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I'm 20 this year and I'm still very troubled over my little brother downstairs. Whenever I see someone hot/just began to fantasize/enter blowing wind page/while entering a porn site, it'll get an erection immediately. It's the same when I'm outside, at the swimming pools, communal showers etc... I'm so worried cause I get erections way too easily and it's troublesome since I'm enlisting this year... I don't want my other bunk mates to treat me differently or see my erections almost every other day...

Anyone facing such problems as well? How do we reduce these situations??

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For a moment there, I thought your little brother really lived downstairs.

 

Then I realised that you mean your COCK.  Hello, Cock say cock lah, what "my little brother downstairs".

 

Honestly, you know how many men would die to have a spontaneous erection but they can't?  You know how lucky you are? Those uncles don't have pay money on Viagra if they can get the erection you are getting.

 

Here are some pointers to help you not have an erection problem.

1. Cut off your cock.  No Cock No Erection problem. (a little too extreme but grantee to work)

 

2. Live with it. Learn how to master your cock and not let your cock be your master. Learn to meditate and calm yourself down when you get excited. It's mind over cock not cock over mind.

 

3. If all else fail. Masturbate and cum before you go and do your swimming, etc. When you get the edge off, you won't get erection so easily.

 

4. If you don't know how to masturbate or don't want to masturbate. Then you should knock yourself hard on your head or pinch your cock till it hurts and let the pain help makes your erection goes down.

 

Hopes it helps.

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Not to worry! the toilets in bmt are partitioned with doors, you don't have to bathe with other in the same cubicle if you don't want to  ;)

 

In bmt, everyday is pretty much packed with activities. no time for resting in bunk and getting erections lol. Most likely you will be tired at the end of day and just want to bathe and sleep.

 

Don't sexualise your bunk mates, treat them as your bro and don't let your mind wander and fantasise about whats underneath their pants. 

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Hope you will get pass your bmt! I miss it so much! It was fun doing communal shower. Oh that was my time many years back in tekong... Don't worry about erection ya, you won't cos you really be tired to do so. Worry after your bmt when you are posted to unit! That's where fun starts! Have fun n enjoy your saf training! You will never regret!

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I used to have the same problem too. Slightest touch or the sight of a handsome man and my cock goes boing!!!

Sometimes it felt like my cock never go soft for the whole day. I even tried staying with a friend, stayed naked the whole day and asked him to watch me to see if I would ever go soft. He said I never.

I was worried that I would get gangrene of the cock but I never did. It was only in my 50s before this problem slowly subsided to my relief.

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You don't have to do anything dude it's normal for young pple who's in that age. It will reduce after u get older and if u r really horny, I suggest u joining some sport clubs as working out will balance ur hormone.

Don't go to gay sauna or watch too much porn . That's not the solution and u will regret it.

Good luck

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I used to have the same problem too. Slightest touch or the sight of a handsome man and my cock goes boing!!!

Sometimes it felt like my cock never go soft for the whole day. I even tried staying with a friend, stayed naked the whole day and asked him to watch me to see if I would ever go soft. He said I never.

I was worried that I would get gangrene of the cock but I never did. It was only in my 50s before this problem slowly subsided to my relief.

Lol

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Hope you will get pass your bmt! I miss it so much! It was fun doing communal shower. Oh that was my time many years back in tekong... Don't worry about erection ya, you won't cos you really be tired to do so. Worry after your bmt when you are posted to unit! That's where fun starts! Have fun n enjoy your saf training! You will never regret!

2359 lights off, close your eyes. open your eyes, 0500 hrs morning jog.

One's dick is so tired it look like a 'sng boey'.

But I know of 2 or 3 platoon mates still DIY in the morning.

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I'm 20 this year and I'm still very troubled over my little brother downstairs. Whenever I see someone hot/just began to fantasize/enter blowing wind page/while entering a porn site, it'll get an erection immediately. It's the same when I'm outside, at the swimming pools, communal showers etc... I'm so worried cause I get erections way too easily and it's troublesome since I'm enlisting this year... I don't want my other bunk mates to treat me differently or see my erections almost every other day...

Anyone facing such problems as well? How do we reduce these situations??

Chop it off.

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Dont worry. A doctor mate told me they where taught in med school the average male has 6 erections per day when younger but fade away until late in life when you end up with none.   Lucky guy  LoL

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I was faced with a similar problem in my younger days. During BMT, try not looking at the guys during communal baths...like looking down, closing your eyes etc to take your mind off those cute bodies. Just have to give yourself some practice - mind over matter. Hope it works.

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Imagine you're with SpongeBob , Hello Kitty and Kerokeropi having tea. I tell you, that would make it shrink

     I'm really turned-on if both heads (the head above and the head below) are both functioning well

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Why do I get easily erected when massage by male or female masseur near my abs. My friend said should not get erections if I am gay when female masseur touch me...hmmm

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Think of your mum whenever u have this happy problem.

鍾意就好,理佢男定女

 

never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want.

 

结缘不结

不解缘

 

After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say.

 

看穿不说穿

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I know of someone who gets an erection very easily too. After swim, he cannot change openly if there are others around. Not that he is checking out on others. The moment he senses/feels someone is looking at him, he will get hard.

so if you look at him he wont get hard ar?

