Raw Sex for young monogamous couple?

[meatybaer]

My boyfriend and I are thinking of having our first unprotected sex (not so soon). Prior to this, we are both lost our virginity to each other and with a condom. 

is it safer for us to consider having unprotected sex since we are both unlikely to have STDs and HIV? Any other considerations to take note of?

 

Thanks Guys!

[And then]

1 hour ago, meatybaer said:

My boyfriend and I are thinking of having our first unprotected sex (not so soon). Prior to this, we are both lost our virginity to each other and with a condom. 

is it safer for us to consider having unprotected sex since we are both unlikely to have STDs and HIV? Any other considerations to take note of?

 

Thanks Guys!

 

if there is no sexual contact with anyone else, where would the STDs and HIV come from?

so if definitely monogamous, it will be safe from disease viewpoint.

 

men being men though, it would be wise to protect yourself. it may be unthinkable at this stage of your relationship, but you never know when either or both of you start to get itchy. just something to consider.

[mith]

both just do a STD & HIV test, if results all negative, wait 3 months, do same test again, if all negative again, both of you can have complete raw sex - including cumming inside ass, drinking each other cum! you cant give any thing to each other if you both got nothing.

 

remember, the whole time before and after test, and forever future, cannot have sex with anyone else, even with condom and/or sucking another guy's cock! otherwise the whole process of testing and wait 3 months, and testing again must repeat.

 

 

[koolkai]

4 hours ago, meatybaer said:

My boyfriend and I are thinking of having our first unprotected sex (not so soon). Prior to this, we are both lost our virginity to each other and with a condom. 

is it safer for us to consider having unprotected sex since we are both unlikely to have STDs and HIV? Any other considerations to take note of?

 

Thanks Guys!

 

Please don't have unprotected sex. You need to continue to practice safe sex so as to safeguard each other unless you can be sure that both of you will remain faithful to each other for the rest of both your lives.

[fab]

Don't forget there's needles and blood transfusion too.

[quanjishou]

1 hour ago, fab said:

Don't forget there's needles and blood transfusion too.

this applies to heterosexual couples too

[quanjishou]

5 hours ago, And then said:

 

men being men though, it would be wise to protect yourself. it may be unthinkable at this stage of your relationship, but you never know when either or both of you start to get itchy. just something to consider.

this applies to heterosexual couples too, so end of the day u need to trust each other i think, if not then endless test or just wear condom.  

[quanjishou]

so TRUST each other then THRUST each other haha.

[pjkids01]

8 hours ago, And then said:

 

if there is no sexual contact with anyone else, where would the STDs and HIV come from?

so if definitely monogamous, it will be safe from disease viewpoint.

 

men being men though, it would be wise to protect yourself. it may be unthinkable at this stage of your relationship, but you never know when either or both of you start to get itchy. just something to consider.

agree with wat u stated here. u can trust ur partner but in fact he might not b trustable.

[kys0n]

Definitely have raw sex. That's the perk of being in a committed relationship. If you both tested and are clean, and if it's not an open relationship, it will be fine. Ignore those naysayers talking about cheating boyfriends. That's just too cynical. Most people are decent enough to know not to engage in unprotected sex even if they are cheating, especially if they know they are fucking raw with a loved one. However if your boyfriend (or yourself) is that much of a loose screw, then you shouldn't even be in a committed relationship.

[yuquidam]

Do know of some gay couple friends who were truly committed in a monogamous relationship for more than a decade.

 

But many I knew also fell for the temptation when someone "hot" approached them. 

 

The bubble of my 6 years of (supposedly) monogamous relationship with raw sex was burst when it turned out otherwise.

 

Good thing no STD because no more together thereafter. LOL 

 

It's a tough call for me now. But do agree that in a committed relationship if there's no trust then it is pointless to call it a (monogamous) relationship?

Edited June 3, 2022 by yuquidam

[Behrhunter]

Yes but only if you are sure both of you are in COMPLETELY monogamous relationship. Get tested and no more sex outside of the two of you like everyone else said. And this applies to straight couples as well. And neither party should be pressurised into doing it. 

 

Unfortunately in an imperfect world, my experience is the same as @yuquidam. Both my exes had affairs outside and my second ex had multiple affairs for pretty long before i knew. When I insisted that we both get re-tested, we got into major arguments, name calling and being told I was paranoid. Experience is a very good teacher and I am very insistent on condoms even with subsequent bfs.