SG married woman complaining that their Husband has a very High Sex Drive and refused to have Sex with him

[Guest Really?]

[onlylonely]

Sex after third day of c-sec too scary

[bigdanbeam]

If wife can't provide, then husband eat out, become husband's fault?

[Guest Deck]

CCB women always play the victim card.

[p2468]

If ur bf have high sex drive and wants sex every day. Will u refuse?

[onlylonely]

Oh wells, sometimes my bf rejects me, i can understand the feeling..

[cutejack]

Stupid hubby still depend on wife for what?log into bw n his prob solved.hahaha.many here dont mind daily pounding.lol

[Guest blog]

Don't be taken in by everything posted anonymously.  That may be a troll, a mother of all trolls. 

[Guest Tsk tsk tsk]

Sex 3 days after c section. The wife must have not pushed hard enough during natural birth attempt before her c section or rejected natural birth attempt from the start so her vagina didn't suffer any perineal tear. But her abdominal wounds have been disturbed and compromised.

 

生孩子那么不给力，满足老公却那么勤劳。Not a good example for women.

[Guest Guest]

This is when gays like us comes in handy.

[fab]

gay couples unlikely to have this problem.

[Guest guest]

Haha..all the slutty gays here!

 

[Guest btm uncle]

On 2/24/2017 at 11:11 AM, Guest Deck said:

CCB women always play the victim card.

Hello, you cannot blame the women actually if you've met these type of men before. They are domestic violence type and sex is almost like rape.

How can a weak normal woman tahan everyday.

Haha, those women who wonder how he tahan for 3 months or 2 years are pretending to be stupid. Of course impossible lah. Even if he has the money to buy chicken but everyday sure bankrupt him. Either get a mistress but no girl can tahan his torture also.

Then he try ah gua false woman. We gays are really tough and as kinky as him and can not only take his sex torture but gives him more and more pleasures. 

Then he enjoy so much that he want to try more and try uncles also. Even uncle like me he also want. But really I cannot tahan his violent sex. That make him even like me more because he really got sadistic and mean person. But for me, violence or not still better than no sex.

That is why he says those from Eat Drink Man Woman forum are so interested in this forum. They are these type of nasty men looking for violent sex easy to find here.

[Guest Anti-slut]

Lol at all the despo gay sluts comments. You idiots are the ones giving this community a bad name pimping around with your dirty smell mouths and butts thinking every men wants them. Karma will get you for being dirty little sluts.

[upshot]

Ever notice how woman MOSTLY make SEX sound like work or some ugly obligation especially after they got the ring on you and a few kid or two. Now it is all about your wallet to keep her the kids alive for life but the sex which is something you do out of love is no long relevant even if it means just open your leg and he goes in and cum. Females are always complaining males so fast to cum but yet when complain them make it sound like WORK. But no one seem to notice that. She want you to work as work is how you survive and it more your male role but when it come to sex and their duty.. they one they can say no and you have to accept it. but if they get a new b/f suddenly they are very horny again... till the ring is on the finger.  Ask the str8 or bi guys you fool about with after getting to know them, this is a universal situation.. hehe  take that with a little humor.

 

PS but I think 2-3 day after just giving birth is too much and I really wonder how many males would actually do that knowing the risk to her and for tearing the sutures of her wound. How many can be that heartless seriously.

 

Edited February 25, 2017 by upshot

[doncoin]

A common thread I've noticed from the women's sharing is none of them talked about the husband setting the mood for the wife to want to have sex. Candles, massage etc. to get the wife in the mood. Mostly it is just the husband behaving like a spoilt kid- I want it now. When the wife asks that the husband do household chores first, it could be a way of her saying that when she is relaxed, she feels more receptive to having sex with her husband etc. versus sex becoming another to do item on her list of chores. 

 

 

[upshot]

39 minutes ago, doncoin said:

A common thread I've noticed from the women's sharing is none of them talked about the husband setting the mood for the wife to want to have sex. Candles, massage etc. to get the wife in the mood. Mostly it is just the husband behaving like a spoilt kid- I want it now. When the wife asks that the husband do household chores first, it could be a way of her saying that when she is relaxed, she feels more receptive to having sex with her husband etc. versus sex becoming another to do item on her list of chores. 

 

 

 

They have to right to say what is a duty and what is not. If a guy decided he does not like a job and want to quit but if the job is what gets her the family money being the main breadwinner, you think they let the husband do so and quit?  There is a saying that is still true till today. Man use love to get sex. Women use sex to get love. heheh

 

There is a reason why marriages is going south these day as women gain more ground over man in rights and entitlement. Fact. Look carefully around you. Relook at things they ask of you to do or what you see them talk about men especially about their own men. The sex is a weapon and they know it. How long does a men really want sex? If even 15 mins sound like a job ... and if they want sex, ask them if their men will turn them down? Then they will say MEN ARE BORN LIKE THAT. Okay. If so, then why can you not understand it enough to let him have 15 mins of it out of your life? You don't love him 'enough' or you do not really look at him with love in your heart for what he does every day EVEN IF HE DOES NOT WANT TO BUT he knows he has to do it to bring home the bacon. I agree if he ask too much or want to fuck you in the ass or hurt you in another ways but if sex is seen as a loving act... is making love to him for life is such a bad deal? Like it is your punishment or slave work.

