under a pillow) on the floor. I know i was dripping precum, i usually do, but this time it felt more intense. I was rock hard and next thing i knew, i felt like cumming and it oozed out slowly like a volcano.

 

He wasnt too happy about his pillow.

[topfitguy]

On 1/31/2016 at 10:09 AM, Guest Quickie said:

 

i never got to find out.

 

a few weeks after that first incident, we found ourselves making out again, this time in his bedroom. we were halfway through watching a movie when he started kissing me. he was more aggressive than last time and pulled off my shirt first. we fondled each other's nipples. knowing that he had a problem of cumming too quickly, i tried to play gently, but he wanted me to do more and go harder - he would moan "more, more, baby" followed by more dirty talk about his "big" cock. i started rubbing up against his body and felt his hard on pressed up against mine. we soon off our pants - he didn't seem to care that mine was bigger than his (i'm about 5 inches) and continued his dirty talk.

 

too horny at this point, i yanked down his briefs and finally saw his naked package in its full glory. his hairy balls dangled low, while his 4 inch dick was hard as a rock, with the foreskin tight on his head. i was all too ready for him to enter me. "fuck baby you want my cock? yeah? want my lanjiao inside you right?" he pulled a condom from his wallet, tore it open and fished out the condom. i grabbed his cock in my hand and rolled the condom over his red sensitive head. he moaned as i put it on him, "fuck, i'm so horny." the condom was loose over his thin cock, but he was still totally satisfied with himself. "you like that? want it?" we continued kissing, and he grabbed a bottle of lube from his bedside drawer, placing it on the mattress. i grabbed the bottle, squeezed a little out onto my hand and finally got to rub his condom-covered cock a little. it pulsed hard in my hand as i moved up and down. he shuddered while pretending to smirk, grabbed my body and held me tight against him, forcing me to let go of his shaft.

 

i simply couldn't resist anymore - i needed him to fuck me. he pushed me below him into a missionary position. he placed his cock at my ass, squeezing a little lube onto my hole. his breath was heavy and hard as he pushed against my ass, ready to enter. just as his head pushed into me he stopped, moaning - "fuck, you're too tight--" with a grunt, he pulled out, grabbing on to his cock. i sat up and watched as he moaned "fuck, fuck, fuck!" and the condom filled with cum as he shook violently in orgasm. his cock twitched up and down as he ejaculated.

 

he was spent, and his cock started softening inside the condom, which slipped off onto the bed. he slumped onto me, drained, and fell asleep there and then.

 

With this second encounter, will you do a third time with this small dick early ejaculation guy?  Perhaps he will improve after more practice?

 

[topfitguy]

On 1/31/2016 at 10:09 AM, Guest Quickie said:

... but he wanted me to do more and go harder - he would moan "more, more, baby" followed by more dirty talk about his "big" cock. i started rubbing up against his body and felt his hard on pressed up against mine. we soon off our pants - he didn't seem to care that mine was bigger than his (i'm about 5 inches) and continued his dirty talk.

 

... too horny at this point, i yanked down his briefs and finally saw his naked package in its full glory. his hairy balls dangled low, while his 4 inch dick was hard as a rock, with the foreskin tight on his head.

 

...the condom was loose over his thin cock, but he was still totally satisfied with himself. "you like that? want it?" we continued kissing, and he grabbed a bottle of lube from his bedside drawer, placing it on the mattress. i grabbed the bottle, squeezed a little out onto my hand and finally got to rub his condom-covered cock a little. it pulsed hard in my hand as i moved up and down. he shuddered while pretending to smirk,

 

I enjoy having fun with guys who have small dick and not very good in sex, but who are still very assertive and confident of themselves, especially if they have a cute face and lean toned sporty bod.

[mate69]

9 minutes ago, topfitguy said:

 

I enjoy having fun with guys who have small dick and not very good in sex, but who are still very assertive and confident of themselves, especially if they have a cute face and lean toned sporty bod.

 

Yeah it's a huge turn on, especially if you can show him the way to ultimate pleasure.

 

[lovehandle]

for all those who claimed "as he wasn't into "random reckless hook up" as he put it (well, so do I most of the time). After meeting each other, having a good chat and walking around, he invited me to "hang out" at his room. " usu all are only feigning , they just wanna ensure they are at least comfortable who they are meeting /seeing

[fly360]

i like guys who cum easily

 

[Guest]

On 14/03/2016 at 1:19 PM, topfitguy said:

 

With this second encounter, will you do a third time with this small dick early ejaculation guy?  Perhaps he will improve after more practice?

 

 

he didn't improve. sex for us usually ended at handjobs and short blowjobs because he could only last two or three minutes. to date he is the only guy i've met who can cum almost entirely without touching himself. he never talked about it, and wasn't too embarrassed either. i found it kinda hot that he could cum like this and so never complained. we broke things off amicably after a while but had occasional fun for about a year after; his endurance never improved.

