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it's a very simple thing to do actually, nothing daunting. If one can fall to such temptations and not cherish and reserve such intimate acts with your soul mate, then i pray thee find someone who has the same mentality as you do. Because that person isn't deserving of a lasting relationship.

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I know guys are guys and they are usually horny. What are the ways we can resist the temptations of meeting someone and incurring the wrath of diseases? ;)

Think of the possible sex diseases you may get from having sex and worst of all, having HIV...then you will abstain from sex.

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I don't mean to be rude but is this thread for real?

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I know guys are guys and they are usually horny. What are the ways we can resist the temptations of meeting someone and incurring the wrath of diseases? ;)

unless u r celibating then finding ways would be wise which still going to be a challenge, else from the question it is leading to the fear of being sexually affected by unfriendly diseases, prevention by protection is the wisest thing to do. Not really avoiding sex as the thread title says it. So, I would suggest if you protect your buddy and yourself in every possible manners while having sex even when rimming, there is a layer (I forgot the name) where you can use it before you rim your partner or getting rimmed. Heaps of ways if you like to be clinical.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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unless u r celibating then finding ways would be wise which still going to be a challenge, else from the question it is leading to the fear of being sexually affected by unfriendly diseases, prevention by protection is the wisest thing to do. Not really avoiding sex as the thread title says it. So, I would suggest if you protect your buddy and yourself in every possible manners while having sex even when rimming, there is a layer (I forgot the name) where you can use it before you rim your partner or getting rimmed. Heaps of ways if you like to be clinical.

I guess it's hard to totally do without sex since our bodies are kinda made for it? I was thinking how to find ways how to resist the temptations which creep up so often.

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I don't mean to be rude but is this thread for real?

I do believe that this thread is real and we need to teach ourselves to control

Strong Sexual energy can be mind altering, Look at rapist, They can't control themselves in times of need. But we are not talking about forcing sex on someone and finding trouble,

We are talking about strong sexual energy forcing us to submit and lead us into trouble of contracting stuff or end up in unwanted places

So this thread would be useful and healthy to many.

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I guess it's hard to totally do without sex since our bodies are kinda made for it? I was thinking how to find ways how to resist the temptations which creep up so often.

Ahhh that's better. Long time ago I watched a karate movie. The master taught his student something I remember till today - 'The mind controls the body.' Ain't easy but worth an effort.

Socialising in sports/activities. Volunteer work. Travel. Anything that keeps u busy. You will DEFINITELY want to have sex with some of these people but not as randomly or often as you might have already done. That's my 2cents.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I do believe that this thread is real and we need to teach ourselves to control

Strong Sexual energy can be mind altering, Look at rapist, They can't control themselves in times of need. But we are not talking about forcing sex on someone and finding trouble,

We are talking about strong sexual energy forcing us to submit and lead us into trouble of contracting stuff or end up in unwanted places

So this thread would be useful and healthy to many.

Thanks.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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I do believe that this thread is real and we need to teach ourselves to control

Strong Sexual energy can be mind altering, Look at rapist, They can't control themselves in times of need. But we are not talking about forcing sex on someone and finding trouble,

We are talking about strong sexual energy forcing us to submit and lead us into trouble of contracting stuff or end up in unwanted places

So this thread would be useful and healthy to many.

Totally agree. To be real, sometimes people do get so "lost" that they forgot to put on the protection and things happen.

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Ahhh that's better. Long time ago I watched a karate movie. The master taught his student something I remember till today - 'The mind controls the body.' Ain't easy but worth an effort.

Socialising in sports/activities. Volunteer work. Travel. Anything that keeps u busy. You will DEFINITELY want to have sex with some of these people but not as randomly or often as you might have already done. That's my 2cents.

This brings me to another question. You mentioned "not as often". So, how do one know what is too often? Once a week? :-)

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This brings me to another question. You mentioned "not as often". So, how do one know what is too often? Once a week? :-)

Well, if you want to start 'numbering' it, then perhaps you should start planning your diary how many times you think you want to do it. Just remember, sex is not dirty. It is a fun stuff for you to destress. Whatever you do in life it all boils down to moderation.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Well, if you want to start 'numbering' it, then perhaps you should start planning your diary how many times you think you want to do it. Just remember, sex is not dirty. It is a fun stuff for you to destress. Whatever you do in life it all boils down to moderation.

Sex because of love is definitely not dirty, It is beautiful that's why it is call love making. Freaky Fetish Sex? Hmm... Yeah some of us like it (I do..) And Yes, Great point! Sex to de-stressing is fun and at certain ages it is healthy.

But The most important purpose of this thread is to educate people about releasing unwanted sexual energy so that they would not end up hurting themselves, It is not insulting about sex or anyone who love sex....

