darkflame Posted June 28, 2017 Report Share Posted June 28, 2017 I was at the Kodrah Kristang festival in May and one of the young boys called me Uncle. I don't why but I smiled after that. It's as if I have hit a milestone in my life. suckmegood 1 I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lmao Posted June 28, 2017 Report Share Posted June 28, 2017 30+ = uncle You expect people to call you boy boy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tienkan Posted June 28, 2017 Report Share Posted June 28, 2017 try acting cute lor....later kena call "laopuziu" LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted June 28, 2017 Report Share Posted June 28, 2017 To a young 20s, 40s is uncle n 60s is grandpa. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoChnBTMs Posted December 2, 2017 Report Share Posted December 2, 2017 uncle already Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Neh Neh Posted December 2, 2017 Report Share Posted December 2, 2017 1 hour ago, TwoChnBTMs said: uncle already You married and have child? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted December 2, 2017 Report Share Posted December 2, 2017 On 08/08/2016 at 12:34 AM, Guest Neh Neh said: Generally a married straight guy with child or children is called "uncle" by younger siblings. A married straight women with child or children is called "auntie" by younger siblings. So i think "uncle" this word does not apply to gay men For gay men look older than you, should call then "Mr." If he looks younger than or around same age as you, you should call him "bro". Or sis. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted December 2, 2017 Report Share Posted December 2, 2017 3 minutes ago, fab said: Or sis. Or auntie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted December 3, 2017 Report Share Posted December 3, 2017 On 8/7/2016 at 11:34 AM, Guest Neh Neh said: Generally a married straight guy with child or children is called "uncle" by younger siblings. A married straight women with child or children is called "auntie" by younger siblings. So i think "uncle" this word does not apply to gay men For gay men look older than you, should call then "Mr." If he looks younger than or around same age as you, you should call him "bro". Strange! Never heard of calling older siblings "uncle" or "aunt" if they are married and have children. Normally WE are uncles if we have any sibling with a child. But then it is up to THIS CHILD to call us "uncle", not the rest of the world. Your reasons for calling others "Mr." or "bro" are equally strange. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyo74 Posted December 3, 2017 Report Share Posted December 3, 2017 (edited) If you dont like the person u can call him uncle to piss him off. You can also called younger guys in their 20s as uncle and they will equally be piss off. If you want to be respectful to others than dont call them uncles or aunties. In singapore the polite way of calling a strangers is Mr or Ms and Sir or Madam. When you piss others with name calling that others dont like, you are not giving the respect a person deserve and hate and anger will grow out of it. Have some empathy and you will not do such things ever again. You can easily see a person personality with their words. If you are going to date a guy, you are better off dating a person who will be respectful of others and can think in other people shoes. Edited December 3, 2017 by yoyo74 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 (edited) Surprisingly when i was a child , my dad said it's rude to call older ppl by names so he taught me to call them "uncle" or "auntie". But when i started to work ,this old aunties so call bitches in my office prefer me to call them by name n not auntie. Worst still this auntie who has retired compared her age with my mum which is years apart n said call me by name bcoz she is younger than my mum. I was like WTF. To me i feel more happy if the younger ones call me "uncle". The respect is there. Edited December 4, 2017 by cutejack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Osoo Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 1 hour ago, cutejack said: Surprisingly when i was a child , my dad said it's rude to call older ppl by names so he taught me to call them "uncle" or "auntie". But when i started to work ,this old aunties so call bitches in my office prefer me to call them by name n not auntie. Worst still this auntie who has retired compared her age with my mum which is years apart n said call me by name bcoz she is younger than my mum. I was like WTF. To me i feel more happy if the younger ones call me "uncle". The respect is there. Hi Uncle JACK, still act CUTE izzit? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 Anyone age can be cute mah. Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 It's not rude when a young child or boy address you as uncle but rather rude if they call you mister. Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 I ever encountered in the coffeeshop .... the kopi guy (late 50s or 60) who is older than me (40s) addressed me as uncle ... I was like .... huh?? Strange!! Cannot really comprehend ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 2 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: I ever encountered in the coffeeshop .... the kopi guy (late 50s or 60) who is older than me (40s) addressed me as uncle ... I was like .... huh?? Strange!! Cannot really comprehend ... So you want him to call you Xiao di Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 36 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said: So you want him to call you Xiao di Xiao mei Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest Guest said: Xiao mei So Xiao mei it’s what you want! ok Xiao mei Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 4, 2017 Report Share Posted December 4, 2017 27 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said: So Xiao mei it’s what you want! ok Xiao mei xie xie Jie Jie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Auntie Olivia Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 On 28/06/2017 at 1:03 AM, Guest Mr White said: I almost smack in the face a guy in a bus today going to Clementi. The bus was crowded and i was