Straw Posted November 6, 2016 Report Share Posted November 6, 2016 Just wondering how often you guys meet up in a week. I know it's subjective and it all boils down to each individual couple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 6, 2016 Report Share Posted November 6, 2016 Everyday because we live together. Life is short and we can't bear to be separated from each other. inamoto 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shawn-90 Posted November 6, 2016 Report Share Posted November 6, 2016 4-5 days a week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T.eastboy Posted November 6, 2016 Report Share Posted November 6, 2016 Nearly everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futaki Posted November 6, 2016 Report Share Posted November 6, 2016 Every 2-3days.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samezuka Posted November 6, 2016 Report Share Posted November 6, 2016 3 to 4 times a week for me. I think it really depends on variables such as work commitments, lifestyle/hobbies, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 7, 2016 Report Share Posted November 7, 2016 Should not lay down fix rules. Should depends on many factors. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2016 Report Share Posted November 7, 2016 i have once almost want to go relationship with this guy. I told him due to my work commitment i can only meet him once a week and on his off day. But he insist of meeting everyday.So we broke up and he claim he have found the wrong bf.Nowsday without money how to enjoy life with yr partner. Hanabishi and bluefish20008 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 7, 2016 Report Share Posted November 7, 2016 2 minutes ago, Guest guest said: i have once almost want to go relationship with this guy. I told him due to my work commitment i can only meet him once a week and on his off day. But he insist of meeting everyday.So we broke up and he claim he have found the wrong bf.Nowsday without money how to enjoy life with yr partner. Consider not bad you can meet once a week and on his off day, which means more than one day per week and he is still not understanding on your work commitment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Straw Posted November 7, 2016 Author Report Share Posted November 7, 2016 (edited) Meeting up at least once on a weekend (either Saturday or Sunday) isn't considered overboard right? Both of us are working on Mondays to Fridays so I thought either Saturday or Sunday shouldn't be much of a problem. So if the guy doesn't seem keen in meeting (based on the fact I'm always the one initiating and planning), can I assume he's not really into me after all? Edited November 7, 2016 by Straw Hanabishi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Finds your shades weird Posted November 7, 2016 Report Share Posted November 7, 2016 1 hour ago, Straw said: Meeting up at least once on a weekend (either Saturday or Sunday) isn't considered overboard right? Both of us are working on Mondays to Fridays so I thought either Saturday or Sunday shouldn't be much of a problem. So if the guy doesn't seem keen in meeting (based on the fact I'm always the one initiating and planning), can I assume he's not really into me after all? Maybe find a new pair of shades (referring to your dp.) heh jokes aside- I meet my bf once a week now cause it's the end of year busy season. Twice if can. i think most replies are for BF. If dates then yeah I think there should be that passion to want to meet more... so if u keep initiating and he doesn't, and if he's like not so keen to meet up, there is a chance he's not that in to you. But take all replies here with a pinch of salt cos we don't know the man you're dating. He could literally be as busy as fk but has u in his mind all day :)) <3 all the best!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enforcer Posted November 7, 2016 Report Share Posted November 7, 2016 My ideal range would be 2 times a week generally. But more than 2 times for honeymoon couples or dating phase. Life is not so busy till couples cannot even afford to meet once a week regardless of your commitments. Time should be managed effectively and prioritisation plays an important role in a relationship. A simple equation would be Effort+Prioritisation=Time. If you are always the one initiating to meet up, always the one who plans everything, I am afraid it is pretty much a one sided love case. It always takes 2 hands to clap, 2 hands to hold and 2 hands to do things. Arkham 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted November 8, 2016 Report Share Posted November 8, 2016 Usually once a week, depending on his schedule. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 8, 2016 Report Share Posted November 8, 2016 I think for meetup, whether it is between couples or even friends, it is really consider quite one sided if always one side initate meetup and plan everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 8, 2016 Report Share Posted November 8, 2016 He already want me to be his bf after 2 weeks. But i want to go slow. He refuse so we broke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lekoopi Posted November 8, 2016 Report Share Posted November 8, 2016 used to meet my ex 4 to 5 times a week, just for a simple dinner, as simple as a meal at hawker centre. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted November 8, 2016 Report Share Posted November 8, 2016 21 minutes ago, Guest guest said: He already want me to be his bf after 2 weeks. But i want to go slow. He refuse so we broke. It's not really a break up if you guys weren't even together in the first place tho... mate69 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest and his BF Posted November 8, 2016 Report Share Posted November 8, 2016 Once a week at least, but text daily without fail, morning and night msges Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 8, 2016 Report Share Posted November 8, 2016 as and when ....due to his family commitment so he can't stay overnight since his age parent need him more. dun like to use as routine or time table relationship to meet up or together. afterall, since in relationship unlike dating whereby meet daily due to honeymoon period. personally, i think we should respect each other private moment for work, reflection, family and friends instead of occupy each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
