blacksmith Posted February 20, 2018 Report Share Posted February 20, 2018 Are there bottoms who dont want to be sucked? I had encountered some bottoms who dont want to be sucked nor even to hold their dicks. They dont even demand to cum. I mean its ok for them not to cum. I always the one to ejaculate. Are there bottoms like that? Are they the one so called pure? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted February 20, 2018 Report Share Posted February 20, 2018 (edited) I think there is a spectrum to what is pleasurable for guys are enjoy bottoming. Some guys enjoy cumming while being fucked (#amazing) others, enjoy being fucked and fucking at the same time (#orgasmic). Others are like you have described, get their pleasure totally from the anal area. So, don't stress too much about it. It is different things for different people. Edited February 20, 2018 by doncoin Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lycane Posted February 20, 2018 Report Share Posted February 20, 2018 I actually get turned off if someone sucks me, I really prefer to be the one sucking. I like it if my lover ignores my penis. Does that make me a pure bottom? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Btmme Posted February 20, 2018 Report Share Posted February 20, 2018 It depends. Sucking is supposed to be foreplay not the main course. I can tell from his eagerness whether the top intend to fuck later on. Sometimes he's already cummed or he's not a good top so he's selfish to make me cum orally. So I'll pull out my cock. Sometimes when I'm already fucked by other men and almost ready to cum for the next top, I don't want to waste my cum into a mouth. It's much more high to cum while fucked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steven94 Posted February 20, 2018 Report Share Posted February 20, 2018 Yes yup. Its usually hard to find a good top (or a place) to fuck, and hence fear that cumming will end things early. Also, because most bottoms are submissive and prefer to pleasure and/or wait for the top to ejaculate first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProMouth Posted February 20, 2018 Report Share Posted February 20, 2018 Pretty much as a bottom, my desire is to please the top. So his pleasure of ejaculation becomes my trophy for that session. If a top sucks me, somehow it impresses on my mind that he is not a pure top..so the joy is killed. My own ejaculation is lowest in priority when i am playing with a guy..not self demeaning..it is just how i enjoy the game kenzisstic and Seekgoodsucker 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted February 20, 2018 Report Share Posted February 20, 2018 Just now, ProMouth said: Pretty much as a bottom, my desire is to please the top. So his pleasure of ejaculation becomes my trophy for that session. If a top sucks me, somehow it impresses on my mind that he is not a pure top..so the joy is killed. My own ejaculation is lowest in priority when i am playing with a guy..not self demeaning..it is just how i enjoy the game Hits the nail on the head. Well explained. ProMouth 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 9 hours ago, ProMouth said: Pretty much as a bottom, my desire is to please the top. So his pleasure of ejaculation becomes my trophy for that session. If a top sucks me, somehow it impresses on my mind that he is not a pure top..so the joy is killed. My own ejaculation is lowest in priority when i am playing with a guy..not self demeaning..it is just how i enjoy the game I hope all btms think or behave like that too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bottom Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 Just now, -Ignored- said: I hope all btms think or behave like that too NO!!..only worthless bottom will feel like that..not many bottoms are self depreciating like this!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Deprecate Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 35 minutes ago, Guest bottom said: NO!!..only worthless bottom will feel like that..not many bottoms are self depreciating like this!! If you are going to be rude for no reason then atleast be grammatically correct - it’s self deprecating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bottom Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 3 minutes ago, Guest Deprecate said: If you are going to be rude for no reason then atleast be grammatically correct - it’s self deprecating. just swallow the cum and dont speak with your mouth full ..cum may spill out and you wouldnt want to waste it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 I love to be sucked. i love to ejaculate at every opportunity when someone sucks me. Shiok! mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProMouth Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 52 minutes ago, -Ignored- said: I hope all btms think or behave like that too it is Good Tops in BW that allow us to be the best bottom that we can be.. lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blacksmith Posted February 21, 2018 Author Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 (edited) Hi, because i’m so confused. That day, i already cummed. I dont know if he wanted also. But he seems dont care if he cums or not. I left his place without him cumming. I tried to suck him but i dont know if he enjoys it. But before that he asks me if i wear braces and i say not. Then i assume he wanted me to suck him. Edited February 21, 2018 by blacksmith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 6 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said: I love to be sucked. i love to ejaculate at every opportunity when someone sucks me. Shiok! No good u know. Sinful.hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 39 minutes ago, cutejack said: No good u know. Sinful.hehe It’s a sin not to ejaculate if you are born with a cock! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 52 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said: It’s a sin not to ejaculate if you are born with a cock! Can ejaculate but not inside mouth u know.hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 1 hour ago, cutejack said: Can ejaculate but not inside mouth u know.hahaha Must either be inside mouth or inside ass (rubber) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 3 hours ago, cutejack said: Can ejaculate but not inside mouth u know.hahaha Most will eat my cum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 4 hours ago, blacksmith said: Hi, because i’m so confused. That day, i already cummed. I dont know if he wanted also. But he seems dont care if he cums or not. I left his place without him cumming. I tried to suck him but i dont know if he enjoys it. But before that he asks me if i wear braces and i say not. Then i assume he wanted me to suck him. I’m curious, does having braces affect or have a different sensation when sucking someone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Queen of Pure Btm Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 Yes TS, as a purest of pure btm, I neither want to be sucked nor to fuck. I only want to suck and get fucked hard by my top. Me cumming is so lame, but making you cum at cloud nine is my game. Submitting and pampering by you is my oxygen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest No no no Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 17 hours ago, -Ignored- said: I hope all btms think or behave like that too Sorry to burst your bubble bro, but not all bottoms think or behave like this... how selfish are you? You must be ‘fun’ in bed! Not! Sex is not a one way street... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 All I can say is this world is filled with all kind of people with different personality and preference. Just do whatever you enjoy and don't harm or hurt others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Choii1928 Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 (edited) Im a pure btm, but i dont really prefer to suck. I like to be sucked, licked and fucked. I do suck occasionally, depends if I really like the top. And im not turned off by tops who suck, i find it more sexy lol (just my preference) Edited February 21, 2018 by Choii1928 SexySteps, hairy40'sgindian and Hanabishi 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Please Posted February 21, 2018 Report Share Posted February 21, 2018 18 minutes ago, Choii1928 said: Im a pure btm, but i dont really prefer to suck. I like to be sucked, licked and fucked. I do suck occasionally, depends if I really like the top. And im not turned off by tops who suck, i find it more sexy lol (just my preference) I’d love to suck, lick and fuck you like crazy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bigt Posted February 22, 2018 Report Share Posted February 22, 2018 i love to suck dick..preferbably a few in a row..so i dont want to cum too early. Also many guys dont know how to give a blowjob..many of them just lighly suck ....almost cannot feel anything. After being super horny from.swallowing a fee guys (plus jaw sore and throat too sticky liao) i prefer to jerk off very hard... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bonfire Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 (edited) There are different reasons for not wanting to be sucked. Maybe the person isn't doing it the way he likes it. Maybe the person is not his type in the first place. For me I prefer to suck, especially like the feeling of a stiff cock pulsating in mouth, pleasing the top. Anyway everyone has his own liking. Edited February 23, 2018 by bonfire Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Same Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 4 hours ago, bonfire said: There are different reasons for not wanting to be sucked. Maybe the person isn't doing it the way he likes it. Maybe the person is not his type in the first place. For me I prefer to suck, especially like the feeling of a stiff cock pulsating in mouth, pleasing the top. Anyway everyone has his own liking. I agree... nothing like the pulsating feeling! And then when he clenches, jolts and stiffens as the climax occurs blows my mind! And him! Would like to do that to you one day bonfire! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted February 23, 2018 Report Share Posted February 23, 2018 I like it when the bottom sucks me and eat my cum. It made me shiok! mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest :-( Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 On 2/23/2018 at 3:16 PM, Ben Ben Ben said: I like it when the bottom sucks me and eat my cum. It made me shiok! When we're not having sex, my bf always swallow I couldn't control myself as well, the feeling of being suck and ejaculating in his mouth is so powerful. Loves him more when he did that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geizershow Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 On 23/02/2018 at 9:40 AM, bonfire said: There are different reasons for not wanting to be sucked. Maybe the person isn't doing it the way he likes it. Maybe the person is not his type in the first place. For me I prefer to suck, especially like the feeling of a stiff cock pulsating in mouth, pleasing