Manly, dom, pure top needs advise after being bottom

[Guest unknown]

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

[Guest Guest]

4 minutes ago, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

Ask google

[Lemonjuice]

Taking pride into one’s sexuality means one has to understand that sexuality itself is fluid. According to a number of studies, there is a spectrum of homo/heterosexuality in every person with potential changes due to age and other situational changes. Religion and culture are strong repressants for expressing sexuality as many asian cultures still think that as a taboo.

 

The bottom line is being a “pure manly top” does not mean that you are a better human being than “bottom sluts”. Those are only sexual expressions. 

 

Mixing pride with sexual expression is foolishness because everyone is created differently. Rather than shooting down others, embrace the changes and please come out from your closet already for heaven sake.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Eujiboo]

1 hour ago, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

 

I have so many things to say I really don't know where to start.

Firstly. Stop.

 

1. Good for you. I don't see the issue here. I don't understand why you need to feel 'less than' when you enjoy being a bottom.

2. Does this apply to how you think about men you fuck? Why does being a bottom/enjoying the role make you feel that way. Maybe you need to ask yourself why you have those feelings in the first place.

3. Stop. I don't know why this is a legit question. The title doesn't really matter does it? There are pure tops that have bottom'd before, and pure bottoms that have top'd before. No need to add "manly" either. Just be you.

4. No. Because this has nothing to do with pride in the first place - therefore nothing was lost.

 

I don't know how you're expecting genuine advice from this but if it really bothers you then your best bet, as someone above mentioned, go see a counsellor/therapist about it - because that's probably the only way to figure out why you're having all these negative feelings associated with being a bottom.

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Guest unknown said:

 

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

Genuine advise:

If your pride comes from being "pure manly top",  you are better off not recovering such stupid kind of pride.

 

Pride should come from having overcome difficult obstacles, having worked on yourself and achieved a positive change, etc.

[Guest Troll you a bone]

Big fucking deal. Your hole is not the HOLEy grail. If you think it is, you shouldn’t even shit through it, and it will be less dirty that way.

 

You should join a nunnery.

[GreenKiwi]

This is because you always treat the person you fucked like shit, you always looked at them like something dirty. Now ENJOY! You are dirty now. Real dirty.

 

W.t.f. is pure manly top. LOL.

 

This is genuine advise.

[cutejack]

Yeah. Serve u right. Wat goes round comes around.  So in yr mind btms r dirty sluts n y u open yr leg to someone in the first place? That guy dom u or he look damn gorgeous? If there's no btms then tops got no hole to fuck n vv. So from now onwards pls change yr mentality n try both lo. Good wat.more choices. 

[sg indian here]

what goes around comes around.....

[derryfawne]

Anal is supposed to be pleasurable due to the sensitive nerves inside there, so being stimulated one time by it doesn't make you any less of a man, manly, top or manly top.

 

Looseness—it's probably mostly just in the mind.

 

How to gain back your pride—well, for one, go out and screw a bottom??? Nobody but that one person knows you have bottomed before, so your pride is still rather intact.

 

Go out and enjoy all sorts of pleasure, rediscover the pleasure of topping. And even if you enjoy bottoming, that's a-ok.

[p2468]

If u r pure top, why kenna fuck? 

[sgboyzz12]

9 hours ago, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

Well, I would assume you tried btming cause you wanted to know how it feels.

I think the problem lies with the fact that you think btms are inferior.

No, btming does not make one "dirty", and a btm can be as manly as a top.

Its just a preference that some people have.

Roles should be neutral, I don't think tops and more superior than btms etc.

What you need to do is to let go of your pride and change your perception towards your stereotype of btms and you'll be fine

If you enjoy it, go ahead and explore more, don't let your judgement affect you

[Guest John]

10 hours ago, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

So fictional .  Totally dont gel.  

