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Hi fellow seniors,

is anyone of you out there having a relationship with a junior? Can share your experience with such a senior and junior relationship? Does it work, what are the challenges? Of course, juniors do look exceptionally good... he he

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Hi fellow seniors,

    is anyone of you out there having a relationship with a junior? Can share your experience with such a senior and junior relationship? Does it work, what are the challenges? Of course, juniors do look exceptionally good... he he

First, you have to consider the age gap. Second, need to take into consideration the mentality differences. Third, be prepared when people might mistaken you are his uncle or even father. Fourth, sexual compatiblity..he needs more than you can give. Fifth, he is comfortable with his own age group and hyperactive, can you cope his life style ? Sxith, he might not able to understand the situation you are facing, and cannot deal with serious discussion such as property, stock ...and other personal issues. Seventh, as being young, he might be playful and unstable, he does not know what he is really seeking in a relationship, he still want to explore and try the outside world as the temptations are there. Eighth, he is financially dependent, you need to feed him. Nineth, different perceptions of things. Tenth, you will age faster than him ( depending on the age difference) and lost your charm while he is still in demand..you will soon feel insecure.

I have not try any guy ten year younger or older than me. I think these are factors to consider. :rolleyes:

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Hi fellow seniors,

     is anyone of you out there having a relationship with a junior? Can share your experience with such a senior and junior relationship? Does it work, what are the challenges? Of course, juniors do look exceptionally good... he he

First, you have to consider the age gap. Second, need to take into consideration the mentality differences. Third, be prepared when people might mistaken you are his uncle or even father. Fourth, sexual compatiblity..he needs more than you can give. Fifth, he is comfortable with his own age group and hyperactive, can you cope his life style ? Sxith, he might not able to understand the situation you are facing, and cannot deal with serious discussion such as property, stock ...and other personal issues. Seventh, as being young, he might be playful and unstable, he does not know what he is really seeking in a relationship, he still want to explore and try the outside world as the temptations are there. Eighth, he is financially dependent, you need to feed him. Nineth, different perceptions of things. Tenth, you will age faster than him ( depending on the age difference) and lost your charm while he is still in demand..you will soon feel insecure.

I have not try any guy ten year younger or older than me. I think these are factors to consider. :rolleyes:

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I do agree with a few points Thaiboyz has made.

My boy is 9 years my junior and we have been together for coming to 4 years..

In any kind of relationship, there should be a certain level of compromise..

We do see differences in our views but we also learnt to respect one another views. Communications is very important...

The only thing is the high sexual drives that worn me out..that why need to find toys to satisfy...

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Hi fellow seniors,

     is anyone of you out there having a relationship with a junior? Can share your experience with such a senior and junior relationship? Does it work, what are the challenges? Of course, juniors do look exceptionally good... he he

First, you have to consider the age gap. Second, need to take into consideration the mentality differences. Third, be prepared when people might mistaken you are his uncle or even father. Fourth, sexual compatiblity..he needs more than you can give. Fifth, he is comfortable with his own age group and hyperactive, can you cope his life style ? Sxith, he might not able to understand the situation you are facing, and cannot deal with serious discussion such as property, stock ...and other personal issues. Seventh, as being young, he might be playful and unstable, he does not know what he is really seeking in a relationship, he still want to explore and try the outside world as the temptations are there. Eighth, he is financially dependent, you need to feed him. Nineth, different perceptions of things. Tenth, you will age faster than him ( depending on the age difference) and lost your charm while he is still in demand..you will soon feel insecure.

I have not try any guy ten year younger or older than me. I think these are factors to consider. :rolleyes:

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I do agree with a few points Thaiboyz has made.

My boy is 9 years my junior and we have been together for coming to 4 years..

In any kind of relationship, there should be a certain level of compromise..

We do see differences in our views but we also learnt to respect one another views. Communications is very important...

The only thing is the high sexual drives that worn me out..that why need to find toys to satisfy...

If we are talking the age gap more than 15 years or more, we need to consider the crucial factors which a relationship is based on. Communication and understanding must be emphasized before commitment can even made. Sexual compatibility is only part of a relationship, unable to create a comfortable zone for each other and lets the feelings develop further, the relationship wont last. Unless we are looking into different aspects such as sugar daddy cases which are more like trading services. :blink::unsure:

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Eighth,  he is financially dependent, you need to feed him. Nineth, different perceptions of things.

