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I am sure there are many people out there who is currently having issues and of it could be the one as the title mentioned.

 

I get extremely horny when there is work overload or too much to handle (too much stress thus finding something fun?). But the fun is only temporary after which is leaves you void and disappointed.

 

I feel I am jerking off too much and I am trying to stop but it's really tough (feels like a full blown addiction). After i ejaculate, i'd feel back ache and teeth would suddenly become brittle like AND my hair started to drop and it's SUPER frizzy, I am going bald (excessive hair drop and severe receding seems to get worse after JO) thus I have decided to shave hair on Monday..

 

Anyone has similar problems? we could start a support group to fight this..feels like an addiction. I want to stop, it's ruining my psyche.

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You are not alone. I think I have the same problem as you. Addicted to masturbation, and doing it too frequently. Although I have been trying to abstain, it is pretty hard. It doesn't help that I get aroused by my fetishes easily.

Feel a little guilty sometimes.

 

My hair is thinning too, a bit of bald spot on the crown. Although masturbation doesn't directly cause hair loss, the increased DHT levels causes hair follicles to shrink.

 

Let's overcome our addiction!

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"Excessive"? For those who believe that they are doing it too many time a day, please share the average number of times a day you masturdate to ejeculation. I suspect the number may vary between you all. (ie. What is thought to be an "excessive" by one forum user may not be excessive to another)



 

 

 

 

 

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I used to Jo 7 times a day for many yrs. I am now in my mid 50s n I am still having sex once or twice a week.......don't worry about excessive Jo, your body will replenish your juice. Just eat and sleep well,and too get too stressed on doing it too often. Be happy.

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I used to Jo 7 times a day for many yrs. I am now in my mid 50s n I am still having sex once or twice a week.......don't worry about excessive Jo, your body will replenish your juice. Just eat and sleep well,and too get too stressed on doing it too often. Be happy.

Am in my early 50s. Somehow we slowed down with age. However, I always reminded myself to Jo at least twice a week. I might be misinformed as I had read reports that it is good to do so to prevent prostate cancer. I am heeding the call to do so..haha..I actually talked to someone who is a doctor and he told me that it is not true..so am confused..anyone can enlighten on this would be appreciated. :)

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I am sure there are many people out there who is currently having issues and of it could be the one as the title mentioned.

 

I get extremely horny when there is work overload or too much to handle (too much stress thus finding something fun?). But the fun is only temporary after which is leaves you void and disappointed.

 

I feel I am jerking off too much and I am trying to stop but it's really tough (feels like a full blown addiction). After i ejaculate, i'd feel back ache and teeth would suddenly become brittle like AND my hair started to drop and it's SUPER frizzy, I am going bald (excessive hair drop and severe receding seems to get worse after JO) thus I have decided to shave hair on Monday..

 

Anyone has similar problems? we could start a support group to fight this..feels like an addiction. I want to stop, it's ruining my psyche.

 

When I was younger, I do sometimes feels that I might had over did masturbation, because it seems like, I am doing it almost everyday. Sometimes out of boredom or sometimes due to just enjoying the feeling. Back then, we don't share what we do or how we felt to our parents or peers much and information and help weren't readily available online as internet was non existence. So I relied on books and magazines, etc. but few touched on such topics. I was left to just try to abstain until I can no longer "tahan". But when I was much older and experience taught me that masturbation "won't make me blind", nor would it "deplete my sperm" nor "make me infertile", etc. I relax more and take it as part and parcel of relieving myself of my urges.

 

In this day and age, and with the availability of information everywhere. Google and youtube, etc. are some of the places where  you can get all the information you want. Another source of help can also come from non-profit organisation like Oogachaga and it's counseling group.

 

So young LGBTQ nowadays are really spoil for choice where help are plenty. What you need is "Not to be lazy" and just to let your fingers do the 'typing' or "punching the number on your mobile" to seek help

 

So if you think, you might have a 'Problem', just go and seek help.

 

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Here is what I found with Google search.

How to Stop Masturbation Addiction

Can I Really Become Addicted to Masturbation?

 

In a world where drug and alcohol addiction dominate the news, talk shows, reality television and self-help books, it’s easy to believe that the only way to become an addict is to take a mind-altering substance. But behavioral addiction – including shopping, gambling, masturbation, exercise and many others – can be just as addictive as chemical substances. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, which is the bible of mental health conditions and diagnoses, recently added the category of behavioral addictions under the general heading of addictive disorders. These are addictions that don’t require the use of chemical substances, and this addiction marks the mental health communities acknowledgment that behaviors can be just as addictive as chemical substances.

