Why Do I Feel so Horny Everyday? How To Resist Having Sex and Overcome Urges (Compiled)

[Guest guest]

It is normal for healthy guys of your age. As you become older, your level of horniess will drop, especially starting from around 40 yrs old. Jo once a day in your 20s should be alright. Just avoid jo a few times a day as u need energy, time for other things in life too.

[fab]

Much as its normal for guys to be horny and think of sex every 8 mins (iirc), i do suggest u divert your attention to something more wholesome. 

[Guest Tired]

It's normal at your age. It's partly due to being having lots of free time, when you're not studying or doing assignments I guess. I was the same day in day out, thinking about sex, jerking off 2-3 times a day, unless I hook up with someone. But when I start working and have less time for myself due to work, I stop thinking about sex as much. I'm too busy thinking about work. Not to mention the stress drains all my energy so much so that when I'm off work, all I wanna do is lay down and watch tv series or just sleep.

[upshot]

6 hours ago, Guest Tired said:

It's normal at your age. It's partly due to being having lots of free time, when you're not studying or doing assignments I guess. I was the same day in day out, thinking about sex, jerking off 2-3 times a day, unless I hook up with someone. But when I start working and have less time for myself due to work, I stop thinking about sex as much. I'm too busy thinking about work. Not to mention the stress drains all my energy so much so that when I'm off work, all I wanna do is lay down and watch tv series or just sleep.

 

Good observation and true about work and stress. Which is why as a nation gets more competitive and standard of living goes up, birth rate drops no just because parents don' want to have kids but their sexual urges are also lowered.

[Guest Guest]

You are only 23 so it is normal to feel horny everyday. Jerk off everyday is consider little at your age. Some much older guys can still jerk off everyday.

[Guest Jordan71]

unless u r celibating then finding ways would be wise which still going to be a challenge, else from the question it is leading to the fear of being sexually affected by unfriendly diseases, prevention by protection is the wisest thing to do. Not really avoiding sex as the thread title says it. So, I would suggest if you protect your buddy and yourself in every possible manners while having sex even when rimming, there is a layer (I forgot the name) where you can use it before you rim your partner or getting rimmed. Heaps of ways if you like to be clinical.

[hussamabd]

i will give you my friend some advices in order to stop this situation and also useful for masturbation addiction
Find another outlet for time and energy
You mostly masturbate when you have a lot of free time and excessive energy, so try to fill your life with engaging activities to stop masturbation.

Eat a healthy diet
Fruits and vegetables are very beneficial for your body, and they provide nutrients necessary to increase your energy which will make you more active throughout the day.

Volunteer
Do somethings for free to help others like teaching poor people, working at a shelter, cleaning up blighted areas, or gathering money for charities.

[Guest horny]

I feel so horny. should I just masturbate. go sauna. hook up guy from internet? or no fap

 

people says no fap is good for body. but also people says non excessive masturbation is okay.

 

usually I jerk off 1-2 times per week. is it alright?

[Guest Alvin and Charlie Brown]

That is too less for an assumption of the above topic mentioned. Normally a horny guy with the urge tends to imagine more different guys that one can’t get from realistic, like straight guys etc! As so it makes it easier to think of possible candidates, in which it may be in appearance in the pink boundary like suana etc. However, that does not works either when cruising at places where horny are actually choosing horny from different preferences and perspective. In the end, it will somehow show sign of searching and patronage in massage service that you might have read about from here. Guess you should be in awareness! Enjoy

[Guest horny]

On 1/31/2018 at 1:52 AM, Guest Alvin and Charlie Brown said:

That is too less for an assumption of the above topic mentioned. Normally a horny guy with the urge tends to imagine more different guys that one can’t get from realistic, like straight guys etc! As so it makes it easier to think of possible candidates, in which it may be in appearance in the pink boundary like suana etc. However, that does not works either when cruising at places where horny are actually choosing horny from different preferences and perspective. In the end, it will somehow show sign of searching and patronage in massage service that you might have read about from here. Guess you should be in awareness! Enjoy

you mean I should visit massage parlour? 

[Guest horny]

When I'm horny and have not release for a long time, I realised that I could not keep on staring and catching the glimpse of guys passing me by. become so uncontrollable for a moment before I realise what is happening. every guy i see, I want to suck his cock and swallow his semen. trying to imagine his shirtless body and alot of fantasy. 

 

is really so tiring after a while with all these behaviour. 

