Help! I Cum Too Fast! + Premature Ejaculation & Treatments Discussion (Compiled)

[header69]

I read an ebook before that if you can get your partner to gently give you a blow job so that your dick head is used to the sensitivity, you will then be able to last longer when you have sex.

[Guest Niap]

u mention to apply cream so that the tool is less sensitive. does that mean that after application, one cant suck the dick anymore? can u let me know the name of the cream? u can email to me at totoro69@gmail.com or leave me a message here. i can't control my climax when i top someone. care to help?

cheers!

Having the same problem too.

So I always ended up being btm since I am flex to avoid embarassment

How I wish I can top as long as some people here!

Pump it fast and still in good control!

[senah]

I started off as a btm. Wanted to enjoy the best of both world n became a flex. Recently managed to convince my buddy to let me top him. However, to my dismay, I cum in less than 10 stroke.... He's smiling n says such work shld juz leave to him.

[chubachub9]

Simple solution. Most people cum too fast because their head is too sensitive. Either get circumcised or, like me, keep your foreskin rolled back, so the skin gets a bit thicker and less sensitive.....

[happy.99]

If you r too shy to say in front of the doctor just use your thumb and point downwards. I remember I saw on tv a few years back. If you are shy to say it, just use hand signal.

[Guest PE]

Hi...am wondering if anyone can advice where to buy non-oral medicine to delay ejaculation...

Are there over the counter medicine (cream etc) that I can buy? Watsons, guardian what not???

Thanks.

[atropine]

No cream. But you can buy lubricants to help reduce sensitive of your glans penis..

[Guest No name]

Same problem here. Realize this 2 years ago when I had casual fun, tried few times and same problem occurs. Damn frustrating and dare not try again.

Any help please

[Guest guest]

There is prescription medicine to delay ejaculation. You need to get it frm a doctor. The brand name is Prilogy (or similar spelling). It may not be available in Sg but definitely available in US.

[tyan]

Just realize that i have the same problem too. I always cum too fast. And the 2nd time will take a while.

My friend keep telling me that i must learn how to control not to cum so fast, but how? I really feel like cumming.

Can someone with experience organize a class?

[alien]

Just realize that i have the same problem too. I always cum too fast. And the 2nd time will take a while.

My friend keep telling me that i must learn how to control not to cum so fast, but how? I really feel like cumming.

Can someone with experience organize a class?

Diff pple might define cum too fast differently. Some pple might think if u cum at abt 15 min is too fast, or some pple might find if take 30 mins to cum also consider fast?!

[chubachub9]

no need to take oral meds la. go to any pharmacy, ask for 'emla'. it's a numbing cream that is applied on the skin prior to injection or small incision. the pharmacist may ask for a prescription though, so just use your charm to convince him/her is for personal use...

Use just a bit on your head and rub it into the skin until it disappears; use too much and you will lose all sensation, so be careful. If using just the right amount (for me it is the amount like one grain of rice), you will lose some feeling in the head that will allow you to tahan much longer. The loss of sensation goes away after 1-3 hrs. Enjoy!!!

[Isolated]

How to produce precum? I don't seem to be able to do that whereas I know of guys who's lean cocks seem to produce loads of precum

[alien]

How to produce precum? I don't seem to be able to do that whereas I know of guys who's lean cocks seem to produce loads of precum

Precum will produce when u got excited, turn on or horny. One very gd way to get precum is to watch pxxn.

[Cosmo guy]

no need to take oral meds la. go to any pharmacy, ask for 'emla'. it's a numbing cream that is applied on the skin prior to injection or small incision. the pharmacist may ask for a prescription though, so just use your charm to convince him/her is for personal use...

Use just a bit on your head and rub it into the skin until it disappears; use too much and you will lose all sensation, so be careful. If using just the right amount (for me it is the amount like one grain of rice), you will lose some feeling in the head that will allow you to tahan much longer. The loss of sensation goes away after 1-3 hrs. Enjoy!!!

is that cream also ok for oral ?

[Goodsolucky]

Changin positions may work I think.......just changing thrusting or activity.......

[G_M]

Hi. I cum fast too and same fate as you. U found solution to it? When we can meet up to try your solution?

Timothy,

Tyan is a member, why can't you PM him instead of posting ur ad in the Main forum.

Please do not post your ad in the Main forum which is meant for discussion.

Take heed.

