My Bf Cheated on me. I want to revenge him by posting his videos & pics on Tumblr

[Guest David]

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he cheated on me. I hate him alot, should I release his videos and pictures on Tumblr? The pictures and videos are damn hot but should I care? He did not care when he had sex with more than 5 guys this year behind my back.

[G_M]

We do not allow such practice here in our forum as you will get into trouble with the law. 

Look at what happened to Edison Chen. 

[ZealousZeno]

Well if you post the pic aren't you just as shallow as him? You will be just as bad as him just in another way (aka destroying another person life)? Just leave him, he will have his retribution and downfall while you need to move on for a better person. It will be an endless cycle of hate for the aj circle if everyone have revenge over another stupid/inconsiderate mistakes. Take your time off and forget about him, it will be hard but its for the better (I have been there).

[4evaboring]

Like what GM said, releasing those video and photo can get u into trouble with law.

Time to move on and also u must remember karma is always around so just dont make ur life miserable just to get revenge on him in the mid of heat. 

[iamziz]

Many people got angry and did temporary things as revenge regretting their whole life. The best revenge is moving on and doing things that make you happy. This is fucking stupid what you want to do.

[Guest Guest]

Y not show ur own sexy body instead as revenge to anger ur bf. Is not an offence to self post ur own nude body. 

[snowball]

Just go ahead if you think you are that ugly and cannot get another better than him

[Mroneonline]

Take the high road. Block him off your life and lead your life better without him. No need for childish revenge.

[Guest Tio Bo?]

1 hour ago, Guest David said:

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he cheated on me. I hate him alot, should I release his videos and pictures on Tumblr? The pictures and videos are damn hot but should I care? He did not care when he had sex with more than 5 guys this year behind my back.

Oh no!!! it is inethical of you to do it here.  BW has been upholding high moral value and would not allow such rash action,   please post it elsewhere and point us to the link....

[Kimochi]

Read up the story of the nail on the fence. 

[sam_mccarthy]

1 hour ago, ZealousZeno said:

Well if you post the pic aren't you just as shallow as him? You will be just as bad as him just in another way (aka destroying another person life)? Just leave him, he will have his retribution and downfall while you need to move on for a better person. It will be an endless cycle of hate for the aj circle if everyone have revenge over another stupid/inconsiderate mistakes. Take your time off and forget about him, it will be hard but its for the better (I have been there).

I agree. Time heals all wounds.

[doncoin]

The only way you can post the private photos and videos of him online is to have a release permission from your cheating bf. Without that release form, you are breaking privacy laws. Your other option maybe to gather your aunties and confront the 狐狸精 and have the video appear on Stomp! instead. 

 

http://stomp.straitstimes.com/videos/drama-at-starbucks-as-woman-slaps-strips-and-shames-husband-s-alleged-mistress/4802324446001/5433401473001

 

The best revenge seriously is to live your life well. 

Edited July 31, 2017 by doncoin

[HH1985]

If you do that will you feel happy? He is not a Mr.right for you...Just move on and live well as a best revenge to him.... 别让冲动做出让自己后悔的决定。。。加油。。

[Guest Lol]

You can post it on tumblr and let it spread like forest fire. Many guys on Grindr are now "pornstars" of tumblr, I still don't get why people allow themselves to be taken nude...

[suckmegood]

Don't. Be. Stupid. 

 

Letting anger consumes you will get you nowhere. It's just a relationship. If it didn't work out right, MOVE ON. It's not the end of the World.

 

Yes, you will feel angry but that's how life is right? Recognize the emotion. Appreciate the feelings. Talk to close friends and cry over it (or do whatever that makes you feel better). And then get over it. 

[tomcat]

dude, if you post on tumblr, he will probably get more sex since you are helping him to advertise himself.

these days, tumblr is a reverse wall of shame.

Outside: "oh no, someone posted my photo online. how dare he! never respect my privacy! outrage modesty!"

Inside: "oooh, now everyone looking at my naked bod, i hope more people recognise me while i play victim. shit, i hope i go viral!"

[Guest Stupid]

58 minutes ago, tomcat said:

dude, if you post on tumblr, he will probably get more sex since you are helping him to advertise himself.

these days, tumblr is a reverse wall of shame.

Outside: "oh no, someone posted my photo online. how dare he! never respect my privacy! outrage modesty!"

