Guest Bi Married Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 How many married men here have cheated on their wives and been found out? How did she respond when she found out and what did you say to her? How many end up divorced or separated? If she forgave you, Did you continue to cheat after that! Could you restrain yourself from cheating or having fun with other guys? I live in constant fear of being found out by my Wife and yet I couldn't stop myself from straying... I don't stray with girls Bec they can be sticky plus I also like the feel of a throbbing cock in my hand and mouth. I don't like to be fucked Bec of pain. Interested to hear from other married men how they deal with it. It wld be so good if I have someone like-minded to talk to about this... I am so worried I may go insane Bec of the anxiety. openstraight and biLanjiao 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fatty Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 Please stop. Women charter will pawn you dreamerboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post KENZ Posted May 23, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 1 hour ago, Guest Bi Married said: How many married men here have cheated on their wives and been found out? How did she respond when she found out and what did you say to her? How many end up divorced or separated? If she forgave you, Did you continue to cheat after that! Could you restrain yourself from cheating or having fun with other guys? I live in constant fear of being found out by my Wife and yet I couldn't stop myself from straying... I don't stray with girls Bec they can be sticky plus I also like the feel of a throbbing cock in my hand and mouth. I don't like to be fucked Bec of pain. Interested to hear from other married men how they deal with it. It wld be so good if I have someone like-minded to talk to about this... I am so worried I may go insane Bec of the anxiety. If you are living constantly in fear and anxiety, it is eating into your soul already, please try to be faithful to your wife from now on jiayou jiayou yuquidam, fab, jeremypaul and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 9 minutes ago, KENZ said: If you are living constantly in fear and anxiety, it is eating into your soul already, please try to be faithful to your wife from now on jiayou jiayou Don't try. Pls be. jeremypaul and KENZ 2 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyan Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 1 hour ago, Guest Bi Married said: How many married men here have cheated on their wives and been found out? How did she respond when she found out and what did you say to her? How many end up divorced or separated? If she forgave you, Did you continue to cheat after that! Could you restrain yourself from cheating or having fun with other guys? I live in constant fear of being found out by my Wife and yet I couldn't stop myself from straying... I don't stray with girls Bec they can be sticky plus I also like the feel of a throbbing cock in my hand and mouth. I don't like to be fucked Bec of pain. Interested to hear from other married men how they deal with it. It wld be so good if I have someone like-minded to talk to about this... I am so worried I may go insane Bec of the anxiety. Is a choice u made. Make the choice and take the risk. mate69 and yuquidam 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maturedman Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 2 hours ago, Guest Bi Married said: How many married men here have cheated on their wives and been found out? How did she respond when she found out and what did you say to her? How many end up divorced or separated? If she forgave you, Did you continue to cheat after that! Could you restrain yourself from cheating or having fun with other guys? I live in constant fear of being found out by my Wife and yet I couldn't stop myself from straying... I don't stray with girls Bec they can be sticky plus I also like the feel of a throbbing cock in my hand and mouth. I don't like to be fucked Bec of pain. Interested to hear from other married men how they deal with it. It wld be so good if I have someone like-minded to talk to about this... I am so worried I may go insane Bec of the anxiety. Pm me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 pls don't conglomerate and then discuss how to cheat and 包二奶，小三 any further Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Bride Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 3 hours ago, Guest Bi Married said: How many married men here have cheated on their wives and been found out? How did she respond when she found out and what did you say to her? How many end up divorced or separated? If she forgave you, Did you continue to cheat after that! Could you restrain yourself from cheating or having fun with other guys? I live in constant fear of being found out by my Wife and yet I couldn't stop myself from straying... I don't stray with girls Bec they can be sticky plus I also like the feel of a throbbing cock in my hand and mouth. I don't like to be fucked Bec of pain. Interested to hear from other married men how they deal with it. It wld be so good if I have someone like-minded to talk to about this... I am so worried I may go insane Bec of the anxiety. Are you emotional attached to the guys you had fun with? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Guest Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 Being bi is no excuse for cheating. You think a str8 husband isn't tempted by women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 Human are ANIMALS. But smart animals. Control ya~~ 2AM, Since u r here and yuquidam 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 The worst are these stupid bi men who got themselves married to a woman for some selfish reason and then cheat on her, on the side. You guys should be ashamed of yourselves! You are cheats, liars and a dishonest bunch of dicks. Do you know how much hurt that you would inflict on your wife if she ever found out? And how much of shame that you will similarly inflict on your children? Have you ever thought about the people around you whom you supposedly love? Obviously not! All you have is the "me me me" mentality. You guys are seriously fucked. You needed validation from society to accept that you are straight when you clearly are not. In addition, you have also cheated yourselves of living a true and fulfilling life just by being yourself, without all the unnecessary baggage that is haunting you now! WELL DONE!! bluerunner 