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Yes. I love sex! hehehehehehe but always believe it should be something nice and enjoy by both parties - not to be taken for granted, used or hurting (pain as a pleasure is a different thing)

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

― J'son M. Lee 

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Second: Overtrain in gym.... Sometimes, training will burn all of the excessive energy, but trying to push a little harder might lead to a reduction in your horniness :)

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number 2 is not true for me. if i overtrain, i get super horny after that. i donno, maybe its just me. but i did a google search before and its true among some pple.

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Resisting having sex is like asking a smoker to stop smoking.

Why resist sex? Your body is telling you that your urges is 'filling up' and you need to 'release it'.

When you resist having sex, your urges will manifest to something else, e.g. frustration, anger, fetishes, etc.

Just keep your sexual urge under control by maintaining a healthy sex life and you should be fine.

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but why resist sex in the first place? besides the disease part.

U know that empty feeling after u had sex with someone simply because u r horny?

Most people regret it. That is why u want to resist it. Your big head is the one to tell u so.

We humans are built with emotions and needs more than just animals. Sex is not just a release, we need emotional fulfilment too.

Then there are those who basically are sex crazy. These are the ones we can spot from miles away in a

sauna. Everybody try to avoid them yet they are after any decent looking guy they can get. Ask yourself, do u want to end up like them? Even if he is good looking and ended up having sex with everybody in the sauna, u will hear nasty gossips about him behind his back about being a slut.

All these are because of the way we human think beyond just sex. That is why we judge ourselves and others.

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My first method: Yoga and meditation.... At least U can control your mind better and your cock will be observed by your mind :)

Second: Overtrain in gym.... Sometimes, training will burn all of the excessive energy, but trying to push a little harder might lead to a reduction in your horniness :)

Third: Jerking off when ur so horny, and after ejaculation, the rush of finding guys might be lowered, at least u can be in control then....:)

Last: This is the last one but a little bit difficult to try.... Try to train and take care of yourself in all aspects ( look, body, wisdom) until u can make sure that ur a hot boy, then go around sauna to see how people are hitting on u, and then u can be more picky.... The more choosy ur, the less of chances u might have sex counters cos no many guys can match your expectations....:)

Those are my advice... Dun scold me lor .... Arrrrrrrrrr :)

Haha, so glad that someone else thinks just like me.

Sometimes I even do Yoga in the steam room if it is mostly empty. But if it is not empty, some people mistaken that I am showing off and pass nasty comments.

When I overtrain, my muscles and joints ache are more distracting than my groins. I need to stretchhhh and massage them instead of my groins. Again some people mistaken that I am putting on an erotic display to show off my body. Again nasty remarks like "yeah lah, u quick go and see he everytime put on free show one, very hiao one"

Haha, yeah I enjoy the attention too. But then I dislike those buayas who who think that I am trying to seduce people with my body and so I am a cheap slut that they can touch. I don't mind if they take the rejection when I clearly said no. But some will not, and will try to force themselves on me or even stalk me. Scary. I had to seek refuge in a bright place where they dare not be so blatant. They even say come sauna must play lah if not waste money for what.

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If one is a traditional Buddhist, then one can use meditation to internalise and "see for himself" the impermanence, "emptiness", futility and the harm of seeking pleasure of the senses, and that meditation (when one reaches the deeper meditative experiences) gives a kind of intense pleasure more pleasurable than sex.

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Resisting having sex is like asking a smoker to stop smoking.

Why resist sex? Your body is telling you that your urges is 'filling up' and you need to 'release it'.

When you resist having sex, your urges will manifest to something else, e.g. frustration, anger, fetishes, etc.

Just keep your sexual urge under control by maintaining a healthy sex life and you should be fine.

Even though食色性也， eating too much junk food makes you a fat, unhealthy glutton and having sex with anybody you can get makes you an unhealthy sex addict.

The excess sexual energy can be used for driving your ambitions and career. Those who waste their valuable time hunting for sex are unlikely to be successful. A failure is the one who is angry and frustrated but yet he won't be able to see the source of his problem. He seeks more sex for consolation. Typical addiction vicious cycle.

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Resisting having sex is like asking a smoker to stop smoking.

Why resist sex? Your body is telling you that your urges is 'filling up' and you need to 'release it'.

When you resist having sex, your urges will manifest to something else, e.g. frustration, anger, fetishes, etc.

Just keep your sexual urge under control by maintaining a healthy sex life and you should be fine.

In your opinion, what is "healthy sex life" and how much sex is considered too excessive?

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How much sex is too much? Once every day, every 2 or 3 days, every week, every month? Over the 29 years we are together, my bf and I had sex almost every day, then once every 2 or 3 days until, in the last five years, we slowed down to a leisurely one or twice a week :-) Sex to us means lots and lots of cuddling and foreplay, then maybe oral/anal sex BUT that does not means we came every time!

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