worldangel Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 There is many times when you see guy on the street, you might guess that guy is a gay but unable to confirm it. If the guy wearing an ear ring on right ear confirming that he is gay??I was told, normally gays (mostly youngster) are wearing ear ring on the right ear as the left ear for the straight. Is this correct statement??How about the ring wearing on the finger? Would this also confirming his gayness??Let us talk for those who know this …... a good oral sex makes your day, a good anal sex makes your "hole weak" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest clementi Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 maybe your statement is correct, right earring is gay, left earring is straight and both earrings is 'female' but disguised in 'male' body .............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skylancer Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 for me, i think depend on the person behaviour and his dress code. as some guys like to put on left ear, others on right ear or both. it is hard to know. but there r 2 things confirm to know whether he is or not are dressing and behaviour.that all i can tell.any other got a better way to know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazygolfer Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 Well, I also think what ‘worldangel’ said is correct, right earring is definitely a gay and left earring is a straight. I just checked in wikipedia attached and they were talking the same thing … http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talk:EarringAs for finger ring, I notice that many gays wearing ring in middle finger, maybe this is also a sign of gayness … :whistle: Quote: Golf and sex are about the only things you can enjoy without being good at them. ~ US Professional Golfer Jimmy DemaretQuote: If you watch a game, it's fun. If you play at it, it's recreation. If you work at it, it's golf. ~ Actor Bob Hope (1903 - 2003) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubbybear Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 It use to be some sort of a gay symbol wearing a pinkie ring or a stud on your right ear lobe. BUt this metrosexual guy things have made wearing earing a fashion statement. I guess it is no longer a symbol for gayism or things like that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skylancer Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 i think depend to fashion so ppl nowaday dont care left or right rules...so it is harder to know. Like wat chubbybear say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ry-d Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 oopss.. i pierce on the wrong side.!.hehe.. well, actually yeah, piercing on the right ear are label as gay. For me, not being 'out' yet, i got 2 peircing on my left ear. Maybe will go for my right ear soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest clementi Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 It use to be some sort of a gay symbol wearing a pinkie ring or a stud on your right ear lobe. BUt this metrosexual guy things have made wearing earing a fashion statement. I guess it is no longer a symbol for gayism or things like that... I just asked my sister to check on one earpiercing salon in town and the salon lady said that gay who bought ear ring from her salon requested her to pierce on the right ear ...... so just be cautious if you have brother or relative who is not gay who want to pierce the right ear ....... can be mistaken :whistle: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubbybear Posted January 4, 2006 Report Share Posted January 4, 2006 oopss.. i pierce on the wrong side.!.hehe.. well, actually yeah, piercing on the right ear are label as gay. For me, not being 'out' yet, i got 2 peircing on my left ear. Maybe will go for my right ear soon. i have got 2 on my left and 1 on my right.... but i only wear 1 on my left most of the time... only certain occassions calls for both.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chubkido Posted January 5, 2006 Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 It use to be some sort of a gay symbol wearing a pinkie ring or a stud on your right ear lobe. BUt this metrosexual guy things have made wearing earing a fashion statement. I guess it is no longer a symbol for gayism or things like that...Actually if u c anyone wear right earring n u like him, u can jus go for him. i mean no need worry whether he is gay or metrosexual. cause anyone who is metrosexual is either half swung to gay-curious or is pretty quite a open-minded person already. alekzand 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worldangel Posted January 5, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 Actually if u c anyone wear right earring n u like him, u can jus go for him. i mean no need worry whether he is gay or metrosexual. cause anyone who is metrosexual is either half swung to gay-curious or is pretty quite a open-minded person already. What? So daring are you Chubkido, if you see the guy in gay sauna, then it's okay to approach, but in other place, you mght slap by that guy ... a good oral sex makes your day, a good anal sex makes your "hole weak" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chubkido Posted January 5, 2006 Report Share Posted January 5, 2006 Actually if u c anyone wear right earring n u like him, u can jus go for him. i mean no need worry whether he is gay or metrosexual. cause anyone who is metrosexual is either half swung to gay-curious or is pretty quite a open-minded person already. What? So daring are you Chubkido, if you see the guy in gay sauna, then it's okay to approach, but in other place, you mght slap by that guy ... That dependin on slappin where? jus kiddin what i wanted to say is, i think most metrsosexual guys should be half way there already, wont i be excitin if u be his first love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted January 8, 2006 Report Share Posted January 8, 2006 I dun believe that,i know most gays put on earing on the left side,mean they not gay,haha,but they 100% are,Those pppl that i met all say i look too str,mayb cos i am bi but i still enjoy fun with those i click,i also dun believe that if u r sissy mean u r mostly gay or btm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Any thoughts?What the hell is with this stereotype? I mean... Really? 