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J0Boo Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 A few simple questions. Cheating is a yes or no? How will you feel if your other partner cheats on you (provided you love him/her)? garuda 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 1 hour ago, Guest Guest said: The worst are these stupid bi men who got themselves married to a woman for some selfish reason and then cheat on her, on the side. You guys should be ashamed of yourselves! You are cheats, liars and a dishonest bunch of dicks. Do you know how much hurt that you would inflict on your wife if she ever found out? And how much of shame that you will similarly inflict on your children? Have you ever thought about the people around you whom you supposedly love? Obviously not! All you have is the "me me me" mentality. You guys are seriously fucked. You needed validation from society to accept that you are straight when you clearly are not. In addition, you have also cheated yourselves of living a true and fulfilling life just by being yourself, without all the unnecessary baggage that is haunting you now! WELL DONE!! U really sounded as though u kanna cheated by men Shinhao and Since u r here 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CKW Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 1 hour ago, Guest Guest said: The worst are these stupid bi men who got themselves married to a woman for some selfish reason and then cheat on her, on the side. You guys should be ashamed of yourselves! You are cheats, liars and a dishonest bunch of dicks. Do you know how much hurt that you would inflict on your wife if she ever found out? And how much of shame that you will similarly inflict on your children? Have you ever thought about the people around you whom you supposedly love? Obviously not! All you have is the "me me me" mentality. You guys are seriously fucked. You needed validation from society to accept that you are straight when you clearly are not. In addition, you have also cheated yourselves of living a true and fulfilling life just by being yourself, without all the unnecessary baggage that is haunting you now! WELL DONE!! Agree with the guy who posted before me: you sound like a very disgrunted woman, probably one who is forced to tolerate a husband who fools around with other dudes. But remember that a straight husband can still fool around with other ladies. Not saying it's right; but just stating a fact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckmegood Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 39 minutes ago, Guest CKW said: Agree with the guy who posted before me: you sound like a very disgrunted woman, probably one who is forced to tolerate a husband who fools around with other dudes. But remember that a straight husband can still fool around with other ladies. Not saying it's right; but just stating a fact. and just to state ANOTHER fact... attached AJs can also sleep around with other men. Shinhao 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 Let me think.. why not go pick up a religion and devote your time there. But remember don't go to those that support gays, else you be worse off. The theory is that if you hear enough of "the other side" argument, you will change. But if you want to have the cake and eat it, I don't think anyone can help you here. You don't expect other people to teach you how to cover up your acts, right ? If you want to continue, you will continue to fear as you have claimed. So to get out of the fear, you just have to stop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G_M Posted May 23, 2016 Report Share Posted May 23, 2016 9 hours ago, sgmarriedman said: We can chat if u want Pm me You had been warned before. 1 warning point for post ad on Main forum. The next ad will get you suspension. http://www.facebook.com/gachimuchi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lost Posted October 18, 2016 Report Share Posted October 18, 2016 The relationship with my wife for more then 10 years has turned sour even though we will get married on December 25 this year. Recently I met a guy whom I've admired for a while, an eye candy. We met and had a good time. Within 2 weeks we met 6 time ready. Our connection is so intense it make us both happy. I'm actually now confused if I'm going to marry my wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ener Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 2 hours ago, Guest Lost said: The relationship with my wife for more then 10 years has turned sour even though we will get married on December 25 this year. Recently I met a guy whom I've admired for a while, an eye candy. We met and had a good time. Within 2 weeks we met 6 time ready. Our connection is so intense it make us both happy. I'm actually now confused if I'm going to marry my wife. When u have 2 times the fun, u have 2 times the trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SazNura Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 Why bother with the hurt,mental anxiety, stress and depression? just get divorced to a partner who cannot satisfy youand have a widow or single status.free of attachments by society norms.free of drama until you find the right the person to settle down.man or woman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roger Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 what is there to cheat, she goes shopping trips with her friends to hong kong and spa outings to make herself beautiful i play mahjong with my colleagues late tonite and will go fishing weekends with my army mates quality time-out on our own will make us better persons being sticky will kill every good relationship iamziz, mate69, Shinhao and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted October 19, 2016 Report Share Posted October 19, 2016 we are human, we make mistakes, we can be out of control at times, but learn from those incidents, if we really love someone, we won't want to hurt them, try to be a better person by not repeating again, everyone is fragile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jocker Posted October 21, 2016 Report Share Posted October 21, 2016 (edited) On 23 May, 2016 at 3:33 PM, Guest CKW said: Agree with the guy who posted before me: you sound like a very disgrunted woman, probably one who is forced to tolerate a husband who fools around with other dudes. But remember that a straight husband can still fool around with other ladies. Not saying it's right; but just stating a fact. The difference of he cheating is with a guy, she not only will feel disgusted and get a very big shock. For some cases, some wives still can