Do you mind going out with older guy?

[Guest Plastic]

On 2/9/2020 at 4:47 PM, Guest waaahahahaa said:

40 is the old age of youth.  While 50 is the youth of old age.  by "VICTOR HUGO" 

 

 

That was before the age of plastic surgery...

[Guest Guest]

I noticed nowadays a lot of twink or young boys are into daddy or brother type. so currently i only date someone at least 13 years younger than or 18 years younger. because maybe from that you can set one dominant which is the older and one submissive, if the same age go out or close to age usually they are both same so it clashes the mood.

[Guest fakers - BW abusers]

3 hours ago, NE-STR said:

it one notice that Armstrong01 account seems to be created to keep promoting this Sugarbook app.

 

Mod please block accordingly.

 

Yes, seems to me the accounts in this thread

 

Armstrong,

Jacoob

thomasliew,

lindaboy,

sinar ,

tiroi,

teitei, 

daniel21x

 

all fake to promote the app or finding a sugar daddy. The accounts have all been created around 30 Jan and after and always only posted 2 - 5 posts. 

 

On 2/12/2020 at 2:13 PM, daniel 21x said:

Looking for a sugar bro/daddy whos willing to give me weekly allowance in exchange for kinky tingz hehe 21, 165, 56, slim-fit bod type here 😛 PM me for more info hehe

 

This is clear advertising in the Main Forum. 

 

Should be all banned and deleted out of BW. 

 

@G_M

@HendryTan

 

 

 

[G_M]

Anyone caught looking for or promoting paid sex will be banned with immediate effect.

 

Money boys or anyone caught looking for sugar daddy will also be banned.

 

Prostitution is not allow in our forum. 

All Prosritue kindly fuck off from this forum. 

[G_M]

On 2/13/2020 at 2:44 PM, Guest fakers - BW abusers said:

 

Yes, seems to me the accounts in this thread

 

Armstrong,

Jacoob

thomasliew,

lindaboy,

sinar ,

tiroi,

teitei, 

daniel21x

 

all fake to promote the app or finding a sugar daddy. The accounts have all been created around 30 Jan and after and always only posted 2 - 5 posts. 

 

 

This is clear advertising in the Main Forum. 

 

Should be all banned and deleted out of BW. 

 

@G_M

@HendryTan

 

 

You are right, these fuckers are the same person that creates many accounts to talk about the prostitution app.

 

Anyone promoting prostitution app will be fucking banned!

[LeanMature]

On 2/13/2020 at 10:34 AM, Guest Guest said:

I noticed nowadays a lot of twink or young boys are into daddy or brother type. so currently i only date someone at least 13 years younger than or 18 years younger. because maybe from that you can set one dominant which is the older and one submissive, if the same age go out or close to age usually they are both same so it clashes the mood.

 

Why older is dominant ?  

[Daddyhunter]

On 2/14/2020 at 1:38 PM, LeanMature said:

 

Why older is dominant ?  

More sexual experience.  Duh

[fetish69]

Why not if he is charasmatic dress nicely.Is nice to top top fit daddy when they close their eye when u fuck them in jockstrap.I like to fuck daddy in jockstrap.

[Kimochi]

4 hours ago, Daddyhunter said:

More sexual experience.  Duh

Usually but not the absolute answer though. 

[Guest Golden]

We are humans in this group after all. It is possible for many older guys, no matter horny all the time, to have genuine friendships with far younger ones who do not think anything wrong either. I know retired gays joining ones in 20's to karaoke, movies, dinner gatherings, even travel to Japan and Taiwan naked hotsprings, not sex dates. One youngster enjoys a weekly discussion dinner with a grandfather type. Ok, you might fantasize something but if it's true, more power to them. It's not dirty but beautiful!

[LeanMature]

On 2/16/2020 at 4:27 PM, Daniel988 said:

Smart, intelligent, well-spoken man in his 30-40’s are precious gem. 

 

So is 40-50s bracket.  They should be in the pinnacle of their career and sex life. 

[xiaox1n]

Age is just a number. Whether can get along well, click and communicate is more important.

[Guest Ah pek]

I'll run away if someone says he only like old men or call me daddy.

 

When I see the type of old men he considers sexy, I SMH. I'm just a sexual fetish to him and any old man will do. I'm not that desperate.

