What Is The Criteria To Keep Old Bottom Guy Valuable?

[Guest when bottom goes old]

Young gals definitely have their market and can get their partner easily, but they also will grow old, and someday in future their share will drop too.

Bottom is almost the same, what if bottoms become old? Are they still able to find partner?

What criteria they need to keep so that they still able competitive with the young one?

1. Money?

2. Tight hole?

3. Sexy body?

4. Young in heart?

5. Maturity? Stability?

6. Smart? Resourceful?

7. Nice in person?

8. Excellent on bed?

9. Inner beauty?

10. Old man's fascination?

[Guest Top like old btm]

Let investigate the pts u mentioned:

What criteria they need to keep so that they still able competitive with the young one?

1. Money? --> The question is how much and depends on your needs. Massages, for money screwing, traveling, etc, also ur family. 钱不是万能，没钱万万不能。

2. Tight hole?how tight can it be if already seasoned. Back to point 1. Need money for surgery to tighten :-)

3. Sexy body? Depending what ur partner wants. But a in-shape body will be an advantage. Back to point 1 again. Need time and nutritious food to keep fit. Beware what u eat.

4. Young in heart? Pt1 might not help but can support :-). But keep yourself busy with activities in volunteering works, friends gathering, concerts, strolls etc can help u loosen up and keep u young and hopefully more positive on every perspective in life.

5. Maturity? Stability? Yeah. Definitely pt1 can and can't help. :-). Maturity is individualistic. Everyone's has our own view. Relationship goes longer and smoother if we being accommodating with our friends and family.

6. Smart? Resourceful? Can't see the value add in a relationship or as a old btm to gain. The smarter u r as a btm, the top might run away as u can be a control freak.

7. Nice in person? Old btm to old top, I guess being nice and equip with right attitude can be crucial as u can Hold on to his heart and be exclusive to each other. Old btm to younger top, being nice can have the same effect but young top usually needs more than one btms.

8. Excellent on bed? Actually not only excellent but know each other needs would be better. Know if he is a short gun or a marathon runner would satisfy each other with a different way. :-)

9. Inner beauty? Same as pt 7. Hopefully Older btm are nice and has inner beauty like wisdom, considerate and compassionate. --> too much to ask sometimes. Haha ....

10. Old man's fascination? Not sure if applicable

All the best .....

[Guest Guest]

A lot of money strapped to the underwear.

[xxxpartyboixxx]

This is just my silly opinion. Read if you wish for amusement and don't take it too seriously.

1. Money ----> sad, cos the tops they get will most likely be gold diggas or rent boys.

2. Tight hole ----> need to be accompanied with good looks in order for tops to venture this far as to test the tightness of the hole.

3. Sexy body ----> will be complimented with the above quality and needs constant maintenance.

4. Young in heart ----> no use cos still an old fart.

5. Maturity? Stability ----> yes if the btm is not tired of looking after and putting up with immatured and financially dependant top

6. Smart? Resourceful ----> not much of a use, information and advice are easily available on the net, thru friends etc. Resourceful? Monetary wise? Refer point no.1

7. Nice in person ----> tops don't really care. They just wanna poke the hole not the person's attitude.

8. Excellent on bed ----> need to have qualities in point 2 & 3 to go with it but does not guarantee the btm will outdo the rest of the younger competitors.

9. Inner beauty ----> appearance is everything. Guys are visual beings. They see, they like, they get horny, they poke poke... so hang the inner beauty at home.

10. Old man's fascination ----> unless the btm do not mind getting older tops or have fetish for more senior guys, yeah that works a charm.

[fab]

Just to add on partyboi's contribution for fun.

In summary,

1. Money ----> sad, cos the tops they get will most likely be gold diggas or rent boys. USEFUL for sex, USELESS for love.

2. Tight hole ----> need to be accompanied with good looks in order for tops to venture this far as to test the tightness of the hole. USELESS

3. Sexy body ----> will be complimented with the above quality and needs constant maintenance. USEFUL

4. Young in heart ----> no use cos still an old fart. USELESS

5. Maturity? Stability ----> yes if the btm is not tired of looking after and putting up with immatured and financially dependant top. USEFUL for sex, USELESS for love.

6. Smart? Resourceful ----> not much of a use, information and advice are easily available on the net, thru friends etc. Resourceful? Monetary wise? Refer point no.1 USEFUL for sex, USELESS for love.

7. Nice in person ----> tops don't really care. They just wanna poke the hole not the person's attitude. USELESS

8. Excellent on bed ----> need to have qualities in point 2 & 3 to go with it but does not guarantee the btm will outdo the rest of the younger competitors. USELESS

9. Inner beauty ----> appearance is everything. Guys are visual beings. They see, they like, they get horny, they poke poke... so hang the inner beauty at home. USELESS

10. Old man's fascination ----> unless the btm do not mind getting older tops or have fetish for more senior guys, yeah that works a charm. USEFOOL

[Guest fab you fab me]

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[Eddy]

Young gals definitely have their market and can get their partner easily, but they also will grow old, and someday in future their share will drop too.