 

heheheh you know one way to get people to not ask you about your private life and busybody about your love lives.. start talking nicely and politely about this topic and feminism and you will find that all you get after is work relations talk and superficial topics heheh. It has worked for me for decades. Once a woman know she has no hold over you to do things for her as a friend or gay friend or lover or husband, very quick they stop want to socialize with you. Try it. No women I know want to know you if they can not get something out of you in some form or another. to get a woman who is will to meet you half and half is as rare as diamond. GET ONE? KEEP HER.

 

I am not hating on women.. but I am saying as many bad males or gay males out there, there are as many dirty women with sneaky intentions as well.

Edited February 25, 2017 by upshot

[doncoin]

@upshot Look at the posts the women share, they are not enjoying the sex. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties. Not just the husband's pleasure only. So if wife is not enjoying it, and the husband plays a major role in it, they need to really discuss about it and figure out a solution. Withholding sex is not the solution. To reduce sex into a weapon in a relationship is a detrimental way to manage a relationship.

 

When you are in a relationship, both parties want to feel loved and be loved. It is not just about providing for the family and bringing home the bacon. It is about feeling appreciated. Feeling respected. Feeling safe. Feeling that if you trip and fall, that person is there to catch you and have your back. You don't need money for those things. 

 

I have many female friends whom I socialise with on a regular basis and as a friend, where possible, i do not mind doing things for my close girlfriends when they need help. With one of my close gf, i have often been her "date" when she needs an escort to an event etc. and we both have fun. When my bf is not able to make it to something last minute, she is the person I turn to.  I don't think my gf wants anything out of me, other than the pleasure of my company, and I ask the same of her. When she falls, I pick her up, and when I fight with my bf, she is the one who cheers me up and help us get back together. 

 

Not everything in life has to be a power struggle. 

[Guest btm uncle]

9 hours ago, Guest Anti-slut said:

Lol at all the despo gay sluts comments. You idiots are the ones giving this community a bad name pimping around with your dirty smell mouths and butts thinking every men wants them. Karma will get you for being dirty little sluts.

Hello, we are sluts but not despo. I not saying every man want us. Only these strong sex men want us and we want them.

There are people with strong sex so what you want them do if they cannot get from their wives? We are gays also with strong sex so we matching sex. They happy we happy why cannot. We strong sex you call us sluts but he strong sex you call him stud. It's always so unfair say we bad name.

[upshot]

1 hour ago, doncoin said:

@upshot Look at the posts the women share, they are not enjoying the sex. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties. Not just the husband's pleasure only. So if wife is not enjoying it, and the husband plays a major role in it, they need to really discuss about it and figure out a solution. Withholding sex is not the solution. To reduce sex into a weapon in a relationship is a detrimental way to manage a relationship.

 

When you are in a relationship, both parties want to feel loved and be loved. It is not just about providing for the family and bringing home the bacon. It is about feeling appreciated. Feeling respected. Feeling safe. Feeling that if you trip and fall, that person is there to catch you and have your back. You don't need money for those things. 

 

I have many female friends whom I socialise with on a regular basis and as a friend, where possible, i do not mind doing things for my close girlfriends when they need help. With one of my close gf, i have often been her "date" when she needs an escort to an event etc. and we both have fun. When my bf is not able to make it to something last minute, she is the person I turn to.  I don't think my gf wants anything out of me, other than the pleasure of my company, and I ask the same of her. When she falls, I pick her up, and when I fight with my bf, she is the one who cheers me up and help us get back together. 

 

Not everything in life has to be a power struggle. 

Hehehe ....don't look at me... the power play usually happen on that feminine side. My male veil has been broken off, I see it too clearly. I have females close friends too and the ones closest to me do share my view on that thus they hang with me as it is something even female to female can not tolerate. Ever see a female to female bitch fight? heheh

 

But once in a while I still catch them out on certain things they do to some guys to do things for them or need company. I tell them and they are surprised as they did not do it conscientiously  heh.. It's in the DNA coding. Just like it is DNA coded in males to do things for women like under their spell. the ones who managed to decode this ... will use it to their advantage for every ever they want. You see this play out every day from media to real life. Like it or not, relationship is about 50/50 and is a business deal that need to be worked on that both side win if ever that is tipped over, it will fail. They have built in Hypergamy in their instinct. it's not their fault but this was something from cave man days.. they are the gather not the hunters. So they want the strongest and richest to survive and feed their family. So they always want to best males for mate. we just got carried away with this silly notion called "love". Which incidently it is said man know more about love and its meaning better then women. They just want to know what love from you will get them.