The earlier part of u portray as assertive, confident and decisive, kena one time btm , become a vulnerable girl machiam kena raped, hide in the toilet and cry ...... then here SOS asking for advice 

 

Conclusion, another chat topic created out of boredom 

[Tomtom69]

11 hours ago, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

Simple. You are a latent bottom slut.  Embrace it and move on. 

[GachiMuchi]

11 hours ago, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

I sense that you are/were a cocky, arrogant prick who gets many bottom coming at you for years. From a psychological view point. I believe you were mistreated / rejected when you were younger, which toughen you, which made you who you are today.  You might had met someone you really like and decided to try being a bottom to him and it clashed with the values you hold now. You realised that you enjoyed it and now you are confused.

 

Top or bottom is just a sexual choice one chooses. Without someone wanting to be a bottom for you, you can't be a top. You need a bottom as much as the bottom needs you. Sex is between you and you partner, working towards achieving the highest climax, regardless who is bottom or top. 

Your pride has nothing to do with the sex. That is your ego talking. You left your ego at the door and you realised that you had enjoyed that 1st session being a bottom. I am sure, if you leave your ego at the door every time you have sex with others, you will realised that you don't have to keep having to be in control all the time and just relax and let others take control for a change and sex would be a more enjoyable experience and not a stressful experience trying to perform to a certain KPI or routine.
 

Whether you are still a top or bottom only you and those you are having sex with will know. But you are certainly not pure top now. Manly or not, that will have to depend on what others sees you as. Not for you to say. You can say you are manly but others might think you are a macho Mary. 

If you are going to be so anal about your pride and your manliness, you really need a good fuck to your ass to loosen it up. You better thank that person who managed to help fucked some sense into you. Pun intended.

[Guest Troll you a boner]

Fuck me. But NOT literally, cos you sounded rough. You are looking for some “top validation”. You need a sex doll or a sex therapist, which could also be some “receiving” money boys. Please be gentle with them. They may form a cartel and sue you for abuse these days,

[Kimochi]

Hihi slutty bottom ~

[Traveler3032]

If you have never been fucked before, the first time you would feel very painful and probably won't even succeed. You need to get plenty of practices, such as fingering, toys, etc. to loosen up before you can tolerate a big cock. So I don't believe you.

Second, are you bottom shaming here? That's actually disgusting. Seriously. 

[keyboard]

Go to any MRT station, approach the Passenger Service booth (near the fare gates), ask them for a MRT map. Look at the map,

 

THERE, you will have a way to what you are looking for.

 

Edited March 26, 2018 by keyboard

[snowball]

you can be a good flexi, just enjoy " both world " 

don't let label overtake your pride, it's wortless

Edited March 26, 2018 by snowball

[sum1outhere_03]

1 hour ago, keyboard said:

I like this sh*t lol  

 

I saw the post and I saw... posted by guest.

Edited March 26, 2018 by sum1outhere_03

[Guest Unknown]

II am not trolling, I am a straight man. Thats why I feel disgusted kenna fuck by a man. Gosh he must have drug me or sth

[fab]

17 hours ago, Guest unknown said:

.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

 

 

 

 

 

1 minute ago, Guest Unknown said:

II am not trolling, I am a straight man. Thats why I feel disgusted kenna fuck by a man. Gosh he must have drug me or sth

 

But in your above post, u enjoy it.

[Kimochi]

Soon you will visit sauna for fun ~

[Guest Unknown]

The feeling in the hole, and the feeling in the brain is different leh.

[No Frills Factory Outlet]

8 minutes ago, Guest Unknown said:

II am not trolling, I am a straight man. Thats why I feel disgusted kenna fuck by a man. Gosh he must have drug me or sth

YOU are a straight man ?  Seriously ?  and u fucked guys .... what's with all the self denial lol

 

if you were drugged, would u be conscious enough to feel "shiok" by the act, being your "first time" ?

[GachiMuchi]

2 hours ago, Guest Unknown said:

The feeling in the hole, and the feeling in the brain is different leh.

