Guest Curious Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 Friend of mine in his early 20's told me he is thinking of ordaining as a Buddhist monk. He said that means you vow to live a life of celibacy and the only way you're allowed to get relief is through wet dreams. You're not even allowed to wank. But while that's the theory, I suspect in practice it's very different and that all kinds of things go on ... Has anyone any experience of/insights into monastic sexual life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malcolmmalcolm Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 http://www.gaybuddhist.org/07a_monk_sex.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cactus Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 (edited) Why not ask him? Could be the first gay monk in Singapore leh.I can give you his handphone number. Edited July 19, 2012 by cactus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Echo Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 In Thailand, I think monks who masturbate themselves have to go to the end of the line during daily alms round Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 Why not ask him? Could be the first gay monk in Singapore leh.I can give you his handphone number.Be mindful of your words...especially if you are a "buddhist"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aycee Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 Serious?! Interesting... but why so?In Thailand, I think monks who masturbate themselves have to go to the end of the line during daily alms round Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 In Thailand, I think monks who masturbate themselves have to go to the end of the line during daily alms round but what if the monk is just a slow coach and ended up last in the line? then everyone will give him that stare???? hahahaha Nicrone 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allegro Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 Monks are still men, so there is no way they can withhold those urges. I believed it's done behind closed doors.I mean, from a gay's perspective, imagine yourself being surrounded by fit half naked men everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 I mean, from a gay's perspective, imagine yourself being surrounded by fit half naked men everyday.I'll go crazy!!! ROFL!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaynorr Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 i am a buddhist and once i saw a monk standing at a urinal in a public toilet for a very long period of time and was surprised that he was standing there to peep. in my heart, i tot it wasnt nice if u wear like a monk and do that thing in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allegro Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 I'll go crazy!!! ROFL!!!And those skimpy thin robes... I wonder if they go free ball in it...? (sorry I've always had a fetish for fit monks... er men so pardon my nonsense ) Chub71 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 And those skimpy thin robes... I wonder if they go free ball in it...? (sorry I've always had a fetish for fit monks... er men so pardon my nonsense )erm... monks are not my cup of tea... ROFL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 http://www.gaybuddhi...a_monk_sex.htmlOk I was also equally intrigued about the monks' sexual lives. After reading the story above, I now more or less understand their perceptions towards masturbation and sex. While the others and I have been fantasizing about having a fling with them, I would also like to remind ourselves that they are there to attain Enlightenment and they lead the most of their lives away from the wonders and excitement of the materialistic world. So, we need to empathize with them. In short, let's show them our respect for taking a celibacy vow and taking the solitary path. The same applies to nuns.Meanwhile, you should also watch the fictional film "Samsara" by Pan Nalin. It talks about the struggles of a monk as he decided to renounce his monk status for the worldly desires such as earning money, starting a family, before he ultimately decided to return to monkhood. ravannus 1 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charvo87 Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 im a buddhist myself. Yes. Monks precepts forbid them to have sex, and masturbation. Coz this is a hindrance of them attaining enligtenment. They need to maintain that awareness and mindfulness of the mind so that they can see clearly of all phenomena. (getting chim liao so i stop here.)but, however, having sexual intercourse is one of the four serious precepts that once violated, u automactically are no more in the monkhood, and expelled from the sangha. But however, having masturbation is of the lesser precepts of sanghadisesa, just a little lenient then the previous. But there is a punishment of , if i din get the it wrong, that u will not live tgt with the other monks, u will not communicate with them, havin activities tgt, and u will do things all alone to reflects, and for the very traditional way that dates back to buddha time, monks when going for alms round, u will be behind the queue and isolate urself from the group. So when ppl are making offering they know that the monk have done smth wrong, but as a respect they will still offer food to him. Take note that the monks lining are the elders in front and the youngest behind. The senioruty is not of age but the age in monkhood. So if a 25 yo monk who has his higher ordination for 5 years, and a 35 yo monk who has his higher ordination for 2 years, the 35 yo will q behind the 25yo monk and sit also to this seniority. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charvo87 Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 Friend of mine in his early 20's told me he is thinking of ordaining as a Buddhist monk. He said that means you vow to live a life of celibacy and the only way you're allowed to get relief is through wet dreams. You're not even allowed to wank. But while that's the theory, I suspect in practice it's very different and that all kinds of things go on ... Has anyone any experience of/insights into monastic sexual life?so what is the tradition that ur fren is in? Theravada, mahayan, vajrayana?? If he gets to ordained can i attend and join in the ordination? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanX Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 (edited) I know about some real experiences of Monks having gay sex in local temple. I just want to say Monks are human too. Edited July 19, 2012 by RyanX Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cactus Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 (edited) i am a buddhist and once i saw a monk standing at a urinal in a public toilet for a very long period of time and was surprised that he was standing there to peep.I believe. In Thailand, I think monks who masturbate themselves have to go to the end of the line during daily alms round Nonsense. I can confirm 99% not true. Thai monks do not do this.I know about some real experiences of Monks having gay sex in local temple. I just want to say Monks are human too.It is true! I believe. I like people who has good experience, and knowledgeable. I do not like to write dirty stuffs, wait BW moderator delete my posts. And I do not like people accusing me uttering nonsense. To believe what I say, is up to individual. Edited July 19, 2012 by cactus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charvo87 Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 I know about some real experiences of Monks having gay sex in local temple. I just want to say Monks are human too.is it?? Really?? Where?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cactus Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 is it?? Really?? Where??You no need to be kay-poh lah. So long it is true. People vouch, just believe.No point provoking him/her, proving you with solid evidence You think he will share? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 I know about some real experiences of Monks having gay sex in local temple. I just want to say Monks are human too.Well true that they are just like us, Homo sapiens. But could I check with you first? Could they possibly be bogus monks? There are a few conmen who would pass off as monks to beg for money.im a buddhist myself. Yes. Monks precepts forbid them to have sex, and masturbation. Coz this is a hindrance of them attaining enligtenment. They need to maintain that awareness and mindfulness of the mind so that they can see clearly of all phenomena. (getting chim liao so i stop here.)but, however, having sexual intercourse is one of the four serious precepts that once violated, u automactically are no more in the monkhood, and expelled from the sangha. But however, having masturbation is of the lesser precepts of sanghadisesa, just a little lenient then the previous. But there is a punishment of , if i din get the it wrong, that u will not live tgt with the other monks, u will not communicate with them, havin activities tgt, and u will do things all alone to reflects, and for the very traditional way that dates back to buddha time, monks when going for alms round, u will be behind the queue and isolate urself from the group. So when ppl are making offering they know that the monk have done smth wrong, but as a respect they will still offer food to him.Take note that the monks lining are the elders in front and the youngest behind. The senioruty is not of age but the age in monkhood. So if a 25 yo monk who has his higher ordination for 5 years, and a 35 yo monk who has his higher ordination for 2 years, the 35 yo will q behind the 25yo monk and sit also to this seniority.That's indeed insightful on your side. I would like to refer to the line in bold red above. That's exactly why I felt that we should accord them our respect towards them for taking their celibacy vows and remaining true to it. Plus, we would be only destroying their several years of spiritual training if we coerce them into sex. 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 Aw... Makes me fantasize abt the tang seng in the 7pm show... There is also a clip of a monk masturbating but should be a bogus monk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charvo87 Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 (edited) You no need to be kay-poh lah. So long it is true. People vouch, just believe.No point provoking him/her, proving you with solid evidence You think he will share?why so big reaction one?Did i offended u in some ways? Edited July 19, 2012 by charvo87 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charvo87 Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 You no need to be kay-poh lah. So long it is true. People vouch, just believe.No point provoking him/her, proving you with solid evidence You think he will share?why u so big reaction one?? Did i offend u in some ways? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVisitors Posted July 19, 2012 Report Share Posted July 19, 2012 If all monks were as cute as him, I won't mind to be the Green Snake !!!Wont swallow him whole , but just his little monkhood snake which could cause such an explosion in my mouth !!!http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9V6EaCN7vQ&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PL5BB13D488BC23856http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Ku4G3NgyJI&feature=autoplay&list=PL5BB13D488BC23856&playnext=2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 I know a gay in sg who looks like Chew Man Cheok. He should be around 40 now.The last that I knew, he was with an ex singer of sg. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest monk Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 this topic wat got to do with Chew Man Cheok? topic is about monks and sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 Does anyone has the video of the last part of the recent movie "3D Sex & Zen: Extreme Ecstasy"? Can upload here? It shows a monk who failed to resist the sexual seduction planned by his enemy. The local cinemas censored that part. I hope to watch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jason Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 Makes me fantasize abt the tang seng in the 7pm show.its a nice show ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Echo Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 And those skimpy thin robes... I wonder if they go free ball in it...? (sorry I've always had a fetish for fit monks... er men so pardon my nonsense )Actually in Thailand at least, monks are not supposed to wear underpants -- just too hot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Echo Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 Well true that they are just like us, Homo sapiens. But could I check with you first? Could they possibly be bogus monks? There are a few conmen who would pass off as monks to beg for money.That's indeed insightful on your side. I would like to refer to the line in bold red above. That's exactly why I felt that we should accord them our respect towards them for taking their celibacy vows and remaining true to it. Plus, we would be only destroying their several years of spiritual training if we coerce them into sex.There was a case in Thailand a few years back of a young monk who was so mortified at getting a hard-on during meditation that he hacked his penis off with an axe and refused to let the local hospital sew it back on again. That's pretty extreme... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 There was a case in Thailand a few years back of a young monk who was so mortified at getting a hard-on during meditation that he hacked his penis off with an axe and refused to let the local hospital sew it back on again. That's pretty extreme...Yes it's too extreme. The mantras didn't specifically say one should castrate oneself should one see a woody.. OMG, hope he is ok now. 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Echo Posted July 20, 2012 Report Share Posted July 20, 2012 Yes it's too extreme. The mantras didn't specifically say one should castrate oneself should one see a woody.. OMG, hope he is ok now.i hope so too - minus his uncontrollable dick. To be honest, the story shocked me, but also turned me on... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsara Posted July 22, 2012 Report Share Posted July 22, 2012 i hope so too - minus his uncontrollable dick. To be honest, the story shocked me, but also turned me on...Really ah? I hope that you are not turned on by the castration part? 안녕하세요. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted July 22, 2012 Report Share Posted July 22, 2012 Almost got a monk as a client. Speaks good English from the text messages we exchanged. He didn't come. Else, I can share my experience (Not this month in the pic hehehe) ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted July 22, 2012 Report Share Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) reminds me of this clip...http://www.mediafire...7694t8d2asua9yyaww Edited July 22, 2012 by mango_juice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
botaklover Posted July 1, 2013 Report Share Posted July 1, 2013 I respect monk, but, whenever i saw dramas on monk been seduce by those demoness or some scene showing elder monk shaving head for new monks, i will get turn on.... But usually a short,fantasy, i stop myself from thinking further. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 1, 2013 Report Share Posted July 1, 2013 Carpenter and MiniBird 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 1, 2013 Report Share Posted July 1, 2013 While the others and I have been fantasizing about having a fling with them, I would also like to remind ourselves that they are there to attain Enlightenment and they lead the most of their lives away from the wonders and excitement of the materialistic world. wah lao you are sick! fantasize about monks and then say they are there to attain enlightenment. look so nerdy but mind so sick. such a loser! :yuk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
junxiang Posted July 1, 2013 Report Share Posted July 1, 2013 watch this: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 师兄 Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 In Thailand, I think monks who masturbate themselves have to go to the end of the line during daily alms round .... there's always these two monks behind the line while others overheard they conversation: "师兄, 又被你害死了" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 i am a buddhist and once i saw a monk standing at a urinal in a public toilet for a very long period of time and was surprised that he was standing there to peep. in my heart, i tot it wasnt nice if u wear like a monk and do that thing in public.Was he wearing any underwear under his robe? I am always curious about this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alispenn Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 Can't type chinese. A couplet goes Forms is but Emptiness, Emptiness is Forms vs. Darling loves ought I, I love Darling. Somehow it conjures up in me the first chapter of Laozi. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 心猿意马 Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 ohhhhh mine ..... 师兄兄兄兄~~~~~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roger Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 (edited) -- ^ -- very handsome, but don't think he is a real monk Edited July 3, 2013 by Roger lovehandle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 To the one who started this thread....beware of your intentions and the karma which inevitably follows. To the moderators....comments here are already bordering on tarnishing the respectful practice of the Buddhist Sangha. Please do your job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 i dont even dare to think dirty when it comes to such topic. definitely have harmful effect.religion + sex = retribution + extreme bad karma.damn scary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirtless boy Posted July 3, 2013 Report Share Posted July 3, 2013 (edited) Edited July 4, 2013 by Shirtless boy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Please. Respect needed. Posted July 3, 2013 Report Share Posted July 3, 2013 I find many of the responses in this thread v distasteful and disrespectful to Buddhism. Just because there are few who expressed their discomfort, it does not mean it should be taken as acceptable and left as it is.If this is in the context of some other religion, it would have created quite a bit of stir and protest.This is a free forum and freedom comes with responsibilities of respect.Can the moderators do something about it please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 4, 2013 Report Share Posted July 4, 2013 Copy from an interview, real life encounter with monks in sg, When did it happen?It was during my 20s. I was stil quite new during that time. So he is a real monk?I guess so. He stayed in temple and he shaved his head. to be continued... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 27, 2015 Report Share Posted November 27, 2015 just thinking ... will becoming a monk and living in temple prevent loneliness in old age? Man, did I sense something here? 菩提阁住持被爆 携2男夜宿金沙 白天是寺庙住持，晚上却变身穿背心、头戴鸭舌帽的潮男，菩提阁住持果峻法师遭踢爆，与两男夜宿滨海湾金沙酒店。根据私家侦探的报告，三男当天在客房逗留9小时48分钟，私家侦探彻夜监视，未见任何人离开房间。直到隔天早上，果峻与其中一人才离开，回返果峻的排屋住家，果峻也重新换上僧袍。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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