 

But women with more option tend to pull the parachute a lot quicker worst in the west as certain regulation and rules are already their advantage. That is why Singapore Women AWARE want to bring in western feminist values and laws to Singapore. They can marry and divorce and be set for life. Even if they are in the wrong and especially more if they have kids. They would eventually have kids as a natural mentality thing so why not get money and security at the same time and throw the man out but keep him on alimony duty and you keep the house. All I am saying is.. just be careful for the str8 and bi who are still thinking about marrying. Be careful who you choose for while you have designs on her... so does she on you.

Edited February 25, 2017 by upshot

[doncoin]

@upshot Well, I do find it interesting from your point of view that it is a power play. Well, no man is an island, and mankind are social in general for it is part of our success to survival. 

 

When it comes to love, you do come across as cynical to me, which I hope you are not. 

 

From my personal experience with my close gf, yes, I do think some times she does take advantage of me, but when I feel that way, I just tell her how her behaviour is making me feel and ask her to be mindful about it. 

 

Well, I am set to marry this year and I am all excited. 

[upshot]

40 minutes ago, doncoin said:

@upshot Well, I do find it interesting from your point of view that it is a power play. Well, no man is an island, and mankind are social in general for it is part of our success to survival. 

 

When it comes to love, you do come across as cynical to me, which I hope you are not. 

 

From my personal experience with my close gf, yes, I do think some times she does take advantage of me, but when I feel that way, I just tell her how her behaviour is making me feel and ask her to be mindful about it. 

 

Well, I am set to marry this year and I am all excited. 

Congratulation man.

 

Nah.. just someone who have enough g/fs and i am not the one that ask to break. each one for another higher income including old man. The more beautiful a women and with more asset she know she can use, the harder it is to hang on.. or at least till the next level.

 

Don't get me wrong Doncoin, I mean no disrespect nor do I say all are like that. But in general there is a shift. Might not be with your lady but there is a shift in power play by certain segment of females who have some power to weld and are diverting more advantage towards their own from males. It's already that way in the West and more ladies who study overseas there are coming back trying to build that here. A lot of women know that but are not doing anything to change that. Why? If they likely make use of that to get ahead or an advantage over males in jobs or at home... it is the space ace. Am not talking small matters like who wash the laundry today and who tomorrow.. but more crucual larger matters... that effect even male children, education and job opportunities.

 

Any way, you have found someone who is your Yang to your Ying. Well good for you. And I am there is an opening communication of give and take between the two of you so that is good. That is what a relationship is about to be successful.

 

Before I choose to be a confirmed bisexual, I choose to be a confirmed bachelor long before. Not worth the compromise over time. children is no longer a big deal to me or the world that is getting overpopulated. Western thinking also means they have children not to have them give money or look after them when they are old. Thus the old values no longer apply and relationships quality is more important then doing it for traditional sake. Sometime it is not her but her friends or family that is the influence. Where her family is more important over yours. heheh...

I mean no harm nor hate. Just want to say everyone should open their eyes before jumping in a relationship for all the wrong reasons and expectation. That include Gays too. I wish every one a good life being who they are alone or with someone to die with.

[doncoin]

@upshot No. I am gay 100%. Marrying my bf.  

 

 

[Guest]

18 hours ago, doncoin said:

@upshot No. I am gay 100%. Marrying my bf.  

 

 

 

do you mind me asking where do you plan to do that ? just currious

 

[lezardv]

someone talk so haolian, even if the btm ask day and night top die fast too. then turn to 3rd or group sex ,maybe someone life only fucking all day n night ..rofl

[upshot]

19 hours ago, doncoin said:

@upshot No. I am gay 100%. Marrying my bf.  

 

 

Congratulation all the same...

 

 

[doncoin]

1 hour ago, asiafly said:

 

do you mind me asking where do you plan to do that ? just currious

 

 

I live and work overseas. 

 

@upshot Thanks!

Edited February 26, 2017 by doncoin

[Guest 吞精美眉]

Wife cannot satisfy husband????!!!

 

I customise 2 packages for them:

 

(1) send husband over, I satisfy HIM 24 X 7 X 365.

 

(2) send wife over, concentration camp.  She can spread her legs at any angle, vibrate her pelvis at different frequency,  tighten her hole with various grips,  moan at any pitch. Simply an unstoppable sex slave.

[Guest Neh Neh]

On 24/02/2017 at 9:55 AM, Guest Really? said:

 Give him too me lah 

[Guest mitochondria]

Pussy cannot take it, some women will give their asshole to satisfy husband , in order he not go looking for PRC tramps, dont gice chibai just sacrifice the asshole, gurantee husband will be loyal to wife for  her sacrifice.

 

 

[Guest Jenova]

Aiyo, my bf akso like that. He hooked up with me because his wife always reject to have sex with him after having baby. Her loss, my gain LOL