You must have had your ass licked until you shiok, then he tells you that he putting his cock outside your asshole and slide in and out until it goes in and you still feel shiok.

You just need to disengage your brain and your hole and just enjoy the ride and the good feeling of your hole, can already. Hehehe.

 

2 hours ago, Guest Unknown said:

II am not trolling, I am a straight man. Thats why I feel disgusted kenna fuck by a man. Gosh he must have drug me or sth

You are not straight lah. You want to organise mass orgy for guys, how can you be str8?

[Guest Guest]

21 hours ago, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

You are deflowered. Now you can at best be a flex. Of course, you can also consider turning into a btm.

 

You are by no means a pure top anymore. 

 

Hmm....it is like you are raped and no longer a virgin.

[doncoin]

I think TS is over-analysing the whole notion of being masculine. Being a top is just a sexual position/role. It can be transient.

 

Feeling your hole is very dirty and loose is mental. As long as you are not shitting your pants or farting silently without effort, your asshole is reasonably tight. 

Being a top does not make you manly. Whoever told you that tops are manly is obviously missing out something in life. Ever heard of the term "butch queen?" They look like Tarzan, sound like Jane. Sex is meant to be pleasurable. So enjoy it. 

Embrace yourself and you will restore your pride. 

[lx]

22 hours ago, Guest unknown said:

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

 

You can have the best of both - The Pride of being a dom top and The Pride of being a slutty btm at the same time. Why not?

[Kissme]

G.U.Y by Lady Gaga. U r welcome.

[thorzguy]

I love what GM mentioned -  without bottom, there is no top. Which is very true. I had said the same to some of my friends too. Without bottom then all go and bang trees??

Drugged or not, for you to know, not for us to find out.

 

Just enjoy whichever role you are. Why read so much into it? 

[Guest flipflop]

I always believe that in order to be a good top, he needs to bottom once in a while. 

[sum1outhere_03]

Hmm why are we feeding and entertaining to his troll? :-/

[Guest :-(]

I cummed into my bf on our first sex. Then he thrust me back in return. We both don't like being penetrated at all. But he doesn't mind letting me top him if I want to because he knows I like it and cum in below 3minutes

 

No idea what's so nice being a bottom since the feeling is not pleasurable at all and every thrust he made makes me feel like shitting and sore

[fab]

22 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

I cummed into my bf on our first sex. Then he thrust me back in return. We both don't like being penetrated at all. But he doesn't mind letting me top him if I want to because he knows I like it

 

Every btm says that initially....

 

23 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

 and cum in below 3minutes

 

 

U r so lousy

 

24 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

 

No idea what's so nice being a bottom since the feeling is not pleasurable at all and every thrust he made makes me feel like shitting and sore

 

It just means u r not a btm...it pains in a pleasurable way....

[fab]

22 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

I cummed into my bf on our first sex. Then he thrust me back in return. We both don't like being penetrated at all. But he doesn't mind letting me top him if I want to because he knows I like it

 

Every btm says that initially....

 

23 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

 and cum in below 3minutes

 

 

U r so lousy

 

24 minutes ago, Guest :-( said:

 

No idea what's so nice being a bottom since the feeling is not pleasurable at all and every thrust he made makes me feel like shitting and sore

 

It just means u r not a btm...it pains in a pleasurable way....

[Guest Chinese uncle]

1 hour ago, fab said:

 

Every btm says that initially....

 

 

U r so lousy

 

 

It just means u r not a btm...it pains in a pleasurable way....

Some find it pain, some take a few tries and the right guys before they learn to enjoy.

 

The problem is that most don't really know if they'll ever enjoy it. It's different from those who have sensitive ass and and enjoy being penetrated. 

 

It's not actually pain in a pleasurable way, it's first the pain of the initial penetration then slowly the pleasures spread to the whole body.

Even a seasoned bottom, I still fear the pain of that initial penetration. It's sharp and tearing. But then like you said, I just grit my teeth and groaned. I know the top likes to see me take his domination of the pain before he gives me back the pleasures as compensation. It's these interplay of roles of pains and pleasures that make sex so dirty yet exciting. 