21th Century man!Well my story is I had this friend who recently got his ear pierced without letting his parents know... He is around my age, 18... He just wants to get it.. I mean this is not like going to saunas and have sex... there's not huge risk like HIV or STIs here...When his mum saw, man... She practically fainted!She jerked back, head down and said "Oh god why"Drama much? I mean what is she so afraid off? She didn't tell him so he couldn't tell me..But he said that he thought she thinks that getting a piercing means you're gay.. which he is... but there's no link!!And neither it is linked to being Beng... Man! It's about how to carry yourself not a little dot you have at your ear lobe!He, like me, is pretty western... We don't conform to the social norms of the Singaporean/Asian culture... So i guess to us it's not beng...What are your opinions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stardustsxz Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 parents will always live by traditional/conservative way of life.we can't change that cause it's already an integral part of their lives. sooner or later, she will accept it and i hope society too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yousuke Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Many of my caucasian colleagues have pierced ears and wear ear studs to work. I wear ear studs to work too. And it's the kind of office environment kind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seignolia Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 My straight friends have piercings as well. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going. :hat: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 i've got one too... but no idea why the drama?!?!? and ear piercings started off as a man stuff actually... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 YEA!! Some people need to grow up! I feel like getting just one too.. But I don't know.. Haha undecided.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarius Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Those people need to grow up! heh! Im deciding if i should pierce:x hehehe.Ps: Some guys with piercing are hot! "I love the way you lie." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 I started with my left ear. Years later, my left nipple. Last year underneath my balls. It was not well done. I removed and did it again. I didn't like it. I removed it. Thinking of trying one last time to see if I like it for the last time. Possibly next BKK trip.No one seen me topless with my piercing at a public pool or gym be it private or public and scream or stare - 'That guy is gay.' Yes, people need to grow up. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mvoo Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 (edited) traditional i guess?my mum said, piercing meaning you're beng or gay but it's so not true but somehow still gotta do it haha. Edited August 26, 2012 by mvoo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MinWoo Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 my family is okay with it..since my elder bro pierced his ears 1st..i had the priv to pierce mine too..can take my bro as cover=X Too fast to live, too young to die. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Piercing I'm ok. Tattoo depends on what kind and where but keep it classy. But I do judge, especially for tattos. Something this permanent done on a whim doesn't reflect well on the person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 (edited) Piercing I'm ok. Tattoo depends on what kind and where but keep it classy. But I do judge, especially for tattos. Something this permanent done on a whim doesn't reflect well on the person.Totally agree... If i ever get a tattoo. i want it to represent who i am.. Not some dragon chinese art.. Mine would probably be classic but UniqueBut it's subjective i guess. each person has their own preference. a big dragon with many bright colours may be how a people portrays himself.. so i don't judge haha Edited August 26, 2012 by stbrianud Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 When i first had my right nipple pierced many year ago, it invited alot of stares. But is so common now. Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Piercing I'm ok. Tattoo depends on what kind and where but keep it classy. But I do judge, especially for tattos. Something this permanent done on a whim doesn't reflect well on the person.well... it's an art... but I dun have any tattoo yet. thinking of inking my 1st one... wanna ink my name (one of the chinese character) on my back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 It's a type of fashion. What's there to judge lol. I have 4 piercings so that makes me ultra gay or ultra beng? Can't stand old fashioned people who can't accept changes. It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 It's a type of fashion. What's there to judge lol. I have 4 piercings so that makes me ultra gay or ultra beng? Can't stand old fashioned people who can't accept changes. Totally! They think we need to grow up? I think they need to grow up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 I think it's about slowly bringing out the acceptance of change in our parents and those we care about that just can't accept things right now.My parents thought it was girly/beng-ish when I pierced both my ears.They thought that my vegan diet,excessive barefoot running,martial arts over-training,e.t.c. weren't conforming to the norms they thought children should adhere to.Right now they're still mildly uncomfortable of my sexuality as well.But they're coming around It's an expression of art on our bodies.So long as you think it's beautiful (I totally sense another debate coming on), why the hell not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 i guess i'm lucky my mum didnt said anything when i've got like 5 ear piercings on my ears.thinking of getting another, but no idea which part. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 I mean, society's norms are constantly changing. If those old-fashioned people out there are not gonna change their thinking, well soon they'll be lacking behind or outcasted lol. My parents are totally fine with it though! (guess it's cos they're quite open-minded and fashionable themselves haha) It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 i guess i'm lucky my mum didnt said anything when i've got like 5 ear piercings on my ears.thinking of getting another, but no idea which part. let's go for industrial, tragus or tongue!! hahah It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 I mean, society's norms are constantly changing. If those old-fashioned people out there are not gonna change their thinking, well soon they'll be lacking behind or outcasted lol. My parents are totally fine with it though! (guess it's cos they're quite open-minded and fashionable themselves haha) Man! You are so lucky! Mine are religious 19th century nuts-__- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 let's go for industrial, tragus or tongue!! hahahhmmm i dont think i wanna pierce any part of my ear since i've already got 5.ok tongue sounds like an idea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Man! You are so lucky! Mine are religious 19th century nuts-__- I have friends whose parents are like that too! Try to talk to them! haha (: but i don't think i'll take the risk to open up to my parents even if they're very open-minded .... so yeah. It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 hmmm i dont think i wanna pierce any part of my ear since i've already got 5.ok tongue sounds like an idea. but i heard the swelling part sucks and i'll speak like some idiot haha. wanted navel too but it would be pointless since i can't possibly exhibit my fat tummy to everyone lol! and tongue piercing confirmed will get judged . omg what's with this judging thing. so tired and sick of it. It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runwayunicorn Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 My Dad even wanted to get one with me because he wanted to look hip. Okay can. MinWoo, merlinkun, mvoo and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 My Dad even wanted to get one with me because he wanted to look hip. Okay can.WIN!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 but i heard the swelling part sucks and i'll speak like some idiot haha. wanted navel too but it would be pointless since i can't possibly exhibit my fat tummy to everyone lol! and tongue piercing confirmed will get judged . omg what's with this judging thing. so tired and sick of it.exactly. thats why i have no idea where else i can get pierced and not be judged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgboxers Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Never had my ears pierced, but having them doesn't really said if one person is gay or beng. I do think your friend's mum is overreacting a little. But I do see where she's coming from, she's from a traditional Asian family which does not condone these practices. Give your friend's mum a little time and I believe she would say "how nice it looks" in time to come. =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Adults will always be concern for children... Even my aunt don't let me dye my hair even though I am 21 already -.- EasleyLim 1 https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
players02 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Could probably be a religious thing too. I know I wouldn't tattoo, pierce or dye my hair.I love my body and I ain't going to do anything to it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ongwsjackson Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 (edited) Aye before I got piercings mum said she'd throw me out of the house if I get one. But I got it.Aye before I got inked mum said she'd throw me out of the house if I get one. But I got it.Okay I was/am an impudent kid. She no choice, lan lan suck thumb. Edited September 5, 2015 by jacksonongws Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Aye before i got piercings mum said she'll throw me out of the house if i get one. But i got it.Aye before i got inked mum said she'll throw me out of the house if i get one. But i got it.Okay i'm was/am an imprudent kid. She no choice, lan lan suck thumb.HAHAHAH! Best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEPTIE1234 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 My Dad even wanted to get one with me because he wanted to look hip. Okay can. HAHAHA i like your dad!!! hipster dad. It's better than I ever even knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spencer Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 hmmm. i just want to share that I have ever told my mom that I wanted to get piercing on my ear. (i actually wanted nipple piercing too but that can put on hold ) When telling her that well she did not reject the idea, she actually asked me if I want to get it done at well a more sterilized environment. My mother is hippie (Y) but her fashion sense compare to mine is of a totally different world. D: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Unless we're talking religions or customs, there is one almost definite thing about a man who wears earring:He's image-conscious.Be it the rebellious or trendy angle, I don't think either bodes well with the parents... the former for obvious reasons, and the latter because, well, generally guys are not supposed to pay that much attention to their image. If he does, he's probably metrosexual, feminine, and/or gay. It's a stupid stereotype, but well, it's there. players02 1 “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
players02 Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Unless we're talking religions or customs, there is one almost definite thing about a man who wears earring:He's image-conscious.Be it the rebellious or trendy angle, I don't think either bodes well with the parents... the former for obvious reasons, and the latter because, well, generally guys are not supposed to pay that much attention to their image. If he does, he's probably metrosexual, feminine, and/or gay. It's a stupid stereotype, but well, it's there.Boys these days look like girls. Vice versa.What is becoming of this world :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Boys these days look like girls. Vice versa.What is becoming of this world :/Would you rather have guys look like this https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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