Guest cyrus08 Posted October 12, 2017 Report Share Posted October 12, 2017 Had chatted this guy here for sometime. He said he got free movie tickets and inviting me to join him. I haven’t answered him. Should I go? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hecticday Posted October 12, 2017 Report Share Posted October 12, 2017 If you are comfortable talking to him then why not? Just take a leap of faith. Who knows, Maybe it all ends well. Quote If love is so hard to find, why make it harder for anyone to love ? — Edlcy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genitif Posted October 12, 2017 Report Share Posted October 12, 2017 A movie is pretty harmless. Can take the opportunity to watch Blade Runner. Really good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dorkable Posted October 13, 2017 Report Share Posted October 13, 2017 I wouldn't unless I know the guy to a certain degree and already comfy enough. Especially considering that I go for movies more for the company than the actual show itself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yaa Posted October 13, 2017 Report Share Posted October 13, 2017 9 hours ago, Guest cyrus08 said: Had chatted this guy here for sometime. He said he got free movie tickets and inviting me to join him. I haven’t answered him. Should I go? No. If the guy you met has oral odor and he kept breathing it down your neck for the rest of the movie show, will you enjoy it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silverguy Posted October 13, 2017 Report Share Posted October 13, 2017 What are the key ingredients in embarking a new friendship or relationship successfully? Take a little bit of risk, give a little of benefit of doubt, take a little initiative, make the little effort PhallusKnight 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kkklaus Posted October 13, 2017 Report Share Posted October 13, 2017 Go for it! personally I think there’s good and bad. Good because you’re are able to avoid the awkwardness as both of y’all will be fixated watching the movie. Bad because it’s suppose to be a time when you guys should be talking and getting to know each other more. But it’s fine because after the movie you guys can have a meal together and be used to each other’s physical presence since you already sat one hour plus beside him in the theatre bonhomie and max001 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 13, 2017 Report Share Posted October 13, 2017 On 12/10/2017 at 11:35 PM, Guest cyrus08 said: Had chatted this guy here for sometime. He said he got free movie tickets and inviting me to join him. I haven’t answered him. Should I go? if you have chatted with him for sometime, why is he considered a "complete stranger"? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pusheenpika Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 The start of a budding new friendship. Might take an awful twist if you don't know him. But since you've been chatting with him, things should be fine? If it doesn't work out, make an excuse to leave the movie - whether halfway or at the end. You control your own fate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 On 10/12/2017 at 11:35 PM, Guest cyrus08 said: Had chatted this guy here for sometime. He said he got free movie tickets and inviting me to join him. I haven’t answered him. Should I go? i think : 1. he not your type 2. u worry have to pay why so doubt - while you have nothing to lose, a simple outing not asking u go to room for sexual act. i ever invite stranger at grindr since friend fly kite due to personal reason - 1. those 20+ ask for free ticket 2. mostly all play hard to get - which i ignore 3. wishy washy type plenty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Don't ask. Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 I always thought, start with a coffee would be good. However, my first date with a bf was at a cinema. It was dark, and his hand tried to touch mine throughout the show. I like him, my hand inched closer to his groin, than feel his hardon. End of the movie, nobody knows what the movie story was about..lol. After show, we went to his house because he stayed alone and than......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 58 minutes ago, jarjarbinks said: If it doesn't work out, make an excuse to leave the movie - whether halfway or at the end. You control your own fate. hmmm, are you referring sexual act inside the movie ? just a movie lah...unless being molest lah is what you referring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 1 minute ago, Guest Don't ask. said: I always thought, start with a coffee would be good. However, my first date with a bf was at a cinema. It was dark, and his hand tried to touch mine throughout the show. I like him, my hand inched closer to his groin, than feel his hardon. End of the movie, nobody knows what the movie story was about..lol. After show, we went to his house because he stayed alone and than......... well say..no pain no gain ! revise : no shiok no gain...hahah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 Ideally, strangers should meet in a public place with lots of escape/exit routes, in case the other person is not quite what he said he is. I suppose having conversed with him through the internet for a while, and since I will see him before I enter the cinema, I would go watch a movie with a person I have not personally met before - under these circumstances, he is not quite a stranger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pusheenpika Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 14 minutes ago, Diamond said: hmmm, are you referring sexual act inside the movie ? just a movie lah...unless being molest lah is what you referring. I meant if he's an oddball and you feel uncomfortable and really need to get away from him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 (edited) 6 minutes ago, jarjarbinks said: I meant if he's an oddball and you feel uncomfortable and really need to get away from him. well you already got an answer for yourself so why ask us ? i recall an oddball guy stories : our first meeting up was awful and disaster but encounter during an overseas event in Asia. I have a wonderful memories with him after came to realise that what went wrong during our first meeting, to sum it up - everyone got a bad day. Edited October 14, 2017 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pusheenpika Posted October 14, 2017 Report Share Posted October 14, 2017 (edited) 2 hours ago, Diamond said: well you already got an answer for yourself so why ask us ? i recall an oddball guy stories : our first meeting up was awful and disaster but encounter during an overseas event in Asia. I have a wonderful memories with him after came to realise that what went wrong during our first meeting, to sum it up - everyone got a bad day. Some people are nice to stay throughout ma. Everyone has their experience with weirdos. Edited October 14, 2017 by jarjarbinks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CJ Speller Posted October 15, 2017 Report Share Posted October 15, 2017 Is the word WOULD really so difficult to spell that people can't do so correctly, or take 15 seconds to correct it when misspelled by accident, before hitting the post button? Don't get defensive and accuse me of nitpicking. Proper spelling, especially of simple words, is the least bit of courtesy posters can give to those who will read their words. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