That's why ts is so afraid to lose his control to another man and be dominated by him. He thinks of himself having high market value so he doesn't want to give it up when he becomes a bottom like those who are low market value, we shamelessly offer ourselves.

 

[Guest me no prophet]

On 26/03/2018 at 5:12 AM, Guest unknown said:

3. Am I still pure manly top?

 

no one can say he is a pure top or bottom until the day he died. we are not prophet so don't act like one. I was a top-only gay until recent past which i sometimes double up as a bottom ... and only for my bottoms. yes, for bottoms**  only. you see, bottoms are gay and they are not women. while they enjoy being penetrated, they do also derive pleasure from their cocks.

 

the problem with our circle is that we enjoy tagging ppl with labels. oh, he is pure top, he is flex, he is flex top and blah blah. my take is to do what you feel like doing, enjoy the clean safe fun. why bother if you're pure or not-pure top? 

 

** i get aroused by those guys that moaned for more when i topped them. and over the cause, i wonder was it really so enjoyable being fcuked. after several attempts, although i wont say it is unpleasant, i don't find it physically pleasurable. but i do it occasionally more for emotional satisfaction ... if it makes any sense.

[SazNura]

have played the role of dom bottom. it is a just a role play, as long you enjoy and trust the partner you played with . anyway no man is pure top no man is pure bottom. it is what role you  wished to play,  if you have something like buyers remorse don't do it next time .being dom is fun being submissive is fun too

Edited March 29, 2018 by SazNura

[lightsmith32]

U seem genuinely affected mentally, highly advise u seek some professional help ..

[Guest not hiding]

On 26/03/2018 at 5:12 AM, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

Hey threadstarter!

You dirty loose hole. Get on all your fours; spread your dirty loose ass wide open. I m going to pump your pride back...

[snowball]

as long you are wet happy and shiok, role is no longer important

[cutejack]

4 minutes ago, snowball said:

as long you are wet happy and shiok, role is no longer important

Dont la.sound so tempting with yr hot body

[upshot]

Click-bait fake story.....

[sum1outhere_03]

Yea, especially TS is a guest... believe at your own risk

[TwoChnBTMs]

On ‎30‎/‎3‎/‎2018 at 5:32 PM, Guest not hiding said:

Hey threadstarter!

You dirty loose hole. Get on all your fours; spread your dirty loose ass wide open. I m going to pump your pride back...

 

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok-- u died

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc--sure die

3. Am I still pure manly top?--no u die

4. How can I get back my pride ?--- Go an die

[Guest Jayjay74]

On 3/26/2018 at 5:12 AM, Guest unknown said:

I have always been a manly, dom, pure top. I always feel high and mightly max.

 

I do all sorts of shit stuff, like bdsm dom, keep slaves, cashpigs, fuck women, do outdoor fun, fetish, abuse, humiliate, torture the, deny sex to the btms etc

 

But just recently just 1 time, i kenna top for 1st time.

 

i am now so lost and confused.

 

1. Thou its the 1st time,  i din really feel pain, its quite shiok

2. I now feel my hole very dirty, and loose, and loose (not tight). I feel lousy, disgusted etc

3. Am I still pure manly top?

4. How can I get back my pride ?

 

pls give me genuine advise, thank you all.

 

 

 

 

Just continue to enjoy it. There is no turning back.

[Steve5380]

On 3/25/2018 at 6:11 PM, Guest Troll you a bone said:

Big fucking deal. Your hole is not the HOLEy grail. If you think it is, you shouldn’t even shit through it, and it will be less dirty that way.

 

You should join a nunnery.

 

LOL!  Very hilarious post.  But question:  where do nuns shit through?

[Steve5380]

It is not difficult to find all the manly attributes in some women too.

Maybe the only exclusivity is that only women can give birth