Bobi Posted July 12, 2017 Report Share Posted July 12, 2017 Sometimes during quarrelling, just feel like giving up all.. haiz. Do u feel the same way? lifebook 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tomcat Posted July 12, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted July 12, 2017 confirm still have quarrels and disagreements from time to time. but important, must have a breakthrough or resolution each time, meaning you must be able to hear and understand his position, and vice versa. never go to bed angry with each other, and even then, next morning or during the night, hug and kiss him. it's not important to be correct, or "win" all the time. fights are fights, but the love you have for each other will be everlasting, IF you want it to be. don't give up, talk it through, be vulnerable. even if he is careless with it, you have at least brought your best. over time, he will see that you and him together have an intimacy (not sex-based) that is valuable. always_in_transit, Blogger Adam, mate69 and 2 others 5 🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobi Posted July 12, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 12, 2017 That is wad i did last time lifebook 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 12, 2017 Report Share Posted July 12, 2017 Quarrel and disagreement happen to any relationship, not only between spouse. Even it will happen with your friends, colleagues, boss , siblings and even parents. It is more important knowing how to handle and deal with every quarrel and disagreement. If not then will ended up in a ugly and unhappy ending. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 12, 2017 Report Share Posted July 12, 2017 My parents married more than 50 years already still quarrel all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted July 12, 2017 Report Share Posted July 12, 2017 17 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: My parents married more than 50 years already still quarrel all the time. Not married want to get married n after get married quarrel lo. that's human. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobi Posted July 13, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 For parents, sometimes separation is better. Then they will not show their black face at home everyday. But of cos if they are alrrady old, no point for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dsd Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 10 hours ago, Guest Guest said: My parents married more than 50 years already still quarrel all the time. They probably have great sex once they got onto bed... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 33 minutes ago, dsd said: They probably have great sex once they got onto bed... Dont.think so.mostly not attracted to each other. Thats wat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomcat Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) 22 hours ago, Bobi said: That is wad i did last time I understand. well to this, i always say, "we do what we do until we cant do it anymore". it may take a moment or 10 years, but if we understand ourselves better at the end of it, and make a solid choice for the better, neither is time wasted. 12 hours ago, Guest Guest said: My parents married more than 50 years already still quarrel all the time. Straight couples usually tend to buckle under societal pressure. Remember those pesky aunts who hound you every CNY? My colleague was so proud to be married and settled by 28 years old, he looked like a success. But after some disagreements, and stresses with kids, he would rather stay in office and work than go home. So the neglect and festering of issues, will definitely cause problems. At one point, he sounded regretful that he got married, cos he felt like everybody want him to. Edited July 13, 2017 by tomcat 🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bottom Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 Disagreement, cold war (not talking to each other for 2 days). Until he surprised me with his sex action while I was sleeping and finally I gave in to the temptation. The following morning, we started to talk again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CKW Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 That's why don't envy your married friends. Those among them who like to brag will always like to say that they went to this place and that place with their wife, and had so much fun, etc., and try to make you feel lousy for being single. But they don't tell you about their frustrations, disagreements and quarrels behind closed doors, because they want to maintain a happy front in order to make others feel envious of them. inamoto and mate69 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorzguy Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 On 12/07/2017 at 8:53 AM, Bobi said: Sometimes during quarrelling, just feel like giving up all.. haiz. Do u feel the same way? You are not alone. Especially even so when you are having a bad day and he comes down hard on you. Again, once you manage to calm down and think thru, you realised, that will be the last thing you wanted