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On 9/13/2015 at 1:02 AM, Guest 25yoerection said:

Im 25 yo chinese guy but i already hv ED.

even though i Do sports a lot.

I took viagra to fuck my bf.

Im not sure am i the only one here.

I nvr have erection problem till nowadays. Just that it didnt last long enough. Was so worry to hv sex. Im a person who love sex n prefer to be top.

But my erection cant stay long. About 1-2 mins only

Is it because i watched too much porn n masturbate too much? I get to experience sex quite late of my life ard 23 yo. When my 1st time being top, i realise the ass not as good as my hand. Dont really feel as good. Mayb my dick not that huge so i dont feel as good like those ppl in porn. What should i do?

Im worry it will effect my new relationship. N my pills are running low now. I try to control my urge to wank. I think im addicted to porn. Any advise?

sex while watching porn will be a great turn on

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I used to have soft dick issues too. Staying away from online porn, regular exercise, healthy dieting and enough sleep helps to restore libido. And of course, sticking to only sex with my lovely bf ke

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... no but I got experience and can offer advice.  Dont mock people who are trying to help please 

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Use viagra. Sildenafil 

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Guys, anyone or knows someone who have gotten a penile implant? It seems too good to be true leh. Erections on demand. But understand it really does help people with ED. I'm currently suffering with ED for almost a year now. Pills losing effect. Is this implant/prosthetic worth getting excited about?

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28 minutes ago, Leanmeat said:

If one is not having morning wood but no problem with erection during sex, is it normal?  

isnt that a gd thing, no need to wakeup w a wood anymore and then still get to sex as per normal

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3 hours ago, Leanmeat said:

If one is not having morning wood but no problem with erection during sex, is it normal?  

Whether you get morning wood or not depends on which phase of sleep you wake from. If your penis can function when it has to I guess there is nothing to be worried about 

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Personally must maintain good blood sugar levels and general health (don't need to be super fit but at least must be generally active) It's makes a difference. Nothing worst then being super horny but when they touch my soft dick, they assume I am not interested or they are not interested in limp dick.

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On 5/9/2018 at 11:43 AM, Peterjty said:

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no but I got experience and can offer advice. 

Dont mock people who are trying to help please 

 

If you have experience and can offer advice, the best place to do this is in an open forum so that all can benefit from it, not by private pm.

Remember that we got into this conversation because someone had the guts to expose his problem.  Others should be able to do the same, since anyone can choose to remain anonymous by posting as guest.

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On 5/10/2018 at 3:02 AM, Leanmeat said:

 As what most say, if it can function when it needs to, then I suppose nothing to worry.

 

 

To function when needed is a first, most important requirement. 

A second is to function when we want it to function.

We can be resting with nothing to do, and we would like to have a nice orgasm.

And finally, we should be able to control it when we don't want it to function.

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Hi to all the reason why I am here is because I just found out that I have prediabete because my mum has diabetes. I started to realise that is why since this year Jan 2018, my cock don erect for every Long time like before. I started to ask my Doctors and Nurses I work with and also did a lot of research on natural remedies and herbs for this problem until just two months ago I came across this herbs call Skyfruit, It’s small seeds from our local fruit trees on our roads. Anyway I started taken this Skyfruit seeds and after a month when to my GP to check my blood sugar level and had a very much improved results plus I now have morning woods every morning. I now goes back to my normal sex activities, cum two to three times a week. Just sharing my experience and Skyfruit. Googles skyfruit if u are interested. Cheers. 

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1 hour ago, Friendly said:

Hi to all the reason why I am here is because I just found out that I have prediabete because my mum has diabetes. I started to realise that is why since this year Jan 2018, my cock don erect for every Long time like before. I started to ask my Doctors and Nurses I work with and also did a lot of research on natural remedies and herbs for this problem until just two months ago I came across this herbs call Skyfruit, It’s small seeds from our local fruit trees on our roads. Anyway I started taken this Skyfruit seeds and after a month when to my GP to check my blood sugar level and had a very much improved results plus I now have morning woods every morning. I now goes back to my normal sex activities, cum two to three times a week. Just sharing my experience and Skyfruit. Googles skyfruit if u are interested. Cheers. 

Where did u get it? Thanks 

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I have issues with maintaining my erection in general. While having sex, I get hard when I'm kissing the other guy, but once I start working on any other part of his body my dick goes limp again. This is why i've never tried topping because i just can't maintain the hardness needed. Yet i'm sure it's not a purely physical problem cuz on rare occasions i can stay hard before and even for a while after jerking off, so am a bit confused about this whole thing. Nothing to do with how long i haven't jerked off, i can be ultra horny from not jerking for a week and still face this staying hard problem whether jerking or having sex. Does anyone have any experience like this?

