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I feel attraction is something like a game of luck.

 

Attraction to someone per se is fine, how one handles the emotions arising from the attraction is another matter. 

 

There is mutual attraction, and there is simple attraction.  For sparks to fly, the attraction has to be mutual.  The art is to test if the other person shares an attraction to oneself, and the extent of that attraction.  If it is platonic, then that's about as far as it could proceed.  

 

If there is mutual conversation for a day, and then disappear, I would say the other party is not keen on further development other that the initial interest.  

 

If you find yourself constantly attracted to the wrong men, or attracted to men who are attached, I would say you might be jumping the gun and maybe expecting too much too quickly too often. 

 

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This topic could include its counterpart.  Am I the wrong man for my partner?

 

Should I be selfish and continue with the relationship for as long as it is convenient for me?  Or should I be honest and set him free to look for someone who is better for him?

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