My first love and ex, dumped me when I was 22, and ran away with $60k worth of debt for me to clear, just to fulfill his family duties and to inherit his family's assests of close $3 milion, being the only son So I ran away o NYC for 16months, back came back here, and face the music, took 6-7 years to clear all my debts. I did met up with him, like 11 years later. He was already married with a kid. He didn't know who I was because I changed so much. Wanted to 'friend' me without realizing I was the little boy he dumped 11 years ago. Yes, I did wrote about this story of mine in of the married gay thread . Althought married with so much assets. I could sense his suffering in his eyes. It has being so long. No more feelings, nor hate nor pain do I feel for him or myself. I take it that amount was what I owned him in our past life. Haha But along the way, I met several married gays and bisexuals. Besides having fun with them,they want me to stick around with them. Probably I have this ablity to listen to people's problems patiently and my straight looks/behaviour were added advantage to them not being suspected for their dark agendas. And along the way, I grew wiser.Yes we can have our fun, and yes converse and listen to your woes, BUT I am too much of a free spirited to be binded by other people's problem. What you want to do with your life,, why you choose marry, o fulfiil whatever social, family, natonal duties or obligations, is no longer and not a concern of mine. If you choose, don't grumble your suffering and pain to me. If you created all your self inflicted suffering, please don't share your negativities, althought I can only listen with one ear in one ear out. Be happy with what you choose. Thus you guys should adopt this attitude I have for them. But to make it clear, I am not judging them for what they chose to be in. I realy have no time to listen to prattlings from weaklings. I am here to hve my fun with you, likewise, fulfill your sexual fantasies that your wife can never give you. I am not your saviour.