 

I do admit that once I willingly submitted myself to a younger, quite good looking guy with that fetish. Each time he called, I'll willingly submit. Maybe I'm too easy, he didn't value me. He purposely showed me his social media account. He's quite the social butterfly with so many old men flirting with him.

 

But then I felt that I'm much better looking and fitter than those other old men. He seemed to genuinely like me lot, especially after sex, we have dinner and chatted alot. But then it's just like what those sad love songs say, I'm merely justifying myself in my own self illusion. I'm just another piece of meat to him, no more and he knew it.

 

Finally, my jealousy got too much and I told him off. He banged off the phone. That's the end of our relationship. He blocked me. But then on social media where I placed my pic without face to get another, he'll chase after me like crazy, message me everyday to meet, calling me his sky vegetable. I shrug it off thinking it's just his fetish to hunt old men. We had such intimate relationship before, from my profile and body pics he can easily guess that it's me. 

 

Sometimes, he hinted that. Still, I played him round and round till he got angry and stopped chasing me. Few months later, he again started another account trying to fool me. I easily figured out it was him again from his body pics and profile.

[Guest Donnie]

i prefer younger men so that I can feel younger too. tbh I'm in mid-30s. Old men can't last long in sex especially those 50 and above. Angmo cock also limp easily. Tried several but I give up so I'm.getting younger men now who are in their 20s or a bit younger than me.

[repressednerd]

I saw a tanned man in his 50s at the hawker centre today. He's not exactly a hunkle but he had thick armpit hair with strong hairy arms (even on his hands) and legs (nicely shaped calves). The way he stood, he looked like someone dominant. I felt horny just standing next to him.

[p2468]

On 9/4/2020 at 12:56 AM, Guest Donnie said:

i prefer younger men so that I can feel younger too. tbh I'm in mid-30s. Old men can't last long in sex especially those 50 and above. Angmo cock also limp easily. Tried several but I give up so I'm.getting younger men now who are in their 20s or a bit younger than me.

U will also aged as times comes. Is ur luck that u can't find a 50s man to satisfy u. There are tons of 50s men who can still bring great satisfaction. Btw, 50s man are not old. They are at their prime.

[Guest Guest]

How is 35 to 40yo considered old?

 

I think 35 to 40 is the most attractive stage!

[single42]

On 2/21/2020 at 12:09 PM, xiaox1n said:

Age is just a number. Whether can get along well, click and communicate is more important.

 

AGREED!!

[LeanMature]

On 9/4/2020 at 1:01 AM, repressednerd said:

I saw a tanned man in his 50s at the hawker centre today. He's not exactly a hunkle but he had thick armpit hair with strong hairy arms (even on his hands) and legs (nicely shaped calves). The way he stood, he looked like someone dominant. I felt horny just standing next to him.

 

Did you stand close enough to smell him ?   did his masculinity make you feel weak and breathless ?

Edited September 5, 2020 by LeanMature

[Guest Guest didi]

I would go for guys around my age. Not much older or much younger!

 

growing old together with no generation GAP is what I Long for.... hard to achieve but aim to desire! 

[upshot]

I am the older guy and I find it weird to be out with younger guys so i don't. heheh

[Guest sgman]

OK, not about "going out" per se, but more in terms of hooking up

 

I like guys in the 30 to 50 age range, but seems to be so few of them on grindr, and attractive ones, even fewer.

Seems to be mostly very young guys.

So sad.

[Guest Try and see]

On 2/6/2020 at 12:38 PM, Blogger Adam said:

When I was 18, I dated the sweetest, gentlest, and most caring 30-year-old man.

 

It was the result of a whirlwind-One-Night-Stand turned romance...

 

Wherever you are, Larry, I wish you well.

 

😍😍😍

Larry is the type of bf that I yearned so badly to have when I was in NS and uni, but never had.

 

But I think him introducing you to his friends was what caused the stress and eventual breakup in the relationship. He should not have insisted on it because while he was obviously comfortable with his friends, you clearly would stand out and feel uncomfortable because of your age.

 

He should have let you and him stay in your own world and enjoy. No need to broadcast to others or post endless pictures on social media, etc. That kind of thing adds a lot of pressure to relationships because you are basically asking for comments from hundreds of people about how you should handle your relationship.

 

Anyway, very sorry to hear that you didn't manage to get back in touch with him. Maybe he felt very hurt by the breakup so he prefers not to revisit it.

 

Thanks for sharing, and all the best to you!

 

 

[daydreamingfish]

On 1/30/2020 at 3:03 AM, Maelstorm said:

Like you are young adult going out with 35-40 old person? 

