justanotherguysg Posted February 23, 2016 Report Share Posted February 23, 2016 i had a few advances on me for my first visit. lastly a guy was touching me when i was wearing my clothes, i had to politely say no, i need to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Not really Posted February 23, 2016 Report Share Posted February 23, 2016 On 11/8/2011 at 4:24 AM, Guest Oishi said: Wondering if anyone has similar experience. There have been some occasions when visiting a sauna, I would end up having sex with someone out of pity. For example, there was one time this not-so-good looking guy was persistently following me around and I accepted his 'invitation' cos he looked so pitiful. I also allowed someone to play with me because this guy was snubbed by most due to his looks. After this, i always ask myself why am i caring about the happiness of strangers when i visit saunas (instead of my own). is this a fetish? You have this feelings because I believed, you were in the same shoes as the pitied person. A hot and highly demanded guy usually never crossed that thought. Anyway, a not-so-good-looking guy probably has something that makes him attractive beyond his look. You have sex with him because of something you find not perfect, but very attractive in some way. A skinny person may have good look, a muscular person have ugly look, an old man has attractive dimple, an ugly boy has big dick...the list goes on. It so happened that lonely night, you too, want something, even though less favourable but at least some satisfaction to bring home after a night out. shadows 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
numchucks Posted February 23, 2016 Report Share Posted February 23, 2016 I'm not sure how to give or take pity sex. If the other party is so unattractive, how can one even have sex? He won't be stimulated at all. Unless u close your eyes and go to your own happy place, if that works... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 I will reject politely. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 这状态有点吊诡，不是他不可取，而是你贱。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest good time bad time Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 On Tuesday, February 23, 2016 at 11:39 PM, numchucks said: I'm not sure how to give or take pity sex. If the other party is so unattractive, how can one even have sex? He won't be stimulated at all. Unless u close your eyes and go to your own happy place, if that works... Most of them just need a hug and a peek. Most of them past their prime and unwanted and time passed by them like a museum ware. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
numchucks Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 no issues with free hugs i just can't get it on, if there is no physical or sexual chemistry though fabianc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 if you not comfortable with the person, how to get a hard on, i feel disgusting even closed with both eyes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hairy springroll Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 Turn down politely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traveler3032 Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 At the end of hard cruising, you are tired and still have not scored with a hot guy, you settle with someone you think is beneath your usual standard. You then tell yourself that it's charity sex and feel great that you are such a nice guy and put the others happiness before yours. Delusional! yhtang 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btmslut Posted August 30, 2016 Report Share Posted August 30, 2016 Does being in the gloryhole room sucking any cock that pokes though.count as charity sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 30, 2016 Report Share Posted August 30, 2016 Can b said so.lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted August 30, 2016 Report Share Posted August 30, 2016 On 30/08/2016 at 5:56 PM, btmslut said: Does being in the gloryhole room sucking any cock that pokes though.count as charity sex? don't think so, they just simply hungry and desperate all type / size of cock, that's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meh Posted August 30, 2016 Report Share Posted August 30, 2016 Once while at an overseas sauna, this very old guy approached me and asked me (very politely) if I could fuck him. I was shocked at first and almost said no but then I thought, you know what, someday I may be in the same situation, looking for some fun with young guys even in my 70s .. so yeah, I did it. It wasn't great but it wasn't that bad either.. is this considered charity sex? auscent and Tomorrow 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 31, 2016 Report Share Posted August 31, 2016 Pity sex?lol anyway how old do u think he was? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meh Posted August 31, 2016 Report Share Posted August 31, 2016 1 hour ago, cutejack said: Pity sex?lol anyway how old do u think he was? He looked around late 70's or 80+ .