GM

p/s: Your post will be removed

[Guest Guest]

no need to take oral meds la. go to any pharmacy, ask for 'emla'. it's a numbing cream that is applied on the skin prior to injection or small incision. the pharmacist may ask for a prescription though, so just use your charm to convince him/her is for personal use...

Use just a bit on your head and rub it into the skin until it disappears; use too much and you will lose all sensation, so be careful. If using just the right amount (for me it is the amount like one grain of rice), you will lose some feeling in the head that will allow you to tahan much longer. The loss of sensation goes away after 1-3 hrs. Enjoy!!!

 

anyone tried the cream ??  have any side effects on the penis ??

[allyremen]

Some years back, I met this great specimen of a man - tall, fit, good looking and a great personality. However, some friends told me that he was a loner - no one had bagged him yet! I was wondering why ... so I decide to get to know him better. Somehow, we clicked and, after a few dates, I wanted to go further though he seemed a bit hesitant. Stripped down he looks great with a big cock. The foreplay was good though he sort of angled himself like a hint for me top him. I was rather surprised as I was expecting him to top me! Still, it was great to top him. Next morning, I decided to ride him - got his cock hard and then sat on his cock! He woke up but by the third stroke - he was already coming. I was shocked but pretend to tease him that I must be really good to get him so excited. He looked embarrassed. Still, the next time we head to bed, he was again setting himself into the bottom position but I start applying "lubricant" which was actually a de-sensitising cream and slowly rub it into his cock-head. After a while, I ride him, to his surprise .... and viola, he did not come immediately. He sensed the change and soon get fired up, changed position and really rammed it into me for the next half hour before he came. He was so shy and said that he felt like a virgin fucking properly for the first time as he never managed past the 2nd or 3rd stroke of penetration before! So guys, if you have this problem the de-sensitising cream works!

[Guest Guest]

Some years back, I met this great specimen of a man - tall, fit, good looking and a great personality. However, some friends told me that he was a loner - no one had bagged him yet! I was wondering why ... so I decide to get to know him better. Somehow, we clicked and, after a few dates, I wanted to go further though he seemed a bit hesitant. Stripped down he looks great with a big cock. The foreplay was good though he sort of angled himself like a hint for me top him. I was rather surprised as I was expecting him to top me! Still, it was great to top him. Next morning, I decided to ride him - got his cock hard and then sat on his cock! He woke up but by the third stroke - he was already coming. I was shocked but pretend to tease him that I must be really good to get him so excited. He looked embarrassed. Still, the next time we head to bed, he was again setting himself into the bottom position but I start applying "lubricant" which was actually a de-sensitising cream and slowly rub it into his cock-head. After a while, I ride him, to his surprise .... and viola, he did not come immediately. He sensed the change and soon get fired up, changed position and really rammed it into me for the next half hour before he came. He was so shy and said that he felt like a virgin fucking properly for the first time as he never managed past the 2nd or 3rd stroke of penetration before! So guys, if you have this problem the de-sensitising cream works!

 

so did u get to develop further with him?

[Guest Guest]

Some years back, I met this great specimen of a man - tall, fit, good looking and a great personality. However, some friends told me that he was a loner - no one had bagged him yet! I was wondering why ... so I decide to get to know him better. Somehow, we clicked and, after a few dates, I wanted to go further though he seemed a bit hesitant. Stripped down he looks great with a big cock. The foreplay was good though he sort of angled himself like a hint for me top him. I was rather surprised as I was expecting him to top me! Still, it was great to top him. Next morning, I decided to ride him - got his cock hard and then sat on his cock! He woke up but by the third stroke - he was already coming. I was shocked but pretend to tease him that I must be really good to get him so excited. He looked embarrassed. Still, the next time we head to bed, he was again setting himself into the bottom position but I start applying "lubricant" which was actually a de-sensitising cream and slowly rub it into his cock-head. After a while, I ride him, to his surprise .... and viola, he did not come immediately. He sensed the change and soon get fired up, changed position and really rammed it into me for the next half hour before he came. He was so shy and said that he felt like a virgin fucking properly for the first time as he never managed past the 2nd or 3rd stroke of penetration before! So guys, if you have this problem the de-sensitising cream works!

 

great personality, good looking, fit and tall (in order of my preference ) is such a good catch! hope u didnt lose him. the sex and him fucking you part can always be trained!

[Anderson]

Guys nowadays are luckier as there are medication available for all these sex problems.

Cannot get hard or not hard enough, can take Viagra or Levitra to stay hard all the way.

