sitogang Posted December 19, 2011 Report Share Posted December 19, 2011 Not sure if this topic is proper to be discussed openly, hopefully it wont trigger any flaming which is not my intention.I love and enjoy message but I found one thing that kill my mood off immediately was to find out the therapist who attending me was effeminate. Not to be discriminating but I felt not comfortable with such trait especially when naked.For this reason I always tried to figure out prior to having appointment to home-based masseur. Looking for the threads about the therapist, searching for keyword like sissy or feminine or manly, calling the therapist to listen to the way he talk, etc. Of course I was looking for competence but this is not the topic.So would it be appropriate to ask this question or to publish this information publicly? Or probably we should only ask some reviewer about the therapist privately? I feel so rude to excuse once I have been on the premise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted January 26, 2012 Report Share Posted January 26, 2012 Got effimated masseuse? I don't mind leh..if they r good! Can anyone recommend? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarDear Posted January 26, 2012 Report Share Posted January 26, 2012 I had been trying to look for effeminate masseurs but can not find one ... Any recommendation or if you are one please do pm me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steelwings Posted January 28, 2012 Report Share Posted January 28, 2012 ...I feel so rude to excuse once I have been on the premise. Just say "I don't feel comfortable with a sissy and walk out."Just right before you reach the door, just add "by the way, it isn't personal, just a preference."I think you are already being rude. So why bother being any more polite? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yas1950 Posted March 2, 2012 Report Share Posted March 2, 2012 Just say "I don't feel comfortable with a sissy and walk out."Just right before you reach the door, just add "by the way, it isn't personal, just a preference."I think you are already being rude. So why bother being any more polite?With all due respect, I think a person asking this question is not being rude. We have to be objective in reading his enquiry.Its a personal preference. Being a paying customer, the customer has the right to be served by someone who makes him comfortable and relaxed. I think asking for more details before turning up for the appointment is not being rude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yunzi2007 Posted March 2, 2012 Report Share Posted March 2, 2012 With all due respect, I think a person asking this question is not being rude. We have to be objective in reading his enquiry.Its a personal preference. Being a paying customer, the customer has the right to be served by someone who makes him comfortable and relaxed. I think asking for more details before turning up for the appointment is not being rude.Fully agree with Yas1950 that it's not wrong stating one's personal viewpoint on his preferences of his masseur.I, for one has preference to str-acting masseurs too as I don't feel comfortable throughout the massage session too.By hearing the masseur's voice upfront will have a guard-feel if he's manly before deciding to try him or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steelwings Posted March 2, 2012 Report Share Posted March 2, 2012 you guys are missing the point. to me this is discrimination in disguise.who's got the right to judge? effeminate or not has nothing to do with skills so why tag that to reviews? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steelwings Posted March 2, 2012 Report Share Posted March 2, 2012 With all due respect, I think a person asking this question is not being rude. We have to be objective in reading his enquiry. Its a personal preference. Being a paying customer, the customer has the right to be served by someone who makes him comfortable and relaxed. I think asking for more details before turning up for the appointment is not being rude. go ahead and request for details pertaining to the service, masseur's str8acting mannerism is not a pre-requisite Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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