standing. when the guy came in, he told me “Uncle! Uncle! Please move to the rear end more”. I’m just in my early 40s to be called an Uncle. Excuse me! If you are already in 40s, you are already an uncle. Even of you are in early 20s and you look like an uncle then you are an uncle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fitcubsg Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 Perfectly happy to be called uncle :-) it’s called embracing your real self. I am happier being 45 now then when I was 25. So don’t sweat it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xcuez86 Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 So is there mature guys here ? I like Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 14 minutes ago, xcuez86 said: So is there mature guys here ? I like many but...........u may have to state your preferences as there r all sort of uncles have to start accepting once above 35yo, very likely to be addressed as one shared elsewhere that my Aunt who is close to 80yo called the men all uncles Hawker grandpas or granduncles (much older) also addressed all men above the age I mentioned above as uncles too While I was in the service line, many Caucasians never once connect our relationship by blood, they all addressed as "Thank u sir" ...sir, could u pls...... though I m supposed to serve them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cube3 Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 Ageism stereotypes and discriminates based on age. However casually used, 'uncle' reinforces prejudicial attitudes towards older people and perpetuates stigmatisation. The ignorant laugh it off and claim it is a term of affection or respect (e.g. professionally inept Mediacorp channels); yet they do not use it in situations where real respect is required, say, to address people of importance or in power. The ignorant use 'uncle' as a coping mechanism to deal with their own fearful thoughts of death and disability. By segregating and rejecting older people, they avoid thoughts of their own mortality. Result: prevalent systemic discrimination that is passive and covert. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 59 minutes ago, Cube3 said: Ageism stereotypes and discriminates based on age. However casually used, 'uncle' reinforces prejudicial attitudes towards older people and perpetuates stigmatisation. The ignorant laugh it off and claim it is a term of affection or respect (e.g. professionally inept Mediacorp channels); yet they do not use it in situations where real respect is required, say, to address people of importance or in power. The ignorant use 'uncle' as a coping mechanism to deal with their own fearful thoughts of death and disability. By segregating and rejecting older people, they avoid thoughts of their own mortality. Result: prevalent systemic discrimination that is passive and covert. copying yes, following everyone blindly by using that term - Yes but I don't think they feel good calling or segregating older pp and hence implying rejecting, they are not rejecting eg I mentioned many aunties and older ones called younger ones as UNcLEs too ...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest :-( Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 5 hours ago, Guest Auntie Olivia said: Excuse me! If you are already in 40s, you are already an uncle. Even of you are in early 20s and you look like an uncle then you are an uncle. My friends 30yo already being called uncle in the lift or outside. Kids these days are all like that, either uncle or auntie to someone older than them. You think they will call 大哥 大姐 issit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Tee Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 On 6/28/2017 at 9:48 AM, TwoChnBTMs said: uncle here...worst is those fat aunties, calls me uncle...so pissed off...i never patronise them again Yes, some hawker centre stall owners or assistants, obviously older than me by 10 years but call me uncle! I think the more tactful ones will call ‘大哥’ or ‘老板’. MeninSinglet 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitedick Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 I am fine being called uncle, kind of find uncle commonly used in singapore. Usually gonna be Sir, Mister, Dude where i come from. Nothing beats being called daddy in bed, grindr, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 The only time I like to be called uncle is during a hot sexual session. Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xcuez86 Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 I like matures who are into bromancing with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 don't like does not mean that you are not one of them, accept rather then denial the fact Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sucks Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 Is there any symbolic Uncle feature for gay compared to straight! What is the differential statics! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 I got china female colleague called other males guy 小哥 All local guys and gals almost fainted when everyone heard 小哥 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 小苹果 Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 8 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said: I got china female colleague called other males guy 小哥 All local guys and gals almost fainted when everyone heard 小哥 讨厌，你怎么笑人家嘛！ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 On 28/06/2017 at 1:03 AM, Guest Mr White said: I almost smack in the face a guy in a bus today going to Clementi. The bus was crowded and i was standing. when the guy came in, he told me “Uncle! Uncle! Please move to the rear end more”. I’m just in my early 40s to be called an Uncle. You'd rather he call you "fucker" instead? You are like those lao zar bor who get all offended when they are called "auntie". When I was in my 30s, my friends' kids already called me "uncle", and it never bothered me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 8 minutes ago, Guest 小苹果 said: 讨厌，你怎么笑人家嘛！ Precisely she said that but 小哥is too much to stomach for local pax Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 I fear the day will come when I am "promoted" from Uncle to "Ah Gong". Actually my niece has children, so officially I'm an Ah Gong...