Cum to fast, can take Priligy which is now available in Singapore at about $60 for 3 in a box. Like Viagra, need to take only one about half hour before sex.

Its much cheaper in JB or Bangkok, available in any good pharmacy without prescription.

[Guest Guest]

Guys nowadays are luckier as there are medication available for all these sex problems.

Cannot get hard or not hard enough, can take Viagra or Levitra to stay hard all the way.

Cum to fast, can take Priligy which is now available in Singapore at about $60 for 3 in a box. Like Viagra, need to take only one about half hour before sex.

Its much cheaper in JB or Bangkok, available in any good pharmacy without prescription.

 

but still im worried abt the side effects if we consume long term, worse if u are high sex drive and need to take everytime u have sex.

i find that for cannot get hard or not hard enough prob, it will help if you lead a more healthy lifestyle and exercise more. dunno why but maybe blood flow better

[allyremen]

so did u get to develop further with him?

 

We remained as FB for a long while, somehow we were never in a relationship and then as friends when I met the guy I thought I want for life :-)

[allyremen]

great personality, good looking, fit and tall (in order of my preference ) is such a good catch! hope u didnt lose him. the sex and him fucking you part can always be trained!

 

We are no longer FB, never in a relationship and are now still good friends!

[Guest Guest]

We remained as FB for a long while

so u apply desensitizing cream on him everytime?

[Guest kelv]

My friend have same problem. When he shack the cock less then he shoot the cum. Then he went to see the Chinese “tabib’ to overcome the problem. For 6 months he takes medicine and acupuncture. On 6^th month, he can hold the cum until 10 – 15 minutes, after refer to ‘tabib’ he stop taking medicine and acupuncture. But now when shack, he still have same problem.

 

My friend have same problem. When he shack the cock less then he shoot the cum. Then he went to see the Chinese “tabib’ to overcome the problem. For 6 months he takes medicine and acupuncture. On 6^th month, he can hold the cum until 10 – 15 minutes, after refer to ‘tabib’ he stop taking medicine and acupuncture. But now when shack, he still have same problem.

[Guest P.E. Fetishist]

Hello guys... I have a fetish for premature ejaculation. It really turns me on when a guy can't control himself from cumming and just blasts his cum all over the place. Those who know what I mean, care to share any of your stories or videos you like?

 

A few Sean Cody ones here, mostly in the bloopers:

 

http://www.straightmaletube.com/Straight-Guys/Fuckoffguys/90259/Accidental-Cum-Shot-Outtakes.html

 

http://www.myvidster.com/video/20769304/Joshua_and_Aidan 

 

http://www.myvidster.com/video/16421848/Brent_Corrigan_third_time039s_a_charm

 

http://www.sogayboy.com/videos/guy-cums-accidentally-7069.html

 

http://www.myvidster.com/video/14958475/Cute_Medical_Examination_httpnudesoldiersblogspotcom (12:30)

 

http://www.myvidster.com/video/20686129/Jess_and_Jayden (26:25)

 

http://www.myvidster.com/video/17798320/SeanCody_Joshua_amp_Noel_Bareback (14:50)

[Guest P.E. Fetishist]

http://www.myvidster.com/video/16421848/Brent_Corrigan_third_time039s_a_charm

 

http://www.myvidster.com/video/14958475/Cute_Medical_Examination_httpnudesoldiersblogspotcom (12:30)

[Guest P.E. Fetishist]

http://www.myvidster.com/video/20686129/Jess_and_Jayden (26:25)

 

http://www.myvidster.com/video/17798320/SeanCody_Joshua_amp_Noel_Bareback (14:45)

[Guest Didi]

I met a married young man who claimed that I would be his first m2m experience. He entered me (with condom, of course) and I remembered in less than 6 strokes, he stopped. He hugged me from behind and told me he had cummed. I was feeling being cheated, he then offered to jerk me off.

[alien]

Guys who cum fast is hot, buta also quite spoilt sports since cum too fast liao.

[Guest geeky-IT-guy]

is it considered a PE ? or the top is just hitting the prostate, that's why the cum is inevitable ?

 

either way, i love it when it happens too

[minosbull]

I'm bi and have f**** my fair share of men and women. However, I realized I cum too soon (5 mins) when doing a btm. Last much longer (>20mins) when I'm with a girl.

What positions should I adopt to not cum too soon with a man?