[Guest Vincent]

1 hour ago, Guest horny said:

When I'm horny and have not release for a long time, I realised that I could not keep on staring and catching the glimpse of guys passing me by. become so uncontrollable for a moment before I realise what is happening. every guy i see, I want to suck his cock and swallow his semen. trying to imagine his shirtless body and alot of fantasy. 

 

is really so tiring after a while with all these behaviour. 

True. I experiencing the same as you. I would secretly whistle to a hunk when I driving or walk past him, just like any str8 guy would do to a chio bu. And  imagine how good it will be, if can cuddle him.

 

[Guest Jl wears a stupid old spec]

It is not easy for me to take more than two glance of that guy to imagine. In fact, I need something really quick to make up mind to Fantasize. Just like the other day, I was making a uturn when I just had a glimpse of a guy on my left side as turning. That is what I will get turn on when coming to just one glimpse, and not more than two glance.

[kimlo777]

I have a female colleague who has been taking excessive number of day of leave. After she expended her entitlement for 2017 in March, she requested for advanced and then no-pay.  We were wondering if she was ill then after much coaxing, she broke down and confided in me that she was having difficulty meeting her husband's demands for sex.  He needed sex at least 3 times a day and sometimes as many as 5 times.  This happened after he lost his high-paying banking job.  If she doesn't provide, he threatened to go to prostitute or get a second wife.  On several occasions, he became violent.  To please him, she tried her best to give in to him but finally the burden was too much for her to bear and she ended up going for counselling.  Her husband refused to go.

 

Now, needing sex up to 5 times a day, would definitely be a case of extreme horniness (even if it is a result of mental stress).  So twice a week - I would hardly consider you a horny guy.

 

Looking at a guy and having sex on your mind, I think is normal.  I do that everyday.

[Guest Jaslyn Bedok 48 btm]

Eventually the guys walking on the street can t just take off clothes like that. I won t even think of picture someone whom I don t have any feeling to be naked, even with a nice built. Much to my expectation, what craze me is thoes who are shirtless for a reason of being crazy to others like collecting cardboard Uncle. It may catch my attention from a distance for a while if he does have a nice tummy and cleavage, Hairy is a bonus. To be honest, I ever being invited to their sleeping cardboard den before. Spending a night surround by handmade built cardboard igloo. It was really warm under the arm and that is not always the smelly thing that you can imagine. I do smell thick soap of imperial leather on the body and not thoes sticky or stinky linger that might be discriminated, he does bath like anyone before turning in. In fact,  the smell is sometimes better than thoes suana goers. Back to the sensation of being protected in the arm, it is really a loving hut that is quoted pricey by moments. The tanned plump yet muscular body seen in the dark is much clearer by vision of love. Everything is just too close intact apart from the wrinkle lines of certain part that can be feel. It seems like mouth was everywhere hitting dimensional slopey spots by senses created in the mind, but real. And it was really exceptionally unimportant in consideration of it as a border line; in towards of much bias judgemental from what classy is placed by much people today in terms of statutory status. It was like a pet that he treated, and not in forcefully to be sexually arouse through hand pushing down or upward. Neither that he wants to be served or I am feeling lusty about having a quickie. Till today, I still sometime will think about when I touch myself. Just touching!

[cutejack]

3 hours ago, kimlo777 said:

I have a female colleague who has been taking excessive number of day of leave. After she expended her entitlement for 2017 in March, she requested for advanced and then no-pay.  We were wondering if she was ill then after much coaxing, she broke down and confided in me that she was having difficulty meeting her husband's demands for sex.  He needed sex at least 3 times a day and sometimes as many as 5 times.  This happened after he lost his high-paying banking job.  If she doesn't provide, he threatened to go to prostitute or get a second wife.  On several occasions, he became violent.  To please him, she tried her best to give in to him but finally the burden was too much for her to bear and she ended up going for counselling.  Her husband refused to go.

 

Now, needing sex up to 5 times a day, would definitely be a case of extreme horniness (even if it is a result of mental stress).  So twice a week - I would hardly consider you a horny guy.

 

Looking at a guy and having sex on your mind, I think is normal.  I do that everyday.

Kimlo,  why not just suggest to yr colleague that u would like to meet her hubby for a chat n who knows u could fulfill his needs? After that she can come to work as usual.

[Yas1950]

3 hours ago, cutejack said:

Kimlo,  why not just suggest to yr colleague that u would like to meet her hubby for a chat n who knows u could fulfill his needs? After that she can come to work as usual.