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btmslut Posted August 31, 2016 Report Share Posted August 31, 2016 Ive ever had a 70 or 80 year old guy smile at me at a sauna when i first walked in. He was sitting alone watching tv, and i could feel his eyes follow me when i went to the lockers. Felt sorry for the guy so i gave him a sympathy blowjob. His cock grew bigger but couldnt get completely hard, a bit like a wet sponge. His cum was really watery too. He thanked me quite profusely after and truthfully, it felt good, like doing community service hehe blowmenow, Snapplejacked and auscent 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 31, 2016 Report Share Posted August 31, 2016 1 hour ago, btmslut said: Ive ever had a 70 or 80 year old guy smile at me at a sauna when i first walked in. He was sitting alone watching tv, and i could feel his eyes follow me when i went to the lockers. Felt sorry for the guy so i gave him a sympathy blowjob. His cock grew bigger but couldnt get completely hard, a bit like a wet sponge. His cum was really watery too. He thanked me quite profusely after and truthfully, it felt good, like doing community service hehe Change topic to community service lo.hahahaha....70-80 still can get hard n produce semen means blessed hor.lol U r a nice btmslut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 31, 2016 Report Share Posted August 31, 2016 1 hour ago, Guest Meh said: He looked around late 70's or 80+ .. 70-80 ? He enter u or the other way?can get hard ha? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest slutty btm Posted September 12, 2016 Report Share Posted September 12, 2016 i realised that the more i keep my cum for the week or two, my requirement also becomes simpler when i dun cum for at least 2 weeks, i can have sex with almost any man as i am just following instinct to mate with someone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sauna encounter Posted September 12, 2016 Report Share Posted September 12, 2016 I donno if my encounter is related to this topic. I was asked by a chi uncle in sauna for a hug. I told him i already ready to leave after 2 sessions and im tired....he insisted and grab my....he told me he arrived there early but nobody willingly to hug him....eventually i agreed to hug him for a moment......i excuse myself and told him find another lengzai...he refused insisted help me for shower......i left him quickly to a nearby toilet where he didnt notice........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest EricB Posted June 30, 2017 Report Share Posted June 30, 2017 On 09/11/2011 at 4:24 AM, Guest Oishi said: Wondering if anyone has similar experience. There have been some occasions when visiting a sauna, I would end up having sex with someone out of pity. For example, there was one time this not-so-good looking guy was persistently following me around and I accepted his 'invitation' cos he looked so pitiful. I also allowed someone to play with me because this guy was snubbed by most due to his looks. After this, i always ask myself why am i caring about the happiness of strangers when i visit saunas (instead of my own). is this a fetish? Exactly my point. Do we really have to have sex when going into the sauna? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted June 30, 2017 Report Share Posted June 30, 2017 suana is certainly a place where blind dates occured especially in the darkest skin night.i normally don't crave for guys i want as it may turn out vice versa since i started out as a gay,even when suana are not operating at that time.when going to the pool as a starter,i already think that someone with good body complexion turns me on.so no matter how gd looking the person is,if the body complexion sucks.i won't even think of charity.however,i don't crave for handsome or thoes pretty guys with packs and muscular bod though.i just like a flawless skin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted June 30, 2017 Report Share Posted June 30, 2017 charity giving money to help someone less fortune than us is fine, but for sex, totally different thing. will never, unless you yourself are too horny and desperate cannot find any for sex so just find a reason to make yourself feel less pity, if i don't have certain chemistry with the person, how am i going enjoy? i don't even want to get any contact with him, i respect myself and others, so i would not do such thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted June 30, 2017 Report Share Posted June 30, 2017 actually knowing a person and get into the love web is already a charity. without acknowlegment and understanding of one background and jump into the relationship is a charity. losing the soul bit by bit,day by day,still not enough.years by years and by that time it is a charity fondation of ocean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted June 30, 2017 Report Share Posted June 30, 2017 41 minutes ago, Guest concern said: actually knowing a person and get into the love web is already a charity. without acknowlegment and understanding of one background and jump into the relationship is a charity. losing the soul bit by bit,day by day,still not enough.years by years and by that time it is a charity fondation of ocean. Is that so? The reason for going to a sauna should be selfish, to enjoy the pleasures of sex. Once we are there and we have our pleasures, it should not hurt to offer some pleasures to others here and there. Our bodies don't wear out from moderate, safe sex, and "charity" sex should never go beyond that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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