I though it is the other way round :-) The junior proividing the juicy sustenance and the senior feeding on it :-)

Hahah...you har! Here i am talking about financial dependency but NOT juice dependency lah. Of course, young juice is nice to taste lah...and the older one has to feed the young one with good supplements first rite ? :twisted:

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My opinion on any relationship in term of long term relationship, must be based on mutual understanding, respect, help and trust each other, rather than the sexual aspect, education matter, age difference, religion, etc. These would come second to me.

If we start the relationship based on sexual aspect, it would work but I don't think, ot would last long based on my previous experience.

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personally age shouldnt be an issue, all things can be and should be communicated and work towards solving it.

all those issues that had been mentioned, eg sexually, mentally, financially, will happened to all age groups.

we always associated younger with immature and senior with maturity, however i had seen teenagers with a mature mental while older with childish behavior.

we can be certain that one will definitely grow older but not wiser :P

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personally age shouldnt be an issue, all things can be and should be communicated and work towards solving it.

all those issues that had been mentioned, eg sexually, mentally, financially, will happened to all age groups.

we always associated younger with immature and senior with maturity, however i had seen teenagers with a mature mental while older with childish behavior.

we can be certain that one will definitely grow older but not wiser :P

ya what can be worse than an old man with immature mind n childish behavior.

it can jus cause u vomit blood. vomit non-stop.

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How mature a person is, depend on many factors such as family upbringing, the environment he has exposed to, the responsibilities he need to take on...etc

I also cant tolerate someone's childishness and immaturity if he has reached a certain age. Perhaps, we have our own judgement and expectations, as long as relationship is conerned, we need to take and give lah.

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mine is 9 yrs my senior... but we are comfortable together... to me the age gap does not really matter. it is the leverl of maturity that is more improtant. as we get older, our thinking and outlook on life changes. I am 33 and he is 42, but that does not mean i am childish. Maybe if he is 30 and i am 21 then there might be a so called "age-gap" :ph34r:

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relationship for a short term, anything can do but for a long term, although most says that age is not important, however we have to think many things, the gap between the age is too great then it creates the different interest, say one is 21yo and the other one, say 39yo, on weekend the young one wanna spend in pub and disco, the older hates the loud music :blink:

education backgound also quite important, what to talk? what topic? this also need to consider :blink:

religion, race, interest and so many things need to think too.

so many things to consider at the end, no permanent bf and end up only ONS .....................hahahha :D

so take and give, mutual understanding and respect each other would prolong the relationship :thumb:

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I have a relationship with a Caucasian who is in his 60s and I am in my early 30s when I was attached in Europe for a few years. We are having so much joy and fun together that it is almost unreal. So, I am a supporter of the senior junior relationship. Hehe

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say one is 21yo and the other one, say 39yo, on weekend the young one wanna spend in pub and disco, the older hates the loud music :blink:

education backgound also quite important, what to talk? what topic? this also need to consider :blink:

so either compromise, either one week to disco, another stay at home.

or do creative thinking, quite a number of disco has pubs outside eg Zouk has valvet underground, so while the younger is twisting inside disco, the senior can chill out in the pubs.

it is all a matter of whether both wanted to oversome the differences.

likewise on conversation topic, one party can learn what the other likes (am sure regardless of education, there are bound to have some common topics)

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I have a relationship with a Caucasian who is in his 60s and I am in my early 30s when I was attached in Europe for a few years. We are having so much joy and fun together that it is almost unreal. So, I am a supporter of the senior junior relationship. Hehe

wow, 30 years gap in age. if you walk together side by side, it looks like father and a son, isn't it ?

sometimes, when i see in orchard rd, a young local guy and a matured angmoh walked together (both in casual wear and behave strangely), i would stare at them and then my mind would get wild, either they are a gay couple or a what so called a callboy entertain an angmoh ? :oops:

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sometimes, when i see in orchard rd, a young local guy and a matured angmoh walked together (both in casual wear and behave strangely), i would stare at them and then my mind would get wild, either they are a gay couple or a what so called a callboy entertain an angmoh ? :oops:

What you saw in orchard rd, an older angmoh with local guy is true, either angmoh living here with his "sugar boy" or a tourist angmoh with his "escort boy" :rolleyes: This similar also in Bangkok, so many you can see on the road

However don't always be mistaken, some of them especially those with office attire could be their business associate or client :D

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Hehe, a lot of people presumed that my Caucasian Bf is a suggar daddy. In truth, I am a young exceutive and finacially independant. So it is not the money that I am after. I just more comfortable with an older guy. And oh, you wouldn't believe how horny and his stamina in bed..hehe. We still keep in contact and he is coming to visit me in Singapore soon !!!!!!!!!!! Hehehe !!!!!!