Best suggestion yet!!! hahahaha.......
A 3-in-1 package:-
1) Fulfill the husband's horniness;

2) Fulfill Kimlo's daily needs;
3) Give Kim's colleague a well-deserved break and no pain on her.

@kimlo777: Just wondering if your female colleague is that sexually 

attractive to make her husband want to do it with her all the time? I am curious.

[abang]

7 hours ago, kimlo777 said:

He needed sex at least 3 times a day and sometimes as many as 5 times. 

Wow.. sometimes a man in between jobs need to vent his energy.

Her husband must be pretty young cos still have all the strength to keep that erection thrice daily..  Mature uncle can only do it at most, twice a day..(speaking from my own experience).

 

How to fight off that horny feeling .. exercise lor... but don't go to the gym cos there are too many hunks there... 

[kimlo777]

4 hours ago, abang said:

Wow.. sometimes a man in between jobs need to vent his energy.

Her husband must be pretty young cos still have all the strength to keep that erection thrice daily..  Mature uncle can only do it at most, twice a day..(speaking from my own experience).

 

How to fight off that horny feeling .. exercise lor... but don't go to the gym cos there are too many hunks there... 

yes abang, her husband is probably in early 40s at most, she is 38.

[Asiange]

In my late forties, constantly horny all day

Not looking to hook up

Keeps thinking about touching myself

Must jerk off everyday, edging for up to an hour or two

Sometimes cumming four times a day (!)

 

Anyone the same too...? 🤔

 

 

[Zyscgk]

Late 40s and highly sexed? That’s healthy…but why aren’t you looking to hook up but self pleasure instead? 

[Asiange]

18 hours ago, Zyscgk said:

Late 40s and highly sexed? That’s healthy…but why aren’t you looking to hook up but self pleasure instead? 

edging for hours daily and wanting to cum up to 4 times a day = healthy? hmmm... 

[Bluewhite]

Masturbation addiction lead to chastity kink anyone?  

[Asiange]

3 hours ago, Bluewhite said:

Masturbation addiction lead to chastity kink anyone?  

 

What's chastity kink?

[Zealouslogue]

5 minutes ago, Asiange said:

 

What's chastity kink?

Kink to lock cock with chastity cage

[upshot]

3 minutes ago, Zealouslogue said:

Kink to lock cock with chastity cage

Now that must have got you going with the imageries, heheheh..

[Zealouslogue]

1 minute ago, upshot said:

Now that must have got you going with the imageries, heheheh..

Nope, lol. Its not my kink. My kink is more about your ass. LOL

[tyan]

Is perfectly normal. Do it when u feel like it. But if u really want to put a stop. Try to shift ur focus on other things. Like pick a new skill / course, go out with friends, pick a book to read, do some housework, plan to declutter a place at home. Is basically to shift ur mind away from thinking about it. 

[single42]

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[Guest Ole King Cole]

You guys still got it, just enjoy but don't go over the top, relax a bit.

I'm in my 60s, and my sex drive is waning. Luckily, every morning I still have morning wood. I stroke it to enjoy the pleasure and that makes me stretch and yawn deliciously. But it wilt quite quickly. 

When I watch porn, I also get hard but again wilt quite quickly.

 

Years ago, I can't stay hard for long to enjoy sex fucking another guy. I already given up and became a total bottom. It actually helped me to enjoy sex again once I let my male macho ego go. Being screwed hard also brought that sexual siokness that I was missing. Just that it's from a supplemental source of my asshole. Like my FB always teasing me, don't care where the siokness comes from, can siok can already. 

 

Oh, the reason I'm bringing this up is because he's also another sex maniac like you guys. As usual, he was also troubled by it and was told again and again to control his urges. But he just can't. The more he control, he worse he felt. I have no wise advice for him, except tell him it's normal, learn to control until behtahan then he can release into me anytime he wanted. 

 

He wanted and he wanted until I was totally sore. Then he was finally satiated. I think that having a good bottom serving his needs, he found that his own hands just don't seem fun anymore. He prefer the fun he had when fucking a live warm body with wet, warm hole that's so enveloping his manhood, a warm body to hug and played with. He said it's worth the control and wait till he unload into me. Self jo just don't feel that fun or necessary anymore.

 

So maybe you guys should find a compatible sex partner and enjoy real hard core sex that's so satisfying. Only then you will realize that your urge to touch yourself will be diminished in comparison.

 

But then, you may turn into a sex maniac instead like my FB. So don't take my words for it. He's happy, I'm happier so he has no worry.

[Guest Aquimbo]

Just take a cold shower