GachiMuchi Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 Almost three quarters of gay guys say they are turned off by feminine men, survey finds Benjamin Butterworth Julian Clary (Getty) Most gay men find guys with feminine attributes a turn off, according to a new investigation. Attitude magazine’s masculinity survey found that 71% of respondents were actively turned off by a partner with typically feminine attributes. The survey of 5000 men also found that 41% of respondents believe effeminate gay men “give the gay community a bad image”. The magazine survey is intended to confront attitudes towards masculinity within the gay community. Editor-in-chief Matt Cain said the survey reveals some “troubling results”. He wrote in Attitude: “The survey seems to suggest that the insecurity we feel about our masculinity is dividing the gay community and turning us against each other. “Forty-one per cent of those who responded reported that being gay had made them feel less like a man at some point in their lives, which is worrying enough in itself. “But it may also partly explain the fact that the same number of people admitted to thinking effeminate gay men give the LGBT+ community a poor image or bad reputation. “Comedians such as Graham Norton and Alan Carr have already spoken out about feeling femme-shamed by other gay men – and it appears they have grounds.” The survey also found that 41% of bisexual, gay and queer men believe they are “less of a man” because of their sexuality. He added: “It backs up the experience so many of us have had on hook-up apps or the dating scene. December issue of Attitude, out now “And it reflects the difficult relationship so many of us have with our masculinity. “But why should we let expectations about how we should look or act as men make us feel bad about ourselves?” 10th November 2017, 12:40 PM http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 A few tops i know r very into pretty gentle btms. 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post benedict5856 Posted November 14, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 We are gay, we like man. Not ah gua man. If we like sissy, we might as well go like a woman. honhon, lovehandle, kingbitch and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vometra Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 What about lesbians and masculine women aka butch? It seems to me a lot of lesbian pairings involve a conspicuously "male" role, down to dressing, haircut and behavior. So is lesbianism a gender issue or a sexual orientation issue? So are lesbians actually "heterosexual"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 14 minutes ago, benedict5856 said: We are gay, we like man. Not ah gua man. If we like sissy, we might as well go like a woman. but I still haf not met any manly btm leh! i m not saying ah gua but they still feminine in behavior. to me btm r all 'nian' in character. for e.g. those macho mary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Transformers Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 Explains why so many auntie-faced gay men are training at the gym every day. As much as a huge part of it is lying to oneself, they are incredibly proud of their abnormally large muscles. Even when they are in the wrong places. Even when they make them look funny like tweety bird - with huge breasts and skinny legs. Even when they are more proportionately trained, some will say the face and body don’t match. Huehuehuehue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Masc slut Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 But those fems think they are the media popular 小鮮肉。 The media like to portray that fems are the norm for gays. Those statutes at the saunas are mostly fems because they think they are SO popular. But we all know the truth as gays, we also don't want to touch them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 2 hours ago, Guest Guest said: but I still haf not met any manly btm leh! i m not saying ah gua but they still feminine in behavior. to me btm r all 'nian' in character. for e.g. those macho mary. Nian or niang? 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest blog Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 2 hours ago, benedict5856 said: We are gay, we like man. Not ah gua man. If we like sissy, we might as well go like a woman. Exactly. If I am able to like a sissy guy, I wouldn't be gay anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 小肥猫 Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 4 hours ago, benedict5856 said: We are gay, we like man. Not ah gua man. If we like sissy, we might as well go like a woman. So you do not like to see people cat-walk? No wonder there are so many PUSSY(cat) hater here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ah Meow Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 There are soft feminine and loud feminine. I think most people refer to the latter. Soft feminine are people who prefer to look "natural" and un-intrusive in their own way, whereas loud feminine people tend to put on make-up and pay lots of attention on fashion wear to make a huge statement for the world to see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The choice is clear Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 Masculine but try to look feminine is hot, feminine but try to look masculine is not. One appears effortless, the other seems trying too hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The choice is clear Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 1 minute ago, Guest The choice is clear said: Masculine but try to look feminine is hot, feminine but try to look masculine is not. One appears effortless, the other seems trying too hard. One appears confident in ones’s skin - no matter what it is - the other seems trying to appear as someone they are not, and coming across as weird, or awkward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rice60640 Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 There is gender identity and sexual identity. It’s not easy to understand what is going in a person’s psyche. We may call them feminine or whatever but if they truly think they are women living in a men’s body, who are we to judge. Can we even judge? Let’s just embrace our brothers and sisters. We all live difficult lives as it is. Let’s not start judging people in the LGBTQ community. padlock71, max001 and darkien 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 No nid talk so much becos all r still cal GAY! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 Just be yourself. Find a man who will appreciate and accept you for who you are. iamziz, max001, ZKT279 and 1 other 4 Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhyn Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 11 hours ago, benedict5856 said: We are gay, we like man. Not ah gua man. If we like sissy, we might as well go like a woman. Take that exclusive, discriminatory and double-standard mind set out of here, thank you very much. max001 1 Tech Reviewer on Rhyn Reviews and YouTube: https://youtube.com/rhynreviews. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Transformer gays Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 6 hours ago, Guest Guest said: No nid talk so much becos all r still cal GAY! No.... some gays are manly, even malier than straight men, some gays are simply ah quas trying to look man, and its obvious. There are many of this type at the mega gyms, it’s a turn off! They are territorial somemore and hang around handsome men like those catty bar girls from china. Simply yucks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yes hate fem Posted November 14, 2017 Report Share Posted November 14, 2017 Once saw a group of uncles loitering at the men underwear section of a big departmental shop in orchard, they were wearing singlet and tight shorts, apparently they work out in the gym to show off their muscles. But their actions were fem and fucking turn on, they walk, talk and gesture like aunties! Actually worse than women, yuck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgmaven Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 I guess that it deserves some self-examination, and whether it is rooted in some paradoxical internalised homophobia, or simply because we like manly qualities better (the very fact that we are gay). Слава Україні! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest racist Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 we are the most racist and discriminatory group of people...and we expect the rest of the society to accept us???..that will never happen..maybe a small proportion..or people will pretend infront of us but behind closed doors they dont accept us .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 (edited) . Edited April 10, 2018 by lean n mean iamziz and max001 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingbitch Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 9 hours ago, Rice60640 said: We all live difficult lives as it is. Let’s not start judging people in the LGBTQ community. I feel the study above approaches two different topics. 1) Are we romantically/sexually turned off by a romantic/sexual partner with feminine traits. 2) Are we ashamed by feminine guys and do we feel they give gays a bad name. I happen to agree with 1 but disagree with 2, and I think some of my friends think the same way. 15 hours ago, benedict5856 said: We are gay, we like man. Not ah gua man. If we like sissy, we might as well go like a woman. 4 hours ago, Rhyn said: Take that exclusive, discriminatory and double-standard mind set out of here, thank you very much. Whilst I my preferences are more similar with benedict5856's, I too agree with Rhyn his statements are sweeping and bigoted, since there are probably many guys who like effeminate men. iamziz and max001 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 38 minutes ago, sgmaven said: I guess that it deserves some self-examination, and whether it is rooted in some paradoxical internalised homophobia, or simply because we like manly qualities better (the very fact that we are gay). True..... & ur last one was good "THE VERY FACT THAT WE ARE GAY" May I ask how many btm u haf screwed out tere r "manly, manly than str8 men" ? Seriously all I screwed out tere haf a feminine behavior. They r not drag, but at least feminine in character. "We r gay, we like man" ? But e fact tat btm get screwed in sauna dark room r majority feminine or sissy n I still c them get screwed by we TOP. Pls take ur discriminatory away. Bcos how manly u r, how str8 acting u r, u r still a gay who like men n like having sex with men. To be nasty we r all named faggots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Feminine and unpleasant Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 I find the manlier gays do not act bitchy and entitled, that’s partly what i like about them, they tend to display cool, reasonable nature and behaviour. The feminine gays - especially the proactive ones - are OFTEN times bitchy and acts all entitled (not cool) and sometimes even appears to throw tantrums and display pincessy behaviour (fucking not cool) when trying to get to close to you as STRANGER and you aint showing interest in them because you equate their muscles and try hard behaviour with neither masculinity nor attractiveness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Feminine and unpleasant Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 4 minutes ago, Guest Feminine and unpleasant said: I find the manlier gays do not act bitchy and entitled, that’s partly what i like about them, they tend to display cool, reasonable nature and behaviour. The feminine gays - especially the proactive ones - are OFTEN times bitchy and acts all entitled (not cool) and sometimes even appears to throw tantrums and display pincessy behaviour (fucking not cool) when trying to get to close to you as STRANGER and you aint showing interest in them because you equate their muscles and try hard behaviour with neither masculinity nor attractiveness. Females are a bitchier species than males, is a fact in the straight and gay world. Bitchiness in a feminine gay in heat is one of the most unpleasant thing anyone - gay or straight, top or bottom - can experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted November 15, 2017 Report Share Posted November 15, 2017 17 hours ago, benedict5856 said: We are gay, we like man. Not