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Is there a need for a proper passing ceremony?  Why the hassle of wasting money and not just burn and dump ash into the sea to be liberated from any religious ritual.  I know some people are "pantang",  but why do gay people care?

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I think if u have been a kind and nice person throughout your life. All those good seeds will take fruition in your time of need. There is no need to bribe or worry.   Worrying does nothing.

Before you reached the stage of becoming "real old" to determine who will take care of you.  It is not difficult to foresee, if you can ask yourself the following questions"   1)  How many s

Be self reliant. No one will care. It is the hard truth. 

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22 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

 

What do you know about abang?   There were rumors that he passed away, which we all regret.

 

You regret his passing away, but you have no regrets for the way you treated him before he did? White trash are well known for this type of hypocrisy. 

 

 

16 hours ago, Guest Karmacharmelion said:

I'm appalled at the state of callousness of gays in this forum!!!

First, abang's indirect calls for help was totally ignored. Did you even help, all you did was bitch at him when he was alive. Now you have the cheek to use karma to cover up your remorse. I know who you are.

 

Now, this post about karma takes it to extreme. Are you even human to wish this "invite all those little rats and cockroaches to eat you alive," upon another? What you wish upon others, let karma grant it to you instead.

 

There's nothing more callous than to see old or sick gays being discriminated and sidelined like rubbish.

 

Are we gays even human to allow all this callousness here to go on?

 

Oooooo ... so what do you call @Steve5380's response of naming @abang to be "childish" and "immature" in the latter's last few calls for information and help? 

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12 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

 

 

You regret his passing away, but you have no regrets for the way you treated him before he did? White trash are well known for this type of hypocrisy. 

 

Oooooo ... so what do you call @Steve5380's response of naming @abang to be "childish" and "immature" in the latter's last few calls for information and help? 

 

Your whole "abang" issue is utmost stupidity and abuse of the memory of a person.  I didn't mistreat him in any way, this is your invention.  And I must say that to do this just to try to bash me is quite miserable!   Have respect for those you involve yet cannot participate in the conversation.  

 

You calling me white trash is pure abomination, a sign that you are trash,  I don't know of which color and I don't care about.

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9 hours ago, appboy said:

 

I set up a few interest-based tele groups before Covid to build genuine friendship but they die down after CB. Not sure what's the reason.

 

Many other groups that I've seen went to the dark side and become another porn sharing groups.

Haven't you come across news of old folks being manipulated, cheated of their savings and social benefits?  As well as chronically poisoned to death?  On top of monetary scandal of AFA?  Your discretion to exercise.

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1 hour ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Your whole "abang" issue is utmost stupidity and abuse of the memory of a person.  I didn't mistreat him in any way, this is your invention.  And I must say that to do this just to try to bash me is quite miserable!   Have respect for those you involve yet cannot participate in the conversation.  

 

You calling me white trash is pure abomination, a sign that you are trash,  I don't know of which color and I don't care about.

 

It really says something of your character when, even until today, you refuse to acknowledged that you mistreated @abang in his last few queries for assistance and help. 

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2 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

 

It really says something of your character when, even until today, you refuse to acknowledged that you mistreated @abang in his last few queries for assistance and help. 

 

It really says something of your character when, without having any connection with abang and any idea if he felt mistreated by me or not, you keep making stupid accusations over and over.  Why don't you leave abang and me in peace?

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1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

 

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Oooooo ... so what do you call @Steve5380's response of naming @abang to be "childish" and "immature" in the latter's last few calls for information and help? 

Wow, just for calling someone childish is such a sin to you

then wishing someone to be eaten alive, you should go 28 levels of hell to be eaten alive 28 lives.

 

You hit us old men exactly where we feared most, you are pure evil. I know who you are and you had been a troll since your days at sgboy.

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2 minutes ago, Guest Karmacharmelion said:

Wow, just for calling someone childish is such a sin to you

 

How about calling someone who is already dying to be "childish' and "immature"? is that a sin to you? Because that's exactly what Steve did! 

 

3 minutes ago, Guest Karmacharmelion said:

You hit us old men exactly where we feared most, you are pure evil. I know who you are and you had been a troll since your days at sgboy.

 

At least you are alive to be hit where you fear most. How do you think the dying felt when he was called "childish" and "immature" when he asked queries? As for me being a "troll" during my "days at sgboy", sorry ... wrong guy for you. One word describe you: "boboshooter". 

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10 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

 

How about calling someone who is already dying to be "childish' and "immature"? is that a sin to you? Because that's exactly what Steve did! 

 

 

At least you are alive to be hit where you fear most. How do you think the dying felt when he was called "childish" and "immature" when he asked queries? As for me being a "troll" during my "days at sgboy", sorry ... wrong guy for you. One word describe you: "boboshooter". 

 

This is one more time you show what a trash bag you are.  Nobody has seen abang's death certificate.  He simply stopped posting here for unknown reasons.  If he "was already dying" is purely your fabrication, to use in your evil trolling.  What an abomination !! to use the fabricated death of a member to bash another one !!

 

And what is wrong with calling the posts of someone "childish and immature", when they are indeed childish and immature?   You can call me "childish and immature" all you want,  and it won't make a dent in me, alive or dead. :) 

 

Your attempts to insult seniors here are as evil as they are stupid. You seem to personify a mixture of these two...

Calling me "dirty old man" makes me laugh, because I am not dirty.  And about old man,  I am PROUD of being an old man. 

 

This I want to remark again:  to be OLD should be a source of PRIDE,  to have been able to carry on a life that have allowed us to live into old age.  :thumb:

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11 hours ago, Guest Karmacharmelion said:

Wow, just for calling someone childish is such a sin to you

then wishing someone to be eaten alive, you should go 28 levels of hell to be eaten alive 28 lives.

 

You hit us old men exactly where we feared most, you are pure evil. I know who you are and you had been a troll since your days at sgboy.

 

Who knows!  Maybe his life is already that what he will have at the 28th level down in hell.  This must be why he is so mean.   He was a troll at sgboy?  maybe he continued then at trevvy?  He reminds of a dark character there: "Jetguyz" or so?  :lol:

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15 hours ago, Why? said:

Is there a need for a proper passing ceremony?  Why the hassle of wasting money and not just burn and dump ash into the sea to be liberated from any religious ritual.  I know some people are "pantang",  but why do gay people care?

 

I agree with you.  Dead bodies have no needs.  All the ceremonies, including the religious rituals,  are for the living who stay behind.  What is more respectful for a person who has died than to accept that he is gone from this life and therefore keep him alive in one's memory and possibly in one's heart?   All the stuff done with and around his dead body could be seen as... taking advantage of the dead!

 

Of course there are those who in good faith believe in these ceremonies, so they should be free to have them done.

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8 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Of course there are those who in good faith believe in these ceremonies, so they should be free to have them done.

Partly, the whole thing boils down to the rememberance of someone, by locking them up in a small vessel or underground box, for many generations to come until it became a distant image. In a more spiritual sense, releasing the ash into the ocean exudes a sense of freedom for the soul, by being able to return to nature, the mountain and the sea.  It helps save the limited land space, especially in Singapore.  So, I see no reason why Gay people should undergo the trouble of all the ritual thing.  Afterall, didn't gay people want to be eventually freed from this mundane & judgemental world?

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