will donati Posted November 11, 2016 Report Share Posted November 11, 2016 Every week we meet. Infact we would be dying to meet and spend quality time for each other. We devote quality time for our relationship no matter how busy we are. We schedule a date night once aweek we can be attentive to each others' needs. Its quite working in our relationship. Dressing well on a date is a necessity which creates a strong personal impression and thus ensure that I look handsome. We both ensure that we are punctual and respect each others time. Time really matters. Check this very useful article on tips for a succesful gay relationship http://www.bespokematchmaking.com/tips-for-a-successful-gay-relationship/ in which professional gay match makers say how important it is to keep in touch often. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 11, 2016 Report Share Posted November 11, 2016 It is really important to keep in touch often even apply to friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaylen Posted November 11, 2016 Report Share Posted November 11, 2016 For me, it's nearly everyday... with our friends or with our families.... spending time with each other is important but making sure the relationship does not stagnate is another.... must always make sure we do different things so that you keep making new memories... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schoen Posted November 12, 2016 Report Share Posted November 12, 2016 frankly speaking, during the honeymoon/dating phase, maybe up to 4x a week.. then after that i guess 1-2 times a week? personally think that meeting too often sometimes leads to not knowing what to talk abt.. dk if thats just me though Hanabishi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lameua Posted November 12, 2016 Report Share Posted November 12, 2016 Ever since I'm steady wiv my bf, he will try to make time to meet up with me everyday during the weekdays to send me home after my work or sch. The sweetest thing is that he told me wherever you go, its ok cos I will make sure that Im able to find u. <3 Even if it's only a brief 15 min I'm more than happy enough already haha 我会好好的等待我的王子出现。。。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 12, 2016 Report Share Posted November 12, 2016 20 minutes ago, schoen said: frankly speaking, during the honeymoon/dating phase, maybe up to 4x a week.. then after that i guess 1-2 times a week? personally think that meeting too often sometimes leads to not knowing what to talk abt.. dk if thats just me though Talk about what happen at work, sure to have things to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Once a Week Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Once a week. Sometimes once every 2 weeks. Is that too little? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 33 minutes ago, Guest Once a Week said: Once a week. Sometimes once every 2 weeks. Is that too little? There is no fixed rule little or not? If both of you mutually agreed, think it is ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 16 yrs. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Once a Week Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 7 hours ago, Guest Guest said: There is no fixed rule little or not? If both of you mutually agreed, think it is ok. We both agree, because we r both busy cannot meet up. We still send msgs saying how much we miss each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 No fixed time for us. We try every other day but given work schedules etc. sometimes it doesn't work out. But weekends are mostly spent together. Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lust123 Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Last time my date wanted to meet me everyday. . . . . . possessive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Tan Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Minimum twice a week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 It boils to age and work commitments. From my experience with AMDKs, they are least interested in being possessive. They would not want to meet more than twice weekly - once mid-week and then the weekend. Meeting daily is really a chore.. I reckon the older the guys, meeting twice is just about right. However if I am a sweet young thing venturing into my first relationship, the two of us would become "you tiao" .. Totally inseparable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 14 minutes ago, abang said: It boils to age and work commitments. From my experience with AMDKs, they are least interested in being possessive. They would not want to meet more than twice weekly - once mid-week and then the weekend. Meeting daily is really a chore.. I reckon the older the guys, meeting twice is just about right. However if I am a sweet young thing venturing into my first relationship, the two of us would become "you tiao" .. Totally inseparable. Ha! You haven't meet my bf then. he does get cranky when we don't see each other as often. So we do plan sleepovers etc. especially Friday nights leading to the weekend. Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted November 19, 2016 Report Share Posted November 19, 2016 Every day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted November 20, 2016 Report Share Posted November 20, 2016 It really depends on both your needs, especially if you are dating someone who's a workaholic. While I prefer to meet at least 3 times a week, he prefers to meet once a week due to his work commitment. Thus we now meet twice a week, which is a nice figure imo. If you're an introvert who has to juggle between meeting your dates and several close friends whom you keep in contract, 2 times a week is pretty ideal. -Interesting fact here too: Priscilla Chan, wife of Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg, laid down rules for how many times they should meet a week during their relationship. "Zuckerberg and Chan held a “series of negotiations” to govern the terms of her move. Lacy writes that the final contract included how often the lovebirds would see each other: “One date per week, a minimum of 100 minutes of alone time, not in his apartment and definitely not at Facebook.” I thought it's a pretty neat move to get both people on the same page. "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Xiaoming Posted August 12, 2017 Report Share Posted August 12, 2017 Not so regular because he is married. In average is about a month Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
go-geek Posted August 12, 2017 Report Share Posted August 12, 2017 My bf and I will try to meet everyday. Even if it's just for lunch or he'll accompany on my journey to work. Not used to it but isn't relationship about compromises and acceptance? Haha good deeds never go unpunished Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NinetyTwo Posted August 12, 2017 Report Share Posted August 12, 2017 hmmm...it has to be within the convenience and capability of both parties. the meeting (what more a date), shall not be cumbersome to any party. if it is, it wont be fun anymore. both parties must be understanding to one another especially during the busy time due to work or study or any reason at all. but regardless, it is preferable that there shall be a general rule, such as meeting once or twice a fortnight regardless how busy any of the party is, or both parties are. and be creative! have a lunch date, or do surprise visit if any of the party is down with illness. there are lots of ways to meet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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