Guest NewlyOut Posted November 18, 2018 Report Share Posted November 18, 2018 Hi Have embraced my sexuality this year and I've finally downloaded Grindr after a long time of considering it. Any tips or anything else that i should be wary about? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted November 18, 2018 Report Share Posted November 18, 2018 Cat fishers (Google it ) and people who block you suddenly ~ again you need to advertise yourself, show best assets and face (if you really came out ), but not direct cock photos. They have moderators to check whether your photos deem fit to post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hmm Posted November 18, 2018 Report Share Posted November 18, 2018 I would urge you to reconsider your decision to join Grindr. If making friends / networking is what you want there are other options. I trust you're not dumb and you know what Grindr is used for. Being gay doesn't mean you must be promiscuous, but if this really is how you want to spend your life, then of course it is your freedom. Be careful, always wear protection. All the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vera. Posted November 18, 2018 Report Share Posted November 18, 2018 (edited) erm for me that app hasn't really satisfied me sexually...but im addicted to texting so theres that beware of rude people tho im using the app to replace my gaydar cause mine's faulty af lul...id rather go to a gay sauna than grindr for sex Edited November 18, 2018 by vera. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely57 Posted November 18, 2018 Report Share Posted November 18, 2018 try tinder if u must. although being guys.. u should know most of the time most of them just treat it like another grindr.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest social Posted November 18, 2018 Report Share Posted November 18, 2018 Grindr, Tinder, Hornet alike is just a hookup App period. Most are shallow, dishonest and unfaithful type of people. Noting different than going to gay type of places to look for sex. If you want to make sincere friends, looking for date etc, you should join other social or sport activities. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingbitch Posted November 18, 2018 Report Share Posted November 18, 2018 ALWAYS expect that the other guy is in for a hook up. You can still be adult and courteous about it - lots of hook ups involve nice conversations and activities before the sex. There will be rarer cases of guys interested in friendship, but you two must really really click. Romantic relationships definitely happen out of apps if both parties like each other enough. Just cast your net wide though. will7z 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gmale2068 Posted November 19, 2018 Report Share Posted November 19, 2018 You need to be careful and not divulge too much initially. Maintain a chat and if someone really interested in knowing you more, the chat would sustain over a period of time. Usually we will move to Line or WhatsApp for further chats before meeting. So far guys I met have been friends and surprisingly, nothing sexual taken place as yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2018 Report Share Posted November 19, 2018 Be open and honest in what you want from your experiences on Grindr. If you communicate well, little can go wrong since you're really in control of the situation. It's all transactional after all. Always be safe, and remember that consent can be taken back at any point after its given. If you feel unsafe, communicate this, and leave. When you're having sex, again: communicate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auri Posted November 20, 2018 Report Share Posted November 20, 2018 Grindr only shows people located close to you. So if you are home you will probably find the same old faces after a short while. Can consider using a fake gps app to move your location, or maybe pay for full version of grindr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Social App Posted November 20, 2018 Report Share Posted November 20, 2018 1. Be cautious with what you share in the app... Share as much as you are ready to lose in case of misunderstanding... 2. Be cautious when meeting people for the first time... He is a stranger after all 3. Be cautious when hooking up with a stranger... Refrain from putting yourself in circumstance of risky unsafe sex acts... These advice are probably meant for innocent people lol... Most importantly, if the guy doesn't reply to your messages, he might be busy, simply doesn't have the habit of checking the app etc. No need to feel annoyed or deflated... No one is obliged to reply anyone's message... We are all strangers after all... Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidster Posted November 20, 2018 Report Share Posted November 20, 2018 2 hours ago, auri said: Grindr only shows people located close to you. So if you are home you will probably find the same old faces after a short while. Can consider using a fake gps app to move your location, or maybe pay for full version of grindr Any reliable fake GPS apps to recommend? Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hahaha Posted November 20, 2018 Report Share Posted November 20, 2018 2 hours ago, kidster said: Any reliable fake GPS apps to recommend? Thanks. Here's a few recommendations based on spoofing on Pokémon go. I think they'll work on grinder as well - FGL pro. Fake GPS free Quote You’re not alone. If you’d like to speak to someone, help is available at the following centres: Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 24-hour Hotline: 1800 221 4444 or pat@sos.org.sg. Institute of Mental Health’s 24-hour Hotline: 6389 2222 Care Corner Counselling Centre (English and Mandarin): 6353 1180 Singapore Association for Mental Health: 1800 283 7019 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auri Posted November 21, 2018 Report Share Posted November 21, 2018 On 11/20/2018 at 6:12 PM, kidster said: Any reliable fake GPS apps to recommend? Thanks. I use "fake GPS location" by Lexa seems to work OK Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kjboy Posted November 21, 2018 Report Share Posted November 21, 2018 Grindr - mainly for hookup, sex - use it while u r horny (Play safe - of course) - 90% ppl who on prep are seeking for CF, Chemical Fun. Curious to try? Think twice before u try. Jackd - mainly for eyes candy, browse for handsome faces Tinder - mainly for relationship, but most of them just chat for first day and MIA forever ~ To be honest, you can make new friends from Grindr as well. You may see some ppl look for hookup on Tinder. It is same as your real life society. Be careful and wisely in making friends or sex. jeremypaul 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 any more tips to get really hot guys and not just a poser? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Growlr Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 Try growlr if u r looking for relationship all fat gays there are so ugly if u really fancy one , that means u are in love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Looking123 Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 (edited) I don't use these apps. Not a fan of people disappearing. I suppose my chances of finding someone are reduced even further. Will just keep an eye out during normal course of everyday living. Edited July 31, 2020 by Looking123 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 I think apps like Grindr are great for hooking up and that is that. However, I also think it is much better to meet people through activities, i.e. workouts, hobbies etc. where you have something in common to start from. Grindr to me is great when I am traveling for work in different cities. But to meet guys locally, I find activities a better option or through friends and work events. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 Just now, doncoin said: I think apps like Grindr are great for hooking up and that is that. However, I also think it is much better to meet people through activities, i.e. workouts, hobbies etc. where you have something in common to start from. Grindr to me is great when I am traveling for work in different cities. But to meet guys locally, I find activities a better option or through friends and work events. Not easy to know gays through activities like hobbies, work events, unless you are in the gay circle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 Just now, Guest guest said: Not easy to know gays through activities like hobbies, work events, unless you are in the gay circle. Well, then it is simply up to you to decide if you want to dip your toes "in the gay circle" or totally get your feet wet. Life is too short to worry and stress about what other think about you. You can only decide for yourself what will make you happy. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Henry Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 Did you ever meet someone from Grindr who is a celebrity? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted July 31, 2020 Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 1 hour ago, Guest Henry said: Did you ever meet someone from Grindr who is a celebrity? Yes. He thought i dont know him but i ever saw him on tv. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timber_wolf Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 do people recommend exploring your sexuality on grindr? untried 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest virtual Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 2 hours ago, timber_wolf said: do people recommend exploring your sexuality on grindr? If exploring your sexuality virtually works for you, and you don't need any physical contact, then why not? But you wouldn't find answers to your true sexual orientation with grindr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timber_wolf Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 (edited) - Edited December 14, 2020 by timber_wolf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted May 13, 2021 Report Share Posted May 13, 2021 On 11/19/2018 at 2:15 AM, Guest social said: Grindr, Tinder, Hornet alike is just a hookup App period. Most are shallow, dishonest and unfaithful type of people. Noting different than going to gay type of places to look for sex. If you want to make sincere friends, looking for date etc, you should join other social or sport activities. Best info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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