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It’s good that some big companies are moving to Malaysia.
 
It makes growth in the region more equitable.
 
Singapore cannot be hogging all the jobs.
 
And it saves the troubles and costs and crowdedness of Malaysians swarming into sg for work.

It’s rare that a celebrity sweeps in and utterly captivates me, but Zhang Linghe has done just that. With his smoldering charm, that adorable yet compelling presence, and a certain height that just adds to his allure, he’s become my newest fascination. Yes, consider this a full-blown crush confession!

Kind of see why nowadays tops are out of shape.
 
Because literally too many bottoms that they feel they can get anyone and get away with not working on themselfs.
 
>_>...

Good Morning, Guys - 
"We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved." 
— C. JoyBell C.

Hi there " Welcome on board to the Blowing Wind forum"♥♥♥"

Heard Tmc was supposed to be friendly to chubs made me laugh. If you are a Chinese chub maybe but if you aren’t your chances are almost non-existent. People want super chubs or close to that regular or avg fat people no one wants unless Chinese than got good chance. KB might not like fat people but Tmc also only likes some fat people I see people twice or three times my size get action while people walk past me looking disgusted or scared that I might touch them haha one day I will be hot too and I will reject all this fuckers just for fun🖕🏽

a bear gogoboy hitting me up for my trip in july was NOT on my 2026 bingo list at all. i'm kinda intimidated, he said he will go to the bars with me 

Gotta put more work on my physique overall, especially on my shoulders and glutes.

I wanna cry, just saw the photos and damn my nipples were f-king visible in all of the photos - got wet cuz of the rain but damn. So everyone saw it. I’m not going to wear that shirt again. 💀💀💀💀. 

当冬夜渐暖  
当青春也都烟消云散
当美丽的故事都有遗憾
那只是习惯把爱当做喜欢
重要的是 .. 我们如何爱过那一段 🍃

Breaking Innocence: From Virgin to Alpha Top – My Two‑Hour Encounter with a 20‑Year‑Old.

The spark is already lit by the title. The full write‑up will be dropping soon on my X account… stay tuned.

am i the only user who can't seem to click on the previous pages on every thread in BW here? @HendryTan 

Good Morning, Guys - 
"In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place." 
— Elizabeth Gilbert

Malaysians be laughing with thousands of job inflows from Singapore to M'sia.  

Part 2 of my two weird gay encounters from the day before. 
 
An hour following the verbal tiff I had with the Indian guy, I was supposed to meet a Maldivian visitor who was in KL for several days. He and I matched on Tinder, and he was taking the time of the world to get to the point. I haven't been that active on the dating app, only checking in once daily to catch up with new messages, if any. His profile was a figure with the upper half of his head absent, only exposing everything from the nose and under. 
 
Conversations with him were blase. He would message with a "Hi," I responded with a "Hey." I noticed Male, which is the capital of Maldives and attempted to make conversations with him, he took 12 hours to respond with a single liner, but also one that sorta demanded more from me. I knew not to take this guy seriously. Over the next few days, he eventually decided to cut to the chase and get to the point.
 
The million dollar question.
 
"What do you seek?" This came after numerous passive-aggressive suggestions that I took too long to respond to his messages. And I told him if he hadn't spent several days making a point, this conversation could have moved a lot faster.
 
"Nothing much." 
 
Eventually, I gave him my number to facilitate communication (this will be important later on). I didn't hear from him, until a video call request two hours later. I accepted the call. On the other side of the screen was a South Asian, Indian-looking bloke whose only defining trait was the fact that he's from the Maldives, which likely makes him Muslim-Indian given the country's primary religion.
 
He had curly hair, with a dirty orangey-blonde bleach at the tip of his hair, implying he had colored his hair about two - three months ago. He shoots a "Hi," we continue talking. He tells me he's at Sunway Putra Mall, and I said "Oh, that's pretty close by." He then proposed meeting up at 4PM. It was nearing 2PM by then. I told him I was sending out a corporate email, and I should be available later at 4. He said he'll keep me posted.
 
