Guest straightgay Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 Gay guys / Bi guys who got married? Does your wife knows that u are either? When u have sex with her , how do u get turned on? Purely by fantasizing while having sex with her? Or u watch gay porn and your wife allows? And how frequent do u have sex with her? Does her sex drive drops once she gives birth? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 Lol what do you mean how do you get turned on? In the same way gays see dicks and get turned on lah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heterofag Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 OP probably meant who are GAY rather than BI that has no problem doing it honhon 1 Asexual: someone who does not experience sexual attraction Aesthetic attraction: Attraction to someones appearance, without it being romantic or sexual. Romantic attraction: Desire of being romantically involved with another person. Sensual attraction: Desire to have physical non-sexual contact with someone else, like affectionate touching. Sexual attraction: Desire to have sexual contact with someone else, to share our sexuality with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CKW Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 I'm not married but I feel that in our Singapore and Asian context, it would be fatal to let the wife know that you are gay/bi. It's probably perceived as being worse than keeping a mistress outside. I'm not sure but I would think most gay/bi married men will hide it from their wives. But that's just my opinion. I would love to hear from them, if any Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 7 hours ago, Guest straightgay said: Gay guys / Bi guys who got married? Does your wife knows that u are either? When u have sex with her , how do u get turned on? Purely by fantasizing while having sex with her? Or u watch gay porn and your wife allows? And how frequent do u have sex with her? Does her sex drive drops once she gives birth? Thanks I.understand what do u mean.my 1st ex who.is a bi ever told me tat he cant get hard when having sex with his then gf.when she asked he would say that he was nervous.thats what he told me.now married to her with a daughter.hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 3 hours ago, Guest CKW said: I'm not married but I feel that in our Singapore and Asian context, it would be fatal to let the wife know that you are gay/bi. It's probably perceived as being worse than keeping a mistress outside. I'm not sure but I would think most gay/bi married men will hide it from their wives. But that's just my opinion. I would love to hear from them, if any In these day and age even in Asian context, the chances of a gay man marrying a female is rarer then before. To say it never happen is unlikely given our strong tie to religion, conservative views and all that. Having said that, what I know to some extend from my past experience and length of time having had men to men sex.. there are a lot more bisexual male out there then even a gay man dare to think. It is NOT about being GAY.. sex is just that... sex. It is a physical thing and males are more highly sexed plus unlike females, once you are brought or excited enough by the right stimulation mentally and especially physically, they will give it a try if they see there is no risk. To say they will given in to anal or whatever like kissing or touching.. not so much.. but where letting you blow them or fuck your ass without touching your genital and other parts of you.. they would. You can tell who those are as once they cum, they want little to do with you. Again, there are varying degree of how they will react to you too so you can not take one trait and think all are like that and that you can seduce all str8 guys using the same motivation. It does not. Remember male to male sex is NOT NEW. It has been happening for far longer then you can imagine. It is religion and other ideologies over time that start to influence such more 'restricted' behavior and making taboo. Google and you find much details on this subject. The one main group that will hate for this to be true are not gay man or very conservative religious people... there is one group that will know if this is allow, how much more they will lose or have their own value which has already been set too high and OVERPRICED.. .. ehehe... WOMEN. Why do you think prostitution is the oldest known professional in the world? go-geek and toptap 2 ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinky kyle Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 Haha, come on, any wifey will go mad knowing their hubby cheating with another woman, furthermore a man!!?? Which bi will admit this to their wifey, unless the wifey is lesbian (bi). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Otto Posted January 16, 2017 Report Share Posted January 16, 2017 Some wives do know. I was at 313 the other day and having several eye contacts. I didn't know he is a married man until a woman very "kang cheong" appeared beside him. She held his arm and gave me an angry look to declare her property. The guy gave me a apologetic smile. Not my fault, ok?