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hmmm... come to think of it, my first BF was an australian.... i was 17 then and he was 56... that means...39 yrs age gap...... he has more energy than anyone else! :smokin:

Chubbybear, 39 years gap. This was like grandpa and grandson's relationship rather than father and son ........... :lol:

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well my Bf is 12 years my senior,we have been together for 4 yrs, we don't have much topics to communicate about, no common interests, not much sex either... :rolleyes:

But we just communicate through body languages, it is much better than talking alot... like pouring tea, fetching food, boiling cooling tea, helping with shopping loads, smiling at each other, hugging and giving goodnite kisses during bedtime... :) I mean there are more ways to maintain a relationship rather than being so practical with physical matters... :thumb:

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well my Bf is 12 years my senior,we have been together for 4 yrs, we don't have much topics to communicate about, no common interests, not much sex either... :rolleyes:

But we just communicate through body languages, it is much better than talking alot... like pouring tea, fetching food, boiling cooling tea, helping with shopping loads, smiling at each other, hugging and giving goodnite kisses during bedtime... :) I mean there are more ways to maintain a relationship rather than being so practical with physical matters... :thumb:

Guest_koumin, wow, you have a very strange relationship with your bf, not much topics to discuss, not much sex and no common interest and yet the relationship till now already 4 years ……….. :thumb: some of us had the compatibility from all aspects, but the relationship lasted not long ……. :oops:

Quote: Golf and sex are about the only things you can enjoy without being good at them. ~ US Professional Golfer Jimmy Demaret

Quote: If you watch a game, it's fun. If you play at it, it's recreation. If you work at it, it's golf. ~ Actor Bob Hope (1903 - 2003)

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well my Bf is 12 years my senior,we have been together for 4 yrs, we don't have much topics to communicate about, no common interests, not much sex either... :rolleyes:

But we just communicate through body languages, it is much better than talking alot... like pouring tea, fetching food, boiling cooling tea, helping with shopping loads, smiling at each other, hugging and giving goodnite kisses during bedtime... :) I mean there are more ways to maintain a relationship rather than being so practical with physical matters... :thumb:

Guest_koumin, wow, you have a very strange relationship with your bf, not much topics to discuss, not much sex and no common interest and yet the relationship till now already 4 years ……….. :thumb: some of us had the compatibility from all aspects, but the relationship lasted not long ……. :oops:

Yah. I also find it a bit weird. Why dun talk?

Sorry no offence but you sounded like either one of you can't talk and thats why have to use body language. I can understand no common interests and no sex but communication should be vital. Even though body language is also a form of communication but why no much talking?

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:P

IMOP,

did not read the thread well only the first one,

basically, what do you mean by senior and junior? senior means someone who had been in the scene for long or someone who is older?

Just feel that the old saying" love is blind".........when you are deeply in love with someone, you will be forgottern about his age,his financial abilities and his physical looks,his attutidue,his mentality,his maturity and many more.......

Love is unable to define by characteristics and personality triats........its an exchange of emotional frequency........if you are hesitated by something.....your love towards the person is still not that strong........and prehaps its only a liking or a preferrence.........

cheers

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I guess I have to at this point say thanks to all who contributed their sharings and views.

I personally agree that age is not an issue as long as each party is comfortable with each other.

However, as shared by some of you, I get very self-conscious of people talking if we walk together in public places. Especially when our age gap is huge to give the perception of either a sugar boy or daddy type.

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I guess I have to at this point say thanks to all who contributed their sharings and views.

I personally agree that age is not an issue as long as each party is comfortable with each other.

However, as shared by some of you, I get very self-conscious of people talking if we walk together in public places. Especially when our age gap is huge to give the perception of either a sugar boy or daddy type.