I didn't make much of that exchange. I have, in the past, been stood up by random visitors in KL who requested to meet, and I went the extra mile by arriving at the venue 30 minutes earlier, only to be told something along the lines of "I'm tired, let's do tomorrow." Just Sunday alone, I was meant to show a Dutch around after he had approached me on Grindr, but he flaked and ghosted me after I sent him itineraries of places he wanted to visit. I've learned not take visitors' words at face value, you never know with these guys, they wanna explore places and they're inconsiderate. More importantly, they think they get to abuse other people's patience and time because they're visiting and it feels good to have locals "worship" them.
 
It's simple. If this Maldivian wanted to meet at 4PM, he would let me know when he's done with errands and allow me to manage my pace because it was unplanned and incredibly last minute for a 2-hour plan.
 
I sent my email, but I haven't had my lunch, so I made a quick brunch before returning to my room at 3:30PM when I looked my messages and realized he was waiting for me. He had completed his errands 30 minutes earlier, and I requested an hour to prepare and to get there. That was when he started throwing a fit.
 
"Oh, I'm not waiting for an hour. We planned this two hours prior, etc etc."
 
I fully acknowledged that part, and I attempted to reason that I had been stood up in the past and I wasn't sure if we were loosely planning things. Besides, the agreement was we'll keep each other posted. The only fault I'll take, is the one where I mismanaged my two hours, nothing more or less. The Maldivian proceeds to put me down, talk about how I disrespected his time and I should have been ready for him earlier.
 
Well... excuse me, sir. My life doesn't revolve around you. You'd be glad if a random stranger forked up time from their daily lives to see you. I joked that I had bed hair, and my skin is oily, and I needed time to freshen up. I jokingly suggested I needed to use the washroom for 10 minutes at least clean my bowels (for health reasons!). Hey, I had a fiber-rich brunch, okay! 
 
He suddenly said he was going to call the meetup off and he felt weird about it. I wished him well, but he  continued drumming home the notion I had poor time management. To which I finally reminded him two hours is not proper planning, and if he were serious about meeting up, he'd have called me the moment he received my number. I mean honestly, if you're that time-sensitive, you'd have plan earlier, right? Let's just say another case of deflection happened.
 

 
Suffice to say, he blocked my number and removed me off his Tinder. But... I guess people sometimes forget SMS is still a thing. So I had a blast with my response. 
 
"Heya. You can block and unmatch all you want, and I doubt you successfully blocked me here 😂.
 
To answer your last response.
 
It took you several days to get to the point about wanting to meet up for either sex or coffee. Either way… might wanna tone down on the entitlement when you’re in a foreign country. 
 
I’ll acknowledge there’s a mismanagement of time, nothing more, nothing less. In the end, I'm happy to honor my part of the promise to meet you, just asked for leeway in timing. I’ve also shared that I’ve been stood up multiple times by visitors in the past, you never know with tourists, they wanna explore. 
 
What I do not agree and won't stand by is being told I have 2 hours to prepare when your intentions are either sex or coffee, neither which translates to anything long-term, and thus a fleeting encounter is the least of my ability to take seriously.
 
If you’re dead serious about making a plan, make it a day ahead so people have the space to plan. Otherwise telling me you gave two hours to prepare sounds like this is meant to work in your favor and it isn’t a mutual respect 🤷🏻‍♂️. 
 
If I’ve given you my number two hours ahead of the call, and you’re only calling two hours later, it’s a sign that you’re expecting me to work with your timing and not ours.
 
Also, you might wanna take a look at yourself in the mirror. With a face that screams 6/10 on the best days, and a questionable take on intentions, you're really not in the best place to demand anything. I've met better Maldivians who exercise greater level of respect for locals in a foreign country."
 
Calling someone ugly is a low blow, but for this guy, it was probably a need and not just an option. Now I get it when my Pacific Asian gay friends told me to stay away from Pacific Asian men. South Asian + Muslim is a recipe for disaster.