 

Understanding Masturbation Addiction

 

Two brain chemicals play a powerful role in addiction. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that enables you to feel pleasurable emotions, and endorphins are chemicals released during stress and physical activity that allow you to recover and feel at ease. When you masturbate, the body releases dopamine to enable you to feel sexual pleasure, and frequently releases endorphins when you’re done masturbating. Over time, this frequent release of brain chemicals can become addictive. Because endorphins and dopamine can help you cope with stress, people experiencing extraordinary stress or mental health problems are especially likely to become addicted to the release of these chemicals that occurs with masturbation. Thus frequent masturbation can become an unhealthy coping mechanism that causes you to avoid – rather than address – your problems.

 

While masturbation is widely acknowledged to be an important part of healthy sexuality, any behavior in excess can prove problematic. After all, exercise can keep you alive, but too much exercise can kill you, and shopping helps you access food, but too much shopping will quickly drive you into debt. Masturbation is no different. If you masturbate several times a day, your brain can become addicted to the release of powerful, pleasure-inducing chemicals. Moreover, it can become more difficult for your brain to release these chemicals without increasing stimulation. Consequently, you may need to masturbate more frequently or to more dramatic stimuli in order to receive the same pleasure you previously had. Many people become addicted to porn at the same time they become addicted to masturbation because pornography allows people to seek out increasingly graphic stimuli.

This perpetual chase of the next brain rush is a hallmark of addiction. When your brain is fiending for dopamine, you’re experiencing similar feelings to those of a heroin addict, so it makes no difference that you’re not actually ingesting a chemical substance.

 

Am I Addicted?

 

The defining characteristic of any addiction is that it interferes with one major area in your life and that you are unable to stop despite strong efforts to do so. Some common symptoms that you may be addicted to masturbation include:

• Seeking out increasingly graphic, extreme or violent pornography

• Feeling ashamed of your masturbation habits

• Having trouble in a relationship because of masturbation

• Having trouble with sexual arousal or in-person sexual interactions because masturbation is easier or more pleasurable

• Masturbating in inappropriate locations such as at work, in the car or in public

• Legal trouble because of masturbation or other sexual behaviors

• Difficulty with time management

• Feelings of frustration, anger, sadness or depression when you can’t masturbate

• Trouble spending time with your children, enjoying your hobbies in other tasks you previously enjoyed

 

If you think you might be addicted to masturbation, don’t despair. Hope is available, so contact a qualified addiction specialist or therapist to begin a life free of addiction.

 

3 Keys to Breaking Free from Masturbation Addiction

This brief training is designed to help you gain insight and understanding into the reality that you can take control of your unwanted addiction and progress down the path to the life and relationships you want most.

 

Key #1: Sexual Outlets and Behaviors Can Create a Chemical Dependency in the Brain.

Key #2: Avoidance and Willpower are NOT Enough!

Key #3: Change is Possible.

How Do I Know If I’m Addicted

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You may be wondering is your struggles with pornography, masturbation or other unwanted sexual behaviors have reached the level of an “addiction.” Take our Porn & Masturbation Self-Test to assess where you are, and based on your answers, we’ll suggest a course of action.

 

Take our porn and masturbation addiction self-assessment and see where you’re at.

 

Porn & Masturbation Addiction Self-Test

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I do have a friend, who "feels the need to ejaculate at least once a day"...when I asked him why, he said "used to it since young".

 

I believed most of us, myself included, when we were much younger, we do jerk off like more than once a day, and it's common. As we age, the frequency reduces due to hormones, work stress, lifestyle etc... which, in any case is normal.

 

I feel, if masturbation is disrupting your daily schedule / life (very often), then please do seek professional advice. Else, as long as you feel  your body can cope and you enjoy it, why not? :P

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is that so ? excessive masturbation can really cause hair loss ??

I Love staring at guys' bulges & ass cracks in their undies or nylon shorts or biz pants or jeans... Will start to fantasise I am caressing them with my hardon rite inside my undies... Do you ?

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Masturbation is the root of all evil

 

Boi, masturbation is an act. The root of all evil, if any, is your brain that leads your hands to your dick.

 

Before you says such things to mislead others, especially those young, blur and clueless kids or quote any religious text.  I would appreciate that you stop posting misleading one liners or old wives tale or religious quote. And leave the post for others who are able to help.

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is that so ? excessive masturbation can really cause hair loss ??

 

Studies linking masturbation and hair loss have been inconclusive at best, from what I have read. It has been proven however that masturbation does increase testosterone levels and thus DHT levels, because testosterone is converted to DHT.

 

Excessive DHT will "signal" your hair follicles to shrink.

Propecia (aka Finasteride) is a hair loss medicine. It prevents the conversion of testosterone to DHT. Never tried it as it may cause side-effects, but clinical trials show that it does work.

