Guest NIL Posted July 19, 2018 Report Share Posted July 19, 2018 Like whenever He’s messaging Some guys I’ll instantly feel insecure like I scared that the other guy snatch him away from me or my partner fall in love with the guy. Honestly speaking , I do not have confidence in myself at all hence all the insecurities and fear . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted July 19, 2018 Report Share Posted July 19, 2018 if you have no confidence in you and you do have faith and trust in your bf, then you should reconsider this relationship cos you are not ready yet, if he want to cheat, he can do that behind you too. cityhallguy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted July 19, 2018 Report Share Posted July 19, 2018 Is this your first rs? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Trust Posted July 19, 2018 Report Share Posted July 19, 2018 No trust = no relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyo74 Posted July 23, 2018 Report Share Posted July 23, 2018 or make it open relationship lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hahah Posted July 23, 2018 Report Share Posted July 23, 2018 On 7/19/2018 at 9:38 PM, Guest NIL said: Like whenever He’s messaging Some guys I’ll instantly feel insecure like I scared that the other guy snatch him away from me or my partner fall in love with the guy. Honestly speaking , I do not have confidence in myself at all hence all the insecurities and fear . Best quit. Stay out of r/s!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NIL Posted March 24, 2019 Report Share Posted March 24, 2019 Hi, following up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hmm Posted March 24, 2019 Report Share Posted March 24, 2019 On 7/19/2018 at 9:38 PM, Guest NIL said: Like whenever He’s messaging Some guys I’ll instantly feel insecure like I scared that the other guy snatch him away from me or my partner fall in love with the guy. Honestly speaking , I do not have confidence in myself at all hence all the insecurities and fear . Could you elaborate? Messaging some guys. What's the context? Are they colleagues? If he's messaging guys on apps like Grindr, why? Doesn't he know you're monogamous? Does he know you don't like it? You guys need to communicate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Give me Posted March 24, 2019 Report Share Posted March 24, 2019 34 minutes ago, Guest NIL said: Hi, following up No follow up from your side? I suggest you break up with him so that other singles have the chance and not worried about him doing the texting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Anonymous Posted March 24, 2019 Report Share Posted March 24, 2019 At first I thought there was nothing wrong messaging anyone, because you know, its fundamentally unavoidable. You meet new people everyday, there are bound to be kindred spirits who he met and I don't know. Until one day I saw the texts he sent to someone he don't know on instagram - flirtatious and ambigious exchange with obvious not obvious subtexts. Subsequently I confronted him about it and his defence was, he just wanted to make a friend. FYI, the person was a stranger that he didn't know prior and their texts were full of emojis, asking each other "what you doing", real personal questions like "when was the last time you had sex" IS NOT how you make a "friend". Now this was just before our 3rd year anniversary, and after I confronted him, he sort of know too that he was guilty of emotionally cheating, albeit unconsciously? We talked fully about it and I let it slide on the account that it doesn't happen again. Regardless, today we're in our mid 20s, celebrating 5 years together now, and he have not talked to any other guys purposely since. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest look Posted March 24, 2019 Report Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, Guest Anonymous said: At first I thought there was nothing wrong messaging anyone, because you know, its fundamentally unavoidable. You meet new people everyday, there are bound to be kindred spirits who he met and I don't know. Until one day I saw the texts he sent to someone he don't know on instagram - flirtatious and ambigious exchange with obvious not obvious subtexts. Subsequently I confronted him about it and his defence was, he just wanted to make a friend. FYI, the person was a stranger that he didn't know prior and their texts were full of emojis, asking each other "what you doing", real personal questions like "when was the last time you had sex" IS NOT how you make a "friend". Now this was just before our 3rd year anniversary, and after I confronted him, he sort of know too that he was guilty of emotionally cheating, albeit unconsciously? We talked fully about it and I let it slide on the account that it doesn't happen again. Regardless, today we're in our mid 20s, celebrating 5 years together now, and he have not talked to any other guys purposely since. Having relationships in ur 20s is bound to break off sooner or later once ur bf stray, will be like shark taste blood for the first time. 20 years old is a prime age for gays to have lots of sex and fun with other gays due to high testosterone and energy level. Most guys in their 30s are lethargic, stressed from their works and their families, most I met can only cum 1 time or could not get hard or could not even ejaculate while topping btms. Looks and body become wrinkled and saggy. Most are still in delusion by setting high expectation on their partners, waiting for their handsome fit princes to attach with, wait until they become 40s, 50s... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted March 24, 2019 Report Share Posted March 24, 2019 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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