Bottom is almost the same, what if bottoms become old? Are they still able to find partner?

What criteria they need to keep so that they still able competitive with the young one?

Wow, if you are asking this question now, you definitely are not old (or mature for that matter) yet.

Don't worry your little head. The answer will come to you when the time comes.

[Guest Eddy did it]

Wow, if you are asking this question now, you definitely are not old (or mature for that matter) yet.

Don't worry your little head. The answer will come to you when the time comes.

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[suckmenao]

Young gals definitely have their market and can get their partner easily, but they also will grow old, and someday in future their share will drop too.

Bottom is almost the same, what if bottoms become old? Are they still able to find partner?

What criteria they need to keep so that they still able competitive with the young one?

It's must be really tough when bottom gets old, though I know that some people prefer it older. So far, my most romantic experience in life has been with a manly bottom guy who's 194cm tall and older than me by around 10 years. He's annoying but thoughtful, simple but complicated, mature but dude-ish, gentlemanly but naughty at the same time. Better than any tops I have met. He mentioned he's having such dilemma in which he prefers smaller younger cute guys, but those guys are always bottoms...he wants them to top him. And he's very aware of the fact that once he gets older he would have to fly to Thailand for some entertainment eventually, so he's not wasting any time now. What I don't really understand is how much he wants to be sexed so badly. I think if he spends time when he's still not that old, he would someday end up with someone who would love him even when he's lost his youthful features. I know that he's trying to, but I also think that he's getting a bit desperate and confused because of some stress that he's seeking much pleasure to balance it out. I personally don't think that I would care too much if I someday get old and nobody would want me anymore, most gay guys would end up alone eventually anyway. Tops might be able to charm some youngsters who'd love some their daddies luvin' from behind as long as they're still potent. But bottoms should be content that there are such things as sex toys and easy pxxn access nowadays. Actually, more than anything, I think what we need in the end is companionship, whether you're top or bottom. So maybe you should try seeking that?

[Guest Guest]

It's must be really tough when bottom gets old, though I know that some people prefer it older. So far, my most romantic experience in life has been with a manly bottom guy who's 194cm tall and older than me by around 10 years. He's annoying but thoughtful, simple but complicated, mature but dude-ish, gentlemanly but naughty at the same time. Better than any tops I have met. He mentioned he's having such dilemma in which he prefers smaller younger cute guys, but those guys are always bottoms...he wants them to top him. And he's very aware of the fact that once he gets older he would have to fly to Thailand for some entertainment eventually, so he's not wasting any time now. What I don't really understand is how much he wants to be sexed so badly. I think if he spends time when he's still not that old, he would someday end up with someone who would love him even when he's lost his youthful features. I know that he's trying to, but I also think that he's getting a bit desperate and confused because of some stress that he's seeking much pleasure to balance it out. I personally don't think that I would care too much if I someday get old and nobody would want me anymore, most gay guys would end up alone eventually anyway. Tops might be able to charm some youngsters who'd love some their daddies luvin' from behind as long as they're still potent. But bottoms should be content that there are such things as sex toys and easy pxxn access nowadays. Actually, more than anything, I think what we need in the end is companionship, whether you're top or bottom. So maybe you should try seeking that?

I wish I could have a child, at least there is someone there when I old.

[fab]

How can I make up to u....

[Guest Ironrod]

Young gals definitely have their market and can get their partner easily, but they also will grow old, and someday in future their share will drop too.

Bottom is almost the same, what if bottoms become old? Are they still able to find partner?

What criteria they need to keep so that they still able competitive with the young one?

1. Money?

2. Tight hole?

3. Sexy body?

4. Young in heart?

5. Maturity? Stability?

6. Smart? Resourceful?

7. Nice in person?

8. Excellent on bed?

9. Inner beauty?

10. Old man's fascination?

If a person is not into you, even if u have 1-10 the r/s would not last unless your competitive here means fxxking around - which I say good luck.

I think the older you get, the wiser you should be - you should be respected, you should be knowledgeable, most important - you should be stable.

As time becomes limit, all action should have a purpose, a goal, a objective.

What young people hasn't yet developed, you should be there already.

I think Money should be remove becos if you buy a piece of meat, it's not competition isn't it?

[snowball]

i believe when a person grow old 50s or even 60s, most will rather seek for good company than still seeking sex buddies all over, most important know what yourself needs, be yourself & know your weak & strong points, be more practical & accept that you are old at that time, even you are rich & want to buy for love, will you really feel proud & happy when deep inside you know that people are just into your money & not you? keep yourself fit not just for you to look great but should for your health else pointless, no worry & think too much, you will know how to adjust yourself when you reach old, cheers

Edited March 21, 2011 by snowball

[Guest surelyugessian]

eat more rice and more fatty food. make your bottom as big and as wide as possible.

most young top prefers chubby bottoms.

a smooth, and fair complexion will also help.

and also wear your pants as high as possible to show your belly in front.

if you have a big package in front, shove it onto one side so that the bugle is visable.

when you walk the package swing from side to side is so sexy.

white, silver, grey hair will be big advantage.

in another word, show off all your elderly attributes.

the young boys who lust after fatherly figures will swamp all around you.

some may even pay you to get into bed with you.

i like the smell of unwashed cock.

also, i prefer a loose arse. during fxxking, i like to withdraw my cock all the way out of the hole.

seeing the watery gaping big hole is very arousing!!!

