iamziz Posted August 13, 2015 Report Share Posted August 13, 2015 “Not my Type:”Why The Bitches on Grindr Are the Most Insecure of All It’s crazy how one stupid message can set your whole head a-spinning. Even the vainest amongst us will get frazzled from a few nasty words on Grindr. “Gross,” “Not my type,” “Sorry bud,” “Please block me,” and other lingo represents more than just one person’s opinion. It shapes a perspective on how we view ourselves. Honey, if I didn’t love myself as much as I do (which took years) Lord knows how I’ll feel about myself after reading such nasty messages. Grindr is like that one friend you secretly hate, but naturally tolerate because he or she gives you something in exchange. In this case it’s sex—basically any time you want it. Don’t get me wrong, my man and I have a great sex life but we also have a mutual understanding with Grindr. I use it for fun most of the time: chats, convo, networking. Over the years I can’t help but notice the faces getting younger and the attitude getting sharper. If I wanted to be judged and persecuted for no reason, I’d go to my mother’s house. Grindr has basically become another reason to be mean to each other. It’s not enough to “block” or leave a message without a response. People need to voice their opinion, objectify their neighbors and rip their bodies to shreds for very little in return. Guys are so desperate nowadays to feel validated and worthy that they seek every chance to make someone feel less than. It is what it is, but it doesn’t need to be like this. This isn’t Hot or Not. It’s Grindr for f*cks sake. Guys are looking for other guys to have sex with, not be pushed down by some 19-year old twinkie. I don’t mean to brag honey, but I used to be a model. I say this only because I know that at least the majority of the world thinks I’m attractive (my man thinks I’m the most handsome man so it really doesn’t matter anyway). So for one little bitch to tell me I’m ugly is a bit of a shock because I know it’s not true. It’s very clear this dude (and others like him) are incredibly insecure, which makes me wonder how many other men he’s said this to. Not everyone is going to be as secure as myself or others, and just because you spew vitriol across Grindr doesn’t mean you’re any more secure about yourself. In fact that’s the number one sign that you’re insecure about everything you are. Confidence isn’t shoved in people’s faces or is intentionally thrown like a wrench in a machine. It’s felt and observed by the world, and more importantly respected. Is the gay community confused by this fact? Why are so many gay guys today eager to prove their worth by being an asshole? Whether it’s face-to-face or on Grindr, your attitude impresses no one, baby. Trust me I’ve been around longer than you, I’ve seen it a million times and there’s no exception for anyone. If you’re a bitch, you don’t get respect. You get resentment. That ain’t exactly something to brag about. Source: http://www.gayguys.com/2015/08/not-type-bitches-grindr-insecure/ shyboi and qsefthu78 2 ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted August 13, 2015 Report Share Posted August 13, 2015 Well, some people are just bad at expressing their thoughts. Like real bad. Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingbitch Posted August 14, 2015 Report Share Posted August 14, 2015 “Gross” and “Please block me” are of course uncalled for, but what the hell is wrong with “Sorry bud”? It's a slight variation from Ignoring the Message. "Not my type" could be used as a legitimate reply to someone who asks me many times why I am not replying to his repeated messages. The author just sounds salty someone told him he was ugly. He "knows it is not true" because he "used to be a model... and knows that at least the majority of the world thinks he is attractive". Beauty is subjective - I remember declining the attention of a guy who said "he was most popular/top Malay guy in his school" because I just wasn't attracted to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted August 14, 2015 Report Share Posted August 14, 2015 Telling someone he's ugly isn't "declining the attention". If you have nothing good to say, keep quiet. They -usually- get it. You have the block button for the slower ones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted August 14, 2015 Report Share Posted August 14, 2015 if u stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 14, 2015 Report Share Posted August 14, 2015 It's similar to that troll in Keybox Sauna thread always notching about uncles there when he could well avoid by going to Cruise Club.Not his type yet he's watching the uncles so closely for what? It obvious that they ignored him and it's a case of sour grapes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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