Inside: "oooh, now everyone looking at my naked bod, i hope more people recognise me while i play victim. shit, i hope i go viral!"

Let's be realistic and think with the brain not the dick. Don't be stupid, not only will the person lose his job, it will be hard to find a new one unless he wants to be a pornstar or stripper? 

[tomcat]

6 minutes ago, Guest Stupid said:

Let's be realistic and think with the brain not the dick. Don't be stupid, not only will the person lose his job, it will be hard to find a new one unless he wants to be a pornstar or stripper? 

 

Why would he lose his job? Unless his own boss also visit gay tumblr sites, hahaha.
And all the people interviewing him all visit gay tumblr sites? Wow.

 

It is you that needs to be realistic lah, no-one gives a shit anymore about whose nude pics or vid is online.

There are so many, it's almost disposable content, a rolling infinite scroll of per minute hunks or some body parts.

And truthfully it has made some guys very famous and popular. So, I stand by my comment.

 

I guess the economic downturn must be because everyone made a sex vid and uploaded online, that's why so many people are out of jobs now. HAHA!

 

[abang]

I am old-schooled.

If the relationship sours and ends, it could be a signal for us to learn from it.  Yes he may have strayed away but what was the cause?  Was there any hint of deficiency of any sort on your part?  I have had my fair share of failed relationship and with each failure, came a lesson to improve myself and boost my confidence. 

 

Actually the best revenge is to better oneself - physically, mentally, academically, financially.  Make him regret for dumping you.. 姐姐妹妹站起来。。we must have the last laugh..旧的不去， 新的不回来。。而且， 新的比旧的好几百赔呢！ 

[HydroNaut]

15 hours ago, Guest David said:

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he cheated on me. I hate him alot, should I release his videos and pictures on Tumblr? The pictures and videos are damn hot but should I care? He did not care when he had sex with more than 5 guys this year behind my back.

 

Can post the video to me. I can help you cicculate to all the "aunties". Hahaha...

 

Nowadays keep seeing lot of posting on problematic relationships situation in this forum. It seem that many are having relationship problems now. 

Edited August 1, 2017 by HydroNaut

[fab]

The best revenge is for him to regret cheating on u n losing u.

 

Moving forward make sure u love yourself more n live better than him.

[ZeeQ]

Some may be discreet or closeted, so having nudies of yourself may not be acceptable, even if it wasn't in a compromising position.

And hard to say that pics will remain on tumblr in our connected world.

Anyone can post the images anywhere anytime anyhow these days 

 

Edited August 1, 2017 by ZeeQ

[Guest jonlittle]

He doesn't worth your time doing so. Forget about him.

 

Besides, it is a chargeable offence.

[benedict5856]

if u wanna play, play it bigger. Let everyone know....

 

Download all into yr hp.

 

Pretend to lose yr hp. No number locked security.

Lose it in the school bcas there alot of youngsters.

They will spread around very fast.

 

If u can't , coward, then go hide under yr blanket and cry for 3 hours. After that go to sauna, and be a slut.

Be Annabel Chong, be hotter than her.

[wantonmee]

wouldn't he have pics and vids of u too?

unless u don't care that he will also release yours into the jungle as well...

[Guest Guest12345]

On 8/1/2017 at 2:02 AM, Guest Guest said:

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Enjoy the short movie n added few videos from 4moon productions on to be watched list
Thanks man

[Guest Silly]

On 8/1/2017 at 11:34 AM, tomcat said:

 

Why would he lose his job? Unless his own boss also visit gay tumblr sites, hahaha.
And all the people interviewing him all visit gay tumblr sites? Wow.

 

It is you that needs to be realistic lah, no-one gives a shit anymore about whose nude pics or vid is online.

There are so many, it's almost disposable content, a rolling infinite scroll of per minute hunks or some body parts.

And truthfully it has made some guys very famous and popular. So, I stand by my comment.

 

I guess the economic downturn must be because everyone made a sex vid and uploaded online, that's why so many people are out of jobs now. HAHA!

 

Depends on your job and position.

 

Would a big company want to retain their manager who have his nude sex video circulating around? It will spoil their reputation. You will not know what some jealous collegues or people will do to bring you down.

[Guest Vince]

Just post it. Dun think too much.i did the same things last time to my ex. Sell those video to porn websites so u can earn extra dollar also. Dun be too kind on heartless person. He must take it as lesson so be good to next victim.