Uhh can you define the age range of a YA? 18-24? 18-35? 18-30? Because it isn't standard.

When I was 22 (now 28 going on 29), I dated and entered a relationship with a man 9 years older (31 then). We were in a committed relationship for 4-5 years; not very long, but certainly not short.

Personally, I don't see an issue here except there may be differences in life stages and some friction may arise from that. HOWEVER...I generally wouldn't date anyone 10 years and older because my siblings were like my second parents who walloped me in the name of discipline and that shit has scarred me (also, how awkward would it be if my 42 yo partner had to call my 38 yo sister "大嫂" and 40 yo brother "大哥"?).

Edited February 12, 2021 by daydreamingfish

[Gary 37]

As long the older guy treats me good... Even he 70 years old I still won't leave him

[fab]

5 hours ago, daydreamingfish said:

Uhh can you define the age range of a YA? 18-24? 18-35? 18-30? Because it isn't standard.

When I was 22 (now 28 going on 29), I dated and entered a relationship with a man 9 years older (31 then). We were in a committed relationship for 4-5 years; not very long, but certainly not short.

Personally, I don't see an issue here except there may be differences in life stages and some friction may arise from that. HOWEVER...I generally wouldn't date anyone 10 years and older because my siblings were like my second parents who walloped me in the name of discipline and that shit has scarred me (also, how awkward would it be if my 42 yo partner had to call my 38 yo sister "大嫂" and 40 yo brother "大哥"?).

 

Most friends younger sister married older hubby than my friends. 

[Guest Difference]

59 minutes ago, Gary 37 said:

As long the older guy treats me good... Even he 70 years old I still won't leave him

You need a daddy not a lover. 

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Gary 37 said:

As long the older guy treats me good... Even he 70 years old I still won't leave him

 

70 years old!  Do people live so long?

[Guest Terminator]

8 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

70 years old!  Do people live so long?

Yes, they do. You won't notice their existence because there were deleted from the gay arena.  Unless, one or two were overlooked here and still got away with. 

[Gary 37]

U 2 very bad leh... Wish ppl good health longer life u say them die early... 

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Guest Terminator said:

Yes, they do. You won't notice their existence because there were deleted from the gay arena.  Unless, one or two were overlooked here and still got away with. 

 

These one or two overlooked here may be cases of Darwin's theory of survival of the fittest?

[lightsmith32]

I prefer super young guys 20s as well .. and so far can get ... may in a few more years will have to settle for guys in 30s.

[Guest The Truth]

6 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

 

These one or two overlooked here may be cases of Darwin's theory of survival of the fittest?

Not too sure about Darwin's theory, but definitely altruism displayed by moderators to allow some cracks in the wall, for one or two to sneak in and make a laughing material here.  

[SuBee]

Well, I'm in my 50s and continue to be attracted to men in my age group, 40 to 60 years old.  In fact, I've never been sexually attracted to young men...

[Guest Drunkard]

13 minutes ago, SuBee said:

Well, I'm in my 50s and continue to be attracted to men in my age group, 40 to 60 years old.  In fact, I've never been sexually attracted to young men...

Young sweet drink will fizzle out after some time.  Old wine can be kept the longer the better, best is to consume it earlier to enjoy the spice before it gets too bitter for keeping too long.

[SuBee]

Yes good metaphor.  My first male sexual experience was my first sexual experience.   I was 14, he was 57... I can't say it was planned or wanted but as I encountered other men I my life,  they were all well older than me.  I just got older myself, but still like the effect of being touched by an older man

[Steve5380]

4 hours ago, Guest The Truth said:

Not too sure about Darwin's theory, but definitely altruism displayed by moderators to allow some cracks in the wall, for one or two to sneak in and make a laughing material here.  

 

Yes, this is precisely what is the case with Guests being allowed to post.  And some of us Members we don't mind  

 

3 hours ago, SuBee said:

Yes good metaphor.  My first male sexual experience was my first sexual experience.   I was 14, he was 57... I can't say it was planned or wanted but as I encountered other men I my life,  they were all well older than me.  I just got older myself, but still like the effect of being touched by an older man

 

Thank Nature that there are men like you, to complement those who are 77 and like sexual experiences with those of 34  (same age difference).  

[Guest How?]

On 2/16/2020 at 11:28 AM, Daddyhunter said:

More sexual experience.  Duh

No leh.  There are older virgin with no sex experience too.  So how?