大叔公。 So I am VERY happy when someone call me UNCLE rather than Ah Gong. **二叔公 is a colloquialism for Pawn Shops.... **三叔公 is my favourite brand of cookies and titbits in Malaysia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 I remember when I was in school, there was a boy with a rather pompous mother. She forbade her son's classmates from calling her "auntie". They had to call her, "Mrs Yong". blowmenow and mate69 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest not hiding Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 Just "call you by your name" then... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 21 minutes ago, abang said: I fear the day will come when I am "promoted" from Uncle to "Ah Gong". Actually my niece has children, so officially I'm an Ah Gong...大叔公。 So I am VERY happy when someone call me UNCLE rather than Ah Gong. **二叔公 is a colloquialism for Pawn Shops.... **三叔公 is my favourite brand of cookies and titbits in Malaysia. I am 舅舅already Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted March 13, 2018 Report Share Posted March 13, 2018 (edited) 9 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said: I got china female colleague called other males guy 小哥 All local guys and gals almost fainted when everyone heard 小哥 Actually, "小哥" is quite a respectful term for an older woman to call a younger man whom she regards fairly well. If you watch from 19:00 onwards in the video below, Guo Fu calls Yelu Qi "大哥", but when Huang Rong addresses him, she calls him "小哥" as she is obviously his senior. Incidentally, both ladies think highly of Yelu Qi, and if you know the story, you will know where that led to Anyway, I think "小哥" is a very nice, respectful term to use. Pity I've never heard it used in S'pore before. Edited March 13, 2018 by CKW Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cube3 Posted March 13, 2018 Report Share Posted March 13, 2018 21 hours ago, -Ignored- said: copying yes, following everyone blindly by using that term - Yes but I don't think they feel good calling or segregating older pp and hence implying rejecting, they are not rejecting eg I mentioned many aunties and older ones called younger ones as UNcLEs too ...... Discriminatory language, whether intentional, always adds to the cycle of abuse. If age, ethnicity, gender or sexual orientation etc. is not relevant, why is it highlighted or emphasised? 'Chinks', when used by white people, belittle and trivialise the Chinese and their experiences. 'Faggots', when used by straight people, demean and devalue LGBTQs, and so on. If we are not aware of such use of discriminatory language, how can we do away with discrimination and its damaging effects? Don't straight people also say, when we get discriminated against: "...copying yes, following everyone blindly by using that term - yes, but I don't think they feel good calling or segregating gay pp and hence implying rejecting, they are not rejecting..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted March 13, 2018 Report Share Posted March 13, 2018 13 hours ago, Guest Sucks said: Is there any symbolic Uncle feature for gay compared to straight! What is the differential statics! Gay uncle more fit, wear tight, more flamboyant with dyed hair style. Straight uncle are just the typical uncle, with glasses, a tee and jean. Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted March 13, 2018 Report Share Posted March 13, 2018 (edited) 9 hours ago, LeanMature said: Gay uncle more fit, wear tight, more flamboyant with dyed hair style. Straight uncle are just the typical uncle, with glasses, a tee and jean. Very true. Straight uncles look like uncles. When they are married to an auntie, she would hate to have him look younger than her, so straight uncles should better look older and "distinguished". Gay uncles don't have such restriction. With good health and skills, a gay uncle can (should) look at least 10 years younger than the straight counterpart. I am quite senior, but I have no need to look like a grandpa, although I could even be a grand-grandpa, haha. A gay grandpa can (should) look 15 to 20 years younger than the straight counterpart. . Edited March 13, 2018 by Steve5380 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendlyboy Posted March 13, 2018 Report Share Posted March 13, 2018 My friends and I are mid twenties to 30s. We call anyone 30 and above uncle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cube3 Posted March 14, 2018 Report Share Posted March 14, 2018 10 hours ago, friendlyboy said: My friends and I are mid twenties to 30s. We call anyone 30 and above uncle My friends and I are church-goers. We call anyone who might post on BW faggot...but in a friendly way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted March 14, 2018 Report Share Posted March 14, 2018 21 hours ago, LeanMature said: Gay uncle more fit, wear tight, more flamboyant with dyed hair style. Straight uncle are just the typical uncle, with glasses, a tee and jean. really? gay uncles don't wear tee and jeans/berms? those that need glasses? Maybe must stand outside modelling co. ie CRUISE to take a photo survey Specs has nothing to do with gayness & then grown older right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted March 14, 2018 Report Share Posted March 14, 2018 1 hour ago, -Ignored- said: really? gay uncles don't wear tee and jeans/berms? those that need glasses? Maybe must stand outside modelling co. ie CRUISE to take a photo survey Specs has nothing to do with gayness & then grown older right? Did I say gay uncles don't wear tee and jeans ? FluteGuan 1 Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted March 14, 2018 Report Share Posted March 14, 2018 My nieces gave birth. Their kids call me ''Atuk'' (Grandfather). 28 of them. They have a sexy Atuk ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted March 14, 2018 Report Share Posted March 14, 2018 7 minutes ago, LeanMature said: Did I say gay uncles don't wear tee and jeans ? so confusing loh bespectacled - yummy! how do we know seductive?cos must have encounters before Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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