Beware Of This Guy (Compiled)

[Guest Scammed]

Dear fellow BW members, please beware this guy. His name is Ern_st L_h and he claims to be a student from Nanyang Technology University. We met up through the Trevvy portal and had fun a few times. About a month ago, he borrowed $300 from me to settle some financial issues and promised to return as soon as possible. Subsequently, he refused to pick up any calls from me or reply to any of my sms. I have already given up hope in getting my money back and just treat it as a lesson learnt. I wont be disclosing his full name but here is his trevvy docket in case any other members fell prey to him.

Edited October 24, 2011 by oralb
While you didnt mention the name, his docket included his picture which is rather unethical and one-sided. So I have removed your link.

[oralb]

Take it as a general advice to all:

If you are willing to lend money to people you met only a few times, be prepared to forgo the amount.

[fitboy24]

Lols. It's only 300 bucks and he's running away because of that? Jeeesus.

i don't find the humor in dis. The amount of money is relative.

Anyway, take it as general advice - no need for black humor here.

[Guest Nothing new]

Apparently all these people never learn and this is not the first time we heard such encounterances here. I hope this is the last, and if we see another new threat pouring out similiar grievances, the lender must be prepared to accept lost.

Anyway, thanks for the advcies. Keep financial matters away from stranger until you fully know him for at least 5 years.

[gz69]

It was Ralph Waldo Emerson, the American philosopher who wrote about the law of eternal justice. Do good to others and good will come to you. And vice versa.

You did good by lending to him believing he would repay. You had sympathy on his situation. Do not worry. Good will come to you and you will recover more than you had lost. The good may be in health, promotion at work, success in studies, opportunities. Do not be filled with hate over this loss but have faith that you will recover your small loss.

For that guy (if he is reading this) who cheated, the scale of eternal justice also works on you. If you do not repay, you may find your life road harder. You may go on fleecing others but bad luck and difficulties will catch up with you sooner or later. You may look back and wonder why you did not succeed as you expected or is dogged with unhappiness even though you seem to be successful. It is not too late to redeem your fate.

Edited October 24, 2011 by gz69

[mango_juice]

At least u had fun a few times... Quite worth it

[Phil]

It would have been more expensive with an escort...

And just think that you probably have invested in local economy, thus reducing unemployment rate; aren't you happy?

[Marineboy]

I suppose one will learn from bad experiences...it was good of him to share and also vent for reilief.

A friend told be once....he will neither be a lender nor a borrower.

Just dont talk about money to him :whistle:

[Guest Guest]

I suppose one will learn from bad experiences...it was good of him to share and also vent for reilief. A friend told be once....he will neither be a lender nor a borrower. Just dont talk about money to him :whistle:

Sound like one of my friends who always act blur when come to paying even for a glass of drinks. hahaha

[woobie]

Beware of this man, his name is Sxxxx , aged 50. He likes to cheat money from gay men in Singapore. Money cheated from hundreds to thousands and like to approach men working in Singapore from China or Malaysia . New boys in town are easy to be cheated as they know nothing about his background.

He dressed in trendy, make you believe he is a management grade staff or business man. Cheat money with excuses as follows:

bank with long queues, so can’t take money to give friend for buying stuff from foreign countries.

Need money to pay phone fees and said it is your fault as he misses you so much and keep calling you with mobile phones.

Need money for surgery due to accident or sickness in foreign country .

Need money for his shop renovation as the renovation company suddenly increase price.

Edited January 14, 2012 by oralb
*link deleted for privacy reason

[Guest Lester]

Also, beware of some str8 who pretend to be gays/ bi. They could be personal trainers, foreign hairstylists, masseurs, etc. They will behaviour very friendly, and make u feel like they like u, and even suggest hanky panky with u (which is a lie), with the intention of enticing u to frequent them, make u think the next round sure got more fun, etc. They just want to squeeze money from you for their business in personal training, hair styling, massage, etc. A large number of such people even went to the extent of borrowing money from u, using various excuses, after they get to know u and win your liking for them as potential friends/ partners/ sex buddies. Be careful of such people out there to expolit gays. Beware.

[Guest reas]

Beware of this man, his name is Sxxxx , aged 50. He likes to cheat money from gay men in Singapore. Money cheated from hundreds to thousands and like to approach men working in Singapore from China or Malaysia . New boys in town are easy to be cheated as they know nothing about his background. He dressed in trendy, make you believe he is a management grade staff or business man. Cheat money with excuses as follows: bank with long queues, so can’t take money to give friend for buying stuff from foreign countries. Need money to pay phone fees and said it is your fault as he misses you so much and keep calling you with mobile phones. Need money for surgery due to accident or sickness in foreign country . Need money for his shop renovation as the renovation company suddenly increase price.

thank you for your alert, i just hope you did not get swindled or cheated , god bless

[SeannyShortcake]

Oh my gosh.

His face so buang.

Wanna kana cheated also difficult.

[Fe5000]

was he from hk?

think i acquainted him nearly 20yrs ago. i don't know him well but he speaks okay.

just bump into him 3days ago.

[Guest Thaiboyz]

Gosh! His look is so sala, really have people got tricked and cheated? AIyo..... Haha

[agogo2010]

Where can I find him? He cheated me money a few years ago with the excuse of doing surgery.

He cheated several hundreds dollars.

Then I can't find him anymore.

[Clickclock]

omg omg omg!!!! I know this guy!!! a Month ago, I had my number on my portfolio page and he actually called me up to look for a threesome or wtv, I know how he looked like from a link he gave me!!! Thank god I did not give in to him!! I blocked him on msn btw, he looks like a total looser

this guy ought to be arrested.

Edited January 14, 2012 by Clickclock

[ashtonxia]

If he looks like Taylor Lautner then I would understand if someone kena cheated. But.............................................................. *sigh*

[oralb]

I have deleted the link that leads to the man in question.

Why?

Poster # 1 and Poster #7 shared the same IP address, both were newly created account with ONLY 1 posting, and that's to talk about that guy who cheated.

Maybe it was a genuine case, but the coincidental facts do raise a red flag.

Nevertheless do remember that this is the Internet, dont believe in everything is written, and if you are willing to lend money out, be prepared not to get it back.

[woobie]

nothing to sad

Edited January 21, 2012 by woobie

[Guest Ironrod]

agogo2010 is also my another identity. I felt shamed to admit I had cheated money by him. I dn't expect money back but I remember when I refused to lend him money and he phoned my home and told my father that I was gay. Then my father was so desperated and finally pass away a few years later. His behavouir was absolutely immoral and should be sentenced to jail.

Firstly, why would your father trust a stranger on the phone rather then u his son?

It took your dad few years to pass away and u blame him?

Perhaps u should wear lenses next time u make friends with others - don't anyhow give ppl your home phone number.