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On 01/10/2016 at 0:56 AM, acidtongue said:

ass slapping is only natural when the top is fucking doggie, besides there is usually already a lot of noise from the top's crotch slapping against the bottom's ass cheeks

 

and yes, its a show of dominance which is also natural in a top-btm sexual relationship. I usually like to prime my btm by penetrating him in missionary, and by the time I get to doggie, he will have gotten used to my girth and hardness and will be able to take harder, deeper fucking. that's when I take the copulation to an animalistic state, and fuck my btm as hard and fast as I can without fear of causing too much discomfort, get him to let go and moan out loud, slapping his ass cheeks as I let out groans of pleasure.

 

I like to balance the aggressive doggie fucking by pinning my btm flat down on bed with my cock still firmly in his ass. At the same time my chest and bod will be rubbing against his back, my arms wrapped around his neck and shoulders, twisting his head to the side so that I can smother him with deep kisses as I continue working his ass with long, sensual strokes that allows him to feel the full length of my cock, and myself to indulge in the extra warmth and tightness of his ass canal that this position brings. this is also the time for sensual, gentler dirty talk - whenever I release his mouth from kissing!

 

the finale is usually back to missionary. I'll build up the momentum until we are once again fucking in frenzied manner like animals, and I manage the intensity of my fucking so that I can cum at the same time as my btm, blasting my seed deep into my btm as he shoot his boy juice on his tummy.

 

Wow...hot...

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On 15/02/2017 at 8:03 AM, Guest Tigger said:

I've a btm FB who is a dead fish on bed. Told him many times and he still kept quiet like a sneaking rat. So, I slapped him hard on his buttock to get him woooo, arrrr and ouchhhhh when slamming him hard. Some people needs to be punished to be obedient 

 

Sadistic top ... must be shiok when you hear the bottom begging for leniency :D:lol:

 

 

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3 hours ago, mith said:

i don't do it to my bottoms... its barbaric!

 

The best part of my btm FB is he pretended to be angry after sex. But, text me when he needs for more actions.  So, is this barbaric?

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29 minutes ago, geizershow said:

I’ll always ask if it’s okay to slap before doing it.. and that sound is so satisfying

IS that the protocol? Like even some masculine bottoms will be so turned off and promptly walk off from the middle of a really good and mutually engaging half an hour session of fun?

 

Masculine bottoms please enlighten me.

 

 

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1 hour ago, Guest Wrong move said:

IS that the protocol? Like even some masculine bottoms will be so turned off and promptly walk off from the middle of a really good and mutually engaging half an hour session of fun?

 

Masculine bottoms please enlighten me.

This type of things you also have to ask how to do ah?

 

When you fuck a bottom, you must observe what type of reactions he has i.e. Is he shy type, avoiding eye contact or he slutty type with lots of moaning and submissive actions...

 

If submissive like me, you test by lightly patting the butts. If it's me, I'll raise up my butts and roll back my eyes to encourage him to do what he likes. After that he whacks me when he's stimulated by my hole and feeling wild.

Important thing to remember that there are 3 type of slapping

1. Lightly only for the sound effect and the act playing domination.

2. Hard with tingling soft pain like a hard painful massage, light pain that's stimulating.

I like this and most good tops know how to do it just right.

3. S&M with S&M paddles that's painful and the butts all bloody red.

This I'll never do and nobody dares to do to me.

 

So to be a good top, you must be very experienced to quickly understand your bottom. If I meet a good top who fuck me so good until I cry father cry mother, I'll become totally submissive and let him show me off in public, a big masculine male as his sex toy.

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52 minutes ago, Guest Satyr said:

This type of things you also have to ask how to do ah?

 

When you fuck a bottom, you must observe what type of reactions he has i.e. Is he shy type, avoiding eye contact or he slutty type with lots of moaning and submissive actions...

 

If submissive like me, you test by lightly patting the butts. If it's me, I'll raise up my butts and roll back my eyes to encourage him to do what he likes. After that he whacks me when he's stimulated by my hole and feeling wild.

Important thing to remember that there are 3 type of slapping

1. Lightly only for the sound effect and the act playing domination.

2. Hard with tingling soft pain like a hard painful massage, light pain that's stimulating.

I like this and most good tops know how to do it just right.

3. S&M with S&M paddles that's painful and the butts all bloody red.

This I'll never do and nobody dares to do to me.

 

So to be a good top, you must be very experienced to quickly understand your bottom. If I meet a good top who fuck me so good until I cry father cry mother, I'll become totally submissive and let him show me off in public, a big masculine male as his sex toy.

So you aren't at all offended. Maybe your degree of masculine is different from the one i've met. He moaned in a very manly way one. Like the sound made by those masculine straight men doing sets in the gym. So maybe the ass slapping was a bit too insulting to him. Clearly you enjoyed it. I believe he is not the shy type, but more slutty and at the same time very masculine and straight looking.