[Firday]

27 minutes ago, Guest Vince said:

Just post it. Dun think too much.i did the same things last time to my ex. Sell those video to porn websites so u can earn extra dollar also. Dun be too kind on heartless person. He must take it as lesson so be good to next victim.

so u sell how much ? can teach me and pm me to show his website.

 

[Guest Bonafide Gene]

Honestly we all had our share of hurt and pain caused by our exes, but i do believe that based of what u guys shared before, don't let hate consume you and be the one that he will live to regret losing. You deserve someone better and I'm sure you don't want someone to leak your own videos or pictures ever so yea... things will get better

[go-geek]

If all of us starts to post pics of our ex's especially those that "hurt" us in ways we didn't expect, then with that standard, we all will have our pics online.

 

Shit happens and yes it hurts and yes it will linger for a long time. But take the high road. He cheated on you so you want to expose him? With unknown future repercussions? Let's be rational and don't let anger dictate our actions. 

[derryfawne]

Don't get yourself into unnecessary troubles.

[Lester01]

Do not decide to do things at the peak of your emotion. You are worth more than what you plan to do. Karma has its own way of doing things. Live on and move forward my friend!

[Guest :-(]

Is he cute and hot?

 

Some clips at gaypron got those ugly ones and I need wash my eyes after that

[Guest guest]

So posting or not  .already so many days still can t decide

[Guest Sam]

On 7/31/2017 at 8:52 PM, Guest David said:

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he cheated on me. I hate him alot, should I release his videos and pictures on Tumblr? The pictures and videos are damn hot but should I care? He did not care when he had sex with more than 5 guys this year behind my back.

 He is such a slut. He doesn’t deserve you and you should move on and leave anything behind about him.

[p2468]

冤冤相报何时了

得饶人处且饶人

[camus]

if he report police and it's traced to you, just be prepared for the consequences...

[Guest Sammy]

On ‎7‎/‎31‎/‎2017 at 8:52 PM, Guest David said:

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he cheated on me. I hate him alot, should I release his videos and pictures on Tumblr? The pictures and videos are damn hot but should I care? He did not care when he had sex with more than 5 guys this year behind my back.

 

 

Throw him bananas

 

 

[Guest flings]

only 5 flings in one year? You're not very forgiving...

 

You're not getting happier...

 

Learn to control your jealousy and how to built up a relationship.

Always remember: You could be at a point where you are the unfaithful in a relationship.

 

You should have talked to your lover what he couldn't find in you sexually...

[Steve5380]

What a pity that relationships end up with so much hate!

Aren't they supposed to be based on love?

And this "infidelity" is such a perverse outcome

of this unnatural expectation of "fidelity".

You feel "cheated"... out of what?

He had five times sex without your knowledge.  So what?  

Now that you found out, you have all the right to leave him.

But seek revenge ???  Instead,

trust Karma to decide if he should have been infected

in these five "cheating".  And hope that he did not.

 

[Guest John]

On 7/31/2017 at 2:52 PM, Guest David said:

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he cheated on me. I hate him alot, should I release his videos and pictures on Tumblr? The pictures and videos are damn hot but should I care? He did not care when he had sex with more than 5 guys this year behind my back.

Do it lor why u asked ? 

 

If if you were determine to do it u won’t even ask in the first place 

 

do it if it makes u happy and ready for any consequence 

 

dont whine here here either u do it or move on 

[Steve5380]

3 hours ago, Guest John said:

Do it lor why u asked ? 

 

If if you were determine to do it u won’t even ask in the first place 

 

do it if it makes u happy and ready for any consequence 

 

dont whine here here either u do it or move on 

 

And why you whine that he asked?

Anybody can ask, and anybody can answer.

And if you don't like it,  just move on.

[Guest Glyph]

10 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

13 hours ago, Guest John said:

On 7/31/2017 at 8:52 PM, Guest David said:

I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he cheated on me. I hate him alot, should I release his videos and pictures on Tumblr? The pictures and videos are damn hot but should I care? He did not care when he had sex with more than 5 guys this year behind my back.

 

Do it lor why u asked ? 

 

If if you were determine to do it u won’t even ask in the first place 

 

do it if it makes u happy and ready for any consequence 

 

dont whine here here either u do it or move on 

 

And why you whine that he asked?

Anybody can ask, and anybody can answer.

And if you don't like it,  just move on.

 

And why you whine that he answered?

 

GTFO. Thread closed.