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I have this very close friend, and i've always secretly desired to have sex with him. He's my good buddy but also IMO the sexiest guy alive. I cannot count how many times i've masturbated fantasizing about him. He knows i'm gay and always make sexual jokes around me to tease me(?).

 

I often stayover at his house, I'll hug/cuddle him at night, and he lets me, sometimes he'll even hug me back. But we never went beyond that. Once i tried touching his dick and he got unhappy, so i never did it again. There was once we were talking about sex toys, and he introduced me this website for buying them. Then we started having 'dirty talks' and he tells me about how big his penis is and how he masturbated 10 times a day before. When i jokingly expressed interest in his dick, he would say stuff like 'you cannot handle my big dick' etc.. He probably thinks it as a joke but i was serious about it.

 

Got one time during a stayover, i woke up and realised he not in the room, i went to his brother's room and found him sleeping there half naked. Not sure why he switched room in the middle of the night but i secretly took a photo of him and masturbated to him that night..(I'm such a hopeless pervert)

Another incident was when he grabbed my butt out of nowhere. He likes smacking my ass randomly but this time, he literally put his hands into my pants and fondle my ass. The actions he do makes me confused... At that point i just thought it's because he's single and desperate(well a female a male ass is like the same)

 

Now, he got girlfriend already,  so i know he's probably straight. But i always wondered.. if i seriously asked him for sex, would he want it? I don't want to spoil my friendship with a good friend, but i can't control my lust sometimes.

Anyone experience similar cases?

 

 

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You can forget about having anything emotionally romantically with him. The best that can happen is you get him horny with STRAIGHT porn and topics like girls he wants to fuck, then offer to service him (no strings attached, he doesn't have to reciprocate anything). Then maybe he'll be horny enough to let you suck his massive rod till he spurts for you.

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sigh... sorry to say that if he is super straight, then you can forget it... I went through a similar experience where i had a huge crush on my roommate and best friend. He knows that i'm gay and kinda have a crush on him, but he said he wasn't interested one bit, but I kept on hoping that he would maybe change his mind. One night after a party and lots of drinks, I drunkenly messaged a mutual close friend that she should try convince him to let me give him a bj. She forwarded that message, thinking it was a prank, but when he found out I actually sent it, he got so mad and stormed off. I was so scared that that was the end of our friendship. Thankfully he calmed down the next day and told me not to do that ever again. 

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14 hours ago, freed said:

sigh... sorry to say that if he is super straight, then you can forget it... I went through a similar experience where i had a huge crush on my roommate and best friend. He knows that i'm gay and kinda have a crush on him, but he said he wasn't interested one bit, but I kept on hoping that he would maybe change his mind. One night after a party and lots of drinks, I drunkenly messaged a mutual close friend that she should try convince him to let me give him a bj. She forwarded that message, thinking it was a prank, but when he found out I actually sent it, he got so mad and stormed off. I was so scared that that was the end of our friendship. Thankfully he calmed down the next day and told me not to do that ever again. 

Putting in a third party and girl was very stupid to you. Which straight guy wants to be outed as potentially gay in his circle?

You are lucky that you didn't get beaten up...

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You won't get str8 guys unless u are hotter and more macho then him.

 

If he is Bi-curious, he may try letting u blow or fuck u once for fun - but u will just be an object that's all and the friendship will never be the same.

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7 hours ago, Guest not hiding said:

Putting in a third party and girl was very stupid to you. Which straight guy wants to be outed as potentially gay in his circle?

You are lucky that you didn't get beaten up...

As i've said in my story, we are a close group of friends and open about our sexualities. I've met his family as well, and they are really cool and all. Anyway I've learnt my lesson and didn't come here to get flamed but to give advice to a fellow aj. 

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2 hours ago, freed said:

As i've said in my story, we are a close group of friends and open about our sexualities. I've met his family as well, and they are really cool and all. Anyway I've learnt my lesson and didn't come here to get flamed but to give advice to a fellow aj. 

Got your point but dont thk he s flaming u

he has a point when

 

nt all straight guys entertain such ideas

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Why the fuck you want to get fuck by a straight guy? Isn’t there’s any gay guys that u can fuck with? Seriously dude never ever do that again. 

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Think he is not into you like you are into him. It is quite depressive situation cause whehter he straight or gay he treats like a bff.stop chasing clouds and  look at the ground. maybe you are ignoring someone who finds you hot and interesting

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On 4/4/2018 at 8:11 PM, Guest Hopeless said:

I have this very close friend, and i've always secretly desired to have sex with him. He's my good buddy but also IMO the sexiest guy alive. I cannot count how many times i've masturbated fantasizing about him. He knows i'm gay and always make sexual jokes around me to tease me(?).

 

I often stayover at his house, I'll hug/cuddle him at night, and he lets me, sometimes he'll even hug me back. But we never went beyond that. Once i tried touching his dick and he got unhappy, so i never did it again. There was once we were talking about sex toys, and he introduced me this website for buying them. Then we started having 'dirty talks' and he tells me about how big his penis is and how he masturbated 10 times a day before. When i jokingly expressed interest in his dick, he would say stuff like 'you cannot handle my big dick' etc.. He probably thinks it as a joke but i was serious about it.