[repressednerd]

I find older guys also more better with their hands during massage, like this video. Reminds me of older guys who massage me in the sauna until suddenly they switch their hands for their tongue.

 

 

Edited February 13, 2021 by repressednerd

[Guest Sex x msg]

3 hours ago, repressednerd said:

I find older guys also more better with their hands during massage, like this video. Reminds me of older guys who massage me in the sauna until suddenly they switch their hands for their tongue.

 

 

I'm always very explicit about exchanging sex for a free massage.

 

I'll stand at the corridor but not the dark part and let the low wall light shine onto my muscles. It enhances the muscle definitions of my body. Of course I'm no Adonis but I'm not shy to make it obvious that I'm selling my body.

I'll let anybody touch me but I don't respond or I'll turn away without moving away till he gave up.

 

Others who saw the free touching will try also but soon also gave up. Out of the group, one will eventually figure me out. He'll massage me and then I'll respond with show of pleasures. Bingo, he'll suggest we move to a room.

Once in the room I'll tell him directly that after he massage me for 1/2 hour, I'll let him have me anyway he wanted.

Or he can finger me while massaging me. But he can only enter me after the proper massage.

 

So far, there's always some who are good at massaging. I can easily tell from the strength of their fingers. Most of them are uncles like me and they learn this skill because they know it's very useful for fit uncles like me who get muscle aches from exercising.

 

I don't deny that at my age, my old bones ache after heavy exercises. Still I have to because at my age, that's the only way to get sex. I know it's so unglamorous but that's the harsh truth. But I'm uni-age and don't particularly look for younger men. If he's willing to spend the effort to please my body then I'll return the favor.

 

I know I have a good body that people want and it's getting more difficult to maintain. My secret fear is that one day when I'm not able to maintain it, it's game over. I'll bargain for more than just sex for all that hard work that I put in. 

 

So far, very few who know how to massage are tops. They just enjoy touching and finger fuck me as compensation. 

 

Then there're some who don't really know how to massage but I won't fault them at least for trying especially for those who are much older than me. I'll pretend to get aroused by his massage and go into a room with him. But then I'll lay on my tummy and let him enjoy finger fuck me from the back because I can't fake it if he sees me face to face.

But it's not charity sex because I know most of them are good ass rimmers. They'll part my butt cheeks and tickle my ass with their warm slick tongues. 

I even had an understanding with one old man that whenever I get fucked rough and needed his soothing tongue massage, I'll look for him. He's good and the relief I felt from the stinging fuck is exquisite. Luckily, that seldom happen but at my age, I don't have the bargaining power to say no during sex.

[upshot]

10 hours ago, SuBee said:

Well, I'm in my 50s and continue to be attracted to men in my age group, 40 to 60 years old.  In fact, I've never been sexually attracted to young men...

But that is because you are not from around here. Its almost common place where you come from including other forms of sexual practices. Generally in Asia ...Everyone is about trying to get that younger better looking thing then be seen with someone your own age and frumpy where physical is more priority than what also inside them. The lifestyle you are used to oversea is still 'new' here and have yet to reach the same maturity and progression stage. Still more superficial here.

 

Good news? That's changing slowly but surely as this lifestyle gets more open, maturing and saturated with more and more of us and less choice to choose from the young. But this is not unlike what we see with dirty old men seeking young girls instead of their own age...even if they can not perform as they did sexually in decades gone by heheheh...

 

There are the odd fetishes for old guys but I think that is not so much a common occurrence but one to do with the mental.

Edited February 13, 2021 by upshot

[SuBee]

I'm probably in the best shape of my life now!  My attraction to older men is the same as when I was in my 20s, although I recognize that those same older men are still attracted to 20 year olds and not to me... but i feel uncomfortable as a bottom to imagine being with a young (35 and below) guy.  It's the masculinity that I enjoy, not the chiseled perfornance

[jack21992]

I also have the tentacy to attract older guys. I personally don't mind hanging out with them. Generally older men are more gentleman and mature minded. 

[curiusman0211]

I don't think you don't mind going out with Chuando who is in his 50s now right? Age is just a number, it don't represent the personality and health status, 珍惜当下才是最重要

[xiandarkthorne]

One trick I always used back during the 1980s when going out with a much younger guy was to carry a file or notebook (no, not a computer notebook but the old fashioned kind) and display it prominently so that if anyone asked, he could always claim I was helping him with his studies or career advice. 