[Eddy]

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So cute. If i were the same emoticon species of rabbit (or whatever creature) i would help you scratch that ass and do more as you play dead.

[Guest Guest]

Learnt from Madonna & Lady Gaga - Reinvent Yourself.

Exercise, eat well, travel, read, update your look( make sure it suits you), be kind to yourself and all living things, love yourself, be confident, develop your spirituality, be grateful, be curious......

Make yourself interesting!

There's no such thing as an old bottom, but a wise and experienced bottom with lots of love and stroies to share.

[Guest Marad44]

A well-contributed topic that spells out fears of aging gays - and bottoms more so.

There is nothing to substantiate a post that I read years back that in the USA, there were 7-8 bottoms to a top but even if the ratio were an exaggeration, I wonder if the bottom-count were even more in South East Asia and hence the bigger concern...

Could fears of loneliness coming from the perception that gays 'age out' of the scene be the cause of when bottom goes old's dilemma?

Perhaps, as one ages, one could stop dwelling too much down memory lane. He could perhaps gracefully let go the perpetual search for a gay 'fountain of youth' while maintaining a consistency of his style and substance.

There is painful age-discrimination in life that one cannot dismiss. The higher our expectation in areas where our chances are slim, the bigger will be the disappointment. The wise would say, avoid such situations.

[junxiang]

Old bottom guy as he is now is valuable - to the one who appreciate or know how to value him as he is.

changing that would ended up losing this group of admirers and either here or there.

They definitely have their own groups of admirers, like hunks muscles, chubs or even sissy have.

Just the timing, location and fate for the right one to come along.

It's like a 120kg guy who happens to find this super gorgeous hunk who happens to be a chaser. This guy, just to keep himself viable to his lover, go around training and keeping fit, losing 40kg in the process and also his lover - cos to his lover, he is not the same chub that he used to be crazy about.

Edited March 6, 2012 by junxiang

[doncoin]

Fxxk them. Be happy with who you are based on what you know to be true of yourself. You do not need to live your life obsession about what others think of you, of what you are worth. I get very irritated seeing all these posts. The value of who you are, already is priceless. Know that if someone don't see that value, he does not deserve you.

Be who you want to be, tight hole, loose hole, smart, rich... whatever. Just know that there can never be a price set. You have a loose hole because you chose to have one. Not because someone thinks you will be more valuable to have one.

Stop obsessing over these stupid stuff and be happy.

[kennethhost]

If he love you, no matter how, he will still love you. If not, my parent would divorce already....

[Guest Sg]

Fxxk them. Be happy with who you are based on what you know to be true of yourself. You do not need to live your life obsession about what others think of you, of what you are worth. I get very irritated seeing all these posts. The value of who you are, already is priceless. Know that if someone don't see that value, he does not deserve you.

Be who you want to be, tight hole, loose hole, smart, rich... whatever. Just know that there can never be a price set. You have a loose hole because you chose to have one. Not because someone thinks you will be more valuable to have one.

Stop obsessing over these stupid stuff and be happy.

Thumbs up

[Guest FattChoy88]

IMO knowing how to cook really well and happily cok often for your spouse is a great asset.

Same for having great massage skills. Finally being really helpful around the house voluntarily is also not bad.

Hmm... i think i just described my current bf.

[Guest Ed]

Try rephrasing your question and the answer will come to you naturally.

What does the old bottom need to have before you will consider topping him?

And don't kid yourself be saying this has nothing to do with sex since your original question was about "What Is The Criteria To Keep Old Bottom Guy Valuable" and not "What Is The Criteria To Keep Old Life Partner Valuable".

[Guest Guest]

everyone has a market!

i am a young top and i love old bottoms.

[koolkai]

everyone has a market! i am a young top and i love old bottoms.

Why do you love old btms?

[Guest guest]

old bottom are experience .just cover the face and fire the base.old bottom can last longer , they even can just spread leg and finish reading newspaper while u fxxk all day.

[Guest Guest]

Why do you love old btms?

Why not? I am a top in my late 20s and i like old bottoms in their 40s or 50. Everytime i see them, my dick gets hard immediately.

[Guest Guest]

IMO it's 5 and 7.

[Guest Oldermanlybtm]

I am reaching my 50. I am a muscular bear. I do saunas abt 3times a week. Appearance wise, I do take care of my self pretty well. I am lucky that I do not have problem getting a younger and good looking tops. I am a true believer of both inner and outer beauty.