Why cant the perception of jus Father and son. why is must be daddy type. u r too self-conscious. :lol:

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I guess I have to at this point say thanks to all who contributed their sharings and views.

I personally agree that age is not an issue as long as each party is comfortable with each other.

However, as shared by some of you, I get very self-conscious of people talking if we walk together in public places. Especially when our age gap is huge to give the perception of either a sugar boy or daddy type.

hahahaha :lol: just avoid walking together lah, should you meet someone and tell them, he is my nephew ... :D

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actually its not always about money... my ex that i got, aussie is 52 while i was 17 too and i loved him due to his thinking and maturity... I am still looking for someone to love and get loved back... sigh... that was the oldest lah... LOL

Although the physical age stays for everyone, the mental can be changed, like in occasions, i would rather be like a 15 year old kid, be my 20 year old self or even in serious situations, i can become 30 or 50.... it depends on each and everyone...

ok.. enough of serious talk... i am really looking around tho... LOLX!!!

Did i mention that he was very charming and gentlemanly too?? LOL

Can anybody find me, somebody to love?

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wow, elton, just visited your bloggie, so many of your pictures there, you are not bad looking leh :thumb: i think i started to fall in luv leh ... :oops:

why so funny nick name, half angmoh name (elton) and the other one is half japs name (toshi ryuki)

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I personal feel that its case to case basis. Depending on how these two persons are willing to commit. My only encounter was at the beginningn of last year, i met up a 17 year old who shown keen interest to go into something more than friendship with me. I was 31 and he was 17, i almost double his age. He gave me the impressive of an " innocent young punk" who will fall blindly on his first date. Being senior, i bought him meals and chat along. I did not know what to chat, except movies, entertainment issues....and perhaps fashion. I started to have a feeling that i was chatting with my eldest nephew. He talked about school activities, subjects, his classmates....Gosh, i have been out of school for so long and i realised i was outdated in this area. Perhaps it was my body language, i send him home later. He suggested something naughty..i rejected him politely as it illegal to do it with an underage person. I felt funny and wonder how could i possible getting into a relationship with him. :unsure:

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hahahaha :lol: just avoid walking together lah, should you meet someone and tell them, he is my nephew ... :D

If you see two well built senior and junior walking together, would you think this way? Ha ha...

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Why cant the perception of jus Father and son. why is must be daddy type. u r too self-conscious. :lol:

I suppose you are right about me being too self-conscious. Not really out to a lot of pple lei... hmm.... a good new year resolution perhaps... ha ha :D

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Why cant the perception of jus Father and son. why is must be daddy type. u r too self-conscious.  :lol:

I suppose you are right about me being too self-conscious. Not really out to a lot of pple lei... hmm.... a good new year resolution perhaps... ha ha :D

You really dun have to think so much about what others will say or criticise. As long as both of you enjoy each other's companionship, who are the outsiders to judge and pass remarks ? Just go ahead and enjoy your life with him. :P

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just wonder, you guys out there... do you like guys 10, 15, 20 years older then you? Why so?

for me whether 10, 15 or 20 years gap, it does not matter, however my opinion to have a long term relationship with your partner, the other party must be minimum 25-26 years old, once he finished NS, study whether tertiary or non-tertiary and started working already ... :thumb:

if one party below 25-26 years and still under graduate or still doing training or worst than that still schooling then a bit difficult to prolong the long term relationship, however short term, there is no problem at all ... :whistle:

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I wonder how can i cope if a 62 yr old man going after me...should i say yes or not ? Sexually, we cant do much...i have to becareful not to be too agressive on bed....and i look up to him as my senior who have experienced life much much more than me....financially he is very capable. I dun want to be labelled as "sugar boy" or he as "sugar Dad". I still wish to work hard for my career while together with him. Other than that, he is a caring and concern person. :rolleyes:

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just wonder, you guys out there... do you like guys 10, 15, 20 years older then you? Why so?

for me whether 10, 15 or 20 years gap, it does not matter, however my opinion to have a long term relationship with your partner, the other party must be minimum 25-26 years old, once he finished NS, study whether tertiary or non-tertiary and started working already ... :thumb:

if one party below 25-26 years and still under graduate or still doing training or worst than that still schooling then a bit difficult to prolong the long term relationship, however short term, there is no problem at all ... :whistle:

y cant a under graduate prolong a long time?