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50 minutes ago, Guest Lim P said:

I have issues with maintaining my erection in general. While having sex, I get hard when I'm kissing the other guy, but once I start working on any other part of his body my dick goes limp again. This is why i've never tried topping because i just can't maintain the hardness needed. Yet i'm sure it's not a purely physical problem cuz on rare occasions i can stay hard before and even for a while after jerking off, so am a bit confused about this whole thing. Nothing to do with how long i haven't jerked off, i can be ultra horny from not jerking for a week and still face this staying hard problem whether jerking or having sex. Does anyone have any experience like this?

Sounds more psychological more than a pure physical problem. If you have no issues while holding an erection during self pleasure, the neural mechanisms are intact :)

 

When you’re working on others, you’re perhaps engrossed and lose your erection. And since fucking is stressful it accelerations your loss of erection. 

 

Probably better to just take take it slow and see whatever that comes. 

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On 5/26/2018 at 2:04 PM, Peterjty said:

Sounds more psychological more than a pure physical problem. If you have no issues while holding an erection during self pleasure, the neural mechanisms are intact :)

 

When you’re working on others, you’re perhaps engrossed and lose your erection. And since fucking is stressful it accelerations your loss of erection. 

 

Probably better to just take take it slow and see whatever that comes. 

peter, 
Is such method really gonna works?
https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/shockwave-therapy-erectile-dysfunction-viagra-10644552

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On 9/13/2015 at 1:02 AM, Guest 25yoerection said:

Im 25 yo chinese guy ..... When my 1st time being top, i realise the ass not as good as my hand. Dont really feel as good. Mayb my dick not that huge so i dont feel as good like those ppl in porn. What should i do?

Im worry it will effect my new relationship. N my pills are running low now. I try to control my urge to wank. I think im addicted to porn. Any advise?

 

What's wrong with both of you using hands if that feels good, feels BETTER? Lube up the palms and fingers, explore!

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6 hours ago, Peterjty said:

What do you mean “gonna work”? It’s already proven to work. But I don’t have any experience with it leh sorry 

 

 

Shockwave therapy like mentioned by the doctor in the article works better for cases of men where the ED is not due to psychological issues or mental block issues,

 

shockwave works better where the Ed is caused by bllod vessek inflammation around the groin and penis due to age or obesity.

 

Psychologicla issues need to see a spychologist or psychotherapist to work out the issues first then maybe try shock wave therapy.

 

but be prepared to cough up 3k to 6k for complete 18 treatments

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On 5/26/2018 at 1:12 PM, Guest Lim P said:

I have issues with maintaining my erection in general. While having sex, I get hard when I'm kissing the other guy, but once I start working on any other part of his body my dick goes limp again. This is why i've never tried topping because i just can't maintain the hardness needed. Yet i'm sure it's not a purely physical problem cuz on rare occasions i can stay hard before and even for a while after jerking off, so am a bit confused about this whole thing. Nothing to do with how long i haven't jerked off, i can be ultra horny from not jerking for a week and still face this staying hard problem whether jerking or having sex. Does anyone have any experience like this?

Hi guest Lim P,

 

I am facing the same issue, I guess it is more in the brain. I can get hard when i am relax, watching porn and jerking off.

When with someone, I can only get hard if i am totally relax and enjoying the process of someone working on me (eg: touching/blowjob) without any disturbance.

When i start working on the other guy, i will go limp again, even in the process of 69 i cannot get hard as i need to focus on the other guy and lost focus of enjoying the process.

And i also have difficulty getting hard in sauna/onsen where there are many people around. i also goes limp easily whenever there is an interference like noises or when the other guy suddenly touch my ass, which i dislike and when i goes limp, sometimes it becomes difficult to get hard again.

For my case, i guess is more of anxiety and mood issue, too concern of how i perform and how people think, not sure if that could be the case for you too?

I am still looking for a ways to solve this issue too

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On 5/22/2018 at 7:26 AM, Friendly said:

Hi to all the reason why I am here is because I just found out that I have prediabete because my mum has diabetes. I started to realise that is why since this year Jan 2018, my cock don erect for every Long time like before. I started to ask my Doctors and Nurses I work with and also did a lot of research on natural remedies and herbs for this problem until just two months ago I came across this herbs call Skyfruit, It’s small seeds from our local fruit trees on our roads. Anyway I started taken this Skyfruit seeds and after a month when to my GP to check my blood sugar level and had a very much improved results plus I now have morning woods every morning. I now goes back to my normal sex activities, cum two to three times a week. Just sharing my experience and Skyfruit. Googles skyfruit if u are interested. Cheers. 

