Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[JoeTanJoeTan]

Hello All, 

 

Allow me to introduce myself hor. 
I am 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and fair normal-avg look, straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

[DiligentSloth]

On 3/4/2024 at 7:20 PM, bananaboat said:

38
164 cm, 60 kg
Role: Top / Side
Interests/hobbies: Netflix/movie, animals and pets, plants, gaming, travelling, shopping, music

Self-description: professional. Try to be a good person and grow up. Life is hard and i have a lot to learn like to be more independent. Loves animals. Hobbies and interests will change as i am trying out new things now and open to exploring new activities.

The kind of guy I envision to be with: have chemistry towards each other, able to accept me as who I am, committed and willing to be understanding. Want to grow and go through life with someone. Take cares of himself. Special connection and compatible with willingness to go through hardship, accept each other flaws and support each other.

I may not be the lucky one to be with you but I am happy to be good friends or soul mate. Will you message me?

Hello I'm happy to know U more!

[DiligentSloth]

On 1/15/2024 at 1:00 AM, zac89 said:

Trying my luck 

 

33 local chn ver top, 170cm, 63kg, average toned fit. 

Goes to gym & tennis, enjoy drinking, coffee & tea person, and work in financial industry. 

Looking for dates and LTR. 

 

Preference: +/- 5 years gap from me, average fit, exercise or play sport, and enjoy travelling. DM me to know more

 

Hi I'm keen to know U more! Can Tele me @dansg12345

[Kaki74]

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Edited March 24 by Kaki74

[lancestars]

Hi, I'm 35/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me

[pgnewbie1]

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Edited March 21 by pgnewbie1

[DiligentSloth]

Im 38/175/78 Chinese

 

I'm a professional and lives n my own property. Enjoys coffee ☕ and social and playing with cats.

 

Looking for a chn top LTR who is matured and DTE. I prefer professionals not older than 45.

 

My Tele is dansg12345. Pm me for a chat and see if can click.

 

[Ticklemesm]

43, 173, 70 ( i know almost everyone is the same) penang chinese discreet married, fit.

 

- looking for a close buddy who likes to gym as well who can gym together or enjoy sports activity who can also just find time who can talk about life and cuddle together.

- not into people who wish to borrow money, nsa

- age and location and status doesnt matter if willing to build relationship and perhaps travel to meet from time to time but do understand married people do have commitments.

 

If you think you fit the bill, do pm me. 😊

 

 

 

 

 

Edited March 16 by Ticklemesm

[iwontbiteleh]

Male 27 Indian singaporean. Currently working as a professional. Looking for LTR with another half to complete the adulthood! I enjoy traveling, going out for drives, talking about life. 
 

177/65, not fit for sure but am keen to start getting fit! West side best side! DM me with an intro to move to tele

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[G_M]

On 3/16/2024 at 4:02 PM, EC1974 said:

 

 

Seeking Uncle or mature daddy looking type of guy for fun (nsa). I’m into chinese man who is flex/btm/top, age must be more than 55yo, old looking type, old is gold (hehe)

I am 46yo tall and stocky local chinese top (183, 95kg)married

If keen, pls add me at wechat cocky2017

TQ, Cheers!

 

 

Hello, LOOK AT THE TOPIC!

It's LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP! Not HOOKUP!

 

1 warning point for spamming in the wrong thread.

You had 3 warning already. 

1 week account suspension

[G_M]

On 3/16/2024 at 4:06 AM, DiligentSloth said:

Hi I'm keen to connect. Tele dansg12345

 

On 3/16/2024 at 4:06 AM, DiligentSloth said:

Hi I'm keen to connect. Tele dansg12345

 

On 3/16/2024 at 4:08 AM, DiligentSloth said:

Hi can I know U? Me Tele dansg12345

 

On 3/16/2024 at 4:08 AM, DiligentSloth said:

Hi , can we connect? Tele dansg12345

 

On 3/16/2024 at 4:13 AM, DiligentSloth said:

Hi whats T buddies? Me Tele is dansg12345

 

On 3/16/2024 at 4:17 AM, DiligentSloth said:

I love animals too! Me Tele is dansg12345

 

Why are you spamming in the forum?

Why can't you DM to their account directly?

Are you desperate? Why are you spamming so many people in the open at one go?

 

1 warning point for spamming.

Do that again and your account will be suspended.

 

[SailorBara98]

26/172/72

I'm a typical Gen Z Malay guy who's into gaming and homebody activities, though I do venture out occasionally. I prioritize my well-being by committing to five weekly workouts at home instead of joining a gym. I find exercising at home more enjoyable since I can do it without feeling judged. While I began this journey two years ago, I've only recently become more serious about it. Despite progress being slow, I'm determined to continue improving steadily. Currently, I'm juggling part-time work while awaiting acceptance to art school.