[gonnarelax]

I cum quite easily too but I do edge and can take an hour or 2.

[gstringuy26]

If you didn't cum for a month , your body will auto cum for you! If you masterbate regularly then you won't cum so easily? haha

[Arm Show]

I cum quite easily too. And multiple cum is also too difficult to me. That's why I'm bottom to let guys cum on me. Hehehe  

[Guest]

On 14 March 2016 at 9:49 PM, fly360 said:

i like guys who cum easily

 

Why you like guys who cum easily?

[Guest]

6 hours ago, Guest said:

Why you like guys who cum easily?

So you don't waste too much time making him cum - mouth and hand not so sore!

so he. An focus his attention on you to make you cum?

i dint get any pleasure out of him cuming so faster better

[fly360]

i like to know that the guy is so horny that he cannot control his reflex. its also about thr humiliation, embarassment, shynessinvolved, which turns me on very much.

[snowball]

Guys that cum fast can try to have long french kiss and hugging without having oral sex first, may help

Edited March 17, 2016 by snowball

[fireblaze_69]

On 3/16/2016 at 10:33 AM, gonnarelax said:

I cum quite easily too but I do edge and can take an hour or 2.

same here and i like them both

[Guest]

On 16 March 2016 at 10:33 AM, gonnarelax said:

I cum quite easily too but I do edge and can take an hour or 2.

 

Haha, same here

[top_suck]

I cum fast...and i can cum 7+ times in a day...

Edited March 18, 2016 by top_suck

[Pgcruiser99]

49 minutes ago, top_suck said:

I cum fast...and i can cum 7+ times in a day...

Wow your penis no hurt when u cum 7 times?

[Baby Face]

38 minutes ago, Pgcruiser99 said:

Wow your penis no hurt when u cum 7 times?

Give him benefit of doubt...

[Pgcruiser99]

7 minutes ago, Baby Face said:

Give him benefit of doubt...

Lol

[Jusfriend]

11 minutes ago, Baby Face said:

Give him benefit of doubt...

haha.....

[onlylonely]

On Wednesday, March 16, 2016 at 9:33 AM, gonnarelax said:

I cum quite easily too but I do edge and can take an hour or 2.

Then after 2 hours will have a mega explosion ya

[cutejack]

I notice I cum too fast ..afew times in n out I came n the bottom look disappointed. how ah?

[Guest]

If you are a top and you cum too soon, it is indeed a challenge.  If after cumming, you can get hard soon for a second round, then it is good.  However, I think not many guys can achieve that. Some btms may not mind and will not say anything to embarrass you, but other btms may be disappointed and call you names, and may not want to meet you for sex again. I guess you can make up for it by fingering and rimming the btm for a long time and hear him moan out of pleasure, before you finally proceed to anal.  If the dick is short and/or thin and cums fast, then it is a double whammy.  Between a long thin dick and a short thick dick, btms prefer a short thick dick.

 

If you are a btm and cum fast, I think it is not an issue, provided you can continue to endure being screwed after you have cummed.  I know of btms who refuse to be penetrated after they have ejaculated.  

[Guest]

On 3/17/2016 at 0:53 PM, Guest said:

Why you like guys who cum easily?

 

 

I like having sex with a top that cums easily because it is a situation where the top is humiliated because a typical top is cocky and dominant.  This is especially so for a top that is good looking and has a muscular toned bod.  Before cumming fast, he appears to be the ultimate alpha male and dominates over the cute boyish weak looking btm.  So if he cums fast, and cannot perform any more, it is fun to watch his behaviour and reaction, and even hear what excuses he may provide.  It is additionally fun if the btm's dick is larger and harder than the top's dick, and can hold his erection longer.

[btmslut]

13 hours ago, Guest said:

If you are a top and you cum too soon, it is indeed a challenge.  If after cumming, you can get hard soon for a second round, then it is good.  However, I think not many guys can achieve that. Some btms may not mind

 

I fully agree that it can be frustrating if the top os pounding on your sweet spot and suddenly cums, and is unable to get hard anymore. But ive changed my expectations to one where my pleasure is seeing how fast he can cum. The faster means i'm getting to be a better fuck machine. I've ever sucked cocks at a gloryhole and my mouth was filled with cum in under 30 seconds for at least 2 of them. But that doesnt happen very often and i wish i could have gone over to the other side for feedback on what i was doing right that day....

 

On a separate note, i once got round the top cumming issue by getting a 4 some. On mirc (yes that long ago!) l was invited to a 3 some, 2 tops and i.  When i got there there were 3 tops. They asked if i minded the extra guy. What a silly question haha... One watching, one fucking me and one getting blown (i admit it was tough to concentrate on the cock in my mouth while being pounded). They were good friends and probably did this many times, they did a rotation thing. Get sucked, fuck me, cum, watch, then after a while get sucked and repeat. No joke, we used 11 condoms, and all had cum in them. I myself came so many time that the last few ejaculations were just a drop of clear cum. Went on for hours. My only regret was that they all came in the condoms and not on my face/body/mouth. But i guess since they didnt touch each other, getting someone else's cum on them would be taboo (to each his own). 