accept is a mistress and forgive him after a good talk n given chance. Nowadays wives pray that is a girl that he cheats on them. LOL Edited October 21, 2016 by jocker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jocker Posted October 21, 2016 Report Share Posted October 21, 2016 On 19 October, 2016 at 9:29 AM, SazNura said: Why bother with the hurt,mental anxiety, stress and depression? just get divorced to a partner who cannot satisfy youand have a widow or single status.free of attachments by society norms.free of drama until you find the right the person to settle down.man or woman I guess ppl like them, just like to hang a happily married tag ard them. So that ppl wont ask them why nt yet marry etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inamoto Posted October 23, 2016 Report Share Posted October 23, 2016 it will be quite challenging to cheat consistently without the wife being suspicious.. over the long run, it's akin to trying to cover the increasing number of tracks and clues well... should be quite a task... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wisenup Posted October 24, 2016 Report Share Posted October 24, 2016 On 5/23/2016 at 8:48 AM, Guest Bi Married said: How many married men here have cheated on their wives and been found out? How did she respond when she found out and what did you say to her? How many end up divorced or separated? If she forgave you, Did you continue to cheat after that! Could you restrain yourself from cheating or having fun with other guys? I live in constant fear of being found out by my Wife and yet I couldn't stop myself from straying... I don't stray with girls Bec they can be sticky plus I also like the feel of a throbbing cock in my hand and mouth. I don't like to be fucked Bec of pain. Interested to hear from other married men how they deal with it. It wld be so good if I have someone like-minded to talk to about this... I am so worried I may go insane Bec of the anxiety. Please be fair to your wife, family and the guys you plan to have fun with. What happens if your wife/son/daughter finds out? Not only are they going to be distraught, the guy you hang out with will innocently or ignorantly be blamed for it! Worse if you did not tell the guy you are married.. Xiaoxianrou 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tdj11 Posted October 24, 2016 Report Share Posted October 24, 2016 On 5/23/2016 at 8:48 AM, Guest Bi Married said: How many married men here have cheated on their wives and been found out? How did she respond when she found out and what did you say to her? How many end up divorced or separated? If she forgave you, Did you continue to cheat after that! Could you restrain yourself from cheating or having fun with other guys? I live in constant fear of being found out by my Wife and yet I couldn't stop myself from straying... I don't stray with girls Bec they can be sticky plus I also like the feel of a throbbing cock in my hand and mouth. I don't like to be fucked Bec of pain. Interested to hear from other married men how they deal with it. It wld be so good if I have someone like-minded to talk to about this... I am so worried I may go insane Bec of the anxiety. pm me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happypup Posted October 24, 2016 Report Share Posted October 24, 2016 It is quite interesting to see so many differing views on this subject. As much as I definitely do not tolerate cheating in a rship, I always thought that if my BF was cheating with a woman, instead of another guy, I may actually be able to overlook that coz afterall, she has something that I do not. On the flip side, the rship could be destroyed also simply because I will never have what the opposite sex have physically. And that will be a great reason for breakup. Thankfully pussies don't attract me one bit. Putting myself in a bi man's shoes, it must be a damn difficult choice.. Whatever the case is, cheating is the thing that destroyed my rship with my ex of 10 years. Not supportive of it at all. It is more to the trust that is broken more than the physical act itself, which is often times irreconcilable once it's gone. Just pondering out loud... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wantonmee Posted October 25, 2016 Report Share Posted October 25, 2016 Nothing to do with the guy being bi. They swing both ways, so they like to fuck both. Nothing wrong with that. The main point is cheating (regardless of whether u are str8, bi or gay) In the real world, there are plenty of gay partnered dudes who cheat too. Does it make them any less of a cheat, liar or any less dishonest? Does it not hurt their partner too? Let's not judge cheating (or any other behavior) based on sexual orientation And having said that, it's also a mutual choice, unless one wasn't aware of the married bi dude's situation, if both choose to have a sexual relationship, then I don't see who are we to say this or that. On 5/23/2016 at 2:10 PM, Guest Guest said: The worst are these stupid bi men who got themselves married to a woman for some selfish reason and then cheat on her, on the side. You guys should be ashamed of yourselves! You are cheats, liars and a dishonest bunch of dicks. Do you know how much hurt that you would inflict on your wife if she ever found out? And how much of shame that you will similarly inflict on your children? Have you ever thought about the people around you whom you supposedly love? Obviously not! All you have is the "me me me" mentality. You guys are seriously fucked. You needed validation from society to accept that you are straight when you clearly are not. In addition, you have also cheated yourselves of living a true and fulfilling life just by being yourself, without all the unnecessary baggage that is haunting you now! WELL DONE!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biLanjiao Posted October 25, 2016 Report Share Posted October 25, 2016 If u want to cheat with guys..pls dun tell pple u are cheating behind ur wife n children..turn off leh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted October 25, 2016 Report Share Posted October 25, 2016 5 hours ago, biLanjiao said: If u want to cheat with guys..pls dun tell pple u are cheating behind ur wife n children..turn off leh. but from his wedding ring, it should already start to turn u off...no? (most wear the wedding band) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted October 25, 2016 Report Share Posted October 25, 2016 Some guys in gay partnerships wear rings too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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