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16 hours ago, kjboy said:

Just slapped a btm ass ytd while i f him.

He moaned ah~ when I slapped with my both hands.

Yes, it was damn nice.

If you slapped me like that... you’d get a returned slap to your face. #slap 

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1 hour ago, Guest Face cheeks said:

If you slapped me like that... you’d get a returned slap to your face. #slap 

Kana fucked already still want to act yaya, what for? Want to be so macho then why let men penetrate you so shameful?

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20 hours ago, geizershow said:

I’ll always ask if it’s okay to slap before doing it.. and that sound is so satisfying

I wont ask. I will slap first. If he is ok with it, he will moan. If he is not ok, he will tell you lighter.

Based on my experiment result (more than 30 samples size), btm likes his butt to be slapped but depends on how hard u slap.

 

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On 4/22/2018 at 12:09 PM, Guest Satyr said:

Kana fucked already still want to act yaya, what for? Want to be so macho then why let men penetrate you so shameful?

Ya lor the top's cock already inside the asshole how to slap the top. once a man put his cock inside your hole you are his bitch and there is nothing to talk. just let him use and thats it

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On ‎5‎/‎2‎/‎2018 at 5:09 PM, acidtongue said:

Butt slapping and doggy fucking are like wine and cheese. They go so well together! Besides butt flesh is at least as thick as the palm, so it's unlikely to cause serious bruising unless the top really intends to cause harm. 

 

I like to slap the butt and hold on to a handful of ass while ramming my cock into the hungry boy hole - a total assault on the btm's senses that makes him totally submit to me :twisted:

some saunas really have VERY loud butt slapping noise (overseas one too)

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No one seems to know the purpose. 

 

Slapping is supposed to help distract the brain of the bottom. The pain from the slap is intended to help release the anal muslces which are contracting to try and keep the anus closed. 

 

If a bottom is relaxed and penetration is possible without the muscles going into spasms then the slapping serves no purpose other than those associated with s&m. 

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7 hours ago, Hot Buoys Sailing said:

No one seems to know the purpose. 

 

Slapping is supposed to help distract the brain of the bottom. The pain from the slap is intended to help release the anal muslces which are contracting to try and keep the anus closed. 

 

If a bottom is relaxed and penetration is possible without the muscles going into spasms then the slapping serves no purpose other than those associated with s&m. 

i wanna it to be Even tighter, not looser

 

if slapping eventually leads to contracting of the muscles around there, i rather not

How i wish every btms can automatically every now and then tighten their holes 

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1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

i wanna it to be Even tighter, not looser

 

if slapping eventually leads to contracting of the muscles around there, i rather not

How i wish every btms can automatically every now and then tighten their holes 

I am a very tight bottom but most tops complain they find it to right to enter..it's either painful for them or they cannot manage to push it in skilfully without making bottom pain...

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6 minutes ago, Guest Bottom said:

I am a very tight bottom but most tops complain they find it to right to enter..it's either painful for them or they cannot manage to push it in skilfully without making bottom pain...

yes i dont deny that
some btms said their baby holes cannot take mine (n many will tell u that it is all about experience and ....) esp mine not the usu thin and pointed type

 

but most of the slapping sound i have heard occurred after sex penetration has begun , the slapping sound is still on after so long, which is why i m puzzled why is it to help in relaxing for penetration instead? (they locked their room already for quite some time)

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It's simply male instinct to play with the naked body while fucking the hole. Every part of the body has a way to play with.

The hole is for penetration.

The butt is for slapping.

The breasts are for grasping.

The mouth for kissing.

The balls for squeezing.

The cock for pulling.

 

The straights like to grasp my breasts. The tops like to slap my butts and lick my wet hole. 

I think those who ask these type of questions are not experienced in anal sex. Once I present my naked body to him, the top automatically knows how to play my body like I'm a cheap whore. Like most of them would say, "don't teach your daddy how to impregnate your mummy, you just be the whore for me to use ok."

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6 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

yes i dont deny that
some btms said their baby holes cannot take mine (n many will tell u that it is all about experience and ....) esp mine not the usu thin and pointed type

 

but most of the slapping sound i have heard occurred after sex penetration has begun , the slapping sound is still on after so long, which is why i m puzzled why is it to help in relaxing for penetration instead? (they locked their room already for quite some time)

Even once in..they ask me not to hold my muscle too tight..they slap it and say loosen up abit so can thrust in and out easily...the older tops are usually better..

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10 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

yes i dont deny that
some btms said their baby holes cannot take mine (n many will tell u that it is all about experience and ....) esp mine not the usu thin and pointed type

 

but most of the slapping sound i have heard occurred after sex penetration has begun , the slapping sound is still on after so long, which is why i m puzzled why is it to help in relaxing for penetration instead? (they locked their room already for quite some time)

Every time I'll find those kaypohs waiting outside the room making remarks while the top fucked me. Then some will try to push the door to see if the top will open the door and let them watch free.