[chargingbull]

http://www.manhub.com/watch/332365/big-cumshot-party/

I'm bi and have f**** my fair share of men and women. However, I realized I cum too soon (5 mins) when doing a btm. Last much longer (>20mins) when I'm with a girl.

What positions should I adopt to not cum too soon with a man?

you should attend more group events...

 

http://www.manhub.com/watch/332365/big-cumshot-party/

[navyblue]

Thanks for starting this thread. I have a soft spot for guys with PE too. I find them very cute, esp when they show the embarrassing expression or smile following their PE.

I have been looking for PE vids too, but couldnt really find. Pls post more vids here. Thanks.

http://xhamster.com/movies/1977184/russian_matures_and_boys.html

( 9:34 )

[Guest guest]

I guess this is the extreme opposite of PE.  80 mins of self-play without cumming.

 

http://www.manhub.com/watch/296281/hottest-asian-tw-nk-selfcam/

[swimboi]

Kinda cute when your partner PE while you are pleasuring him. As long as he still pleasures you back after that, else it's a mood killer. Or force him into round 2.

[NielKlient]

I'm bi and have f**** my fair share of men and women. However, I realized I cum too soon (5 mins) when doing a btm. Last much longer (>20mins) when I'm with a girl.

What positions should I adopt to not cum too soon with a man?

 

Jo maybe like 2 hrs before the start of your sex session and maybe you could last longer when you are doing it.

[allyremen]

LOL Guys excite you more than gals! Use desensitizing cream!

[allyremen]

I remembered one time when I was having sex with this cute hunky twink .... he looked so strong and mascuiline with a nice fat cock! There I was thinking that I was going to get a good hammering that night! When he entered me, I felt really shiok but after about 3 deep strokes and with me wiggling my butt - he moaned "Don't move! Don't move!". I was like "WTF" ...and it was like this every 3 or 4 strokes for the next half hours! After that I couldn't take it any more and just backed hard into him forcing him to come. He was that it was one of his most enjoyable fuck but it was the least satisfying ever for me! However, after recovering, he fucked me a second time round and he was really good and more than compensate for the first time! I remembered that the next session and the sex was so much more enjoyable as I "edged" him during the first fuck to get him really high before he then delivered the goodies the second time round!

 

I learn the lesson well and if I sense that the guy is a PE type, i will just edge him and not let him come. The second time is alweay much better!

[Dorkable]

Think of your mum when you are about to climax.

[cutejack]

agree.wantd to say tat

[alien]

Jo maybe like 2 hrs before the start of your sex session and maybe you could last longer when you are doing it.

I guess jerk off before sex maybe wld help. Or maybe even during sex after cumming, can continue again?!

[alien]

I wld not get hard if i think of her!

[warlock88]

pump slower la..       

[Guest PE]

From a man who has difficult controlling his erection and come easily.

It can be extremely humiliating as we cannot even control our erections.

That's the reason why there is always an embarassing smile or expression if we shoot too earlier and uncontrollably.

I remember there was once I went for a massage.

When the masseur was massaging my stomach, I sustained an erection.

I had a towel covering my dick at that time.

I tried closing my eyes and concentrate on our things...

However, the friction between the towel and my dick was too gp much for me...

I ejaculated uncontrollably...

That was so humiliating!

[gstc82]

I wld not get hard if i think of her!

wait become impotent Xi liao!

[alien]

wait become impotent Xi liao!

U r rite, thts y i rather cum fast than think of her. Haha.

[Guest hee hee]

From a man who has difficult controlling his erection and come easily.

It can be extremely humiliating as we cannot even control our erections.

That's the reason why there is always an embarassing smile or expression if we shoot too earlier and uncontrollably.

I remember there was once I went for a massage.

When the masseur was massaging my stomach, I sustained an erection.

I had a towel covering my dick at that time.

I tried closing my eyes and concentrate on our things...

However, the friction between the towel and my dick was too gp much for me...

I ejaculated uncontrollably...

That was so humiliating!

 

Why make a difficult situation worse for yourself, if you are gonna have an ejacultion already, and you can't control it, just let it rip , and come full all the way and thrash about, moan loudly, just enjoy yourself.  stop feeling bad when you already enjoy a good release, sexual pleasures are one of the greatest pleasures in life and you wanna beat yourself up and eat yourself empty inside just because you PE.

 

You are paying the masseur for a body rub , and you are the customer, and he will smile for you even if you fart mid way and the whole room stinks. Take my advice , and see the forest for the trees.