 

Got one time during a stayover, i woke up and realised he not in the room, i went to his brother's room and found him sleeping there half naked. Not sure why he switched room in the middle of the night but i secretly took a photo of him and masturbated to him that night..(I'm such a hopeless pervert)

Another incident was when he grabbed my butt out of nowhere. He likes smacking my ass randomly but this time, he literally put his hands into my pants and fondle my ass. The actions he do makes me confused... At that point i just thought it's because he's single and desperate(well a female a male ass is like the same)

 

Now, he got girlfriend already,  so i know he's probably straight. But i always wondered.. if i seriously asked him for sex, would he want it? I don't want to spoil my friendship with a good friend, but i can't control my lust sometimes.

Anyone experience similar cases?

 

 

 

got quite amused reading this.

some str8 guys might tease you sometimes cos they are cheeky but thats about it. you should be lucky that he is rather gay-friendly in the first place.

you already know that the friendship will be over if you do more but yet you still wanna try?

let me put you into perspective:

just imagine right now you have a hot female friend with big boobs and she always purposely move your hands to touch her boobs. sometimes you laugh it off but at times you find it disgusting and tell her to stop doing that.

one day she asked if she can touch your dick and she move your hand to touch her pussy.

or one day, you woke up to find your female friend sucking your cock. how would you feel? damn disgusted right. and you feel like ending the friendship with her.

thats how your straight hot male friend will react too.

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Don't ask or force him directly or incorrectly for sex please

 

Don't give straight people an already bad reputation that gays are disgustingly desperate, mentally sick, society's leeches for not procreating etc. Let him know that gays are normal guys and we know what is respect and make them respect us back

 

Look for gay partner instead. There are many handsome cute and hot gays out there. Whether or not you're destined to be with one of them is your fate... 

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On Wednesday, April 04, 2018 at 8:11 PM, Guest Hopeless said:

 

Another incident was when he grabbed my butt out of nowhere. He likes smacking my ass randomly but this time, he literally put his hands into my pants and fondle my ass. 

 

 

 

They might be playful sometimes. I have 2 attached straight friends who did this to me too. They didn't know i m gay. 1 was my uni friend and the other 1 was my close colleague. The uni friend once insert his hand into my shorts & undie squeezing my butt when we were talking dirty. The close colleague once insert his hand into my boxer shorts rubbing my ass when a few of us were in the chalet lying on the bed chatting dirty too. He even lay on top my butt doing the fucking action and all laugh. Yes i feel his spongy bulge banging...haha! They are all being playful nothing else.

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I believe every guy is some parts gay, just depends how big that part is.. U get the same oxytocin hormone rush whether u r hugged by a guy or a girl.. But I think your guy is very straight from the way he reacts to you touching his dick.. So don't bother trying to convert him to be gay, let alone bi.. Now that u know he is straight, move on and keep your good friendship with him.. They are plenty of gay dudes that could be better than him.. Learn from the mistakes that the rest of us here had and don't make the same mistake...

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On 4/4/2018 at 8:11 PM, Guest Hopeless said:

I have this very close friend, and i've always secretly desired to have sex with him. He's my good buddy but also IMO the sexiest guy alive. I cannot count how many times i've masturbated fantasizing about him. He knows i'm gay and always make sexual jokes around me to tease me(?).

 

I often stayover at his house, I'll hug/cuddle him at night, and he lets me, sometimes he'll even hug me back. But we never went beyond that. Once i tried touching his dick and he got unhappy, so i never did it again. There was once we were talking about sex toys, and he introduced me this website for buying them. Then we started having 'dirty talks' and he tells me about how big his penis is and how he masturbated 10 times a day before. When i jokingly expressed interest in his dick, he would say stuff like 'you cannot handle my big dick' etc.. He probably thinks it as a joke but i was serious about it.

 

Got one time during a stayover, i woke up and realised he not in the room, i went to his brother's room and found him sleeping there half naked. Not sure why he switched room in the middle of the night but i secretly took a photo of him and masturbated to him that night..(I'm such a hopeless pervert)

Another incident was when he grabbed my butt out of nowhere. He likes smacking my ass randomly but this time, he literally put his hands into my pants and fondle my ass. The actions he do makes me confused... At that point i just thought it's because he's single and desperate(well a female a male ass is like the same)

 

Now, he got girlfriend already,  so i know he's probably straight. But i always wondered.. if i seriously asked him for sex, would he want it? I don't want to spoil my friendship with a good friend, but i can't control my lust sometimes.

Anyone experience similar cases?

 

 

 

You have the risk of losing him. Don’t go for it. Find someone else to have sex with.

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He's a straight. 

 

Don't be so desperate like someone.

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Please don't step beyond the line. Leave us gays some dignity. We're gay but we are proud. So please don't try touching his dick or push over to leave a bad impression of you (and the rest of us). 

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There are many hotter and better looking gay guys out there for your picking. Leave the forbidden fruit alone, or suffer the consequences of taking that poison.

 

It isn’t worth it to lose a Friend over one moment of momentarily hormonal rush.

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1 hour ago, repressednerd said:

I have straight guys who get so close to me that it feels too intimate. Wonder if that is the so called bromance. End up I behave like the typical straight guy who wants some distance. <_<

V normal. Esp those ugly straight ones who are too sitting to intimate for my liking. If is handsome, then I will arm wrap around him too :redface: but most of the straight friends I have are not handsome enough. Those not so close ones also can't get too close... 

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Book a room at MBS and ask him to come over. Tell him there'll be a surprise waiting for him. When he enters, he will see a bed full of red roses, you lying on it in your sexy red thongs, with your legs spread out and big ass facing him. See if he leave or instantly strip to poke u.

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