LucasMediantor Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Hahaha I see. Then what do you go there for?errrrrr.... U did not read the conversation through?????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterscotch Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 errrrrr.... U did not read the conversation through??????Hahaha sorry about that, my brain process has been so slow today. It's going to die off by 6 pm! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucasMediantor Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Hahaha sorry about that, my brain process has been so slow today. It's going to die off by 6 pm!Oh maybe cold weather made it frozen sumhow... Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterscotch Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Oh maybe cold weather made it frozen sumhow... Haha Hahaha perhaps yeah? That's a very good excuse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Jerk off 3 times a day? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblaze Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I only agree with only the first 3 points. The last one doesnt affect everyone in the same way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gammaray Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 sum1outhere_03 1 Quote high frequency | biologically hazardous | penetrating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Actually, I think anything is capable of taking sex off your mind as long as you're preoccupied with it. Keep yourself busy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alfred Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 it's a very simple thing to do actually, nothing daunting. If one can fall to such temptations and not cherish and reserve such intimate acts with your soul mate, then i pray thee find someone who has the same mentality as you do. Because that person isn't deserving of a lasting relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest recommendation Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 place a horrible photo of a STI / STD on the wall paper of your phone (e.g. picture of warts growing on a dick) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1outhere_03 Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 EPIC. Quote Will you be my valentine's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolkai Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I know guys are guys and they are usually horny. What are the ways we can resist the temptations of meeting someone and incurring the wrath of diseases? Think of the possible sex diseases you may get from having sex and worst of all, having HIV...then you will abstain from sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Think of the possible sex diseases you may get from having sex and worst of all, having HIV...then you will abstain from sex.It is quite useless imo... just like how the gross prints on cigarette boxes FAIL to work. Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 (edited) Not playing with words, but "resisting" sex is quite futile.Distract perhaps? Edited August 1, 2012 by Glyph Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I don't mean to be rude but is this thread for real? Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Jerk off 3 times a day?That will be mentally and physically tiring. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 It is quite useless imo... just like how the gross prints on cigarette boxes FAIL to work.Hahaa. Very true. What works then? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I know guys are guys and they are usually horny. What are the ways we can resist the temptations of meeting someone and incurring the wrath of diseases? unless u r celibating then finding ways would be wise which still going to be a challenge, else from the question it is leading to the fear of being sexually affected by unfriendly diseases, prevention by protection is the wisest thing to do. Not really avoiding sex as the thread title says it. So, I would suggest if you protect your buddy and yourself in every possible manners while having sex even when rimming, there is a layer (I forgot the name) where you can use it before you rim your partner or getting rimmed. Heaps of ways if you like to be clinical. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucasMediantor Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I only agree with only the first 3 points. The last one doesnt affect everyone in the same way.Thats why I said the last one is hard mah... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 unless u r celibating then finding ways would be wise which still going to be a challenge, else from the question it is leading to the fear of being sexually affected by unfriendly diseases, prevention by protection is the wisest thing to do. Not really avoiding sex as the thread title says it. So, I would suggest if you protect your buddy and yourself in every possible manners while having sex even when rimming, there is a layer (I forgot the name) where you can use it before you rim your partner or getting rimmed. Heaps of ways if you like to be clinical.I guess it's hard to totally do without sex since our bodies are kinda made for it? I was thinking how to find ways how to resist the temptations which creep up so often. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SexyMentor Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I don't mean to be rude but is this thread for real?I do believe that this thread is real and we need to teach ourselves to controlStrong Sexual energy can be mind altering, Look at rapist, They can't control themselves in times of need. But we are not talking about forcing sex on someone and finding trouble,We are talking about strong sexual energy forcing us to submit and lead us into trouble of contracting stuff or end up in unwanted places So this thread would be useful and healthy to many. iamziz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I guess it's hard to totally do without sex since our bodies are kinda made for it? I was thinking how to find ways how to resist the temptations which creep up so often.Ahhh that's better. Long time ago I watched a karate movie. The master taught his student something I remember till today - 'The mind controls the body.' Ain't easy but worth an effort.Socialising in sports/activities. Volunteer work. Travel. Anything that keeps u busy. You will DEFINITELY want to have sex with some of these people but not as randomly or often as you might have already done. That's my 2cents. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I do believe that this thread is real and we need to teach ourselves to controlStrong Sexual energy can be mind altering, Look at rapist, They can't control themselves in times of need. But we are not talking about forcing sex on someone and finding trouble,We are talking about strong sexual energy forcing us to submit and lead us into trouble of contracting stuff or end up in unwanted placesSo this thread would be useful and healthy to many.Thanks. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 I do believe that this thread is real and we need to teach ourselves to controlStrong Sexual energy can be mind altering, Look at rapist, They can't control themselves in times of need. But we are not talking about forcing sex on someone and finding trouble,We are talking about strong sexual energy forcing us to submit and lead us into trouble of contracting stuff or end up in unwanted placesSo this thread would be useful and healthy to many.Totally agree. To be real, sometimes people do get so "lost" that they forgot to put on the protection and things happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Ahhh that's better. Long time ago I watched a karate movie. The master taught his student something I remember till today - 'The mind controls the body.' Ain't easy but worth an effort.Socialising in sports/activities. Volunteer work. Travel. Anything that keeps u busy. You will DEFINITELY want to have sex with some of these people but not as randomly or often as you might have already done. That's my 2cents.This brings me to another question. You mentioned "not as often". So, how do one know what is too often? Once a week? :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 This brings me to another question. You mentioned "not as often". So, how do one know what is too often? Once a week? :-)Well, if you want to start 'numbering' it, then perhaps you should start planning your diary how many times you think you want to do it. Just remember, sex is not dirty. It is a fun stuff for you to destress. Whatever you do in life it all boils down to moderation. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SexyMentor Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Well, if you want to start 'numbering' it, then perhaps you should start planning your diary how many times you think you want to do it. Just remember, sex is not dirty. It is a fun stuff for you to destress. Whatever you do in life it all boils down to moderation.Sex because of love is definitely not dirty, It is beautiful that's why it is call love making. Freaky Fetish Sex? Hmm... Yeah some of us like it (I do..) And Yes, Great point! Sex to de-stressing is fun and at certain ages it is healthy.But The most important purpose of this thread is to educate people about releasing unwanted sexual energy so that they would not end up hurting themselves, It is not insulting about sex or anyone who love sex.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Yes. I love sex! hehehehehehe but always believe it should be something nice and enjoy by both parties - not to be taken for granted, used or hurting (pain as a pleasure is a different thing) Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trxsuspension Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 ...Second: Overtrain in gym.... Sometimes, training will burn all of the excessive energy, but trying to push a little harder might lead to a reduction in your horniness ...number 2 is not true for me. if i overtrain, i get super horny after that. i donno, maybe its just me. but i did a google search before and its true among some pple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 number 2 is not true for me. if i overtrain, i get super horny after that. i donno, maybe its just me. but i did a google search before and its true among some pple.Won't over training lead to injured muscles? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 but why resist sex in the first place? besides the disease part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblaze Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 number 2 is not true for me. if i overtrain, i get super horny after that. i donno, maybe its just me. but i did a google search before and its true among some pple.its the same for me too. You arent the only one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 but why resist sex in the first place? besides the disease part.Eh. Like before it turns into an addiction? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Eh. Like before it turns into an addiction?how often are u having sex now anyway?im sure it isnt gonna be too soon before it turns into an addiction right? ArmySingletKaki 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 how often are u having sex now anyway?im sure it isnt gonna be too soon before it turns into an addiction right?Haha. No la. It's just a random topic I started. My sex life kinda sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 lol u can't resist sex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Haha. No la. It's just a random topic I started. My sex life kinda sucks.LOL. maybe you wanna just stay off pxxn or just JO as many times a day until you feel sick of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 lol u can't resist sexMaybe can't resist. But definitely can avoid? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 LOL. maybe you wanna just stay off pxxn or just JO as many times a day until you feel sick of it.Haha. The poor guy who does this will end up with a red sore dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Haha. The poor guy who does this will end up with a red sore dick.thats the whole idea. too sore to have sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted August 1, 2012 Report Share Posted August 1, 2012 Resisting having sex is like asking a smoker to stop smoking.Why resist sex? Your body is telling you that your urges is 'filling up' and you need to 'release it'. When you resist having sex, your urges will manifest to something else, e.g. frustration, anger, fetishes, etc.Just keep your sexual urge under control by maintaining a healthy sex life and you should be fine. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 but why resist sex in the first place? besides the disease part.U know that empty feeling after u had sex with someone simply because u r horny?Most people regret it. That is why u want to resist it. Your big head is the one to tell u so.We humans are built with emotions and needs more than just animals. Sex is not just a release, we need emotional fulfilment too.Then there are those who basically are sex crazy. These are the ones we can spot from miles away in a sauna. Everybody try to avoid them yet they are after any decent looking guy they can get. Ask yourself, do u want to end up like them? Even if he is good looking and ended up having sex with everybody in the sauna, u will hear nasty gossips about him behind his back about being a slut.All these are because of the way we human think beyond just sex. That is why we judge ourselves and others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hunky uncle Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 My first method: Yoga and meditation.... At least U can control your mind better and your cock will be observed by your mind Second: Overtrain in gym.... Sometimes, training will burn all of the excessive energy, but trying to push a little harder might lead to a reduction in your horniness Third: Jerking off when ur so horny, and after ejaculation, the rush of finding guys might be lowered, at least u can be in control then....Last: This is the last one but a little bit difficult to try.... Try to train and take care of yourself in all aspects ( look, body, wisdom) until u can make sure that ur a hot boy, then go around sauna to see how people are hitting on u, and then u can be more picky.... The more choosy ur, the less of chances u might have sex counters cos no many guys can match your expectations....Those are my advice... Dun scold me lor .... Arrrrrrrrrr Haha, so glad that someone else thinks just like me. Sometimes I even do Yoga in the steam room if it is mostly empty. But if it is not empty, some people mistaken that I am showing off and pass nasty comments.When I overtrain, my muscles and joints ache are more distracting than my groins. I need to stretchhhh and massage them instead of my groins. Again some people mistaken that I am putting on an erotic display to show off my body. Again nasty remarks like "yeah lah, u quick go and see he everytime put on free show one, very hiao one"Haha, yeah I enjoy the attention too. But then I dislike those buayas who who think that I am trying to seduce people with my body and so I am a cheap slut that they can touch. I don't mind if they take the rejection when I clearly said no. But some will not, and will try to force themselves on me or even stalk me. Scary. I had to seek refuge in a bright place where they dare not be so blatant. They even say come sauna must play lah if not waste money for what. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest more pleasurable than sex Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 If one is a traditional Buddhist, then one can use meditation to internalise and "see for himself" the impermanence, "emptiness", futility and the harm of seeking pleasure of the senses, and that meditation (when one reaches the deeper meditative experiences) gives a kind of intense pleasure more pleasurable than sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Resisting having sex is like asking a smoker to stop smoking.Why resist sex? Your body is telling you that your urges is 'filling up' and you need to 'release it'. When you resist having sex, your urges will manifest to something else, e.g. frustration, anger, fetishes, etc.Just keep your sexual urge under control by maintaining a healthy sex life and you should be fine.Even though食色性也, eating too much junk food makes you a fat, unhealthy glutton and having sex with anybody you can get makes you an unhealthy sex addict.The excess sexual energy can be used for driving your ambitions and career. Those who waste their valuable time hunting for sex are unlikely to be successful. A failure is the one who is angry and frustrated but yet he won't be able to see the source of his problem. He seeks more sex for consolation. Typical addiction vicious cycle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 thats the whole idea. too sore to have sex.Haha. Blood will cum out not before long this way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Resisting having sex is like asking a smoker to stop smoking.Why resist sex? Your body is telling you that your urges is 'filling up' and you need to 'release it'.When you resist having sex, your urges will manifest to something else, e.g. frustration, anger, fetishes, etc.Just keep your sexual urge under control by maintaining a healthy sex life and you should be fine.In your opinion, what is "healthy sex life" and how much sex is considered too excessive? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allmyimages2020 Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) How much sex is too much? Once every day, every 2 or 3 days, every week, every month? Over the 29 years we are together, my bf and I had sex almost every day, then once every 2 or 3 days until, in the last five years, we slowed down to a leisurely one or twice a week :-) Sex to us means lots and lots of cuddling and foreplay, then maybe oral/anal sex BUT that does not means we came every time! Edited August 2, 2012 by allmyimages2020 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asus_guy Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Can any suggest or help me on how to overcome masturbation. I do jo everyday or even twice or more in a day. Help me.Now im trying to practice photography and hope this can help me lessen my frequency of jo... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Why is there a need to? Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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