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 55 minutes ago, Guest Otto said: Some wives do know. I was at 313 the other day and having several eye contacts. I didn't know he is a married man until a woman very "kang cheong" appeared beside him. She held his arm and gave me an angry look to declare her property. The guy gave me a apologetic smile. Not my fault, ok?! Go there again.he might look for u.haha cola100plus 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 3 hours ago, Guest Otto said: Some wives do know. I was at 313 the other day and having several eye contacts. I didn't know he is a married man until a woman very "kang cheong" appeared beside him. She held his arm and gave me an angry look to declare her property. The guy gave me a apologetic smile. Not my fault, ok?! The guy may or may not have been gay/bi, I feel. Assuming he was, it's likely that the wife doesn't suspect her husband - she thinks the sexual advances are coming only from you. Or he might be straight and he felt you were a nice guy, and therefore he smiled back. But in any case, he feels apologetic that his wife showed you such hostility. And for some reason, she felt threatened enough to want to protect her husband from being "molested" by other man. Haha It happened to me a few times. Whenever my eyes linger on a cute guy, the girlfriend will notice very quickly and grab his arm very tightly, as if I would eat her boyfriend if she doesn't hold him tightly enough Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdanbeam Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 7 minutes ago, CKW said: It happened to me a few times. Whenever my eyes linger on a cute guy, the girlfriend will notice very quickly and grab his arm very tightly, as if I would eat her boyfriend if she doesn't hold him tightly enough Hold tight but cb not tight also no use cutejack 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 10 minutes ago, bigdanbeam said: Hold tight but cb not tight also no use You won't believe it but one time, there was a fairly well-built guy who was wearing a rather fitting pair of black executive pants (and shirt), walking with his girlfriend. My eyes lingered on his tight butt that was bulging very nicely from the back of his pants. His girlfriend noticed me looking, and immediately placed her hand possessively on his bum. I bet when they were alone after that, she would nag at him to wear a super baggy pair of pants in future! And then she will text her 45 best female friends to complain that a "gay pervert" was checking out her boyfriend's tight bum! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdanbeam Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 We know where these girls are coming from. Insecure and can't afford to lose. No need to 跟她们一般见识 (stoop to their level). Lol CKW 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 2 hours ago, bigdanbeam said: Hold tight but cb not tight also no use True.manhole forever tight.lolx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 How i wish i could turn all men to gay lifestyle.girls got no market oredi.haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 Lol so funny yes I encounter several times the girls feel so threatened by my presence when they were with their bfs . I have no interest at all no matter how hunk or good-looking their bfs are anyway but the cb gfs just feel so insecure as if I will snatch with them ..that they purposely kiss or hug them tightly on mrts etc. What a bitch! I have better taste ok felt like slapping these bitches! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest curious Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 any gay/bi guys with wife share their experience of how to avoid being detected as being gay/bi??? especially when sex, I assume since gay/bi , u wouldn't initate sex? must be the wife who initiate? and how often ??? jus wonder if any wife dun care whether husband gay/bi as long as he treats her well , etc. even allow him to watch gay porn while having sex with her? there must be some cases ? share pls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpenter Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest curious said: any gay/bi guys with wife share their experience of how to avoid being detected as being gay/bi??? especially when sex, I assume since gay/bi , u wouldn't initate sex? must be the wife who initiate? and how often ??? jus wonder if any wife dun care whether husband gay/bi as long as he treats her well , etc. even allow him to watch gay porn while having sex with her? there must be some cases ? share pls Your some cases are prob out there mostly to the west. Here, if she finds out she prob will file divorced n will make the news. Or she just wont talk or sleep on same bed with you but still demand the husband to take care of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Horny wives Posted January 17, 2017 Report Share Posted January 17, 2017 The wives are not stupid. They just pretend to be as they are horny and desperate cos gay men are hot. They will pretend to be chill and even joke about it in front of their friends but once someone else outside of their cliques suspect their husbands' sexuality, they will start to panic. #asianmindsets Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Joshua Posted August 14, 2017 Report Share Posted August 14, 2017 On 18/01/2017 at 4:09 AM, Guest Horny wives said: The wives are not stupid. They just pretend to be as they are horny and desperate cos gay men are hot. They will pretend to be chill and even joke about it in front of their friends but once someone else outside of their cliques suspect their husbands' sexuality, they will start to panic. #asianmindsets They would know. It is part of their instincts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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