to do. There's still love and you will be thinking about him when you do your next shopping, planning etc... The only time you give up? Is when you feel indifferent. That's when it is really really dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest duh Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 On 7/12/2017 at 8:53 AM, Bobi said: Sometimes during quarrelling, just feel like giving up all.. haiz. Do u feel the same way? On 7/12/2017 at 1:13 PM, Bobi said: That is wad i did last time A relationship is not just about you. It takes two hands to clap, but only one to slap. 3 hours ago, thorzguy said: Again, once you manage to calm down and think thru, you realised, that will be the last thing you wanted to do. There's still love and you will be thinking about him when you do your next shopping, planning etc. This is exactly what REAL couples do. The immature, not-there-yet ones won't have this when they disagree. They will call it QUARREL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2017 Report Share Posted July 13, 2017 18 hours ago, tomcat said: At one point, he sounded regretful that he got married, cos he felt like everybody want him to. He is still young and able. That's why he think regrets about married. Thinking will change with age. When one is old, he/she will start to appreciate the presence of family members. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Drew Posted August 15, 2017 Report Share Posted August 15, 2017 Is it possible not to quarrel while narried? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bobby Posted August 16, 2017 Report Share Posted August 16, 2017 My parents case is more of my mum calling the shots. My dad has been conditioned since they got married to be submissive. His opinions hardly matter now. It is always about my mum. During CNY, my mum will want to rush to her mum's place before lunch to help out and stay there the whole day. My maternal grandmother lives my mum's Brother, not alone. There was 1 year when my dad's Niece wanted to visit us at our home but my mum told her that we need to leave by a certain time to her mum's place. In the end, the Niece did not come. I was wondering how come my Mum's Bro cannot help out when it is his house? Also, why should we stay there the whole day instead of visiting my dad's relatives? Also, we visit my maternal Grandmother very often. Then whenever my parents r out, my dad will walk behind my mum. At night, when my mum wants to sleep, she will ask my dad to sleep even though my dad wants to continue watching the telly. But when my dad wants to sleep, she will continue watching tv though my dad did not ask her to coz he knows better not to ask. Ha When my mum cooks, my Dad will be in the kitchen the whole time helping with bringing her plates/bowls etc. If not, he will stand there to watch. I ask why u ask him to be there, she says to learn. But after 20+years, I have never seen my dad cook anything! Ahha. Even now, my mum will scold my dad who just quietly bear the brunt of the madness. Sometimes she will hit him, not violently but slap his shoulder or pinch him. I have told my mum if I were my dad, I would divorced her long long time ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckmegood Posted August 16, 2017 Report Share Posted August 16, 2017 it's common to quarrel because humans are not built to always agree with one and other. but, it's about how to manage the quarrel after that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 16, 2017 Report Share Posted August 16, 2017 6 minutes ago, suckmegood said: it's common to quarrel because humans are not built to always agree with one and other. but, it's about how to manage the quarrel after that... Manage the quarrel on the bed lo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted August 16, 2017 Report Share Posted August 16, 2017 7 hours ago, Guest Bobby said: My parents case is more of my mum calling the shots. My dad has been conditioned since they got married to be submissive. His opinions hardly matter now. It is always about my mum. During CNY, my mum will want to rush to her mum's place before lunch to help out and stay there the whole day. My maternal grandmother lives my mum's Brother, not alone. There was 1 year when my dad's Niece wanted to visit us at our home but my mum told her that we need to leave by a certain time to her mum's place. In the end, the Niece did not come. I was wondering how come my Mum's Bro cannot help out when it is his house? Also, why should we stay there the whole day instead of visiting my dad's relatives? Also, we visit my maternal Grandmother very often. Then whenever my parents r out, my dad will walk behind my mum. At night, when my mum wants to sleep, she will ask my dad to sleep even though my dad wants to continue watching the telly. But when my dad wants to sleep, she will continue watching tv though my dad did not ask her to coz he knows better not to ask. Ha When my mum cooks, my Dad will be in the kitchen the whole time helping with bringing her plates/bowls etc. If not, he will stand there to watch. I ask why u ask him to be there, she says to learn. But after 20+years, I have never seen my dad cook anything! Ahha. Even now, my mum will scold my dad who just quietly bear the brunt of the madness. Sometimes she will hit him, not violently but slap his shoulder or pinch him. I have told my mum if I were my dad, I would divorced her long long time ago. Your dad is so sweet. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 16, 2017 Report Share Posted August 16, 2017 3 hours ago, fab said: Your dad is so sweet. U ever taste his dad? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted August 16, 2017 Report Share Posted August 16, 2017 7 hours ago, cutejack said: U ever taste his dad? His behaviour not his cum. I ain't a homewrecker. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 17, 2017 Report Share Posted August 17, 2017 1 hour ago, fab said: His behaviour not his cum. I ain't a homewrecker. Sometimes it's thrilling to be a homewrecker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 17, 2017 Report Share Posted August 17, 2017 On 12 July 2017 at 1:20 PM, Guest Guest said: Quarrel and disagreement happen to any relationship, not only between spouse. Even it will happen with your friends, colleagues, boss , siblings and even parents. It is more important knowing how to handle and deal with every quarrel and disagreement. If not then will ended up in a ugly and unhappy ending. This is true, quarrel and disagreement happen to any relationship, human to human sure have such conflict. But seems like now people can't really handle and deal with quarrel and disagreement, whenever such thing happen, confirmed it will strain the relationship or even ended become stranger or enemies. Nowadays it is best to say yes to everything, accommodate and follow what others say and behave, if not you will ended up lesser friends but more enemies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blogger Adam Posted September 2, 2017 Report Share Posted September 2, 2017 On 7/12/2017 at 11:59 AM, tomcat said: never go to bed angry with each other, and even then, next morning or during the night, hug and kiss him. it's not important to be correct, or "win" all the time. Totally agree. In my first relationship, my then-partner and I talk on the phone almost every night, till about 2am. Well, it would always start off nice and sweet at around 8.30pm. Then our chat would escalate into a quarrel and by 2am, we would hang up feeling angry. Bad relationship. I was in JC1, he was in Sec4. Our grades suffered. http://adamandtheboys2.blogspot.sg/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted September 2, 2017 Report Share Posted September 2, 2017 A gay fren couple...in order to reduce disagreement, the more submissive guy constantly praise the dominant guy as if convincing how good he is. When giving his opinions he would peek at the dominant partner to gauge response or judgement. Sometimes i shut the dom guy up n say let bf talk. Grrr.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Submissive Bottom Posted September 2, 2017 Report Share Posted September 2, 2017 I dare not quarrel with my bf, he is very BIG SIZE. If he angry, I will be toasted and tossed left right center. That is my life and I am happy. You guys should consider joining wife obedient club, it helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 2, 2017 Report Share Posted September 2, 2017 23 minutes ago, Guest Submissive Bottom said: I dare not quarrel with my bf, he is very BIG SIZE. If he angry, I will be toasted and tossed left right center. That is my life and I am happy. You guys should consider joining wife obedient club, it helps. U should be more frightened if he doesn't wanna f u when he's angry. On 17/08/2017 at 8:47 AM, cutejack said: Sometimes it's thrilling to be a homewrecker Nah. I m afraid of karma n demerits. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Submissive Bottom Posted September 2, 2017 Report Share Posted September 2, 2017 1 minute ago, fab said: U should be more frightened if he doesn't wanna f u when he's angry. I will not wash his luandry or cook him a good meal if he didn't wanna f me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mique75ts Posted September 2, 2017 Report Share Posted September 2, 2017 On 7/12/2017 at 8:53 AM, Bobi said: Sometimes during quarrelling, just feel like giving up all.. haiz. Do u feel the same way? It's basically very normal to have small fights and disagreement every nw and then. Every day it's a learning experience to Knw yur partner bad and good behaviour. Coming from myself who have gone thru 10years of relationship of my own and still going on, I can feel for you. Relationship needs a lot of work especially communication aside to having an awesome sex together . Have a lot of patience my dear if u think he is worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest F off Posted September 2, 2017 Report Share Posted September 2, 2017 On 7/12/2017 at 8:53 AM, Bobi said: Sometimes during quarrelling, just feel like giving up all.. haiz. Do u feel the same way? Married? You mean to a woman? This isn't a straight forum wtf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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