Then when we're finished, they'll push the door open to try to catch who's the bottom.

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7 minutes ago, Guest Bottom said:

Even once in..they ask me not to hold my muscle too tight..they slap it and say loosen up abit so can thrust in and out easily...the older tops are usually better..

Ya ought to slap

for those perky ones, mayb a small bite? To wake him up

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11 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

Ya ought to slap

for those perky ones, mayb a small bite? To wake him up

Haha..maybe

 

But yours if it's not the typical size..ie longer and thicker..u need to have certain skill to be able to enter and thrust without hurting the bottom too much

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Just chat about work gossips to distract the bottom a bit. His ass will loosen subconsciously to let in the biggest cock. Then viola! It will be followed by WOOOHOOOOOO happy time!

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5 hours ago, Guest Bottom said:

Haha..maybe

 

But yours if it's not the typical size..ie longer and thicker..u need to have certain skill to be able to enter and thrust without hurting the bottom too much

I agree there r so many ways to relax a person’s muscle

i cannot imagine if someone tell a kid that in order to make u relax or less stress abt exams, i m gonna slap your face lightly for every math qns u attempt, goodness

who invented such a logic to help in relaxing?!!!!!!!!

talk is cheap and simple , just type and made pp believe

 

 

yes, might take some time but i like it when it s slightly painful (those successfully penetrated never said no and end abruptly)

now i tend to use lesser lube , wanna see the btms moaned abit when being drilled w my tool.....(i like the way in jp porn, when the sudden jerk-in and the btms have to “cry”* and in fact yearn for more)

(i felt for my age grp, none of them shd b virgin And their holes r not totally new to all kinds of shapes and sizes) they shd b more than experienced than me!

 

 

 

*: all r good actors, just like in saunas, those who r sleeping r not exactly sleeping inside

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16 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

I agree there r so many ways to relax a person’s muscle

i cannot imagine if someone tell a kid that in order to make u relax or less stress abt exams, i m gonna slap your face lightly for every math qns u attempt, goodness

who invented such a logic to help in relaxing?!!!!!!!!

talk is cheap and simple , just type and made pp believe

 

 

yes, might take some time but i like it when it s slightly painful (those successfully penetrated never said no and end abruptly)

now i tend to use lesser lube , wanna see the btms moaned abit when being drilled w my tool.....(i like the way in jp porn, when the sudden jerk-in and the btms have to “cry”* and in fact yearn for more)

(i felt for my age grp, none of them shd b virgin And their holes r not totally new to all kinds of shapes and sizes) they shd b more than experienced than me!

 

 

 

*: all r good actors, just like in saunas, those who r sleeping r not exactly sleeping inside

Moaning with pleasure is very different from moaning coz of pain wor...if bottom feel pain he will move around a lot later your dick also will keep coming out..best to put more lube so bottom feel comfortable..

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14 minutes ago, Guest Bottom said:

Moaning with pleasure is very different from moaning coz of pain wor...if bottom feel pain he will move around a lot later your dick also will keep coming out..best to put more lube so bottom feel comfortable..

i m very gentle actually, dont do slapping or such

 

he can opt to say no, or do something else, but no1 said no yet (those based on looks said No many times)

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31 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

i m very gentle actually, dont do slapping or such

 

he can opt to say no, or do something else, but no1 said no yet (those based on looks said No many times)

You mean while u fucking if pain can say No?..abit difficult also.coz even if pain got still horny so want both...

 

Some like after fuck to withdraw and shoot on face..

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On 6/18/2006 at 8:39 AM, Guest willing2 said:

everyone seems to have some fetish.

So how about sharing your spanking fun with us here - we can learn a new fun thing to try.

I myself like to have some spanks to the buttocks as I get j/o.

Was 'hooked' when some ONS buddy spanked me inrhythm to the j/o I was getting.

I came like everthing emptied out.

Lets share and maybe even demo for each other

"I came like everthing emptied out." - Best feeling ever. Wah, this spanking... so geng one ah? Becareful ah, next time hooked already can't get high without someone slapping your butt till red red.  

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On 6/10/2021 at 6:12 PM, FattChoy said:

"I came like everthing emptied out." - Best feeling ever. Wah, this spanking... so geng one ah? Becareful ah, next time hooked already can't get high without someone slapping your butt till red red.  

Agree. i love to be spanked very hard with spanking paddle, either wood or leather tlll my butt turn from red to black, until i beg to stop that has being agree before the spanking.

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On 12/1/2022 at 2:14 PM, gucici said:

I get butt slapped too when getting massaged. It was while chatting and joking with the masseuse and she slapped my butt.. 

Dont bluff lah , you so girl, u go to a female masseur ...... 

 

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