[Guest young vs old]

On 2/14/2021 at 4:46 AM, upshot said:

But that is because you are not from around here. Its almost common place where you come from including other forms of sexual practices. Generally in Asia ...Everyone is about trying to get that younger better looking thing then be seen with someone your own age and frumpy where physical is more priority than what also inside them. The lifestyle you are used to oversea is still 'new' here and have yet to reach the same maturity and progression stage. Still more superficial here.

 

Good news? That's changing slowly but surely as this lifestyle gets more open, maturing and saturated with more and more of us and less choice to choose from the young. But this is not unlike what we see with dirty old men seeking young girls instead of their own age...even if they can not perform as they did sexually in decades gone by heheheh...

 

There are the odd fetishes for old guys but I think that is not so much a common occurrence but one to do with the mental.

Don't think that can stand the reality test.

Lately, you see plenty of older and younger Asian (Singaporean) couples. Not all guys are chasing the super young. Some settle, got their bfs, one might be up to 10 years younger. I guess some straight people in their area would even call them "old fag couples"... when one is in his mid 50s the other in the late 30s.

Sure some older gays are realistic and look for sex partners around their age range (40s - 50s) even if they preferred some young boys. Take your chances but after plenty of rejections or blocking responses surely they will learn the lesson sooner or later.

 

From my last flight for an island holiday in Surat thani province and returning from Hat Yai airport, I wasn't sure the old guys in the return flight were all just chasing young "virgin" girls but probably some young boys too... ha ha

 

In Singapore you meet or see a lot of profiles on the apps for young guys (end 20s) or very young guys (20s) looking to find older guys (40s and above). You can't say there aren't any "daddy" chasers and I feel the amount here in the region is higher than in the Western societies.

 

Yes, the guys who wouldn't date anyone older than their own age is there. But I don't see older guys (above 45 to 60) running out of play material here...

 

[upshot]

5 hours ago, Guest young vs old said:

Don't think that can stand the reality test.

Lately, you see plenty of older and younger Asian (Singaporean) couples. Not all guys are chasing the super young. Some settle, got their bfs, one might be up to 10 years younger. I guess some straight people in their area would even call them "old fag couples"... when one is in his mid 50s the other in the late 30s.

Sure some older gays are realistic and look for sex partners around their age range (40s - 50s) even if they preferred some young boys. Take your chances but after plenty of rejections or blocking responses surely they will learn the lesson sooner or later.

 

From my last flight for an island holiday in Surat thani province and returning from Hat Yai airport, I wasn't sure the old guys in the return flight were all just chasing young "virgin" girls but probably some young boys too... ha ha

 

In Singapore you meet or see a lot of profiles on the apps for young guys (end 20s) or very young guys (20s) looking to find older guys (40s and above). You can't say there aren't any "daddy" chasers and I feel the amount here in the region is higher than in the Western societies.

 

Yes, the guys who wouldn't date anyone older than their own age is there. But I don't see older guys (above 45 to 60) running out of play material here...

 

One do not have to look too far but just this playing out with why young girls go with old man. This is the oldest form of survival at the end of the day. SURVIVAL. If what you need is so much more important to you and you have no way of getting it or want to work to get it, how else can you get someone to do it for you? The reverse thus can never work. Try to find a old man with no money barely make it and see if a young thing will want him and spend her or his day with him for life. hehe Never happen. But even in a fairly fair relationship of two persons... age the same or there about... there WILL always be something one wants from the other that differ from the other person's own needs too and if that is gone, it usually breaks apart. Life is a gamble of the dice. So long there are options between two persons, the outcome will never always be the same.

[G_M]

The topic is not about you people and your bitching!

Get back to topic!

[Guest Scared]

On 2/15/2021 at 9:50 AM, xiandarkthorne said:

One trick I always used back during the 1980s when going out with a much younger guy was to carry a file or notebook (no, not a computer notebook but the old fashioned kind) and display it prominently so that if anyone asked, he could always claim I was helping him with his studies or career advice. 

How old are you now? Do you still have young bf or young guys for sex..just asking to know what will happen to us when we start turning older..

[xiandarkthorne]

I an 62 years old this year. And no, I don't have a boyfriend. I stopped looking for a boyfriend when I was 40 years old because I decided that I didn't want to waste time catering to other people's whims and wishes. I am happy living by myself and looking for sex only when I want it.