 

Music I like : Kpop, PoP, Hyper Pop. ( Pop culture references )

 

What I'm seeking:

 

• Someone relatable who shares similar interests – feel free to reach out!

 

• It's great if you're into gaming or have some knowledge about it, even though I'm not a hardcore gamer myself.

 

• If you hit the gym, enjoy good food, and value caring relationships, we might get along well.

 

• Seeking someone who prioritizes their mental and physical well-being and is capable of self-care.

 

• Lastly, someone who is the same height as me or taller idk 😭

 

 

 

 

 

[UrbanC]

On 2/26/2024 at 11:52 PM, Xal said:

Do you mind older gentlemen? I'm 49yo

[UrbanC]

Trying my luck.

 

Just ended a long term relationship and after 6 months, decided that I'm ready to move on and find a soul mate or try a new relationship.

 

About me:

1. Local Singaporean Chinese 

2. Age: 48yo

3. Height: 172cm

4. Weight: 69kg

5. Role: Side

6. Straight acting and manly.

 

Looking for:

1. Chubby guys.

2. Manly guys.

2. Sincere and genuine guys.

3. Someone that is into travelling, walk in the park, cycling, good food, explore new things together, movies and spending time together.

4. MONOGAMOUS,  long term relationship.

 

Not looking for:

1. Moneyboy.

2. People with high expectations and fussy on almost everything.

3. Guys looking for ONS.

4. Guys who settle into a relationship and still wants to flirt or play around.

 

I'm not sure, if there is anyone nowadays still into committed relationship. Anyway, not having high hopes. Whatever comes will be a bonus. 

[Nick94]

After lurking for a while I've finally decided to post 🫣

 

I'm Chinese, currently 29, 174 cm and 76 kg. Been rapidly losing weight over the last four months (-19 kg!) and targeting 70.

 

I don't look any special, but I hope my personality and gestures make up for it! 🤭

 

My (nerdy) hobbies include gaming, watching anime, singing and I also enjoy browsing Youtube and Reddit. I also am quite a foodie and love exploring new places to get good food!

 

I'm looking for someone to have a meaningful and loving long-term relationship with. I'm quite inexperienced in the local LGBTQ scene and with relationships in general.

 

Sex is something I'm willing to explore but it's not a priority over genuine affection, romance and intimacy. ❤️

 

Would prefer someone younger or around the same age as me (35 max), and lean or skinny (neither chubby nor very muscular). Plus points for also being a gamer and/or karaoke fan!

 

I do not smoke, party, gamble or drink, and would prefer if you don't as well, but it's not a deal-breaker.

 

DM me with an intro! Even if we aren't compatible in the end, I'd love to chat and make new friends! 😁

Edited March 23 by Nick94

[littlejesselyn]

Look for Malay pure top for ltr. Pls hit me up for love for each other

[KD964]

28

175/65kg

Role: Top

financially independent

 

Seeking partner/ltr

You:

below 32

Lean btm

Sincere n easy going

student or young working adult

 

Love to chill hangout cafes travel and do the things that we like. PM me and we can start from there.

 

[acsea]

Chinese

27, 171cm and 67kg 

Hobbies: singing, games, art, cycling, food, cooking, cafes and gym

 

Looking for a guy who has a mature mindset, financially stable and loving. Preferably someone who is same or taller and bigger built than me and someone who is emotionally independent as don't really need to meet daily coz of work commitment but will reply text daily and responsive when free/available. Don’t mind guys from 23-35 years old. Pm if your interested

[Alexwong]

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Edited April 1 by Alexwong

[pgnewbie1]

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Edited April 19 by pgnewbie1

[Sgxiaoboiboi]

Deleted

Edited March 29 by Sgxiaoboiboi

[Medicalbtm]

About me:

1. Local SG Chinese 

2. Age: 43yo

3. Height: 178cm

4. Weight: 73kg

5. Role: Btm

 

Looking for:

1. Financially independent professional

2. Manly tall guys. ( no chubby)

2. Sincere, loving and faithful guys.

3. He would like to travel, hiking, cycling, explore new places together and spending time cooking, baking together. (PS : know how to drive car too)

4. Pls be monogamous, not into open relationship. 

5. Age: 30+ to 47.

 

Kindly hit me up and get to know each other.

[kevin3487]

everything stated by friend 1st, 

but i looking for long term relationship here

 

i'm Chinese from Penang ya

about me ...174 ..57..35yo slim bottom guys here 

 

i'm looking for Chinese top guy 

hoped i can find a friendly and caring guy and would like to understanding guys

i dislike smoke and play guy 

pm if your interested and we can start to know each other more ya ..