the top. Anyway everyone has his own liking. As the person sucking, do you enjoy guys ruffling your hair and caressing ur head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bottom Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 1 hour ago, geizershow said: As the person sucking, do you enjoy guys ruffling your hair and caressing ur head I prefer a firm grab of my hair so as to put me in place and not to move too much...which do u as a top prefer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geizershow Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 14 minutes ago, Guest Bottom said: I prefer a firm grab of my hair so as to put me in place and not to move too much...which do u as a top prefer? Personally I am for mutual pleasuring so I may be a little bit more gentle.. i would carress his hair and grab it occasionally.. and maybe sometimes push down gently and tell him “deep throat” Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bonfire Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 4 hours ago, Guest :-( said: When we're not having sex, my bf always swallow I couldn't control myself as well, the feeling of being suck and ejaculating in his mouth is so powerful. Loves him more when he did that. Yeah I get that. My bf loves it like you too. 4 hours ago, geizershow said: As the person sucking, do you enjoy guys ruffling your hair and caressing ur head I get hard hearing my bf moan as I suck him. It gets me in the mood even more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geizershow Posted February 25, 2018 Report Share Posted February 25, 2018 10 minutes ago, bonfire said: 11 minutes ago, bonfire said: get hard hearing my bf moan as I suck him. It gets me in the mood even more. I agree that moaning is one way of showing that you’re doing a good job... do you agree that sometimes no better word expresses that one is pleasured than “fuck” ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Ben Ben Posted February 27, 2018 Report Share Posted February 27, 2018 On 25/02/2018 at 12:41 PM, Guest :-( said: When we're not having sex, my bf always swallow I couldn't control myself as well, the feeling of being suck and ejaculating in his mouth is so powerful. Loves him more when he did that. I like your bf so good boy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest not hiding Posted February 27, 2018 Report Share Posted February 27, 2018 On 21/02/2018 at 2:01 AM, ProMouth said: Pretty much as a bottom, my desire is to please the top. So his pleasure of ejaculation becomes my trophy for that session. If a top sucks me, somehow it impresses on my mind that he is not a pure top..so the joy is killed. My own ejaculation is lowest in priority when i am playing with a guy..not self demeaning..it is just how i enjoy the game I m a top but enjoy sucking to get aroused. my favorite is still a big tooled bottom. I 've never been bottom. Plus at the end I prefer that the bottom comes too... I don't think there is a golden rule.. I sense mainly bottoms didn't want to be sucked in fear they come too fast and then can't be fucked at all.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProMouth Posted February 27, 2018 Report Share Posted February 27, 2018 1 minute ago, Guest not hiding said: I m a top but enjoy sucking to get aroused. my favorite is still a big tooled bottom. I 've never been bottom. Plus at the end I prefer that the bottom comes too... I don't think there is a golden rule.. I sense mainly bottoms didn't want to be sucked in fear they come too fast and then can't be fucked at all.... that can be true too..enjoy the journey! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest notsuxcock Posted February 27, 2018 Report Share Posted February 27, 2018 I'm bottom, I love to suck and to be sucked I just don't understand how come some gay top and bottom don't like to suck cocks at all. Scare of disease? It's like chicken rice without the chicken rice taste Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Choii1928 Posted February 28, 2018 Report Share Posted February 28, 2018 Everyone has their own preference when it comes to sex or whatever. Usually i’ll inform the top that i dont suck before meeting so we’re not wasting time. Its up to them if they want to suck me or not. But most of them do suck and worship me lol. And i love top who inform me if they will cum alr, i love cumming tgt, I prefer to cum while the dick is still hard inside (shiok!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blow! Posted February 28, 2018 Report Share Posted February 28, 2018 4 hours ago, Choii1928 said: Everyone has their own preference when it comes to sex or whatever. Usually i’ll inform the top that i dont suck before meeting so we’re not wasting time. Its up to them if they want to suck me or not. But most of them do suck and worship me lol. And i love top who inform me if they will cum alr, i love cumming tgt, I prefer to cum while the dick is still hard inside (shiok!) It would be awesome to feel you blow bro, whilst I’m deep in you! Yeah! Wish I lived in Sing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tskaloy Posted March 9, 2018 Report Share Posted March 9, 2018 For me, i usually don't cum after the end of the session or during the session, and I just rub my dick occasionally during the fuck. My dick is usually untouched after the top has ejaculated. Personal preference i guess, i rather not spend time trying to get me to cum and spend the time on other things instead like having the top in me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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