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It's only 'excessive' because in society we make it so. Self satisfaction is consider taboo and hence once, twice or any amount equal to 'excessive'. There are no documented proof that too much of it causes hair loss, blindness etc etc. It only become an issue if you start doing it in full view of public or if you do nothing except that, all day long. Even if we want to, we are not an endless cum machine. There is only so much we can milk ourselves.

Every young folks when they find out about self pleasure will do it. Slowly over time when we have other things to occupy our mind/hands, we would not be complaining of 'excessive'. Hairloss, back pain, painful gum etc etc may be other underlining issue which you may want to seek professional medical help.

As to whether clearing your handgun to prevent prostate cancer, haven't found any documentations. Unless you have sexual issue, like myself which the urologist advice to clear the weapon. Otherwise, doing it is just for personal pleasure. If you don't clear it yourself, nature will just take over the job.

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sheesh... come to think of it... i was losing hair since Sec 3 and started masturbating since Sec 1-2...

 

I think i did like 5-10 times daily back den... my max was 15 times in a day... cummed until super pain sia...

 

sighs... maybe if i didn't masturbate so much, i won't start losing hair ;( boo boo~

 

Nowadays i only JO like 2-3 times a day if i'm free... 

 

I tried both Propecia and Minoxidil... not much effect on me though ;(

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When I saw the leftover serviette from kfc meal, cant help but wanted to jerk off. 

 

When I see guy in the public, cant help but wanted to have sex with them. I feel like my past was the infamous Poon Kam Lin. Wanted to have many guys dick inside my body. I feel like a slut. 

 

Can somebody help me how to curb all these desires. 

 

I wanted to jerk off but also have that familiar feeling that I will get weak after spilling the seeds. It kinda stop me from executing my plan. 

 

But the fire inside me is burning. Can I bring the sex energy up to my body, rising upwards all the way to my crown chakra?

 

 

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2 hours ago, Guest Sex said:

When I saw the leftover serviette from kfc meal, cant help but wanted to jerk off. 

 

When I see guy in the public, cant help but wanted to have sex with them. I feel like my past was the infamous Poon Kam Lin. Wanted to have many guys dick inside my body. I feel like a slut. 

 

Can somebody help me how to curb all these desires. 

 

I wanted to jerk off but also have that familiar feeling that I will get weak after spilling the seeds. It kinda stop me from executing my plan. 

 

But the fire inside me is burning. Can I bring the sex energy up to my body, rising upwards all the way to my crown chakra?

 

 

You are lonely. 

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Exercising may help.

 

Not sexercising.

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never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want.

 

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let this Taiwanese doctor teach you a few things but while watching his video, you will get arouse and masturbate even more 😉

 

 

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On 2/29/2020 at 6:21 PM, Guest Sex said:

When I saw the leftover serviette from kfc meal, cant help but wanted to jerk off. 

 

When I see guy in the public, cant help but wanted to have sex with them. I feel like my past was the infamous Poon Kam Lin. Wanted to have many guys dick inside my body. I feel like a slut. 

 

Can somebody help me how to curb all these desires. 

 

I wanted to jerk off but also have that familiar feeling that I will get weak after spilling the seeds. It kinda stop me from executing my plan. 

 

But the fire inside me is burning. Can I bring the sex energy up to my body, rising upwards all the way to my crown chakra?

 

 

 

 独乐乐,不如众 乐乐。

 

独摇摇,不如众摇摇。

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On 2/29/2020 at 6:21 PM, Guest Sex said:

When I saw the leftover serviette from kfc meal, cant help but wanted to jerk off. 

 

When I see guy in the public, cant help but wanted to have sex with them. I feel like my past was the infamous Poon Kam Lin. Wanted to have many guys dick inside my body. I feel like a slut. 

 

Can somebody help me how to curb all these desires. 

 

I wanted to jerk off but also have that familiar feeling that I will get weak after spilling the seeds. It kinda stop me from executing my plan. 

 

But the fire inside me is burning. Can I bring the sex energy up to my body, rising upwards all the way to my crown chakra?

 

 

 

 

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If you are still young, why worry if you jerk off too much?! Should not be a problem at all. Unless you are not young anymore, then should cut down a bit.

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On 2/29/2020 at 6:21 PM, Guest Sex said:

When I saw the leftover serviette from kfc meal, cant help but wanted to jerk off. 

 

When I see guy in the public, cant help but wanted to have sex with them. I feel like my past was the infamous Poon Kam Lin. Wanted to have many guys dick inside my body. I feel like a slut. 

 

Can somebody help me how to curb all these desires. 

 

I wanted to jerk off but also have that familiar feeling that I will get weak after spilling the seeds. It kinda stop me from executing my plan. 

 

But the fire inside me is burning. Can I bring the sex energy up to my body, rising upwards all the way to my crown chakra?