[AlfredHI]

On 3/21/2024 at 9:45 AM, KD964 said:

28

175/65kg

Role: Top

financially independent

 

Seeking partner/ltr

You:

below 32

Lean btm

Sincere n easy going

student or young working adult

 

Love to chill hangout cafes travel and do the things that we like. PM me and we can start from there.

 

Hi,can I know u more? I'm from png

[AlfredHI]

On 3/11/2024 at 2:56 AM, JoeTanJoeTan said:

Hello All, 

 

Allow me to introduce myself hor. 
I am 36chn, 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and fair normal-avg look, straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

Hi

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 37

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[blueday]

Hello! I am 34/173/74 Sg chinese.

Looking for dates and LTR (hopeful)

I enjoy coffee / tea, exploring nature through walking, gym classes, and leisurely swimming. Feel free to send me a private message if you'd like to chat further!

[Soulmates]

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.

Edited March 25 by Soulmates

[Daddy King]

Just try my luck...

 

I am 28 chi, 174cm, 70kg, Btm, local Penang lang, average body, gym sometime, normal average look (but many say cute la), straight acting. I like eat (but in small potion only), gaming and laze around with my close ones.

I am a part-time graphics designer and full time e-commerce boy, Currently start learning trading industry..still newbie..

 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF but before that we will know each other first for a period. Do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 

 

I am looking for straight acting, gym/exercise (just a preference), can gym together and travel or similar hobbies. 

Someone between 28-48 is okay but it depends on chemistry between us.

 

and the last things, no need to give me money okay..I can find it myself..

but if you force me to take it is lain cerita la..haha

Edited March 24 by Daddy King

[Derren]

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[Soulmates]

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu wi the your contact details (Tele etc.)? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.

Edited March 26 by Soulmates

[tanwla]

Hi trying my luck…

 

I am:

34

chn

vers

170cm, 55kg

 

look for:

below 50

chn

vers/top

fit/slim/average

 

pls show pic…

 

dm if keen

[Lionesss2003]

Hi trying my luck too:

 

22 studying rn. 
170+
55 looking for ard my age 

[Soulmates]

On 3/26/2024 at 10:45 AM, Soulmates said:

Been lurking here for ancients and I finally have the courage to post something.

 

I am 32c 172 67. I love anime, animals, Pokemon, some gaming, Neopets, K-pop and 2000s Taiwan Chinese songs. I am a homebody but love going out to find nice food and a day trip to JB most days. I am also a dogs owner. I personally am not in the best of health though, a head up! Love languages including cooking food for you and being absolutely there. 

 

I am more into intimacy and being there for each other over sex, but the latter is of course normal and fine too and we can explore on that. 

 

I am looking for people with similar interest and stats. I do not care what you look like as long as you’re close to similar stats to me and Chinese. I don’t know what else to type but hmu wi the your contact details (Tele etc.)? Players and time wasters, keep away I am not looking for ONS.

bump

[Eded90838]

@blacksugarmilktea

 

I'm 32, 178, 85, vers bottom, local Chinese, stocky with slight tummy. I stay in the east. Sincerely seeking for long term relationship, not into hook ups or fun. Besided my main career, I'm into arts and cultures too.

 

Seeking (preferred) -

Top Chinese only

Average built or similar to me

Age probably near mine or older (well, it's just a number, chemistry matters the most)

Both financially and emotionally stable

Show love, care, respect and able to spend time with each other

 

Thanks for reading! Hit me up if interested, my tele ID is up there, see ya! ❤

[LookingforLTR]

I’m a 44 discreet local chn looking for a LTR /soulmate.

 

About me:

- Height 178cm

- Weight 78kg (Target :72kg / currently working out)

- Professional & Independent 

- Simple & easy-going guy

- Straight Acting & Discreet

- Enjoy Movies/ BLs /Netflix

- Loves Traveling & Cafes

- Non-smoker 

- Social Drinker (Once in a while only)

 

Looking for :

- Someone around (+-) 30 to 45

- Prefer Chinese 

- Average/ Tone / lean (willing to gym with me)

- Professional & Financially stable

- Independent & easy-going 

- Fun-loving & cheerful

- Straight Acting & Discreet

- Enjoy spending time together even if it’s just for a simple dinner / walking around in the mall aimlessly

- Willing to do silly things / activities with me once in a while 😂

- Enjoys Traveling

- Non-smoker / social or non drinker

- Very Importantly: Loves/Grooms & takes good care of himself

[ctrl]

Hello, looking for connections

 

Me:

-28 Chinese, btm

-175cm, 67kg, lean

-IT/Finance 

-Financially independent 

-Introvert 

-replies but not long replies 

-Things I love include manga, stocks, puzzle, gym, hypothesis conversation 

-Love language: quality time, physical touch

-Enjoys intimacy 

 

Looking for: 

-Someone older but < 36 

-Smell nice (Good hygiene) 

-Work out 

-Mature

-Take effort in relationship 

-Traditional values 

 

Let's chat in the forum chatbox before moving to telegram. 