I wonder how can i cope if a 62 yr old man going after me...should i say yes or not ? Sexually, we cant do much...i have to becareful not to be too agressive on bed....and i look up to him as my senior who have experienced life much much more than me....financially he is very capable. I dun want to be labelled as "sugar boy" or he as "sugar Dad". I still wish to work hard for my career while together with him. Other than that, he is a caring and concern person.

Sometime u will be quite surprise how sexually active an old man can be. for my dad, his is still hard like a rod.n he always ever stil so horny.

Another thing is that an old man/senior is like any other person. n most depend on his personlity.

If u met some stubborn old man, u will wish u have a tap to your vein, so it easier for u to vomit blood. :smokin:

On the other hand, if he is a sweet, caring person, u be so delighted that he can be so ever understandin n carin n tender n nothin seem to matter as long we together. :)

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y cant a under graduate prolong a long time?

although i like so much those guys in 20s, my experience dealing with them is their mind is unstable, today like this and tomorrow like that, they can change mind easily, especially those i came to know who were undergraduate whom financially still dependant from their parent .......... but once they went to work and faced the reality in working environment, somehow found they become matured in some ways .... (just my himble opinion) :whistle:

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y cant a under graduate prolong a long time?

although i like so much those guys in 20s, my experience dealing with them is their mind is unstable, today like this and tomorrow like that, they can change mind easily, especially those i came to know who were undergraduate whom financially still dependant from their parent .......... but once they went to work and faced the reality in working environment, somehow found they become matured in some ways .... (just my himble opinion) :whistle:

icic, those young unseasoned mama-boy.

ok.

ya agreed, now youngster seem to mature quite slowly. maybe the parents today r more well-off. n ya maid also. they take care of them too much.

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wow, elton, just visited your bloggie, so many of your pictures there, you are not bad looking leh  :thumb: i think i started to fall in luv leh ... :oops:

why so funny nick name, half angmoh name (elton) and the other one is half japs name (toshi ryuki)

thanks.... i am flattered.... heehee

then name came from my ex who was a jap... he gave me that name... i just fell in love with the name Ryuki so i added to Toshi the original one...

Can anybody find me, somebody to love?

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what a question to ask.... i am 21 now and i had about...... 4 or 5 gay relationships... not counting my ex gfs :oops:

ps: sorry for the late reply darling...

hmmmm, so many already 4-5 gay relationships, say 1 year one relationship, means you started at the age of 14-15 years, Sec 2 or 3 ..... plus relationship with gfs, means started from Primary School ..... hahaha

ps. yeah darling, i knew it because i saw a few postings by you in other gay forum sgboy und you were active in the forum ... hahaha :clap:

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come on worldangel, i am not that bad... just that when i do not meet someone that i really have feelings for, i would not want to lead the person on further thus, i have quite a number relationships. All my past relationships do not last longer than 1/2 a year... which i would say is a pity... i would love tot try out with someone who is sincere and also willing for me to con!! hahaha :blink: well there are a lot of considerations in a relationship.

Like what David Pelzer said, maybe i think too much.

Heehee

you bothered to check all the details of me?? are you trying to stalk on me or what?!?! hahahaha well i am no celebrity or big shot, just your ordinary boy...

so, tell me, what have you found out about me? a big flirt? teeth baring monster? :twisted:

Can anybody find me, somebody to love?

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come on worldangel, i am not that bad... just that when i do not meet someone that i really have feelings for, i would not want to lead the person on further thus, i have quite a number relationships. All my past relationships do not last longer than 1/2 a year... which i would say is a pity... i would love tot try out with someone who is sincere and also willing for me to con!! hahaha :blink: well there are a lot of considerations in a relationship.

Like what David Pelzer said, maybe i think too much.

Heehee

you bothered to check all the details of me?? are you trying to stalk on me or what?!?! hahahaha well i am no celebrity or big shot, just your ordinary boy...

so, tell me, what have you found out about me? a big flirt? teeth baring monster? :twisted:

No lah, not like that …. Why should I check on other, so many other things better to do lah. Reason, because I am also participating in the other gay forum and while browsing, I saw you your nick name there which attracted my attention, hey this guy looks familiar in this BW forum too … :D

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