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I want to survey the readers here....

I started to discover that I typically attract Geminis...and i start realizing that they maybe good for one night stands, and then they lose their sex drives.

I tried having a relationship with one Gemini, and yes...we probably just have sex 1 month despite living with each other.

When I read horoscopes about Gemini, i discovered that they are really difficult to turn-on...they really need something intellectual or something exciting in their mind before they can perform.

Do you guys also observed this?

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Not exactly true, :D I am a Gemini and I am not "sexless".....Intellectual stimulation is naturally good but I can live without it Wait till I work you on bed you will know how well I can be. :D

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Of course..horoscope/astrology are not completely predictive....

But an analogy can be put forward. Most of stereotype people based on their origin (Thai, Filipino, Viet, Sporean, American, european etc), thei race, their culture etc, etc. Horoscope/Astrology is similiar...if you group people according to their birthdate...a general picture of this people can be derived...for example...Most Singaporeans are Kiasu....Most Gemini are need intellectual stimulation for sexual arousal...

Marketing/business/economics people will also study groups and form general observations to guide their strategies.

So, I am trying to survey this group...specially those who have relations with Gemini, if they have observed this phenomenon.

To what end?So I can deal with it better..maybe accept it that it is given or try hard to be intellectually stimulating to get that sexual arousal

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I want to survey the readers here....

I started to discover that I typically attract Geminis...and i start realizing that they maybe good for one night stands, and then they lose their sex drives.

I tried having a relationship with one Gemini, and yes...we probably just have sex 1 month despite living with each other.

When I read horoscopes about Gemini, i discovered that they are really difficult to turn-on...they really need something intellectual or something exciting in their mind before they can perform.

Do you guys also observed this?

My experiance is this :

They can be not horny most of the time but when they have sex, that's like the most fantastic sex ever.

Gemini generally wants to do many things at the same time, and they most prob find a lot of other stuffs more intersting than sex to do.

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Basically, Geminis are really like Jackle and Hyde.. Most bu tnot all, have 2 distictive characteristic. There are alwys 2 sides to this group of Gemini.

So its like when they are in the mood, the sex can be incredible! Bu tget them on the wrong day and they are like dead fish.....

*the above are solely personal opinions and does not or sarcstically aimed at anyone out there... hahahha.... :hat:

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So, it seems there is a trend that Geminis tend to be minimalistic in terms of sexual activities.

Does this mean that anyone who has a strong sexual drive sould steer away from Gemini?

For the Geminis out there, how do you deal with it when your commitment is doubted due to to the lack of intimacy?

My past relationships with Geminis, were really difficult primarily because of this issue...now I find myself in a same dilemna and keep on wondering whether to pursue it or not.

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Gemini generally wants to do many things at the same time, and they most prob find a lot of other stuffs more intersting than sex to do.

LOL. Seems true in my case ....

Wild sex one minute - next minute, ignore sex completely when an inmteresting hobby (not men!) comes along ...

My BF?

He just spend a bit more time enticing me away from my hobby :-) and he still gets as much sex as he wants :-)

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So far,

Thanks for the replies.

I was just expecting more Geminis out there or partners with Geminis who might at least share some experiences.

when I look at this times this site was viewed...it shows 314...one of the highest around currently. Seems the title got your attention, meaning you might be one who is a Gemini or have had a relationship with a Gemini...Please share!

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Not exactly true, :D I am a Gemini and I am not "sexless".....Intellectual stimulation is naturally good but I can live without it Wait till I work you on bed you will know how well I can be. :D

Geminis really need intellectual stimulation to find sex intersting. I just had a brief encounter with my Gemini fling and its the same thing all over again... i cannot get him to be interested in sex and it just happened when I asked him to watch Crash with him and he was blown away by the story he got turned on!

Sigh....

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Think it is very true. Have been in a relationship for 3 years now and the times I have sex with my bf can be countable. It takes a lot of effort to get me excited cos there's so many more things that arouses my mind instead of my body out there...

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Geminis really need intellectual stimulation to find sex intersting. I just had a brief encounter with my Gemini fling and its the same thing all over again... i cannot get him to be interested in sex and it just happened when I asked him to watch Crash with him and he was blown away by the story he got turned on!

Sigh....

I am a Gemini. I have to say that intellect is a real turn on for me. Haha. So, I'm turn on by academia (lecturers, professors), Thai Prime Minister, our PM, George Yeo, Malaysian PM, Barrack Obama, and of course, Teo Ser Luck!!!

Talk about social issues, politics, philosophy ....... real turn on. Sorry, got carried away.

