Having A Crush/infatuation On Somebody

[wasabi]

Does anyone here have a crush or infatuation on somebody you admire/like?

Share with us your experiences here.

If I am not wrong, a crush becomes an infatuation if the crush lasts for more than 1 year.

I have a crush on a middle-aged guy for a few months now. I recall that when I first saw him, I was immediately attracted to him. I reckon this must be 'love at first sight'(one way. Haha). He looks like an army CO, has a moustache, swept back hair (receding hairline), stands at 1.70m and weighs around 70 kg. He has a nice proportionate stocky body with well built chests and a firm butt.

He is usually at my gym on week nights and I always admire him secretly. He speaks Hokkien loudly with his gym buddy and I noticed that he would look at me into the eyes many times. But he appeared too manly and straight looking. He may be married. I have not gone up to say Hi to him yet.

Sometimes I find it so amazing that I had gone up to say Hi or make small talk with someone I like at the gym before but not to him. I think , subconciously, I am afraid to frighten him away if he is actually a straight guy. And so I rather choose to admire him from afar.

[bearhunt]

Girl

Just go right up and flutter your eyelashes at him already! You mentioned that he looks your directly in the eye, many times, so I don't think you'd be wrong in assuming that he wants to talk to you.

So the next time that happens, just catch his stare and put forth a cheeky/horny/slutty/goofy or watever works for you grin. At the least, you'll be rewarded with a smile back. And if you're really that into him, the memory of tat smile should make for some good j/o sessions no?

And who knows where that first smile may lead? Or are you really afraid that if you find out he's str8 then you are not allowed to have your dream anymore?

If that is the case, git off yer perky butt and start getting to know more people! Swooning and pining alone at home is no way to live your fabulous life!

bearAunt