 

 

you still able to control with that thought is pretty good liao... but I don't think one will be weak just by spilling seeds la

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On 2/29/2020 at 6:21 PM, Guest Sex said:

When I saw the leftover serviette from kfc meal, cant help but wanted to jerk off. 

 

Do you have KFC fetish?

 

30 minutes ago, mate69 said:

 

to our new bi fren, welcum! hehe

Yes.

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On 11/24/2013 at 4:03 PM, MonstaInYoMind said:

I am sure there are many people out there who is currently having issues and of it could be the one as the title mentioned.

 

I get extremely horny when there is work overload or too much to handle (too much stress thus finding something fun?). But the fun is only temporary after which is leaves you void and disappointed.

 

I feel I am jerking off too much and I am trying to stop but it's really tough (feels like a full blown addiction). After i ejaculate, i'd feel back ache and teeth would suddenly become brittle like AND my hair started to drop and it's SUPER frizzy, I am going bald (excessive hair drop and severe receding seems to get worse after JO) thus I have decided to shave hair on Monday..

 

Anyone has similar problems? we could start a support group to fight this..feels like an addiction. I want to stop, it's ruining my psyche.

How much is too much?  These days everyone at home.  Jerk off even more

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On 5/30/2021 at 9:36 AM, FattChoy said:

How much is too much?  These days everyone at home.  Jerk off even more

 

Normal people when nothing to do bored. Will eat snack or watch TV. 

 

Sex addict will watch porn and pleasure themselves. Whenever they alone. Bored. Have long holiday etc. 

 

Extreme sex addict might even avoid family outing etc just so they can pleasure themselves at home.. 

 

Or in school. At work in toilet. 

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5 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Sometimes after work release at toilet then ppls will mistaken then will signal you... 

 

As long never do it openly in the toilet no know will notice about it. 

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On 10/5/2021 at 5:29 AM, Aces13 said:

I think it is not easily to quit masturbation once you started it. No matter how long you avoids it, you will start do it again. It just a matter of how frequently you do it. 

Exactly, it's a bit like going for massage, especially those with Happy Ending... 🤣🤣🤣 once started there is no ending... 

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On 10/5/2021 at 4:29 AM, Aces13 said:

I think it is not easily to quit masturbation once you started it. No matter how long you avoids it, you will start do it again. It just a matter of how frequently you do it. 


I sadly have to agree. I wasn’t a fan of it, but I keep doing it for the past 15 years 🤣

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i used to masturbate 3 to 4 times a day in secondary school and JC. the frequency increases during exam study weeks. is that a lot. now i still do it at least once a day. will do additional round if feeling stress or upset. the release soothe my mood and calm my anxiety down.

 

On 10/5/2021 at 5:29 AM, Aces13 said:

I think it is not easily to quit masturbation once you started it. No matter how long you avoids it, you will start do it again. It just a matter of how frequently you do it. 

i agree. it is hard to stop after starting. no turning back for me since 13.

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On 10/7/2021 at 1:17 AM, G_ZK said:

i used to masturbate 3 to 4 times a day in secondary school and JC. the frequency increases during exam study weeks. is that a lot. now i still do it at least once a day. will do additional round if feeling stress or upset. the release soothe my mood and calm my anxiety down.

 

i agree. it is hard to stop after starting. no turning back for me since 13.

It seems that masturbation become an effective method for stress and anxiety relieving for some BW members.

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On 10/7/2021 at 1:17 AM, G_ZK said:

i used to masturbate 3 to 4 times a day in secondary school and JC. the frequency increases during exam study weeks. is that a lot. now i still do it at least once a day. will do additional round if feeling stress or upset. the release soothe my mood and calm my anxiety down.

 

i agree. it is hard to stop after starting. no turning back for me since 13.

Usually when you are young, would masturbate often and even few times per day. I also tried before jerk off 4 to 5 times per day when i was young. But when you are older, esp in 40s, you would not have the masturbate addiction anymore. Sometimes can even 1 to 2 weeks no masturbate.

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On 10/7/2021 at 12:17 AM, G_ZK said:

i used to masturbate 3 to 4 times a day in secondary school and JC. the frequency increases during exam study weeks. is that a lot. now i still do it at least once a day. will do additional round if feeling stress or upset. the release soothe my mood and calm my anxiety down.

 

i agree. it is hard to stop after starting. no turning back for me since 13.


frequency increases to how many per days? When I was in school, I think my max was 2 and it was not even a regular thing. Maybe I am just the odd one out or too little lol. But I feel if I do it less, it feels more shiok once I do it again.

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On 10/7/2021 at 5:01 PM, Guest guest said:

Usually when you are young, would masturbate often and even few times per day. I also tried before jerk off 4 to 5 times per day when i was young. But when you are older, esp in 40s, you would not have the masturbate addiction anymore. Sometimes can even 1 to 2 weeks no masturbate.

True

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