Actually, your question is not quite properly asked. Bec you assumed Gemini = sexless. Then, by logic, any sexless person is a Gemini. There are sexless gays who are not Gemini and there are Gemini who are not sexless.

The question should be: Gemini are turned on by intellect?

Haha. Now, that's funny.

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well... i am a Gemini. hmmm... some of you are probably right in saying that Geminis like to pack their days with a lot of things and sometimes we do find more interesting things to do than sex. And when we need sex, we need it like nobody's business. hahaha. It is not true that we are into intellectual stimulation, but in general, because of our short attention span, we need to be surprised constantly. Having said that, we can be very faithful partners too.

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I am a Gemini.

It is true that Geminis are intellectuals and our brains are overworked. We can't stop thinking and looking for whatever interests, questions and answers there are... or could be. And myself being as such, I am despaired that such a thing as primitive as sex, has kept my interest and is dominant in my life. So there you go, it is not true that all Geminis are sexless. I am really sexual with a high sex drive. I have sex all the time, 3-4 times a week... not mentioning pleasuring myself and refraining from cumming. lol. I can't imagine having no sex for more than a week.

Geminis are also very skillful (in bed). =) Like it's said, a jack of all trades. Although master of none...

Well, we are just not fan boys. We obtained the skills, use it and don't see the need to be fanatics.

Why limit yourself... become a specialist and seemingly boxing yourself in one field. One dimensional.

Perhaps it gives pride to some, but Geminis need no such reasons to validate our existence.

Geminis are like Angels and Demons.

I was a slut and said that true love was meant for simpletons.

Then I realized.... and saw that simplicity is the most beautiful thing in the world.

Geminis are complex. We are truly logical and yet extremely emotional.

We sometimes choose a partner with our logical side. So if that's the case... you can expect sex to be on the downside.

We can't cheat our emotional self, even if we want to.

We sometimes choose a partner with our emotional side. Sex would than be fantastic and we will bring it to levels unimagined. But our logical side will always keep us in check. We won't hesitate to pack up if we are taken for granted, even if the sex is out of this world. We are very confident that we can create worlds.

Nothing truly holds a Gemini, but the intellectual truth.

It is what it is, it needn't be defined. It is absolute.

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I started to discover that I typically attract Geminis...and i start realizing that they maybe good for one night stands, and then they lose their sex drives.

I tried having a relationship with one Gemini, and yes...we probably just have sex 1 month despite living with each other.

I think its already proven by all the posts above that Geminis are not sexless.

When u claimed that u usually attract Geminis, and all of them doesnt get turn on by u..... im guessing maybe, just maybe, the problems lies with u...

hehe. Sorry the truth hurts.

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hmm having 1 time sex a month despite living with each other.. the prob may be domestic stress, work stress, can be quite a few reasons and not being a gemini

a better gauge is maybe u had 10 times a month before living and only 1 when living together.. then thats something to ponder

May i know the poster who says typically attracts gemini... WHAT is your star sign?

Are you Libra, Aquarius? or Leo, Aries?

If you are the 1st 2 star sign, that explains why you always have gemini appear in ur life.

So far i know gemini are quite 'kuai lan' ppl if u poke them.. they have 2 side character, maybe 1 during work and 1 back home.

They never grown up ..lol wants to act and behave like a child.

can be faithful in r/s but curious in other temptations,

workaholic , can be very responsive to work commitments than u

likes new things and surprises but dies off quickly

So i think if u hav a potential Gemini guy, I think its quite intimidating to move forward... so am i a novelty or something else

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Is it true that ppl under the star sign of Gemini and ppl under the star sign of Cancer are not compatible? I heard a lot about this but never really come across it myself. I am Gemini and I always get attracted to Sagittarius guys... cannot explain why it is so...fate or chance?

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I don't really totally believe in horoscopes.

But it does serve as some form of guide of a person's character and behavior.

If a Gemini is sexless, so you need a lot of stimulation to turn him on and get into sex mode. Hmm... That will be tedious. I'm a libra. I do not know which star sign I'm compatible with. But I know I never like Leo. Leo that I met are mostly over confident, bragging, dominating and full of attitude. Strange :whistle:

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I don't really totally believe in horoscopes.

But it does serve as some form of guide of a person's character and behavior.

If a Gemini is sexless, so you need a lot of stimulation to turn him on and get into sex mode. Hmm... That will be tedious. I'm a libra. I do not know which star sign I'm compatible with. But I know I never like Leo. Leo that I met are mostly over confident, bragging, dominating and full of attitude. Strange :whistle:

Hmm... you know what, what happens when 2 Gemini are in a relationship?

(I'm a Gemini by the way (in my mid 40s), anyone want to experiment and do a field report?. I don't have a mid-life crisis, healthy.... just kidding!)