desmiit Posted December 16, 2017 Report Share Posted December 16, 2017 (edited) Has anyone watch star wars? Edited December 16, 2017 by desmiit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted December 17, 2017 Report Share Posted December 17, 2017 1 hour ago, desmiit said: Has anyone watch star wars? Nope ~ not my type of show. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mantin30 Posted December 17, 2017 Report Share Posted December 17, 2017 On 12/10/2017 at 11:35 PM, Guest cyrus08 said: Had chatted this guy here for sometime. He said he got free movie tickets and inviting me to join him. I haven’t answered him. Should I go? Let me know if you don't want to go, I can go on your behalf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justanotherme Posted December 17, 2017 Report Share Posted December 17, 2017 12 hours ago, donaldduckeroo said: I had a good experience and a horrible experience watching with a total stranger. Both were me asking them out from an app. 1st stranger was amazing, he was cuter than his photos, which did not do him any justice. We had such great chemistry that when both our hands touched reaching out for popcorn, we started holding hands already, and eventually made out halfway through the show. Then we went for drinks together with my other friends who were around the area. We were making out throughout the whole night. Went out for a few dates after that and even kissed in front of other people. But it never truly worked out. Oh well... 2nd experience was just pure awkwardness. He was totally not my type at all cos of the way he behaved in real life. And to be honest the show was a good show but I could not wait for it to be over so I do not have to entertain him any further. We never contacted each other after the movie. So ya, there's always a possibility of something magical, or something disastrous, going to a movie with a stranger. I dislike interacting during shows. Not only does it disturb the other viewers, it also distracts oneself from watching shows. A movie date is more of a stepping stone towards more interaction. Discussion of the movie after the show, having meals before or after that etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
royalcheesecake Posted December 18, 2017 Report Share Posted December 18, 2017 Insidious next year Jan.. anyone =) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eujiboo Posted December 18, 2017 Report Share Posted December 18, 2017 Don't we all technically watch movies with strangers when we go to the cinema? ;D But yes, why not. It's not really fruitful though since a movie date means no talking or actually getting to know the other person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted December 19, 2017 Report Share Posted December 19, 2017 On 18/12/2017 at 10:03 AM, Eujiboo said: Don't we all technically watch movies with strangers when we go to the cinema? ;D But yes, why not. It's not really fruitful though since a movie date means no talking or actually getting to know the other person. gd point but we don't really say hi or interact w the other strangers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest :-( Posted December 19, 2017 Report Share Posted December 19, 2017 I want free tickets! Where to claim to go with complete stranger? If he's handsome, I will have a hard time focusing on the movie but him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
overthesky Posted December 20, 2017 Report Share Posted December 20, 2017 The whole point really is get to know the person. Watching a movie with a complete stranger is too passive an activity to begin with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InBishan Posted January 28, 2018 Report Share Posted January 28, 2018 (edited) have tickets.... hope to go with someone Edited January 28, 2018 by InBishan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clickclock Posted January 28, 2018 Report Share Posted January 28, 2018 Ill only agree to go if he is good looking or giving me a job opportunity Quote I draw sexy men, visit http://www.toastwire.tumblr.com click on 'My Artworks'. Willing to take on comissions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InBishan Posted January 28, 2018 Report Share Posted January 28, 2018 6 hours ago, Clickclock said: Ill only agree to go if he is good looking or giving me a job opportunity lol I have a pair of tickets. But not that good looking and cannot give u job. Any Chinese slim taker? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest not hiding Posted January 28, 2018 Report Share Posted January 28, 2018 6 hours ago, Clickclock said: Ill only agree to go if he is good looking or giving me a job opportunity you mean blowjob??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TTDan Posted January 30, 2018 Report Share Posted January 30, 2018 Who wants to watch maze runner with me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 30, 2018 Report Share Posted January 30, 2018 @Clickclock Did you assess your own criteria before you made that statement? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted January 31, 2018 Report Share Posted January 31, 2018 Everything has to start somewhere. Go on a movie date with a stranger - why not? Been there, done that. If he makes advances (whether romantically and/or sexually) and you don't like it, you can always pull a stop to it and tell him you're not comfortable. And if you actually do like it, well, then continue. Quote “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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