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I'm 20 this year and I'm still very troubled over my little brother downstairs. Whenever I see someone hot/just began to fantasize/enter blowing wind page/while entering a porn site, it'll get an erection immediately. It's the same when I'm outside, at the swimming pools, communal showers etc... I'm so worried cause I get erections way too easily and it's troublesome since I'm enlisting this year... I don't want my other bunk mates to treat me differently or see my erections almost every other day...

Anyone facing such problems as well? How do we reduce these situations??

 

 

Lol I get it when reading books XD my mind tends to wonder off to a different topic

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I'm 20 this year and I'm still very troubled over my little brother downstairs. Whenever I see someone hot/just began to fantasize/enter blowing wind page/while entering a porn site, it'll get an erection immediately. It's the same when I'm outside, at the swimming pools, communal showers etc... I'm so worried cause I get erections way too easily and it's troublesome since I'm enlisting this year... I don't want my other bunk mates to treat me differently or see my erections almost every other day...

Anyone facing such problems as well? How do we reduce these situation?

Firstly, this is a good 'problem'. Anyway, try reciting the alphabet backwards.

Here and now.

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Will masturbating daily makes it stronger when we reach 30s, 40s, 50s or 60s? Sort of like an endurance training if we want muscle to be strong, therefore pumping it daily gives it a boost in the long run.

 

Or what's the age when one starts to have problem having an erection?

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On 5/3/2014 at 1:59 AM, Guest Benjamin said:

I'm 20 this year and I'm still very troubled over my little brother downstairs. Whenever I see someone hot/just began to fantasize/enter blowing wind page/while entering a porn site, it'll get an erection immediately. It's the same when I'm outside, at the swimming pools, communal showers etc... I'm so worried cause I get erections way too easily and it's troublesome since I'm enlisting this year... I don't want my other bunk mates to treat me differently or see my erections almost every other day...

Anyone facing such problems as well? How do we reduce these situations??

 

Pleae enjoy your “easily erection” while you still capable, next time you want an erection also cannot then you’ll regret.  

金缕衣》作者:杜秋娘

劝君莫惜金缕衣,劝君惜取少年时。
花开堪折直须折,莫待无花空折枝。

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I also get erections very easily. When I was in secondary school, one of the older boys taught me to hide my erections by always wearing a jockstrap inside or outside my underwear, whichever feels more comfortable. Since then I have always worn a jockstrap outside my underwear, unless I'm in a non-tropical country during the winter months, at which times I tend to wear both regular underwear and long thermal underwear. Wearing a jockstrap over my underwear keeps my frequent erections from showing whenever I see hot guys in public, such as on the MRT or at the shopping mall, but it does make me sweat a little more down there. But sweating a bit more is much better than having other people seeing you with an erection in public.

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Boots are made for walking, Erection are meant to be natural for men..

 

So no need to wear another pair of jocks over an underwear... Just flaunt it inside your undies... its your asset.... nothing to shame about...

 

i have seen guys in commando in their shorts or sweatpants having a hardon with their families members or frends around .. ... the guys just let it as it is

 

 

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2 hours ago, auri said:

I am now over 40, and still having similar issues.

Communal showers, hot springs, saunas,  anywhere naked men are around, or where I am naked/exposed , sometimes even at a urinal, my didi will not listen to command!

Is it because you seldom or hardly come face to face with naked guys when you were young eg shower together after sports or shower together during camping trip etc?

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11 minutes ago, bluerunner said:

Is it because you seldom or hardly come face to face with naked guys when you were young eg shower together after sports or shower together during camping trip etc?

 

went for weekly swim since about age 10 or something (buena vista), so have definitely had my share of male nudity!

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12 hours ago, DeMarko said:

Boots are made for walking, Erection are meant to be natural for men...

 

So no need to wear another pair of jocks over an underwear... Just flaunt it inside your undies... its your asset.... nothing to shame about...

 

i have seen guys in commando in their shorts or sweatpants having a hardon with their families members or frends around .. ... the guys just let it as it is

 

Maybe you have no sense of embarrassment but I do.

 

If my father, brothers, uncles, or male co-workers saw me with a hard-on, I would leave the country in shame and get a job overseas so I won't need to face them.

 

If my mother, sisters, aunts, or female co-workers saw me with a hard-on, I would feel so terrible that I would seriously contemplate committing suicide right away.

 

Not everybody is an exhibitionist with no moral sense.

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14 hours ago, bluerunner said:

Then how come your cock still so excited when seeing ohher person’s cock? 

 

You ask me, I ask who??? :lol:

 

It can be a bit of a problem when I visit hot springs in Taiwan/Japan! 

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9 minutes ago, Lumbakuda said:

If men cant get erection then its a problem. 

Witness a young boy in his 12 13 yo getting an erection n semen flow out from his hard cock at geylang east swimming complex many years back.

I was like him when i was young. Spontaneous erection.  Now looks like someone gotta stimulate to wake it up. Take time i should say.

 

ha ha, much rather this, than having erectile dysfunction.......

 

however, i am no longer a teenager, so should be able to control better!

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