ah gua man. If we like sissy, we might as well go like a woman. this is really an all-time fav quote occurring several times in BW Bad research and classification: bitchiness is bitchiness, nt that it s a feminine gay, even a kid can bitch around esp in the younger gen Sometimes too quiet and too cool is not leading to any where too, worst one like it that way yet refuse to express but have to act cool about it........ 40 minutes ago, Guest Feminine and unpleasant said: Females are a bitchier species than males, is a fact in the straight and gay world. Bitchiness in a feminine gay in heat is one of the most unpleasant thing anyone - gay or straight, top or bottom - can experience. Oopiess 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Semantics semantics Posted November 19, 2017 Report Share Posted November 19, 2017 On 15/11/2017 at 11:53 AM, -Ignored- said: this is really an all-time fav quote occurring several times in BW Bad research and classification: bitchiness is bitchiness, nt that it s a feminine gay, even a kid can bitch around esp in the younger gen Sometimes too quiet and too cool is not leading to any where too, worst one like it that way yet refuse to express but have to act cool about it........ Nah male bitchiness is rare, or female bitchiness is way more common. Effeminate gay men tend to be bitchier than manly gays, that’s for sure. Unless the males you see aren’t real males or semi-males.... teehee. Each and everyone define manliness in their own terms, though there are some common traits like chivalry, gentlemanliness, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted November 19, 2017 Report Share Posted November 19, 2017 what is the difference when all of you are just preying for that anal sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tagging Gun Poke Posted November 19, 2017 Report Share Posted November 19, 2017 5 minutes ago, Guest concern said: what is the difference when all of you are just preying for that anal sex. Pray you mean. Not all civilised humans are christians, tyvm. And not every gay like anal sex, some prefer careless, easygoing sex. No difference between girl or boy anus for you? You are bisexual like EasyLim, then. Although i suspect he likes a different configuration of the human body from most. Also unlike him, you do not attract curious stares to yourself by dropping your sexual label every now and then like it’s hot, baby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted November 20, 2017 Report Share Posted November 20, 2017 10 hours ago, Guest Tagging Gun Poke said: Pray you mean. Not all civilised humans are christians, tyvm. And not every gay like anal sex, some prefer careless, easygoing sex. No difference between girl or boy anus for you? You are bisexual like EasyLim, then. Although i suspect he likes a different configuration of the human body from most. Also unlike him, you do not attract curious stares to yourself by dropping your sexual label every now and then like it’s hot, baby. prey, not pray! and about being effeminate, don't care whether is it straight being effeminate or gays looking effe, both are all males mayb in SEAsia, many name calling Rice60640 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XgymX Posted November 21, 2017 Report Share Posted November 21, 2017 those extremely feminine ones are not the majority the majority of those I met are not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fly360 Posted November 22, 2017 Report Share Posted November 22, 2017 manly boyish here, don't mind pretty looking boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomcat Posted November 22, 2017 Report Share Posted November 22, 2017 i dont mind a musc mary, quite a turn on for me seeing them squeak as they kena pound. 🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted November 22, 2017 Report Share Posted November 22, 2017 On 20/11/2017 at 6:01 AM, Guest Tagging Gun Poke said: Pray you mean. Not all civilised humans are christians, tyvm. And not every gay like anal sex, some prefer careless, easygoing sex. No difference between girl or boy anus for you? You are bisexual like EasyLim, then. Although i suspect he likes a different configuration of the human body from most. Also unlike him, you do not attract curious stares to yourself by dropping your sexual label every now and then like it’s hot, baby. Thats even gross of you to think i am bisexual.Labeling a sexual conduct is not your authority of saying as whole though,if its under religious status!However,practicing a sexual act is one desire!If the sayings of you;makes legal gay civilization in our country.I am sure you will be jaw dropped by lots of man in the street,i mean officially. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chen tian wenporque uran Posted November 22, 2017 Report Share Posted November 22, 2017 41 minutes ago, Guest concern said: Thats even gross of you to think i am bisexual.Labeling a sexual conduct is not your authority of saying as whole though,if its under religious status!However,practicing a sexual act is one desire!If the sayings of you;makes legal gay civilization in our country.I am sure you will be jaw dropped by lots of man in the street,i mean officially. Your in-ger-ish is so powderful i am stunned like a vegetable, so i cannot respond to this. Sorry! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted November 22, 2017 Report Share Posted November 22, 2017 i like manly guys, most are but not all, some into sissy and turn on by them, that is why some hot gay like to fuck and get fuck by shemale, no judge and nothing wrong with each liking, be kind is the key word Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted November 22, 2017 Report Share Posted November 22, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest Chen tian wenporque uran said: Your in-ger-ish is so powderful i am stunned like a vegetable, so i cannot respond to this. Sorry! no pro!i will simplified for you!For you only! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dream girls Posted November 22, 2017 Report Share Posted November 22, 2017 these guys can femme all they want ,for all I care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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