 

Thanks for the information.  I have no diabetes but I like to care for the circulatory system.  I will try the sky fruit seed powder mixing it into my homemade yogurt together with the raspberry seed powder, pumpkin seeds and  flax seed powder I use now.

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On 12/23/2006 at 1:26 PM, Guest Guest_guest said:

i am fretting with the same problem even tho i am twice your age.

anyone else have similar problem at this age.

what can be done????

Me have the same problem too. Any help?

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The problem that you are having is not the only problem for you but several other people suffers from such condition. Even men suffers from erectile dysfunction which is the worst condition ever. Not having hard dick can make you suffer as well as your partner and both of the couple somewhere has to suffer in between love life.

Now what is the solution for this?

Well, there are many ways through which your dick can become stronger and harder and also you can get rid of erectile dysfunction. I would suggest you to use a natural male enhancement supplement named as VigRX Plus. This is one of the best male enhancement that helps men to get out of the situation he is suffering from. Using this will give men the power to stay stronger, making their dick bigger, stronger and longer erections, improves sex drive, fill the power to stay longer in bed and improves overall sexual performance.

See more on:  http://www.mensexualclinic.com/vigrx-plus-best-natural-supplement-for-longer-and-harder-erection

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On 10/16/2018 at 12:09 AM, Guest Stephanic Taylor said:

The problem that you are having is not the only problem for you but several other people suffers from such condition. Even men suffers from erectile dysfunction which is the worst condition ever. Not having hard dick can make you suffer as well as your partner and both of the couple somewhere has to suffer in between love life.

Now what is the solution for this?

Well, there are many ways through which your dick can become stronger and harder and also you can get rid of erectile dysfunction. I would suggest you to use a natural male enhancement supplement named as VigRX Plus. This is one of the best male enhancement that helps men to get out of the situation he is suffering from. Using this will give men the power to stay stronger, making their dick bigger, stronger and longer erections, improves sex drive, fill the power to stay longer in bed and improves overall sexual performance.

See more on:  http://www.mensexualclinic.com/vigrx-plus-best-natural-supplement-for-longer-and-harder-erection

 

Sounds too good to be true.  Have you used it?   How can one trust you,  "guest" ?

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13 hours ago, Northern said:

Hi just wonder if anyone had try shockwave Therapy for Erectile Dysfunction. Please share the outcome if you have try it. 

 

 

Hmmm... looks like quackery!  If sound waves could safely dislodge plaque from blood vessels they would be a medical success.

If we google "reducing plaque in arteries"  there are tons of recommendations, all coming down to "improve your health", and nowhere can one find "sound waves"

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On 5/28/2019 at 12:54 AM, kennethchung said:

im near 40 and my cock is soft

Your erection changes as you age. Do some regular excercise and improve your diet may help maintaining it.

Don't expect to always have a rock hard erection like when you are in the 16, 20yo days. You should be happy your cock is still able to stand up hard healthily. 

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there was once i was hard but could not penetrate. it causes my first episode of ED. then i realise that it was because it was the girth that i could not penetrate. 

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my dick can be hard but not for a long time. Once i try to fuck a guy but it wasnt hard enough to penetrate. also , realise that my sperm is a bit yellowish. 

 

Anyone have any advice. 

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2 hours ago, Guest tiktok said:

my dick can be hard but not for a long time. Once i try to fuck a guy but it wasnt hard enough to penetrate. also , realise that my sperm is a bit yellowish. 

 

Anyone have any advice. 

Weak kidney. Time to take care of your kidney. 

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On 8/25/2018 at 10:16 PM, Guest new said:

Hi guest Lim P,

 

I am facing the same issue, I guess it is more in the brain. I can get hard when i am relax, watching porn and jerking off.

When with someone, I can only get hard if i am totally relax and enjoying the process of someone working on me (eg: touching/blowjob) without any disturbance.

When i start working on the other guy, i will go limp again, even in the process of 69 i cannot get hard as i need to focus on the other guy and lost focus of enjoying the process.

And i also have difficulty getting hard in sauna/onsen where there are many people around. i also goes limp easily whenever there is an interference like noises or when the other guy suddenly touch my ass, which i dislike and when i goes limp, sometimes it becomes difficult to get hard again.

For my case, i guess is more of anxiety and mood issue, too concern of how i perform and how people think, not sure if that could be the case for you too?

I am still looking for a ways to solve this issue too

I know you posted this a while back and I hope you're able to find a solution to your problem. I was reminded when I read your post about something I read by a sex therapist. She mentioned that when in sex one should be "selfish" it doesn't mean that you should disregard your partner but you should focus on what gives pleasure to you and communicate (may be non verbal) this to your partner you both do this and a good partner will pick up on this etc. so in the end both can get maximum enjoyment. It's quite an interesting theory but catered towards married couples I think so might not work so well for hookups :lol:

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