legohouse93 Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 I was wondering if actual relationships can begin through conversations in BW because most of the people I've spoken to seem to want friends, and end up just expecting benefits without friendships, or any sort of human relationship whatsoever, whereas others are more truthful and direct with "you want fun?". For the LGBT community to sustain its presence in the nation, it really seems that we have to move beyond the immediate physical desires to a progressive workable BW platform where people can actually meet desirable life partners and engage with members of his community should LGBT one day be legalized. Exploration and realization is a crucial part of the puberty process even through the late teens and distended young-adulthood. Fun reveals the sexual desire of the subject person, though when he reaches the crossroads, he needs to know if being gay is what he really wants even if the circumstances make it extremely challenging without public and community support and a blatant lack of capital if he desires to migrate, For better or worse, the gay community (and the gay-curious) are on the same boat, and right now, we are driftwood in calm waters. Choppy seas and turbulent winds are forecasted if we challenge the superior and we don't take water damage well. We should probably hint a way to move forward, otherwise we will be obsolete if we stay stagnant or rise if tides from allied neighboring waters one day reach us. pioneerboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyeMHappi Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 I had my first bf from bw, even though it was short-lasted. So yeah, it is possible. there was a time 1 So just be free , just be yourself. Nobody can be the way you are.Not ready for another relationship. Just live life and be happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dorkable Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 Yes it can, but maintaining it is another matter altogether. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xyleneo Mon Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 My first bf left me with a note on BW. I found new friends but yet to locate him again. ...? wishy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 Relationships can start anywhere.Even some relationships begin in a straight setting i.e. friend's party or gathering etc. iamziz 1 I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thom_ Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 Definitely can. I met my first ex from here. Didn't go out well but still remain as friends. My current bf is from here as well. We knew each other via a whatsapp group and later...yeah. he's a guy I love forever because he captured my heart completely. Farquee 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted January 31, 2014 Report Share Posted January 31, 2014 I met my bf from bw too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farquee Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 Definitely can. I met my first ex from here. Didn't go out well but still remain as friends. My current bf is from here as well. We knew each other via a whatsapp group and later...yeah. he's a guy I love forever because he captured my heart completely.Heh I know who Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thom_ Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 Heh I know who Haha shhh. We don't need the whole world to know this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farquee Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 Haha shhh. We don't need the whole world to know this. Heh okayy ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 Met my boyfriend thru BW. A fun session to be exact.We stayed in touch and met up a week after and dated a bit. Our 2nd anniversary coming soon too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 I was wondering if actual relationships can begin through conversations in BW because most of the people I've spoken to seem to want friends, and end up just expecting benefits without friendships, or any sort of human relationship whatsoever, whereas others are more truthful and direct with "you want fun?". For the LGBT community to sustain its presence in the nation, it really seems that we have to move beyond the immediate physical desires to a progressive workable BW platform where people can actually meet desirable life partners and engage with members of his community should LGBT one day be legalized. Exploration and realization is a crucial part of the puberty process even through the late teens and distended young-adulthood. Fun reveals the sexual desire of the subject person, though when he reaches the crossroads, he needs to know if being gay is what he really wants even if the circumstances make it extremely challenging without public and community support and a blatant lack of capital if he desires to migrate, For better or worse, the gay community (and the gay-curious) are on the same boat, and right now, we are driftwood in calm waters. Choppy seas and turbulent winds are forecasted if we challenge the superior and we don't take water damage well. We should probably hint a way to move forward, otherwise we will be obsolete if we stay stagnant or rise if tides from allied neighboring waters one day reach us. I think you are over thinking. Relationships can start anywhere, it's about two people at the same place at the same time. I met my partner thru a 1800 chat line, that's 18 years ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clickclock Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 same here, though It lasted in a split second, we felt like we were in a r/s for the sake of being in a r/s, I draw sexy men, visit http://www.toastwire.tumblr.com click on 'My Artworks'. Willing to take on comissions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 I did. I had my happiest one yet via this forum. Not quite the same anymore after he left. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelix Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 Well, I met my ex and my friends through different dating apps and in my notion, those platforms provide worst outcome compared to BW if you are looking for a serious relationship regardless of platonic or long term relationship. Yet, it happened. The point is relationship can blossom anywhere provided you are willing to make an effort for it to work and not just playing it safe through social messaging or chatting but actual meetup for drinks, movies, dinner and such. bibi88 1 http://instagram.com/franciscwh90/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 It is definitely possible. Just have to put more effort in knowing a few more people. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 1, 2014 Report Share Posted February 1, 2014 Yes I have met friends from here. Friends, not bf's. And we have travelled together too. I think if you can travel with friends and remain friends then thats a good sign that the friendship is ok and will last - you get to find out about peoples habits when you spend a lot more time with them or when you stay with them in a room, share meals, etc, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 2, 2014 Report Share Posted February 2, 2014 http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=707&page=6Yes. Proven many times over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted February 2, 2014 Report Share Posted February 2, 2014 why not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted February 3, 2014 Report Share Posted February 3, 2014 anything can happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FirsTimer Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 All you need for that stranger-turn-friend to say yes... it's not hard I guess. Rather, we should wonder would you find the right one in BW.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 (edited) Yes I have met friends from here. Friends, not bf's. And we have travelled together too. I think if you can travel with friends and remain friends then thats a good sign that the friendship is ok and will last - you get to find out about peoples habits when you spend a lot more time with them or when you stay with them in a room, share meals, etc, etc.Agreed, travelling with friends is the best time to test ur friendship. Heard many pple became 'enemy' after went travelling with friends, who might already known for yrs! So if u n ur friends survive after a trip, then it is really a gd sign. Edited February 5, 2014 by alien 对自己好是一种幸福, 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Agreed, travelling with friends is the best time to test ur friendship. Heard many pple became 'enemy' after went travelling with friends, who might already known for yrs! So if u n ur friends survive after a trip, then it is really a gd sign.Yup agree. Went w my bffs, uni frens. Also went w bf. Tested and satisfied Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted February 5, 2014 Report Share Posted February 5, 2014 Yup agree. Went w my bffs, uni frens. Also went w bf. Tested and satisfiedHaha, wht is bffs? Actually bf not really consider lar, cos relationship consider special. Dun think will easily 'face-off'or become enemy after travelling, even there might have some quarrelling. But friends are different, even u know them for years, but due to some disputes or unhappiness during the trip, ur friendship might turn sour. 对自己好是一种幸福, 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cube3 Posted February 6, 2014 Report Share Posted February 6, 2014 BW is a great place to make friends, and from friendships...next stage? :clap: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted February 6, 2014 Report Share Posted February 6, 2014 Not only BW, but it can happened anywhere. Having said that, there are also jerks anywhere, just be wary. Go on, meet more people, make new friends. Keep an open mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rawbird Posted February 6, 2014 Report Share Posted February 6, 2014 I met my bf on cam4, he's at taiwan studying and we chatted for few months. Then I flew over for vacation and waited for him to finish his studies. Now we are together for 3 years 3months and 5days line id: ask with a dp at least Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
undies87 Posted February 6, 2014 Report Share Posted February 6, 2014 yea why not.. its still a platform. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted February 6, 2014 Report Share Posted February 6, 2014 Didnt know love still works in the aj community hahahhaa Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted February 7, 2014 Report Share Posted February 7, 2014 Bffs are ur best friends forever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted February 7, 2014 Report Share Posted February 7, 2014 Didnt know love still works in the aj community hahahhaa Any more jaded and China will start claiming you as a cultural artefact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted February 7, 2014 Report Share Posted February 7, 2014 It's quite hard for gay people to progress because most of us don't even know what we want in life. Not a cynical opinion but honest perspective of what's happening on the ground. Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted February 7, 2014 Report Share Posted February 7, 2014 Relationships can start anywhere.Even some relationships begin in a straight setting i.e. friend's party or gathering etc. Precisely.Why is BW so 'special' that a relationship can't start from here when it is just another online platform just like the other online platforms where couples met each other? ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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