Possible To Turn A Straight Men Gay?

March 27, 2012

I do want to keep him but i guess at the end of the day when he gets married, some part of me will be lost with that and never come back again

Friendly · March 27, 2012

I agreed with Mispronounced. A man is gay only when feelings and emotions are involved. From here, can I say that virgin man is not gay ? Man loves hole regardless the hole is from where.

Cannot agreed more to that.. Most people in fact all people wants face so to speak. At that moment of time they want it and after that they decline everything.. Afterwards they themselves are confused. Like hur..what..no la.. this and that.. you name it.. Everyman has some woman in them and every woman has some man in them.. i rest my case.. cheers..

EasleyLim · March 27, 2012

Sometimes i am confused. My best buddy who is str8 and has initimate relationship with his gf comes to me telling me if u are a charbor I would have married u instead. he likes to touch and tease me sendin me all the wrong signals.

This means he's attracted to you emotionally (i.e you understand him better than his gf does) but not physically (i.e you have a penis, he likes vaginas).

Soulmates I suppose?

March 27, 2012

I dun expect anything from him in fact. I am just contented when he sometimes drops me an sms or calls me almost religiously everyday. Sounds funny right. I am already in my 30s already yet still behave like this

Exynos · March 27, 2012

it is possible, or close to. the problem is that Singapore's society is too contrived, that "bromance" is almost deemed as a taboo.

for example in China, there're many guys who would have their arms over all each other when they're out; i know of a couple of guys who are married with kids, and would french kiss under the influence of alcohol. would 2 Singaporean men of similar friendship level do the same, i doubt so?

so for those who are lusting over that straight guy, sorry but we're brought up to believe that men need to keep 10 miles away from each other.

aidenz91 · March 28, 2012

for me my only way to test whether a straight guy could be either gay or bi was be a close friend bring home touch him if he reacts den your lucky LOL.. i guess diff people has diff styles

my first gay sex was with my first sec school crush he was 16 i was 15 we were like brother he was a beng with multiple gf changing every month. despite being that occasionally we would have sex abt 2 times per week sometime skipping school at my place. prolly one of my best memories. shits happens he drop out of school we lost contact. a yr later we met and the same thing happen again we had sex only to lose contact again being him sent into RTC. only recently i see him again his alrdy 22 im 21 now his attach with a girl happily. and i no longer has a crush on him.

recently i kind of touched my junior who stay over at my house when he was asleep. he got a hard on but i stop touching coz i was late alrdy needed to book in didnt get to continue further im in a stay out unit. a day later at my birthday bbq celebration both of us got drunk we hug each other nth much and he kinda showed me his thing. and he kind of gave me the silent treatment for 2 days prolly confused although i know he like girls since i did a searcch on his laptop during his stayover LOL. but oh well he contacted me again and we're like normal friends again who knows tings might happen in the future :X. and i kind of like him haha even my mum noes it n tried to bring us closer. but ill let nature takes its course.

whether changing a straight guy to gay is possible nobody noes. the guy can show gay traits but still be straight prolly a bi confuse. the only way to trigger his gay side would jus b touching him intimately if he reacts means ur lucky. so far i got lucky i guess with the straight guys i've been with twice.

and recently i found out from my mum ... my dad was gay.... and his bf was one of my family friend.... LOL i was sent speechless by my mum .

xxx · March 28, 2012

It's impossible to turn a straight guy gay, but you can make him lust after you. His orientation won't change, but you can turn him on nonetheless if you're hot enough. That's what i know.

fab · March 28, 2012

Hmmm......is it possible to turn straight men into gays? Anyone out attempted this before and succeeded?

is it possible to turn u into straight?

March 28, 2012

You cannot turn someone into something else. He must either be already receptive or he never will be.

Not unless you want to bloody kidnap him and gang rape him until he begs for more, all depends on you.

gstc82 · March 29, 2012

Those who believe that a straight man can be turned into gays, are you all also supporting groups who claim that they can turn a gay man straight? Any guys who have a tinge of having sex w a man is bi.

March 29, 2012

I define sexual orientation as the deep sexual-cum-emotional (or romantic) attraction one experiences towards some other living or non-living objects. (this means it could be towards the male or female or both genders of his species, or towards other animals or towards non-living things such as corpses and tables and chairs and so on). Sexual orientation is not defined by the sexual act itself.

Some (maybe not all) people's sexual orientation are fixed right from the time they were a foetus in their mothers' wombs.

Some (or most, but maybe not all) people's sexual orientation are fixed by the time they reach a certain age.

Some (not all) people's sexual orientation may still be flexible before a certain age (e.g. some may be before 4 years old)

Some (not all) people's sexual orientation may still be flexible during their teenage years.

Some (not all) people's sexual orientation may still not be permanently fixed during part of their adulthood.

A minority of people may not experience any sexual attraction to the either sex.

What we experienced (e.g. from some of our experience we found that our sexual orientation being fixed when we were very young as a kid) may not be applicable to everyone else.

A minority of people may be really able to change their sexual orientation during adulthood.

Just as straight people should not base on their own heterosexual sexual attraction to deny the existence of homosexual attraction in others, perhaps we too should not deny the experience of every single person among the minority who claimed to experience a change in their sexual orientation. (which means, a tiny minority of straights may really be able to become gay during adulthood, and a tiny minority of gays may really be able to become straight during their adulthood)

March 29, 2012