[TrapAthena]

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Edited April 10 by TrapAthena

[Lover]

6 hours ago, TrapAthena said:

Hi, 26 years old Chinese crossdresser looking for friends(?) 

 

I don't know if I'm bisexual but I guess I'm open to meeting new friends? Not sure if it's the correct forum. I don't really know what to expect too 

 

Looking for 

-Matured man 

-Enjoys chatting 

Hi i have pm you

[Andrew240577]

On 3/16/2024 at 12:51 PM, Ticklemesm said:

43, 173, 70 ( i know almost everyone is the same) penang chinese discreet married, fit.

 

- looking for a close buddy who likes to gym as well who can gym together or enjoy sports activity who can also just find time who can talk about life and cuddle together.

- not into people who wish to borrow money, nsa

- age and location and status doesnt matter if willing to build relationship and perhaps travel to meet from time to time but do understand married people do have commitments.

 

If you think you fit the bill, do pm me. 😊

 

 

 

 

 

Hi looking for gym buddy. And long term meet up to discuss possible.

Edited April 9 by Andrew240577

[Keong692]

170/ 60kg/ 52yo chinese, professional. Pleasant looking, look younger than my age would suggest, slim/fit profile.

 

Bi married so need to be discreet.  

 

Looking for drinking buddies and like-minded friends who are able to hold an intellectual & mature conversation, non-judgemental and not take themselves too seriously.

 

I like chilling out over drinks, stimulating conversation with fit, open-minded and non-judgemental people who aren't afraid of laughing at themselves.

 

You should be able to hold a decent and mature conversation over drinks. 

 

To be clear, drinks mean beer, stout, whiskey, alcohol, etc. Please don't be a cheapo and DM asking me out for kopi or tea. I'm not interested... Sheesh... 

 

Note that I'm NOT looking to DTF and am definitely NOT interested in meeting up for action or 'coffee' followed by action in a toilet or some deserted place. If that's what you're after, don't bother calling me.  

 

Strictly Friends first before fun.  

 

Note that it may take a while to build the trust and friendship, so please be sure you're sincere on wanting a friendship and willing to put in the effort to get to know each other.  And if there's chemistry, then many things are possible and we can see where it leads to.  

 

I'm very open minded and can be very kinky once I get comfortable with you. I'm also very particular about personal hygiene and only safe activities always. Discreetness and trust is very important.

 

You should also be relatively fit, pleasant looking and of similar body build. My pics in my profile. No offence but no chubs please, just a personal preference.

 

DM me with your stats and intro and we'll take it from there.

 

Note - One liners (or one word) intros get ignored. If you can't even be bothered to type a proper DM and intro yourself properly, well, nuff said... 

 

Cheers,

Kay

 

Bonus: If Pet Shop Boys, Depeche Mode, a-Ha & Bananarama make you move your body & head to the dance floor, what are you waiting for? Hit me up asap... 

Edited April 12 by Keong692

[kenzo299]

Me 

- 32 this year 

- Chinese

- 180cm / 63kg 

 

Looking for long term with someone with a similar profile (chinese) and who is lean and around the same age as me. 

[vinc88]

35 chi 175 70 side

seek discreet LTR

[sgind]

Seeking a bf who's witty, charming and gregarious. Someone who can be my partner in crime, my confidante, and my biggest cheerleader. 
 

I’m a local professional, 32 175 76 who enjoys socializing, travelling, and seeking out adventure and new experiences.

 

Slide into my DM to connect.

 

Oh, you'rе something like a sunrise
Pretty to my mind
Soothing to my soul
Watching the world spin one more time

And I hope (I hope) you know (you know)

Even when it doesn't show, mm-mmh

I'll run through fire for you (for you)
Whatever I gotta do
Give you my heart while it beats
'Cause with you's where I wanna be

[skybabylister]

36 chi 170 71 

 

seek discreet LTR

[boyastro]

Hello there!

I'm 45 166 66 chn. 

Working professional, financially stable. Non-smoker, social drinker. Homey person. Enjoy travelling, swimming, yoga, reading, jazz, coffee and wine. DM to explore. Incline to develop ltr with one who has mature thinking, stable emotion and down to earth. Thanks for reading!  

[Greenbirdydec]

Hi all, I am 38, 164, 61 chn bi staying in the west.

 

Would like to make more new friends and see where fate bring us to. Prefer people who wants to stay discrete and still trying to explore one's own sexual preference. We can explore this "topic" together.

 

Telegram: @Greenbirdydec

[junyuan]

28,170,62,b

 

open to new connections

Edited April 16 by junyuan