30yochinese Posted April 8, 2022 Report Share Posted April 8, 2022 16-3-2022 ) a guy on G approached me. 17 to 20-3-22) We chatted. 21-3-22) We meetup. 22-3-22) We meetup, 2nd time. 23-3-22) We meet for dinner. 24-3-22) We meet for lunch, & start holding hands in public. 25-3-22) We start to get intimate. 26-3-22) We chat over the HP coz we didn't meetup. 27-3-22) We meet for the 5th time. 28-3-22) We start taking wefies as a Couple. 29-3-22) 30-3-22) Still in love. 1-4-22) can't meet. He got flu. 2-4-22) can't meet, his fever got worse. 3-4-22) can't meet, saw a 2nd Doc & diagnosed with Dengue. 4-4-22) I probe him. & He M.I.A. 5-4-22) He finally replies... > Let's remain as friends, & > I don't wanna be a nanny to u in our RS. Since 6-4-22 I am half heart-broken, half, I have forgiven him, no hard feelings but I feel he took me on a rollercoaster ride from 17th to 30th March. I don't believe in gay relationships btw 2 men...after this... I will stick to finding a bff, Pls share ur thoughts on how> I can be stronger after a breakup, I thank-u-in-advance. 💔 Star2046 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amicablyalan Posted April 8, 2022 Report Share Posted April 8, 2022 Sorry to hear 😔 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
30yochinese Posted April 8, 2022 Author Report Share Posted April 8, 2022 (edited) On 4/8/2022 at 10:45 PM, amicablyalan said: Sorry to hear 😔 No worries, hugs to your kind heart for reaching out to🥰😍😘 me! What's the most impt lesson I learnt? 17th to 30th, that's the time we took to get to know each other's WORK LIFE, SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNELS & wat we post, OUR PARENTS, OUR JOBS & BOSSES, OUR CLIENTS( we signed an agreement for P.D.P.A.) etc... I regret discovering so much about him...only to throw into <RECYCLE BIN> on 1-4-2022😱😭😨. anyway, moving forward, I learnt alot, ironic both of us attend Church & believe in God/are Christians... ...after this episode I hope he burns in Hell...lol Edited April 8, 2022 by 30yochinese . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Escape Room Posted April 8, 2022 Report Share Posted April 8, 2022 3 weeks of puppy love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted April 8, 2022 Report Share Posted April 8, 2022 The problem is him. Not gay relationships and not you. You did your part in trying to get to know the other person. Take the experience as a crystallization process on how you want your bf to behave and what you want in a relationship. Sometimes we have to know what we don't want to learn what we want. The broken heart will heal. Ggzx08 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
30yochinese Posted April 8, 2022 Author Report Share Posted April 8, 2022 On 4/8/2022 at 11:08 PM, Escape Room said: 3 weeks of puppy love YOU ARE RIGHT!!! @Escape Roomi was infatuated a week into seeing him...U are a GENIUS🧠!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeChanT Posted April 9, 2022 Report Share Posted April 9, 2022 On 4/8/2022 at 10:40 PM, 30yochinese said: 16-3-2022 ) a guy on G approached me. 17 to 20-3-22) We chatted. 21-3-22) We meetup. 22-3-22) We meetup, 2nd time. 23-3-22) We meet for dinner. 24-3-22) We meet for lunch, & start holding hands in public. 25-3-22) We start to get intimate. 26-3-22) We chat over the HP coz we didn't meetup. 27-3-22) We meet for the 5th time. 28-3-22) We start taking wefies as a Couple. 29-3-22) 30-3-22) Still in love. 1-4-22) can't meet. He got flu. 2-4-22) can't meet, his fever got worse. 3-4-22) can't meet, saw a 2nd Doc & diagnosed with Dengue. 4-4-22) I probe him. & He M.I.A. 5-4-22) He finally replies... > Let's remain as friends, & > I don't wanna be a nanny to u in our RS. Since 6-4-22 I am half heart-broken, half, I have forgiven him, no hard feelings but I feel he took me on a rollercoaster ride from 17th to 30th March. I don't believe in gay relationships btw 2 men...after this... I will stick to finding a bff, Pls share ur thoughts on how> I can be stronger after a breakup, I thank-u-in-advance. 💔 As much as it's hard to move on and the fact that ur gonna have to restart all over again (finding someone else-date-enter a confirmed relationship) its best that we learn from that mishap. (Even though technically, you didn't seem to do anything wrong) and move on with life. It happens on some relationships so its best you Pick yourself up, do something else to keep u distracted. ✌️ Just a para counsellor's two cents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gozu Posted April 9, 2022 Report Share Posted April 9, 2022 On 4/9/2022 at 9:54 AM, DeChanT said: As much as it's hard to move on and the fact that ur gonna have to restart all over again (finding someone else-date-enter a confirmed relationship) its best that we learn from that mishap. (Even though technically, you didn't seem to do anything wrong) and move on with life. It happens on some relationships so its best you Pick yourself up, do something else to keep u distracted. ✌️ Just a para counsellor's two cents. If i interpret the G you mentioned correctly, i think in general it is not a right place to hitch and start a LTR. Most are there to satisfy their urge with NSA. Even if they wish to, psychologically they would not. 'cause they'll be searching to hitch their ideal guy which in most cases wouldnt come by. If it works then membership would hav dropped over the years, and the app would not be around already. My 2 cents.. DeChanT 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Posted April 9, 2022 Report Share Posted April 9, 2022 The saying is good- time heals all wounds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeChanT Posted April 9, 2022 Report Share Posted April 9, 2022 On 4/9/2022 at 5:52 PM, Gozu said: If i interpret the G you mentioned correctly, i think in general it is not a right place to hitch and start a LTR. Most are there to satisfy their urge with NSA. Even if they wish to, psychologically they would not. 'cause they'll be searching to hitch their ideal guy which in most cases wouldnt come by. If it works then membership would hav dropped over the years, and the app would not be around already. My 2 cents.. Touché Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fetish69 Posted April 11, 2022 Report Share Posted April 11, 2022 Dont get so emo jsut moved on think the way how he treated you if he treasure you he wont leave you. Just remember karma is bitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted April 11, 2022 Report Share Posted April 11, 2022 What have you done for him to say he's the nanny? Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted April 11, 2022 Report Share Posted April 11, 2022 Aiyo, just move on....so many Q for or nearby guys there... I do have rejections even for outing or dates...after the rejection...I go to the next Q in line for meet up, either fun sex indoor (host hotel) or outdoor (bring him) if we meet often maybe bonus sensual massage for him haha So you see, don't give a damn...his lost not yours...while he reject you...he go home whatspp a guy or checking out nearby...whereas me str8 meet up the next in Q less then 30-1hr....so I still win haha Karma will get those who damn judgemental...don't give chances...you think those manly...str8 act or married or tall guys are the best ones really ah? You are so blinded brahs.. haha haiz...pity...skills also neh...let my scientific sex open your mind haha giving you more dopamine..oops... Be confident, dont give a fuck. You are in control. Not keen it is okay..next in line on the way haha coz I have something they like enjoy etc...how bout you? Just a lame manly or str8 or married status? Haha sad life...that shows your childhood is not that happening...afraid to take risk... systematic....afraid to come out of the box...no wonder you don't get As or 4.0...too much pressure you put on yourself...haha life is so much out there...maybe you need to take my hand...I show you...it is not always rainbow but...haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
30yochinese Posted April 12, 2022 Author Report Share Posted April 12, 2022 On 4/11/2022 at 9:49 PM, fab said: What have you done for him to say he's the nanny? Its simple! I am 38, he is 46yo. He wants me to treat him as his LOVER & not as a BIG BROTHER. I shan't comment further. Thx. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveCum Posted April 12, 2022 Report Share Posted April 12, 2022 Go shopping Ethan_Oleh 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolmanpower Posted April 12, 2022 Report Share Posted April 12, 2022 On 4/8/2022 at 10:40 PM, 30yochinese said: Pls share ur thoughts on how> I can be stronger after a breakup, I thank-u-in-advance. 💔 Get yourself a life and grow up and stop act like a baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simply_me Posted April 18, 2022 Report Share Posted April 18, 2022 On 4/12/2022 at 6:12 AM, BudakFit said: Aiyo, just move on....so many Q for or nearby guys there... I do have rejections even for outing or dates...after the rejection...I go to the next Q in line for meet up, either fun sex indoor (host hotel) or outdoor (bring him) if we meet often maybe bonus sensual massage for him haha So you see, don't give a damn...his lost not yours...while he reject you...he go home whatspp a guy or checking out nearby...whereas me str8 meet up the next in Q less then 30-1hr....so I still win haha Karma will get those who damn judgemental...don't give chances...you think those manly...str8 act or married or tall guys are the best ones really ah? You are so blinded brahs.. haha haiz...pity...skills also neh...let my scientific sex open your mind haha giving you more dopamine..oops... Be confident, dont give a fuck. You are in control. Not keen it is okay..next in line on the way haha coz I have something they like enjoy etc...how bout you? Just a lame manly or str8 or married status? Haha sad life...that shows your childhood is not that happening...afraid to take risk... systematic....afraid to come out of the box...no wonder you don't get As or 4.0...too much pressure you put on yourself...haha life is so much out there...maybe you need to take my hand...I show you...it is not always rainbow but...haha your last line... BUT???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted October 11, 2022 Report Share Posted October 11, 2022 Block him from any social feeds. Change number. Move on by phases by doing or splurge or things make you happy. Don't go for any dates yet. But you can go for any fun sex etc...indoor outdoor etc ... If you happen to like that particular someone stay friends first. Make sure you heal and love yourself first. Then can you only be happy n deserved yourself better then before in love by this upcoming bf/partner. For the exes, stay exes. There are from the past. They wont change. Never ever go back to them. Their agenda is forever there....just don't care or give a fuck and move on... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R_CF_L Posted October 13, 2022 Report Share Posted October 13, 2022 Love yourself the most first Then others will see your value and want to part of you for who you are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERFAbangBear Posted October 14, 2022 Report Share Posted October 14, 2022 Spend time building and hanging out a good support system in your life. Your close friends will always be your best coach/cheerleaders. A lot of what you find in a r/s shockingly enough can be fulfilled via true close friends (happiness, someone to talk to, doing activities etc.) aside from obviously having feelings/sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saggiboy Posted October 14, 2022 Report Share Posted October 14, 2022 You treated him like a big brother instead of a lover which he wanted? What's the difference in the way u treated him as a big brother? As in u only wanna be pampered and be taken cared of by him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safesex Posted October 31, 2022 Report Share Posted October 31, 2022 On 4/12/2022 at 10:04 AM, 30yochinese said: Its simple! I am 38, he is 46yo. He wants me to treat him as his LOVER & not as a BIG BROTHER. I shan't comment further. Thx. give yourself 1 week times to heal from that wound , after that move on don't waste your time to think about him. plan and spend your time with someone always there for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thickhead79 Posted October 31, 2022 Report Share Posted October 31, 2022 no waste yr time, on the app to find others Ethan_Oleh 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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