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Hi guys, need some advice here.

From my understanding (hopes its not wrong), Libras are mostly charming and "flirtitious", but once they falls in love, they will be dedicated to the relation?

Thanks all for any feedbacks.

I am libra, but my friend said I am virgo-libra cusp, dont understand why ???

But I agree with what you said ... "once they fall in love, they will be dedicated to the relationship" ... I myself always have this thoughts in mind ... :D

Can you tell more about Libra ?

Sometimes, the greatest journey is the distance between two people

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I am libra, but my friend said I am virgo-libra cusp, dont understand why ???

But I agree with what you said ... "once they fall in love, they will be dedicated to the relationship" ... I myself always have this thoughts in mind ... :D

Can you tell more about Libra ?

Thanks Castaway,

Other then charming, "flirtitous", I also know Libras likes to move around (always like to go out <_< )

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I am libra, but my friend said I am virgo-libra cusp, dont understand why ???

meaning you a few days born between libra and virgo, suppose ard 22 - 25 sept

You have probably traits of both personality

. I'm a libra. I do not know which star sign I'm compatible with. But I know I never like Leo. Leo that I met are mostly over confident, bragging, dominating and full of attitude. Strange

Libra suits gemini and aquarius, 2nd to the prev 2 can be Leo and Sagittarius

Leos on the outward personality can be over confident, braggin, dominating and attitude. People who know them well enough knows also that they are generous, helpful friends, loyal to friends, positive and optimistic people. They naturally are lions, leaders by nature.

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Other then charming, "flirtitous", I also know Libras likes to move around (always like to go out <_< )

I have not found anything "not correct" about Libra :P ... "move around" has many meanings ... may be travelling around, applied to me ... but I guess you mean "go out" here like clubbing ? Not really to me :D ... I have not been clubbing here more than half year ;) ... but let's other Libras (as ixmog) give comments also ...

Libra suits Gemini ? If Gemini is already sexless as main topic then why 2 sexless stars suit together ? :P I feel sexless recently also :(((((((

or can I say "Libra makes Gemini feel horny because of its Libra's intellectual stimulation ??? then who can make Libra horny ? Why are they Gemini and Aquarius ?

How about Aquarius ?

Same as Leo, is it because they are over confident then others find them attitude ? Same as Libra ... because they are "charming" so it makes them "flirtitous" ?

It is interesting topic :D ...

Sometimes, the greatest journey is the distance between two people

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I am a Gemini too~ am in a long r/s with a Pisces.

Maybe two guys and two fish can interact together better. lol

Jus switch to ur other self when u fin ur partner dun fit in. :)

As for a Gemini, i would say, i am really flicker minded.

Gives lotsa tots to things and yet usually without conclusion.

I am always interested in new things.

Intellectual stuffs is definitely a turn-on!

Sex drive, i would say... ok ba.

Initially it would be mind blowing, coz the "new" thing interest the Gemini.

After which, its jus love and lust. So it gets lesser and lesser.

Untill something new comes up again... lol

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How about Capricorns? I had a capricorn bf and he's very good in bed, very horny guy. We broke up but still having sex whenever he's horny. About 3 times a week..

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I want to survey the readers here....

I started to discover that I typically attract Geminis...and i start realizing that they maybe good for one night stands, and then they lose their sex drives.

I tried having a relationship with one Gemini, and yes...we probably just have sex 1 month despite living with each other.

When I read horoscopes about Gemini, i discovered that they are really difficult to turn-on...they really need something intellectual or something exciting in their mind before they can perform.

Do you guys also observed this?

Gemins are talkers more than cummers. Intelligent conversation is a big turn on for them - almost like virtual sex.... :lol:

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Reading this, it got me thinking as I'm a June Cancerian.

I can be quite sexless at times that I wonder to myself if I'm not a very sex person when I am in a relationship.

 

But the Cancerian element is quite strong in me.

Rather than intelligent conversations, security and stability turns me on better.

Like a rich guy caring and committed boyfriend can give me better orgasms I suppose. 

 

I don't really care too much about intellectual stuff though people say I am actually turned on my intellectual stuff. idk

As long as we can talk and the comfortability is there, it's fine.

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This is one of the forums I participated. Nobody believe what I am sharing. 

 

I do not and no need sex at all.

 

就是这样简单。不信没有办法。

 

 

 

 

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This is one of the forums I participated. Nobody believe what I am sharing. 

 

I do not and no need sex at all.

 

就是这样简单。不信没有办法。

your kukujiao die liao? no longer alive and breathing?

I think you base chakra frozen liao?

You must be very spiritual.

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