[lovehandle]

When being oraled , it will take me years to cum

[Guest]

I didn't jerk off for 3 weeks. Last weekend I was sucked by a guy in the sauna and in less than a minute, I exploded and cums a big load inside his mouth. Normally, it would take me 10 minutes.

[Guest]

8 hours ago, Guest said:

Had a hot encounter at my first time visiting Shogun last week... Was feeling pretty shy as most of the guys weren't really my type there, a few kept rubbing me even though I pushed them away. There was one guy who caught my eye, though. Tan, Chinese, well-built with a cute smile. He was wearing a pair of black trunks which I found incredibly hot for some reason.

 

We glanced at each other for a long while, walking around a bit and bumping into each other a few times before actually making contact. Once we did it was fast and hot - he pulled me into a corner and licked my body up and down, then led me into a room where we had some of the most intense foreplay I've ever had.

 

I was feeling a little uncomfortable about anal since I haven't done it in a long time, but his charm and persistence made me cave in. His cock was a good size, which made me a little nervous about pain, but I watched as he rolled a condom on and lubed up. His finger slid into me slow and steady; he was gentle and didn't mind that I took a while to get warmed up and loose.

 

Once he felt I was ready he pushed his cock against my ass, trying to find my hole. The room was dark, so he missed a couple of times. With each attempt I got more and more eager to have him inside me. But on the third or fourth try, as I felt him graze against my hole, he pulled away. I looked up at him, and he moaned "I'm cumming" with a grin. I was a little shocked but really turned on by this. He continued jerking me off until I came, which didn't take long since I was already so horny. We kissed for a while before heading down to shower.

 

Alas, I had to leave suddenly after washing up and didn't manage to get his number before I left. We'd talked about seeing each other again, so I felt really bad about leaving early. But I guess I won't get to see him ever again, unless fate brings us back together...

 

from shogun thread. felt this post is more relevant here since it is a PE story

[Guest]

On 16/03/2016 at 10:45 AM, gstringuy26 said:

If you didn't cum for a month , your body will auto cum for you! If you masterbate regularly then you won't cum so easily? haha

 

Not true! Mine will store up forever but when I finally do it with someone... One minute and boom

[Guest]

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[Guest]

We were at tree TOP walk and I got horny so I asked my Friend to suck me off there... High up among the trees. Bec we were scared to be seen, I kept thrusting my hip and tighten my ass muscle to harden my cock and with his deep and string sucking, I came within 2 mins. Does that count as premature ejaculation?

[lovehandle]

9 hours ago, Guest said:

We were at tree TOP walk and I got horny so I asked my Friend to suck me off there... High up among the trees. Bec we were scared to be seen, I kept thrusting my hip and tighten my ass muscle to harden my cock and with his deep and string sucking, I came within 2 mins. Does that count as premature ejaculation?

no, I don't think that is prematured

[Guest Fastcum]

On 15/10/2015 at 4:30 PM, Guest Guest said:

Any guys with stories of this also?

One time I was in the gym, this slim fit Malay dude about 25yo with a nice chiseled face and I spent a while checking each other out. Decided to head to a stairwell to have a little fun. We hugged and kissed for about a minute - he kept rubbing my abs and chest non stop, then pulled down my shorts to play with my cock. I was so hard and excited to see this beautiful man's dick! I grabbed his bulge and pulled his dick out from his shorts - it was already hard, about five inches long, cut. I bent down, ready to take it in my mouth - but before I could even touch my lips to his cock, he moaned! His cock twitched and spurted shot after shot of hot cum, it splattered all over the floor and dripped onto his shoes. He suddenly had a look of pure embarrassment on his face and apologised non stop. He had completely busted his nut before I even managed to jerk or suck his cock at all! I found the sight so hot I told him it was okay and just jerked off as he continued to play with my chest and abs. I left after shot my load, but I wish I got his number or contact... Hot experience

 

This is so hot!! Any more stories pls share. 

[Chocolateabs]

I also have this PE. I cannot do cum contolor edging. Still cum in seconds.

[Chocolateabs]

On 03/11/2015 at 11:35 AM, dcx2210 said:

 

I do not think so. U just need to go slow. U can always stop and do other stuff like kissing lick when for it to cool off and then continue again. slowly but surely you can last longer with practise.

Premature ejaculation by expert is within 2 mins. The way to get over this is to go slow. Start with foreplay. Other cause is masturbate too quickly.

We cum in seconds

[Eoin]

Do you ever find that sometimes when all you want is a "quickie", or you're under some kind of time pressure (e.g. his bf is coming home soon) that it takes like *forever* to cum?

 

But when you're really enjoying yourself with a hot guy and want it to last forever, you cum in like 3 minutes?

 

FML  

Edited January 26, 2017 by Eoin