Guest Lawrence Posted April 9, 2021 Report Share Posted April 9, 2021 My bf and I has just broken up and I want to move on quickly. Any advice? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hahaha Posted April 9, 2021 Report Share Posted April 9, 2021 Find a trusted friend (doesn't matter if gay or straight) to talk about it Quote You’re not alone. If you’d like to speak to someone, help is available at the following centres: Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 24-hour Hotline: 1800 221 4444 or pat@sos.org.sg. Institute of Mental Health’s 24-hour Hotline: 6389 2222 Care Corner Counselling Centre (English and Mandarin): 6353 1180 Singapore Association for Mental Health: 1800 283 7019 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jonas Posted April 9, 2021 Report Share Posted April 9, 2021 7 minutes ago, Guest Lawrence said: My bf and I has just broken up and I want to move on quickly. Any advice? Don't pick up any of his call. He might be calling because he is drunk and alone. Don't let him in of he tries to visit. You'll have to kick him out again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted April 9, 2021 Report Share Posted April 9, 2021 Move on with your hobbies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted April 9, 2021 Report Share Posted April 9, 2021 (edited) You can find ways to distract yourself from thinking too much about him and your expired relationship. It will take time. It is ok to grieve over the loss of the relationship and missing him. You can ask yourself why over and over, and run "if only" scenarios through your head repeatedly, but you will come no closer to an answer that will satisfy you. Edited April 9, 2021 by doncoin Zyscgk 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahben94 Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 dont think moving on quickly is a thing because everyone grieves and heals differently. maybe you could just let yourself feel what you're feeling and figure out how to move on from there? if not, IKEA's fried chicken or Little Caesar's pizza might work better 🤪 PlayersGroup and Lover 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PlayersGroup Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 (edited) You move on when you don't try too hard to move on. Grieve when you come back to it, but find things to carry on in life meanwhile. Continue to meet people, do your work, walk, read books. It gets better over time, from experiencing waves of emotion to maybe little ripples, although anniversaries can be harder. Edited April 10, 2021 by PlayersGroup ahben94 and hand 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 (edited) On 4/10/2021 at 12:32 AM, Guest Lawrence said: My bf and I has just broken up and I want to move on quickly. Any advice? If you guys have been together for some time doing almost everything together it will take time. Even if you were the one who initiated the breakup for whatever reasons it may still take time. When mine happened I just wanted to be away from crowds so went often to quiet beach areas. The wind, sound of waves and frolicking in the sea did give me some solace. And of course any cruisers that approached me at that vulnerable time would be quite successful. But do be aware of the effects after hook ups. At times felt elated but sometimes felt more sad and empty. I spent more time too with family and friends who cared. That helped most. Rest assured time would heal. Edited April 10, 2021 by yuquidam fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 Find another one. Or zero if you are one. Dart and yuquidam 2 Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ohwells Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 (edited) mourn the loss. feel the heartache. feel all the feelings. don’t bury them or cast them aside. take time. give yourself all the space you need. however, remember not to isolate yourself completely from your friends and loved ones. when you’re ready, talk to someone you love about it. personally, i find that really helpful. talking it out. verbalising things. it helps me process my feelings and in a way, gets it out of the system. as cliche as it sounds, practice self love. take yourself out. treat yourself to good food. go places you love. do things you enjoy. meet new folks. eventually, you’ll be ready to love again. Edited April 10, 2021 by ohwells LeGrad and hand 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 (edited) 9 hours ago, fab said: Find another one. Or zero if you are one. LOL Yeah...I am one who won't mind another one yet a zero is a BIG bonus ...keke Edited April 10, 2021 by yuquidam fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidster Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 When you think of him one fine day, you have already starting to forget him. Wait for that day to come. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 (edited) Distract yourself with healthy diversions. Dont dwell on it, too much internal energy may lead to combustion. Edited April 10, 2021 by auscent PlayersGroup 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 10, 2021 Report Share Posted April 10, 2021 I Forgot That You Existed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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